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over a year ago
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i know im not a man but i am single and i dont meet couples
reason for this is i find couples have to many rules, i feel nervous around them, ive met a few where jealousy has reared its ugly head etc
id much sooner meet a single guy where we are both relaxe, noone has a thrid party to worry about, single guys seem to be more open about what they do, dont have any no kissing etc rule, you can throw yourself into it more without worrying about upsetting anyone else, theres nothing worse than being mid play and having to remind yourself about what rules the couple has, i dont want to be doing that when i have sex i want to give it my all not have to hold back
maybe men feel the same about women
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over a year ago
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Again, not a bloke, but I'd agree with NN, plus it's harder to get the attraction right between 3 people, whereas if you mainly play with singles, you've only got 2 people's tastes to consider! |
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"i know im not a man but i am single and i dont meet couples
reason for this is i find couples have to many rules, i feel nervous around them, ive met a few where jealousy has reared its ugly head etc
id much sooner meet a single guy where we are both relaxe, noone has a thrid party to worry about, single guys seem to be more open about what they do, dont have any no kissing etc rule, you can throw yourself into it more without worrying about upsetting anyone else, theres nothing worse than being mid play and having to remind yourself about what rules the couple has, i dont want to be doing that when i have sex i want to give it my all not have to hold back
maybe men feel the same about women
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over a year ago
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this is all very true...if the couple's relationship is not secure all kinds of problems can ensue and affairs can happen...with single women this is not a problem...if she decides ahe likes you and wants to see you on her own she is not cheating on anyone. |
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I am the female half of our couple and we only play with single guys. Have never found this an issue. We are both secure in our relationship and jealousy has never been a problem.
Yes, we have a lot of stipulations on our profile, but that is because we both know what we want out of swinging, and the single guys we have met have all respected that  |
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"I am the female half of our couple and we only play with single guys. Have never found this an issue. We are both secure in our relationship and jealousy has never been a problem.
Yes, we have a lot of stipulations on our profile, but that is because we both know what we want out of swinging, and the single guys we have met have all respected that "
Yes being secure in the relationship is the key but not all couples are and there is no way of knowing that until you meet them. |
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