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Hey guys and girls, im abit stumped atm as to how few messages i get. So im 21 fit, have a large cock and i have my own place to host, i have added lots of meets and i update my status quite alot but still with no messages.
I understand that as a single guy it would be hard to find meets but not this hard! Or is it my age that's the problem?
Any help or insight would be great, thanks and happy swinging!  |
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Having a big cock isn't the deal breaker for most.
You're too young for me and even if you weren't your OP is longer than your profile text so doesn't give anyone much idea of what you want or can offer, |
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Couldn't care less if your cocks big .I'd just rather not fuck someone whos is young enough i could be their mother .
Sure you'll find ppl who are interested ,just takes time and patience .good luck x |
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Too young for me by far. Some like young men though so improve your chances by writing a decent profile and writing messages to those in your area looking for a chap like you. It's said that good things come to those who wait but I'm not so sure that's true for single men on Fab... Perhaps someone will come along and prove me wrong...! |
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over a year ago
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You've definitely got a lot of positive attributes that many will like - be proactive, be respectful, treat ladies as peers and equals and not just sex objects (which I'm sure you know already) and I'm sure the meets will come!
Advice? Work on the profile a bit, it doesn't actually say too much and there's no reason you can't be very successful here!
Good luck fella  |
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I have only been on here a little while. I'm only 22, but I have found treating ladies on here with respect and not a sex object helps. Obvs this is a sex site but you have to form a connection. |
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Sorry guys didn't mean to kick up a fuss, i guess the fabguys site works a bit different to fabswingers. I geuss people on this site are a bit more serious about who they meet and actually want to have a 'connection' with everyone they meet. Sex is just sex to me just a bit of fun, maybe i think this because i an still young. Sorry again  |
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"I have only been on here a little while. I'm only 22, but I have found treating ladies on here with respect and not a sex object helps. Obvs this is a sex site but you have to form a connection. "
So true |
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"Sorry guys didn't mean to kick up a fuss, i guess the fabguys site works a bit different to fabswingers. I geuss people on this site are a bit more serious about who they meet and actually want to have a 'connection' with everyone they meet. Sex is just sex to me just a bit of fun, maybe i think this because i an still young. Sorry again "
Nothing to do with your age I'd say. We each use the site for different things |
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"Sorry guys didn't mean to kick up a fuss, i guess the fabguys site works a bit different to fabswingers. I geuss people on this site are a bit more serious about who they meet and actually want to have a 'connection' with everyone they meet. Sex is just sex to me just a bit of fun, maybe i think this because i an still young. Sorry again "
I don't think everyone wants a connection, but also they want more than a young man who claims to have a big cock .... |
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"Sorry guys didn't mean to kick up a fuss, i guess the fabguys site works a bit different to fabswingers. I geuss people on this site are a bit more serious about who they meet and actually want to have a 'connection' with everyone they meet. Sex is just sex to me just a bit of fun, maybe i think this because i an still young. Sorry again "
Sex is fun to me too, plus you're in my age range. However the status update, the mention of the cock being the main thing on offer...I probably wouldn't meet you.
Speak to Jake, he's figured it out whereas most your age (and beyond even) don't. |
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"Sorry guys didn't mean to kick up a fuss, i guess the fabguys site works a bit different to fabswingers. I geuss people on this site are a bit more serious about who they meet and actually want to have a 'connection' with everyone they meet. Sex is just sex to me just a bit of fun, maybe i think this because i an still young. Sorry again
Sex is fun to me too, plus you're in my age range. However the status update, the mention of the cock being the main thing on offer...I probably wouldn't meet you.
Speak to Jake, he's figured it out whereas most your age (and beyond even) don't."
I mean I'm still getting used to it. But try go out your way compliant the women you want to message, most the time they aren't getting that. Be nice make them smile. Then you will get what you want |
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"Sorry guys didn't mean to kick up a fuss, i guess the fabguys site works a bit different to fabswingers. I geuss people on this site are a bit more serious about who they meet and actually want to have a 'connection' with everyone they meet. Sex is just sex to me just a bit of fun, maybe i think this because i an still young. Sorry again "
No fuss, really. You are right in that most people (not all), are looking for something beyond a big cock. You have sussed it. Good luck. |
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"Sorry guys didn't mean to kick up a fuss, i guess the fabguys site works a bit different to fabswingers. I geuss people on this site are a bit more serious about who they meet and actually want to have a 'connection' with everyone they meet. Sex is just sex to me just a bit of fun, maybe i think this because i an still young. Sorry again
Sex is fun to me too, plus you're in my age range. However the status update, the mention of the cock being the main thing on offer...I probably wouldn't meet you.
Speak to Jake, he's figured it out whereas most your age (and beyond even) don't.
I mean I'm still getting used to it. But try go out your way compliant the women you want to message, most the time they aren't getting that. Be nice make them smile. Then you will get what you want "
Haha, that sounds deliberately manipulative ... I would stop digging if I were you, Jake. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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To the OP the biggest organ you possess is not your cock, it is your brain.
Start using that wisely and it won't guarantee you success but it will gain you valuable experience.
Experience does count in this game and at 21 the last place I would be is on a swinging site.
That of course is your choice and prerogative but I would suggest maybe a rethink.
Good luck. |
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over a year ago
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Ahhh you see, you got it all wrong, you need to be a short balding podgy old bloke with a small Willy who can't accommodate then like me you will be inundated with messages and beating them off with the proverbial stick.... 
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"Sorry guys didn't mean to kick up a fuss, i guess the fabguys site works a bit different to fabswingers. I geuss people on this site are a bit more serious about who they meet and actually want to have a 'connection' with everyone they meet. Sex is just sex to me just a bit of fun, maybe i think this because i an still young. Sorry again
Sex is fun to me too, plus you're in my age range. However the status update, the mention of the cock being the main thing on offer...I probably wouldn't meet you.
Speak to Jake, he's figured it out whereas most your age (and beyond even) don't.
I mean I'm still getting used to it. But try go out your way compliant the women you want to message, most the time they aren't getting that. Be nice make them smile. Then you will get what you want
Haha, that sounds deliberately manipulative ... I would stop digging if I were you, Jake."
Yeah I get that from essex haha |
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"I mean I'm still getting used to it. But try go out your way compliant the women you want to message, most the time they aren't getting that. Be nice make them smile. Then you will get what you want "
Oh dear Jake, you're not one of those fools who think women are on here because they can't get it elsewhere and a false compliment will have us running to you? |
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The thing going is alot of you young guys think swinging is a way of getting your numbers up.
Yes there are a few that might just want to fuck them and it would seem you'd fuck anything if your profile is anything to go by. That alone puts us off you, coupled with your age you are swimming uphill.
80% of playing swingers are couples in their 40s plus, of whom are very close and are in long standing relationships for you to think you offer something other than a big cock is wrong.
You bring nothing to the table and your profile says nothing. |
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"I mean I'm still getting used to it. But try go out your way compliant the women you want to message, most the time they aren't getting that. Be nice make them smile. Then you will get what you want
Oh dear Jake, you're not one of those fools who think women are on here because they can't get it elsewhere and a false compliment will have us running to you?"
No I'm simply saying, instead of going in for the kill? Why don't you try crack a smile or joke, to break the ice. I don't see anything in my comments, about having a girl running to us. But being nice and treating you all with respect is better than being a twat? |
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over a year ago
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OP you would probably have more luck in pubs and vanilla clubs like other 21 year olds. The majority of people on fab are older. Obviously these are a rough generalisations and do not apply to everyone, but a lot of couples have been together for a good few years before deciding to swing. The single women also mainly seem to have at least one or two long term relationships under their belt before they decide that fab is the right place for them. |
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"I mean I'm still getting used to it. But try go out your way compliant the women you want to message, most the time they aren't getting that. Be nice make them smile. Then you will get what you want
Oh dear Jake, you're not one of those fools who think women are on here because they can't get it elsewhere and a false compliment will have us running to you?
No I'm simply saying, instead of going in for the kill? Why don't you try crack a smile or joke, to break the ice. I don't see anything in my comments, about having a girl running to us. But being nice and treating you all with respect is better than being a twat? "
Let you off then, the written word can often be taken more ways than one |
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"OP you would probably have more luck in pubs and vanilla clubs like other 21 year olds. The majority of people on fab are older. Obviously these are a rough generalisations and do not apply to everyone, but a lot of couples have been together for a good few years before deciding to swing. The single women also mainly seem to have at least one or two long term relationships under their belt before they decide that fab is the right place for them. "
Couldnt have said it any better |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hey guys and girls, im abit stumped atm as to how few messages i get. So im 21 fit, have a large cock and i have my own place to host, i have added lots of meets and i update my status quite alot but still with no messages.
I understand that as a single guy it would be hard to find meets but not this hard! Or is it my age that's the problem?
Any help or insight would be great, thanks and happy swinging! "
For a start personally you are too young for me. I also believe it is not about the size of the cock you have, it is how you use it. It is no good having a big cock and being a crap fuck is it? Xx |
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"I mean I'm still getting used to it. But try go out your way compliant the women you want to message, most the time they aren't getting that. Be nice make them smile. Then you will get what you want
Oh dear Jake, you're not one of those fools who think women are on here because they can't get it elsewhere and a false compliment will have us running to you?
No I'm simply saying, instead of going in for the kill? Why don't you try crack a smile or joke, to break the ice. I don't see anything in my comments, about having a girl running to us. But being nice and treating you all with respect is better than being a twat?
Let you off then, the written word can often be taken more ways than one "
No worries, going back to this convo, everyone likes all different things. We can all meet people from this site but the the reason why we are on it is because we like to find someone that fits to your standards. I don't think age matters |
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"No worries, going back to this convo, everyone likes all different things. We can all meet people from this site but the the reason why we are on it is because we like to find someone that fits to your standards. I don't think age matters "
I like you again now 
Age matters to the people who can't bring themselves to meet people who could be their kid's friends. It's a very valid concern I'd say.
Though age is not relevant to whether you get on with someone or not. |
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"No worries, going back to this convo, everyone likes all different things. We can all meet people from this site but the the reason why we are on it is because we like to find someone that fits to your standards. I don't think age matters
I like you again now
Age matters to the people who can't bring themselves to meet people who could be their kid's friends. It's a very valid concern I'd say.
Though age is not relevant to whether you get on with someone or not."
I'm glad you do haha. True but everyone has a different opinion. X |
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Damn some people on this site really dont like young single guys, thanks for ripping into me.
Please dont think that every young guy just want to 'get the numbers up', its not like that at all, I just want to expericane new things.
Also thanks for all the nice helpfull people, ive updated my profile, will work on some better pics. |
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"Damn some people on this site really dont like young single guys, thanks for ripping into me.
Please dont think that every young guy just want to 'get the numbers up', its not like that at all, I just want to expericane new things.
Also thanks for all the nice helpfull people, ive updated my profile, will work on some better pics."
Nobody was "ripping into you".
You asked for advice and this as offered... in fact if anything they were quite restrained.
I'm pleased to see that you have taken note of the advice given, many don't.
Though the bit at the end about messages could probably do with rewording.
Best of luck.
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"Damn some people on this site really dont like young single guys, thanks for ripping into me.
Please dont think that every young guy just want to 'get the numbers up', its not like that at all, I just want to expericane new things.
Also thanks for all the nice helpfull people, ive updated my profile, will work on some better pics."
Much better profile, op, although not for us for various reasons .... good luck |
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"Damn some people on this site really dont like young single guys, thanks for ripping into me.
Please dont think that every young guy just want to 'get the numbers up', its not like that at all, I just want to expericane new things.
Also thanks for all the nice helpfull people, ive updated my profile, will work on some better pics."
Asking for some advise must be met with some critisism i suppose. Get yourself to a club dont think about just do it, im sure you will have more luck. |
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"Damn some people on this site really dont like young single guys, thanks for ripping into me.
Please dont think that every young guy just want to 'get the numbers up', its not like that at all, I just want to expericane new things.
Also thanks for all the nice helpfull people, ive updated my profile, will work on some better pics."
You say you're mature for your age then spit the dummy at the earliest opportunity
Honestly can't see where people have ripped into you? I mean, you asked for honest opinions and you got them....
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By *annooWoman
over a year ago
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"Damn some people on this site really dont like young single guys, thanks for ripping into me.
Please dont think that every young guy just want to 'get the numbers up', its not like that at all, I just want to expericane new things.
Also thanks for all the nice helpfull people, ive updated my profile, will work on some better pics."
I've only jst seen this forum thread...ur age is not an issue, saying u have a big cock is a little big headed given that not all women went big however that did not deter me. This site is not a click and fuck site.its not all about connection but its not all about u messaging a woman saying lets go fuck either haha my only issue is u are no where near me |
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"I see no evidence of your large cock but in any case, the over riding factor is that most female profiles on here are actually f ake/timewasters"
Bollocks |
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"... in any case, the over riding factor is that most female profiles on here are actually f ake/timewasters"
Don't talk rubbish! What you mean is that most females won't meet you, which is not the same thing. |
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"... in any case, the over riding factor is that most female profiles on here are actually f ake/timewasters
Don't talk rubbish! What you mean is that most females won't meet you, which is not the same thing."
Agreed!
Stupid ridiculous argument which is always used as the excuse why someone can't get a meet. Hell, I probably talk to more women on here than I do men! |
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