FabSwingers.com > Forums > Swingers Chat > BBW and SSBBW
BBW and SSBBW
Jump to: Newest in thread
 |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Hate the term BBW.
Call a spade a spade...its fat!
What so every fat chick is beautiful???
Ehhhh I dont think so!
I find the term BBW a big turn off.
From a FAT chick. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
dont give a monkeys myself to be honest, to me all BBW means id dont expect anyone slim
noone really thinks every big gal is beautiful, even guys who like big women arnt going to fancy everyone, it really annoys me when people go on the 'oh so all big women are beautiful' rant
get a life! theres no group of people that are all beautiful |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
and what the hell is ssbbw,is this yet another sub category of the different ways to describe women,,,,
no offence to anyone,but a woman is a woman,big small fat slim black hair blonde hair or blue hair or hairless,what makes a woman different from the rest is what makes a ma different from the rest,,personality,,
sorry,lol |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"do you big sexy ladies like these terms? or does it put you off meeting someone if they call you a BBW? "
Although I'm a chubby lass, if someone else called me a BBW, I wouldn't like it, and I wouldn't meet them. They might mean it as a compliment, but I think it's rather patronising. Also, if they can't see past the fact that I've got a few extra pounds, then they're very shallow.
Also the term MILF - how gross is that????  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I consider myself a BBW because I have big boobs! Surely it means Big Breasted Woman, and not Big Fat Woman?!! I am a slim size 12/14 but have 34HHs so BBW applies, but I am hardly a big woman! LOL xx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I consider myself a BBW because I have big boobs! Surely it means Big Breasted Woman, and not Big Fat Woman?!! I am a slim size 12/14 but have 34HHs so BBW applies, but I am hardly a big woman! LOL xx"
Or if we are saying its Big Beautiful Woman, then that I am not. Big. I mean, not beautiful, oh Christ, I'd better stop digging right now! LOL xx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"do you big sexy ladies like these terms? or does it put you off meeting someone if they call you a BBW?
Although I'm a chubby lass, if someone else called me a BBW, I wouldn't like it, and I wouldn't meet them. They might mean it as a compliment, but I think it's rather patronising. Also, if they can't see past the fact that I've got a few extra pounds, then they're very shallow.
Also the term MILF - how gross is that???? "
Got to agree MILF is truly gross. I laugh at the profiles where the guys add 'oh and Im also willing to meet BBW's'. No other body size is singled out so frequently. If they are stressing that fact are we to assume that they are shagging SUW (small ugly women) as a matter of course? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"what the hell is a ssbbw?
.
.
Is she into War re-enactment? 
haven't got a clue what ssbbw is! Anyone there to enlighten us?  "
I googled it..apparently the SS stands for super sized..I'm 11½ stone soaking wet and even i find that offensive  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Changed profile now as was obviously barking up completely the wrong tree! Woof!
Maybe the guys who state 'oh, and I'm also willing to meet BBWs' haven't been so fortunate as to meet such fabulous women as yet! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"do you big sexy ladies like these terms? or does it put you off meeting someone if they call you a BBW? "
Using a name is always a good sign and why not show peeps that you have knowledge of some descriptive vocabulary and avoid these "boxed" terms? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Any man that tells me he is WILLING to meet a bbw would get a response from me saying that I'm not WILLING to meet a prick. "
I love that, that is a brilliant response |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Maybe it would be less offensive if they put "no fat women" ........ no I dont think we would like that either.....how about "obese women only" .....no that does not see to work, I think its just a nice way of saying "fatties welcome" 
Masterq81 (Katie is going to slap me when she reads this  ) |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I personally dont mind being called a BBW-altho i dont consider myself beautiful at all
I sometimes say im fuller figured or amply built but labels adont bother me particularly,if thats wehat people see me as then im fine with it |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Any man that tells me he is WILLING to meet a bbw would get a response from me saying that I'm not WILLING to meet a prick.
I love that, that is a brilliant response "
Brilliant response !!! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Maybe it would be less offensive if they put "no fat women" ........ no I dont think we would like that either.....how about "obese women only" .....no that does not see to work, I think its just a nice way of saying "fatties welcome"
Masterq81 (Katie is going to slap me when she reads this ) "
But wouldn't that level of honesty be utterly refreshing. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Im a size 24 and i dont have an issue with it. Being on a swinging site at least ive been upfront with my size
If id have said i was curvy, that would be the understatement of the century.
I dont mind BBW/SSBBW - at least men are expecting BIG women |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Im a size 24 and i dont have an issue with it. Being on a swinging site at least ive been upfront with my size
If id have said i was curvy, that would be the understatement of the century.
I dont mind BBW/SSBBW - at least men are expecting BIG women "
and you are most certainly sexy x masterq81 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Maybe it would be less offensive if they put "no fat women" ........ no I dont think we would like that either.....how about "obese women only" .....no that does not see to work, I think its just a nice way of saying "fatties welcome"
Masterq81 (Katie is going to slap me when she reads this )
But wouldn't that level of honesty be utterly refreshing."
Maybe to you (let me guess - you're height proportionate to weight - yes?) ... some would say it would be unecessarily tactless. People can express their preference without being so brutally frank and starkly factual. There is such a thing as diplomacy.
There's no need to have something like 'no obese women' on profiles ... 'I prefer women no bigger than a size 14' would do the same job but in a more positive way.
Incidentally, I have no problem with the term BBW - and I don't think anyone is daft enough to think all big women are beautiful. These days it simply represents a body type - someone sees BBW and knows they won't be meeting a woman with Kate Moss proportions! The 'beautiful' bit is subjective - anyone with half a brain cell knows that.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"
But wouldn't that level of honesty be utterly refreshing.
Maybe to you (let me guess - you're height proportionate to weight - yes?) ... some would say it would be unecessarily tactless. People can express their preference without being so brutally frank and starkly factual. There is such a thing as diplomacy.
There's no need to have something like 'no obese women' on profiles ... 'I prefer women no bigger than a size 14' would do the same job but in a more positive way.
Incidentally, I have no problem with the term BBW - and I don't think anyone is daft enough to think all big women are beautiful. These days it simply represents a body type - someone sees BBW and knows they won't be meeting a woman with Kate Moss proportions! The 'beautiful' bit is subjective - anyone with half a brain cell knows that.
"
Before you have a go at my Master you will find that to those that decide to use that term, I would most definately fall into.. It was meant tongue in cheek and to show exactly what that term means to some..
I find it as offensive as someone calling me pretty for a big girl, or big girls always try harder... it annoys me.. as I am me, I have been a size 10 and a size 28.. and all sizes inbetween.
I have a photo on my profile so guys can see what they are getting.. So there is no need for. "I love BBW" in a message..
It is also those types of guys that when you turn them down will suddenly bring up your weight and say they would not have fucked you anyway..
Katie. x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"
But wouldn't that level of honesty be utterly refreshing.
Maybe to you (let me guess - you're height proportionate to weight - yes?) ... some would say it would be unecessarily tactless. People can express their preference without being so brutally frank and starkly factual. There is such a thing as diplomacy.
There's no need to have something like 'no obese women' on profiles ... 'I prefer women no bigger than a size 14' would do the same job but in a more positive way.
Incidentally, I have no problem with the term BBW - and I don't think anyone is daft enough to think all big women are beautiful. These days it simply represents a body type - someone sees BBW and knows they won't be meeting a woman with Kate Moss proportions! The 'beautiful' bit is subjective - anyone with half a brain cell knows that.
Before you have a go at my Master you will find that to those that decide to use that term, I would most definately fall into.. It was meant tongue in cheek and to show exactly what that term means to some..
I find it as offensive as someone calling me pretty for a big girl, or big girls always try harder... it annoys me.. as I am me, I have been a size 10 and a size 28.. and all sizes inbetween.
I have a photo on my profile so guys can see what they are getting.. So there is no need for. "I love BBW" in a message..
It is also those types of guys that when you turn them down will suddenly bring up your weight and say they would not have fucked you anyway..
Katie. x"
Read my post again ... carefully. It wasn't your master I had an issue with. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"
Read my post again ... carefully. It wasn't your master I had an issue with."
Then I do apologise.. :D but I do still stand by the rest of my comment.. that as girl that is currently at a size 18, I hate remarks about a guy loving that size.. :D
Katie.x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"
Read my post again ... carefully. It wasn't your master I had an issue with.
Then I do apologise.. :D but I do still stand by the rest of my comment.. that as girl that is currently at a size 18, I hate remarks about a guy loving that size.. :D
Katie.x"
Agreed. Most women would want to be found desirable by a potential playmate because of a variety of factors and not purely 'because' they were a size 18+ ... to suggest otherwise puts them into the category of 'fetish'- ie don't care what you look like or whether you're as thick as a barn door just as long as you've got oodles of flesh to play with.
I'm just saying that someone can express a preference when it comes to physical attributes of ANY kind, both for or against, in a tactful, sensitive way |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I see no difference in a guy saying "I like big women" than me saying "I like tall men" or "I like blokey blokes with shaved heads"... it doesn't mean I'll fuck anything tall with a shaved head. It just means it is an attribute which adds to the appeal.
I find it difficult to relate to women who take offence at a guy saying he's attracted to women with their body type... it's certainly better than them saying "your body is a complete turn off to me but if your wet and the lights are dim I'll give it a shot" |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Aah but most if not all of the guys on here ,, and i wonder how many of the ladies actually know what the term BBW REALLY stands for ,, dont ask cos i aint saying im sworn to secrecy but WE know dont we girls lol Oh isnt swinging such a secret society a lol
xxx
ps yes the BBW as most ladies are gorgeous in their own different ways but thats not the point is it !!! BUT BBW is a code for something else  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Im a size 24 and i dont have an issue with it. Being on a swinging site at least ive been upfront with my size
If id have said i was curvy, that would be the understatement of the century.
I dont mind BBW/SSBBW - at least men are expecting BIG women and you are most certainly sexy x masterq81"
ohhh I second that yummy.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Maybe it would be less offensive if they put "no fat women" ........ no I dont think we would like that either.....how about "obese women only" .....no that does not see to work, I think its just a nice way of saying "fatties welcome"
Masterq81 (Katie is going to slap me when she reads this )
But wouldn't that level of honesty be utterly refreshing.
Maybe to you (let me guess - you're height proportionate to weight - yes?) ... some would say it would be unecessarily tactless. People can express their preference without being so brutally frank and starkly factual. There is such a thing as diplomacy.
There's no need to have something like 'no obese women' on profiles ... 'I prefer women no bigger than a size 14' would do the same job but in a more positive way.
Incidentally, I have no problem with the term BBW - and I don't think anyone is daft enough to think all big women are beautiful. These days it simply represents a body type - someone sees BBW and knows they won't be meeting a woman with Kate Moss proportions! The 'beautiful' bit is subjective - anyone with half a brain cell knows that.
"
Very well said. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
i think its just a personal preference. its impossible for everyone to share the same opinion and views... joys of human nature
what a boring world we'd live in if we were all the same. Im celebrating my curves/wobbly bits
call them what you want but people just need to be honest with it |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"i think its just a personal preference. its impossible for everyone to share the same opinion and views... joys of human nature
what a boring world we'd live in if we were all the same. Im celebrating my curves/wobbly bits
call them what you want but people just need to be honest with it "
Can I celebrate them with you ? lol |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
