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What's the difference in the letter orders of mmf and mfm?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd never thought about it, but I suppose it's make sense that mfm would be a three some with the lady in the middle, no male on male play. With mmf a free for all? |
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"Is there a difference? I always just list them like mmf, but see that some people write mfm to mean something different?
Can someone explain to this n00b?"
Mmf is bi male 3some
Mfm is straight male 3some |
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"Is there a difference? I always just list them like mmf, but see that some people write mfm to mean something different?
Can someone explain to this n00b?
Mmf is bi male 3some
Mfm is straight male 3some"
So what's a MMMF? 3 No guys? If it is how's represent 3 straight guys and 1 female? |
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By *oopy097Man
over a year ago
east mids |
"Is there a difference? I always just list them like mmf, but see that some people write mfm to mean something different?
Can someone explain to this n00b?
Mmf is bi male 3some
Mfm is straight male 3some
So what's a MMMF? 3 No guys? If it is how's represent 3 straight guys and 1 female?"
thats a que at the post office ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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Yeah, I'd find a simple letter ordering way to determine something like that to be a bit.... restricting. lol. I'd probably actually just specify by "bi mmf" or "straight guys to come play".
But also, as Flirt mentioned, what if there are more than 2 guys? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Means nothing to me how they are written. If I'm meeting someone for a mmf or mff we talk before to find who who does what. After all a bi mmf doesn't mean they kiss,penetrate,top or bottom. And a bi mff doesn't mean the women want strap on or any penetration. |
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"I don't think it makes any difference, after all, any details of boundaries and ground rules can be sorted out in any pre meet discussion.
MF......M
Could mean the guy is just watching "
"Means nothing to me how they are written. If I'm meeting someone for a mmf or mff we talk before to find who who does what. After all a bi mmf doesn't mean they kiss,penetrate,top or bottom. And a bi mff doesn't mean the women want strap on or any penetration. "
Yeah, exactly, this is what I mean, and wanted to put in my reply too. Like, surely, requirements and sexuality preferences are just.... DISCUSSED like normal people, rather than determined by a sequence of letters? lol.
Also, Steve.... I love that. I'm going to use it from now on. ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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Ive always wrote it mmf or mmmf or even mmmmmf i just thought it meant that the ratio of men were higher and since a ffm or fffm is as rare as unicorns so ive never tried working that one out .....its never crossed my mind it meant anything other than that ![](/icons/s/2/halo.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never realised there was a difference - I always explain I am "only interested in m-f contact but comfortable in mmf scenario". I can see I need to change that to mfm!
Learn something new every day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think it makes any difference, after all, any details of boundaries and ground rules can be sorted out in any pre meet discussion.
MF......M
Could mean the guy is just watching " your a geek fag |
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We always wrote mmf...have we been falsely advertising ourselves as a fully bi couple...so that's why that bloke tried putting his willy in Rons anus...We thought he had just slipped like he when we demanded to know why!!!!!! ![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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"We always wrote mmf...have we been falsely advertising ourselves as a fully bi couple...so that's why that bloke tried putting his willy in Rons anus...We thought he had just slipped like he when we demanded to know why!!!!!! "
"Like he said" that should read |
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"We always wrote mmf...have we been falsely advertising ourselves as a fully bi couple...so that's why that bloke tried putting his willy in Rons anus...We thought he had just slipped like he when we demanded to know why!!!!!!
"Like he said" that should read"
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"I don't think it makes any difference, after all, any details of boundaries and ground rules can be sorted out in any pre meet discussion.
MF......M
Could mean the guy is just watching your a geek fag "
Maybe I am but at least I'm still on the site, I can spell and I'm not nasty to people ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"I don't think it makes any difference, after all, any details of boundaries and ground rules can be sorted out in any pre meet discussion.
MF......M
Could mean the guy is just watching your a geek fag "
Any idea who this was?! I've been practising saying "your a geek fag" in several accents and I think the Armie Terminator one sounds best. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"Is there a difference? I always just list them like mmf, but see that some people write mfm to mean something different?
Can someone explain to this n00b?
Mmf is bi male 3some
Mfm is straight male 3some"
This is daft. I enjoy an MMMMF with all straight guys - using your terminology how would you write this? There is absolutely no difference between MMF, MFM and FMM. |
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"Is there a difference? I always just list them like mmf, but see that some people write mfm to mean something different?
Can someone explain to this n00b?
Mmf is bi male 3some
Mfm is straight male 3some
This is daft. I enjoy an MMMMF with all straight guys - using your terminology how would you write this? There is absolutely no difference between MMF, MFM and FMM."
I don't know , as a straight guy if we were looking we would only reply to mfm messages |
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No difference at all - as many have pointed out, suggesting that the order and case of the letters is significant, is full of anomalies and inconsistencies and basically unworkable.
It's just one of those myths that pop up from time to time and seized upon by the gullible.
The vast majority of people pay it no mind |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never thought about it really just assumed different people wrote it differently and considering some of the guys that are straight have written it the bi way I'm confused Haha xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mmf is 2 bi guys and 1 girl.
Mfm is 2 straight guys and 1 girl.
Anything more than 3 letters is clearly a group and sexuality is subject to further rules.
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"I'd never thought about it, but I suppose it's make sense that mfm would be a three some with the lady in the middle, no male on male play. With mmf a free for all? "
This was my understanding too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think it makes any difference, after all, any details of boundaries and ground rules can be sorted out in any pre meet discussion.
MF......M
Could mean the guy is just watching "
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Obviously, if people are going to get het up by the location of letters, then they ought to take account of the Dominant capital M or F and the submissive m or f.
Soon we will need a little booklet or app to explain EXACTLY what people want when they ask for something such as MfmF...(M)..fF /m\ ![](/icons/s/rolleyes.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't think it makes any difference, after all, any details of boundaries and ground rules can be sorted out in any pre meet discussion.
MF......M
Could mean the guy is just watching your a geek fag
Any idea who this was?! I've been practising saying "your a geek fag" in several accents and I think the Armie Terminator one sounds best. "
A strong Glasgow accent seems ok to me ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"I don't think it makes any difference, after all, any details of boundaries and ground rules can be sorted out in any pre meet discussion.
MF......M
Could mean the guy is just watching your a geek fag
Any idea who this was?! I've been practising saying "your a geek fag" in several accents and I think the Armie Terminator one sounds best.
A strong Glasgow accent seems ok to me "
The rude little runt left the site anyway. Before I had a chance to say "oooh!
How VERY dare you!" ![](/icons/s/twisted.gif) |
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"Is there a difference? I always just list them like mmf, but see that some people write mfm to mean something different?
Can someone explain to this n00b?
Mmf is bi male 3some
Mfm is straight male 3some
So what's a MMMF? 3 No guys? If it is how's represent 3 straight guys and 1 female?
thats a que at the post office "
A big Q for the alphabet soup ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By *ltravioletWoman
over a year ago
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"I don't think it makes any difference, after all, any details of boundaries and ground rules can be sorted out in any pre meet discussion.
MF......M
Could mean the guy is just watching " I totally agree with this I'm yet to experience a meeting with more than two people , but for me it's the same as meeting up with a couple or a single - communication is essential for me especially the build up,
Great communication = great sex - whatever gender you are or sexual orientation ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
Wakefield |
"Is there a difference? I always just list them like mmf, but see that some people write mfm to mean something different?
Can someone explain to this n00b?"
There is no difference.
Those who say there is fall down when trying to explain more than two straight men with a female etc. |
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
North Cambs |
"Is there a difference? I always just list them like mmf, but see that some people write mfm to mean something different?
Can someone explain to this n00b?
Mmf is bi male 3some
Mfm is straight male 3some"
I was never aware of this and have always referred to straight two men/one woman scenarios as mmf.... ...however, I think lots do too, as I've never had it pointed out to me that this implies bisexual activity between the two fellas.. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"Is there a difference? I always just list them like mmf, but see that some people write mfm to mean something different?
Can someone explain to this n00b?
There is no difference.
Those who say there is fall down when trying to explain more than two straight men with a female etc."
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