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We do, although we are very strict about who we meet. To be blunt we basically have a shopping list of what we want and we stick to it, but by using it have met a couple of lovely guys in the past. |
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I have had a few offers since being on here, Some I would of liked to meet but logistics and trying to arrange a time to suit both of us have stopped the meet happening, Any others I have turned down were due to the Woman not meeting my preference or things they would like to do on the meet, Not using condoms, Videoing the meet or meeting with 3/4 Men, I have no interest in doing either of them |
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"Yes we do. We're happy to meet single guys.
Would you meet young single guys?
dude he who hesitates is lost,doors open knock and introduce yourself  "
I tried but I'm out their age range haha |
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"We do occasionally, although the effort required to find the genuine ones that actually meet, is monumental."
But marginally easier than finding a Cpl where all 4 are happy to play. |
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"We did but not anymore as too many let downs so club only for us. We must have just had some bad eggs"
your not alone on this one, it seems bloody difficult to get a single guy who can accom, they all have excuses .....Hmmm I wonder why. ? maybe they are frightened to tell us we are pig ugly and avoiding hurting our feelings..... |
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"We did but not anymore as too many let downs so club only for us. We must have just had some bad eggs
your not alone on this one, it seems bloody difficult to get a single guy who can accom, they all have excuses .....Hmmm I wonder why. ? maybe they are frightened to tell us we are pig ugly and avoiding hurting our feelings....."
Deffo not pig ugly! |
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"We did but not anymore as too many let downs so club only for us. We must have just had some bad eggs
your not alone on this one, it seems bloody difficult to get a single guy who can accom, they all have excuses .....Hmmm I wonder why. ? maybe they are frightened to tell us we are pig ugly and avoiding hurting our feelings.....
Deffo not pig ugly! "
you aint seen the mug shots though, haha |
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"We did but not anymore as too many let downs so club only for us. We must have just had some bad eggs
your not alone on this one, it seems bloody difficult to get a single guy who can accom, they all have excuses .....Hmmm I wonder why. ? maybe they are frightened to tell us we are pig ugly and avoiding hurting our feelings.....
Deffo not pig ugly!
you aint seen the mug shots though, haha"
Yeah but mug shots don't help anyone |
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I've been on here a whole week and haven't met a couple yet, preposterous!
But nah if I was meeting someone, I'd want to know loads about them before inviting them to my house. I suppose if I was in a couple and we were quite active in going to clubs, I'd probably stick to meeting people there too. I imagine a lot less risk (both safety and no shows) and doesn't require quite as much effort. |
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We do but then only at hotels and we tend to find that guys just don't turn up... But then we don't normally meet guys just as one guy x normally 2 or more |
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We used to meet single guys outside of clubs but after a number of let downs with fantasist and timewasters we decide it was not worth the effort anymore. |
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We don't. After trying a few times to arrange a meet with single guys we gave up. Reasons? We were stood up on one occasion, let down at the last minute on two others and then received a message "found someone younger" from another.
Do you wonder why we stopped?  |
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We do, mostly at hotels though but do understand you guys must wonder if anything really is going on out there.
It's just that there is too much choice, every time we list a meet tonight post we get loads of replies |
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I think we frightened a newbie away last week. He he sent us a message when he'd only been on the site 2 days and we answered it, asked a few questions to make sure of his expectations (we were looking for something fairly specific) arranged a social (maybe more) meet for the 16th which was the first date we could make and he went UNLOS.
Another dreamer. |
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Had a couple come to mine for my 2nd ever meet and everything was fine,just totally depends on what kind of people you are.We got on fine and the respect is mutal and is good  |
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We love MFM but Sara is very very choosy who we meet when it comes to single guys.
We'd also only interested in a house party/group if there were straight singles there too.
On the other hand we don't meet in a couples only environment such as MF/MF
People seem to find it puzzling have that preference |
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"I think we frightened a newbie away last week. He he sent us a message when he'd only been on the site 2 days and we answered it, asked a few questions to make sure of his expectations (we were looking for something fairly specific) arranged a social (maybe more) meet for the 16th which was the first date we could make and he went UNLOS.
Another dreamer."
It happens all too often and not just with newbies.
Looking back on 2015 to put this is perspective we invited a total of 11 single guys to meet us. All were verified and we spoke to all on the phone.
Out of 11 only 2 actually turned up. None bothered to text us to cancel and most of those are still actively looking for meets on fab - in spite of our reports to Fab
That is why we took the decision to stop meeting guys outside of clubs.
If genuine single guys are depressed about the difficulties of getting meets - blame both the timewasters and Fab for tolerating them. |
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"I think we frightened a newbie away last week. He he sent us a message when he'd only been on the site 2 days and we answered it, asked a few questions to make sure of his expectations (we were looking for something fairly specific) arranged a social (maybe more) meet for the 16th which was the first date we could make and he went UNLOS.
Another dreamer.
It happens all too often and not just with newbies.
Looking back on 2015 to put this is perspective we invited a total of 11 single guys to meet us. All were verified and we spoke to all on the phone.
Out of 11 only 2 actually turned up. None bothered to text us to cancel and most of those are still actively looking for meets on fab - in spite of our reports to Fab
That is why we took the decision to stop meeting guys outside of clubs.
If genuine single guys are depressed about the difficulties of getting meets - blame both the timewasters and Fab for tolerating them."
May I ask how old they were .... |
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"Yes we do. We're happy to meet single guys.
Would you meet young single guys? "
To suss this out you need to look at the preferred age range on their profile then check this against their veris Hun! Occasionally people meet others above/below their age range but you'll usually find it on their veris if they do! |
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"I think we frightened a newbie away last week. He he sent us a message when he'd only been on the site 2 days and we answered it, asked a few questions to make sure of his expectations (we were looking for something fairly specific) arranged a social (maybe more) meet for the 16th which was the first date we could make and he went UNLOS.
Another dreamer.
It happens all too often and not just with newbies.
Looking back on 2015 to put this is perspective we invited a total of 11 single guys to meet us. All were verified and we spoke to all on the phone.
Out of 11 only 2 actually turned up. None bothered to text us to cancel and most of those are still actively looking for meets on fab - in spite of our reports to Fab
That is why we took the decision to stop meeting guys outside of clubs.
If genuine single guys are depressed about the difficulties of getting meets - blame both the timewasters and Fab for tolerating them."
Yeah I've had a lot of 'dreamers' who never met when arranged! Bizarrely I've even found this with guys who've put meets up - they've chatted and arranged but then just cancelled or vanished! This is why I resort to roger rabbit and porn a lot! I usually just play at clubs if I see someone I like - or arrange the odd meet but limit my expectations or have a plan b to hand!  |
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"I think we frightened a newbie away last week. He he sent us a message when he'd only been on the site 2 days and we answered it, asked a few questions to make sure of his expectations (we were looking for something fairly specific) arranged a social (maybe more) meet for the 16th which was the first date we could make and he went UNLOS.
Another dreamer.
It happens all too often and not just with newbies.
Looking back on 2015 to put this is perspective we invited a total of 11 single guys to meet us. All were verified and we spoke to all on the phone.
Out of 11 only 2 actually turned up. None bothered to text us to cancel and most of those are still actively looking for meets on fab - in spite of our reports to Fab
That is why we took the decision to stop meeting guys outside of clubs.
If genuine single guys are depressed about the difficulties of getting meets - blame both the timewasters and Fab for tolerating them.
Yeah I've had a lot of 'dreamers' who never met when arranged! Bizarrely I've even found this with guys who've put meets up - they've chatted and arranged but then just cancelled or vanished! This is why I resort to roger rabbit and porn a lot! I usually just play at clubs if I see someone I like - or arrange the odd meet but limit my expectations or have a plan b to hand! "
Ahh! The legendary keyboard wankers!
There's a whole army of them on the site! |
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"I think we frightened a newbie away last week. He he sent us a message when he'd only been on the site 2 days and we answered it, asked a few questions to make sure of his expectations (we were looking for something fairly specific) arranged a social (maybe more) meet for the 16th which was the first date we could make and he went UNLOS.
Another dreamer.
It happens all too often and not just with newbies.
Looking back on 2015 to put this is perspective we invited a total of 11 single guys to meet us. All were verified and we spoke to all on the phone.
Out of 11 only 2 actually turned up. None bothered to text us to cancel and most of those are still actively looking for meets on fab - in spite of our reports to Fab
That is why we took the decision to stop meeting guys outside of clubs.
If genuine single guys are depressed about the difficulties of getting meets - blame both the timewasters and Fab for tolerating them.
Yeah I've had a lot of 'dreamers' who never met when arranged! Bizarrely I've even found this with guys who've put meets up - they've chatted and arranged but then just cancelled or vanished! This is why I resort to roger rabbit and porn a lot! I usually just play at clubs if I see someone I like - or arrange the odd meet but limit my expectations or have a plan b to hand!
Ahh! The legendary keyboard wankers!
There's a whole army of them on the site!"
To be fair I'm sure it's not just males who arrange meets and blow people out! X |
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"I think we frightened a newbie away last week. He he sent us a message when he'd only been on the site 2 days and we answered it, asked a few questions to make sure of his expectations (we were looking for something fairly specific) arranged a social (maybe more) meet for the 16th which was the first date we could make and he went UNLOS.
Another dreamer.
Can understand getting cold feet as its a bit dawnting this swingers lark but not to show is out of order.we must understand how u ladies get meet ready takes time effort and money.not on at all
It happens all too often and not just with newbies.
Looking back on 2015 to put this is perspective we invited a total of 11 single guys to meet us. All were verified and we spoke to all on the phone.
Out of 11 only 2 actually turned up. None bothered to text us to cancel and most of those are still actively looking for meets on fab - in spite of our reports to Fab
That is why we took the decision to stop meeting guys outside of clubs.
If genuine single guys are depressed about the difficulties of getting meets - blame both the timewasters and Fab for tolerating them.
Yeah I've had a lot of 'dreamers' who never met when arranged! Bizarrely I've even found this with guys who've put meets up - they've chatted and arranged but then just cancelled or vanished! This is why I resort to roger rabbit and porn a lot! I usually just play at clubs if I see someone I like - or arrange the odd meet but limit my expectations or have a plan b to hand! "
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TBF there's like thousands of single guys one and a few thousand fake couples and women, So i'd imagine it would be very difficult for the staff to sort through and get a decent hold on this sort of thing. Essentially fighting a loosing battle but one that needs to be fought none the less.
Being based in Aberdeen, I can understand your frustration some of heard many stories from couples on meets about timewasters and general weirdos. Still often hearing that meets with people like me are what drive them to continue. If think it's mostly keeping an open being aware of what could happen and the tell tale signs of a timewaster to tell you not to bother |
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"TBF there's like thousands of single guys one and a few thousand fake couples and women, So i'd imagine it would be very difficult for the staff to sort through and get a decent hold on this sort of thing. Essentially fighting a loosing battle but one that needs to be fought none the less.
Being based in Aberdeen, I can understand your frustration some of heard many stories from couples on meets about timewasters and general weirdos. Still often hearing that meets with people like me are what drive them to continue. If think it's mostly keeping an open being aware of what could happen and the tell tale signs of a timewaster to tell you not to bother"
I appreciate your sentiments but often there are no signs or indications. If there were it would make life easy. |
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Normally I stick if they reply apathetically to a chance of meet warning sign, unwilling to share number warning sign, if they're meeting up with you, not calling or messaging on the day of the meet and then a few hours before warning sign. Not verified warning sign. Want Really odd time requests for meet warning sign,
If one or more of these happen I expect to be making other plans. |
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Reading through it sounds like lots do sexy couples meet single guys
But sadly also sounds like alot have been put off by time wasters
I really don't understand why people do that ( guy/girls/couples All guilty)
Im on here to meet new friends, have good chats if all goes well become close friends
Im sure for most on here its the same |
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"I have had a few offers since being on here, Some I would of liked to meet but logistics and trying to arrange a time to suit both of us have stopped the meet happening, Any others I have turned down were due to the Woman not meeting my preference or things they would like to do on the meet, Not using condoms, Videoing the meet or meeting with 3/4 Men, I have no interest in doing either of them"
Similar experience to the above to the point i no longer have that interest now. |
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