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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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After spending ages scrolling through profiles, reading to see what interests and finally thinking hmm this I would try. I would like to share my pain or getting the "this person has blocked everyone of your sex" message  single guy problems!! on fab!! god damn... sorry, rant over |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"After spending ages scrolling through profiles, reading to see what interests and finally thinking hmm this I would try. I would like to share my pain or getting the "this person has blocked everyone of your sex" message single guy problems!! on fab!! god damn... sorry, rant over "
Ive had the same problem a few times myself
The one that gets me is when the min age of contact is 30 and am 29. Oh well at least i only have to wait 8 months before i can send the first message lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have all men blocked atm I was getting so many messages, I couldn't reply to them all or give any quality to the messages i did receive, so people thought I was ignoring them when really I wasn't, having men blocked works for me That way I can chat to who I choose but I also have that stated on my profile so anyone browsing can see. |
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By *aneSmith5TV/TS
over a year ago
Eastbourne area |
I get block for being too old, sadly get further away from the age range.
Plus being a TV, even thought I am happy to play as a Bi-Male a lot of members want on here.
Could create multiple profiles like many do on here, however life is difficult without extra work |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its a hard life on here guys, but there is always other lovely ladies out there who I am sure will catch your eye as much as the ladies who block men  "
But it always tends to be the 'not looking for single guys' profiles that you really, really like! Must be something about unobtainable women ...
It's a pain OP but as stated above, there's loads out there that DO want to meet! Good luck fella! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its a hard life on here guys, but there is always other lovely ladies out there who I am sure will catch your eye as much as the ladies who block men
But it always tends to be the 'not looking for single guys' profiles that you really, really like! Must be something about unobtainable women ...
It's a pain OP but as stated above, there's loads out there that DO want to meet! Good luck fella! "
I know the feeling on unobtainable women, the number of lovely ladies who appear on my screen and they are straight  But for me...there may be a few exceptions on the men front occasionally   |
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I guess shit happens. Sometimes all I want to do is give a compliment about a status that's really made me laugh or some other trivia. But hey if people are getting mailboxes maxxed out - who can blame them? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"After spending ages scrolling through profiles, reading to see what interests and finally thinking hmm this I would try. I would like to share my pain or getting the "this person has blocked everyone of your sex" message single guy problems!! on fab!! god damn... sorry, rant over "
Thursday is rant day.
Try to hold it in till then fellah. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What gets me when I see a profile I like says looking for m in their list
Write a nice message whith a lot of thought to have sorry no single men or out of age range
How about a symbol on the site like a no go sign to show people you cant message |
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"I even seen an event posting from a couple who were looking for single men but the had their filter set to block single men. Lol"
I see lots of these then they say nobody wants to meet makes me laugh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I even seen an event posting from a couple who were looking for single men but the had their filter set to block single men. Lol
I see lots of these then they say nobody wants to meet makes me laugh."
Quite often these meets up put up for those men they have met before to see if any of them are free. Those men would be able to message them if they have communicated on here already |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its a hard life on here guys, but there is always other lovely ladies out there who I am sure will catch your eye as much as the ladies who block men
Get you're blocks off  "
Umm nah |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its a hard life on here guys, but there is always other lovely ladies out there who I am sure will catch your eye as much as the ladies who block men
Get your blocks off "
Umm nah |
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"What gets me when I see a profile I like says looking for m in their list
Write a nice message whith a lot of thought to have sorry no single men or out of age range
How about a symbol on the site like a no go sign to show people you cant message"
like that idea..its not only single men that are blocked....as you get older age limits..connie xx |
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"Its a hard life on here guys, but there is always other lovely ladies out there who I am sure will catch your eye as much as the ladies who block men
Get your blocks off
Umm nah "
If i say pretty please? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its a hard life on here guys, but there is always other lovely ladies out there who I am sure will catch your eye as much as the ladies who block men
Get your blocks off
Umm nah
If i say pretty please? "
Amazingly nah |
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"Its a hard life on here guys, but there is always other lovely ladies out there who I am sure will catch your eye as much as the ladies who block men
But it always tends to be the 'not looking for single guys' profiles that you really, really like! Must be something about unobtainable women ...
It's a pain OP but as stated above, there's loads out there that DO want to meet! Good luck fella! "
Usually the way in life that people regularly want what they can't have |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In order to reduce countless one line crude male approaches, message filters are set accordingly (though many still get through) Unfortunately, this also filters out bi-fem approaches unless they fall within my guys age criteria. I'd love to receive more interest from women. The only way of doing so is remove the filters but suffer the consequences |
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That message after going to the effort of reading the profile is essentially the equivalent of going to the effort of buying a lady a drink in a bar chatting to her and her saying sorry not for my but thanks for the drink
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That message after going to the effort of reading the profile is essentially the equivalent of going to the effort of buying a lady a drink in a bar chatting to her and her saying sorry not for my but thanks for the drink
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Hence the filters. My way of saying thanks, I have a drink |
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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago
You Dont Need to Know, right now |
OP, when you're reading the profiles, check whether it says "not looking for single men". If it says that, then they have their filters set, and you will get the "this person has blocked everyone of your sex" message. Move on to the next one. |
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"Its a hard life on here guys, but there is always other lovely ladies out there who I am sure will catch your eye as much as the ladies who block men
But it always tends to be the 'not looking for single guys' profiles that you really, really like! Must be something about unobtainable women ...
It's a pain OP but as stated above, there's loads out there that DO want to meet! Good luck fella!
I know the feeling on unobtainable women, the number of lovely ladies who appear on my screen and they are straight But for me...there may be a few exceptions on the men front occasionally "
Just had that feeling looking at your profile. Your stunning but not looking for men and your too far away from me.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its a hard life on here guys, but there is always other lovely ladies out there who I am sure will catch your eye as much as the ladies who block men
But it always tends to be the 'not looking for single guys' profiles that you really, really like! Must be something about unobtainable women ...
It's a pain OP but as stated above, there's loads out there that DO want to meet! Good luck fella!
I know the feeling on unobtainable women, the number of lovely ladies who appear on my screen and they are straight But for me...there may be a few exceptions on the men front occasionally
Just had that feeling looking at your profile. Your stunning but not looking for men and your too far away from me.
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Aww thanks for the lovely compliment |
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"Its a hard life on here guys, but there is always other lovely ladies out there who I am sure will catch your eye as much as the ladies who block men
But it always tends to be the 'not looking for single guys' profiles that you really, really like! Must be something about unobtainable women ...
It's a pain OP but as stated above, there's loads out there that DO want to meet! Good luck fella!
I know the feeling on unobtainable women, the number of lovely ladies who appear on my screen and they are straight But for me...there may be a few exceptions on the men front occasionally
Just had that feeling looking at your profile. Your stunning but not looking for men and your too far away from me.
Aww thanks for the lovely compliment "
Is this a sneeky way round the mail male block.....message in forums? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its a hard life on here guys, but there is always other lovely ladies out there who I am sure will catch your eye as much as the ladies who block men
But it always tends to be the 'not looking for single guys' profiles that you really, really like! Must be something about unobtainable women ...
It's a pain OP but as stated above, there's loads out there that DO want to meet! Good luck fella!
I know the feeling on unobtainable women, the number of lovely ladies who appear on my screen and they are straight But for me...there may be a few exceptions on the men front occasionally
Just had that feeling looking at your profile. Your stunning but not looking for men and your too far away from me.
Aww thanks for the lovely compliment
Is this a sneeky way round the mail male block.....message in forums? "
Doesn't work though, especially with me |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"Its a hard life on here guys, but there is always other lovely ladies out there who I am sure will catch your eye as much as the ladies who block men
But it always tends to be the 'not looking for single guys' profiles that you really, really like! Must be something about unobtainable women ...
It's a pain OP but as stated above, there's loads out there that DO want to meet! Good luck fella! "
Can be frustrating, as said by others there's lots of others though..
It's one of the reasons to have a good profile, the ladies who block men might do the hunting themselves.. if your profile interests who knows.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I do get to send a message I find it gets read then no reply and yes I spend time on my messages. It's a numbers game I guess.  "
We ignore probably 90% of messages from single males, usually because they havent read our (long and getting longer by the day) profile.
If they can't be bothered to look and see what we want, we can't be bothered to reply  |
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"Its a hard life on here guys, but there is always other lovely ladies out there who I am sure will catch your eye as much as the ladies who block men
But it always tends to be the 'not looking for single guys' profiles that you really, really like! Must be something about unobtainable women ...
It's a pain OP but as stated above, there's loads out there that DO want to meet! Good luck fella!
I know the feeling on unobtainable women, the number of lovely ladies who appear on my screen and they are straight But for me...there may be a few exceptions on the men front occasionally
Just had that feeling looking at your profile. Your stunning but not looking for men and your too far away from me.
Aww thanks for the lovely compliment
Is this a sneeky way round the mail male block.....message in forums?
Doesn't work though, especially with me "
Damn lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I do get to send a message I find it gets read then no reply and yes I spend time on my messages. It's a numbers game I guess. "
Ian, it's probably no consolation to you, but I feel sure there are others like me who just cannot ignore a message which shows a degree of effort.
Its beyond me to ignore That said, one liners and pure offensive don't just get deleted, I block them without feeling. Good luck, I feel sure your efforts will be justly rewarded x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That message after going to the effort of reading the profile is essentially the equivalent of going to the effort of buying a lady a drink in a bar chatting to her and her saying sorry not for my but thanks for the drink
Hence the filters. My way of saying thanks, I have a drink "
If the chat and the craic is good I'm happy to do this. What's a couple of drinks and even dinner. If she's really classy even salad on her kebab!!
I reply politely if I'm not interested in the sex side. There are women on here who I don't fancy and won't fancy me. That's life. However I've gained some friends so far on here although we don't want to shag each other. For me it's not ALL about the sex. Although if it happens great. |
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lol. The amount of times iv been one year out of their age range dam... 
