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"What exactly does a fabulous body mean? Unlike slim or average etc this term seems meaningless. "
why do people have a problem with this?? its very obvious that it means LARGE cos it goes up in scale!!!
i chose it cos i think i dont fit into the one below it - i dont think i a m fabulous, i do know i am very fat!!! |
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"What exactly does a fabulous body mean? Unlike slim or average etc this term seems meaningless.
why do people have a problem with this?? its very obvious that it means LARGE cos it goes up in scale!!!
i chose it cos i think i dont fit into the one below it - i dont think i a m fabulous, i do know i am very fat!!!"
Is fabulous larger than large? |
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"What exactly does a fabulous body mean? Unlike slim or average etc this term seems meaningless.
why do people have a problem with this?? its very obvious that it means LARGE cos it goes up in scale!!!
i chose it cos i think i dont fit into the one below it - i dont think i a m fabulous, i do know i am very fat!!!
Is fabulous larger than large? "
thats how i see it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I read as being extremely large, afterall it is at the end of the body type list and I presumed the site creators meant it as such, as a kinder way of saying obese but have seen it used by people with very toned athletic bodies |
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"I always thought the sizes were
curvy= fat
ample= very fat
large= vast
fabulous= elephant"
curvy is usually a size 12....if you think thats fat then you may upset a lot of people lol. I'm a larger lady but certainly not an elephant!! |
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"I always thought the sizes were
curvy= fat
ample= very fat
large= vast
fabulous= elephant"
I bet you were chuckling when you typed that weren't you? I think it was probably funnier in your head!  |
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"I always thought the sizes were
curvy= fat
ample= very fat
large= vast
fabulous= elephant
curvy is usually a size 12....if you think thats fat then you may upset a lot of people lol. I'm a larger lady but certainly not an elephant!!"
but then again typical of 'slim' people who only meet good-looking, slim types |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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In initiating this thread I was not wishing to be rude to anyone,just wondering what exactly it meant as the term seems to be adopted by people with very varying body types.If a profile has no photos it makes it difficult to decide whether to send a message if you are looking for a particular shape and size. |
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but then again typical of 'slim' people who only meet good-looking, slim types
Yeah. Odd that, isn't it?"
actually it is odd. of course everyone has preferences but why be so rude to people outside yours??
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What has the word fabulous got to do with size, and why are people associating it with very large women. To me fabulous is a word meaning incredible, astounding, or when people say, had a fab time, ie; marvellous Fabswingers for example,it means fabulous swingers ie; the best, incredible, astounding people, does not mean everyone on here is supersized swingers.
the word curvy does not relate to a size either. What I think of as a curvy woman is a woman with an hourglass figure, ie; boobs, usually big, noticable waist, ie; slimmer at that point, hips flared out again.
Just cos we're swingers doesnt mean we can change the meaning of words in the english dictionary.
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"I always thought the sizes were
curvy= fat
ample= very fat
large= vast
fabulous= elephant"
What a charmer - you must be beating queues of hopefuls off with an big stick after that delightful comment.
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By *obletonMan
over a year ago
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It's the people who rather optimistically describe themselves as "athlectic" that bring a wry smile to my face.
although I suppose few are reminiscent of cold war era east german shotputters ........ and that's just the women  |
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"I always thought the sizes were
curvy= fat
ample= very fat
large= vast
fabulous= elephant
curvy is usually a size 12....if you think thats fat then you may upset a lot of people lol. I'm a larger lady but certainly not an elephant!!"
is that a British standard or what! |
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"What has the word fabulous got to do with size, and why are people associating it with very large women. To me fabulous is a word meaning incredible, astounding, or when people say, had a fab time, ie; marvellous Fabswingers for example,it means fabulous swingers ie; the best, incredible, astounding people, does not mean everyone on here is supersized swingers.
the word curvy does not relate to a size either. What I think of as a curvy woman is a woman with an hourglass figure, ie; boobs, usually big, noticable waist, ie; slimmer at that point, hips flared out again.
Just cos we're swingers doesnt mean we can change the meaning of words in the english dictionary.
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u got my vote on this. well said. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find it strange that there are three words to describe someone with a bodyshape larger than average, four if you count "fabulous", yet only one to describe someone slimmer. I don't count athletic in the slimmer variety as it generally means slimmer round the waist, but muscular (ie bigger on chest,shoulders etc) when referring to blokes? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Surely it would be much less confusing to only use descriptions which actually mean something and create an image in someone's mind...what about:
skinny
slim
medium
large
very large
none of the above could be described as pejorative terms and so should not offend anyone whilst also providing helpful information about actual body size. |
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"Surely it would be much less confusing to only use descriptions which actually mean something and create an image in someone's mind...what about:
skinny
slim
medium
large
very large
none of the above could be described as pejorative terms and so should not offend anyone whilst also providing helpful information about actual body size."
Some peeps will perceive skinny as insulting...;) I am fecking FABULOUS..to me its not a size its an attitude...so I put curvy and adore that description....and whats peeps views on the term supercurvy...??kinda like it meself... |
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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago
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We've seen it to describe larger ladies, but more often than not, to describe women who really think they belong in Hollywood.
Those that believe they are so glamourous they should be mixing with the likes of Paris Hilton or Vikky Beckham, not with us average sized 'ordinary' people.
Once we see fabulous on a profile we pass it by, they are more often than not stuck up their own ringpiece. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What exactly does a fabulous body mean? Unlike slim or average etc this term seems meaningless. "
More often than not is means fat, sometimes extremely fat.
Of course if you are a gay male it means something *entirely* different.! |
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"I always thought the sizes were
curvy= fat
ample= very fat
large= vast
fabulous= elephant"
Hehe brilliant, though I think Curvy is very situational and can mean too many things. |
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"I would not have thought skinny was insulting...a lot of people would probably love to be called that! But ok how about 'slender'?"
LOL..skinny or slender..?? "a rose by any other name would smell as sweet"..but never in my life terms that have ever been applied to me...loving the term "Abundant"..as well.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Sure everyone has their own preferences (mine is for slim women) but it would be helpful if the terms used actually indicated that but terms like 'fabulous' and 'athletic' obscure rather than reveal. |
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Possibly it isn't MEANT to tell you any thing about their body type /BMI/ whatever.
If someone has the confidence/ delusional tendencies/affrontery/ high opinion of themselves to CALL THEMSELVES fabulous...
It tells you about the personality type not the physical specimen |
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"Possibly it isn't MEANT to tell you any thing about their body type /BMI/ whatever.
If someone has the confidence/ delusional tendencies/affrontery/ high opinion of themselves to CALL THEMSELVES fabulous...
It tells you about the personality type not the physical specimen"
Exactly!!!
Personally, I'd see it as delusional and avoid!
Just as I would the "good looking" people looking for other "good looking" people. |
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"Possibly it isn't MEANT to tell you any thing about their body type /BMI/ whatever.
If someone has the confidence/ delusional tendencies/affrontery/ high opinion of themselves to CALL THEMSELVES fabulous...
It tells you about the personality type not the physical specimen
Exactly!!!
Personally, I'd see it as delusional and avoid!
Just as I would the "good looking" people looking for other "good looking" people. "
Why is a person delusional for seeing themselves as fabulous or whatever else?Is it because we are judging them by yours or other people's standards.If they say fabulous on their profile and when we meet I don't find them attractive then it's up to me to make the next move.  |
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" I find it strange that there are three words to describe someone with a bodyshape larger than average, four if you count "fabulous", yet only one to describe someone slimmer. I don't count athletic in the slimmer variety as it generally means slimmer round the waist, but muscular (ie bigger on chest,shoulders etc) when referring to blokes?"
I changed my body type from average to athletic on advicement from a couple of ladies.
I don't consider 'fabulous' to be a very large lady, I think it somewhere between an over inflated ego and not wanting to admit they're a larger lady but not necessarily bigger than large. |
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"I always thought the sizes were
curvy= fat
ample= very fat
large= vast
fabulous= elephant"
weird how we all see things diffrent Curvey i am Big tits long legs nice round peach bum size14 ,,,ample is 14/16/18 Large 20 s AND ALL WOMAN BIG SMALL CAN BE FABULOUS. |
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Curvy is another one that we feel gets misused.
To us curvy means looking like the '50's screen idols, Sophia Loren, Jane Mansfield, Diana Dors and,of course Marilyn Monroe.
As for men describing themselves on profiles as "curvy".....whats all that about?
Conjours up a vision of Brian Blessed's head on Sophia Lorens body! 
XXXX |
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"Surely it would be much less confusing to only use descriptions which actually mean something and create an image in someone's mind...what about:
skinny
slim
medium
large
very large
none of the above could be described as pejorative terms and so should not offend anyone whilst also providing helpful information about actual body size."
I'm sorry but I have always seen the word skinny as offensive, any time I've observed it used it has been used in an insulting way, usually accompanied by the word bitch. I'm neither a bitch or skinny. |
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"Curvy is another one that we feel gets misused.
To us curvy means looking like the '50's screen idols, Sophia Loren, Jane Mansfield, Diana Dors and,of course Marilyn Monroe.
As for men describing themselves on profiles as "curvy".....whats all that about?
Conjours up a vision of Brian Blessed's head on Sophia Lorens body!
XXXX"
well i am curvy and like them ,, lol not really a good word for a man to use about himself .. your right. xx |
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I'm sorry but I have always seen the word skinny as offensive, any time I've observed it used it has been used in an insulting way, usually accompanied by the word bitch. I'm neither a bitch or skinny. "
And usually said, in an accusatory way, by "Fabulous" women! 
XXXX |
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"Possibly it isn't MEANT to tell you any thing about their body type /BMI/ whatever.
If someone has the confidence/ delusional tendencies/affrontery/ high opinion of themselves to CALL THEMSELVES fabulous...
It tells you about the personality type not the physical specimen
Exactly!!!
Personally, I'd see it as delusional and avoid!
Just as I would the "good looking" people looking for other "good looking" people.
Why is a person delusional for seeing themselves as fabulous or whatever else?Is it because we are judging them by yours or other people's standards.If they say fabulous on their profile and when we meet I don't find them attractive then it's up to me to make the next move. "
Because it's MY opinion!!! And has it's MY decision who I meet, if I think someone is delusional I leave them to it and avoid...if that's ok with you?!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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And do you know its not just the body if a person thinks yours fabulous ..... its about everything about you as a person too .. God i have meet woman out of the world but the biggset bitches going .. so i would never think just because thay looked good thay was fabULOUS no ...... |
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FIERY = Psychotic. Cancel a date with this woman and you’ll come home to find your car has been keyed and all the sleeves have been cut off your shirts.
VIVACIOUS = Aggressive. An opinionated finger-jabber. She’s got views on everything and she’s not afraid to ram them forcefully down your throat.
ARTISTIC = Drama Queen. Welcome to a world of slamming doors, smashed crockery and huffy silences.
LIVES LIFE TO THE FULL = Alcoholic. Likes to start the day with a couple of Bacardi Breezers. Happy Hour is her favourite time of day.
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AND FOR MEN:
FAIRLY ATTRACTIVE Gutchurningly hideous. When he's not even claiming to be attractive, it's time to worry. Andrew Lloyd Webber will look like a Calvin Klein model next to this guy. Meeting under the cover of darkness is advised
DISCRETION EXPECTED I'm married and don't want my wife to know.
DISCRETION OFFERED I don't care if you're married too.
HOPE YOU LIKE MY PICTURE Taken 10 years ago and bears no resemblance on now.
MODERN MAN We'll be splitting the bill 50/50. I go on three of these internet dates a week. So unless you're a sure thing you pay for your own dinner.
NOT JUST LOOKING FOR SEX I am just looking for sex but hope you won't see through my cunning reverse psychology.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I still think that most of the descriptions on here obscure rather than inform...I think slim,large and ample are useful...fabulous,curvy,average and athletic are misleading...some people think average is size 12 others think size 16.Some people think darts and beer drinking are athletic activity.
As we all largely choose our own body sizes by eating and excercise habits why should anyone be offended by neutral but meaningful descriptions? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"and does GSOH mean gives sex, oral,handjobs or good set of hooves
a lot think BBW is 'big buxom wanton' or beautiful Botticelli women...the connotations go on and on..lol
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When I first started using the internet, naturally all these abbreviations didn't mean anything to me. I came across a site that seemed to be full of big black women...naturally that's what I tought BBW stood for: big, black women!!! |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
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As for men describing themselves on profiles as "curvy".....whats all that about?
maybe its for men with bitch-tits?"
I thought it meant they curved to the left, right, up or down  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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As for men describing themselves on profiles as "curvy".....whats all that about?
maybe its for men with bitch-tits?
I thought it meant they curved to the left, right, up or down "
your right it could be thay have one like that , |
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"When I first started using the internet, naturally all these abbreviations didn't mean anything to me. I came across a site that seemed to be full of big black women...naturally that's what I tought BBW stood for: big, black women!!! "
Kate thought it meant Big Black Willy |
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"Sure everyone has their own preferences (mine is for slim women) but it would be helpful if the terms used actually indicated that but terms like 'fabulous' and 'athletic' obscure rather than reveal."
I think athletic is more cut and dried, it can generally be the sort of build expected on a sportsperson, generally muscular or toned (and no,I don't include darts as a sport for this purpose). Fabulous, however can mean either; Very big, cover model type, can't be bothered working out what bracket I'll fit into so I'll put this, or with regards to gay men absolutely anything whatsoever.... |
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It means exactly what it says. Anyone has a fabulous body no matter what size because it is whats attractive to the person that has said it. We may not think our bodies are fabulous but somewhere out there is someone that does  |
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As you read this, a link is hooking up to your computer and you are being tracked.
Within 5 minutes, I will know exactly where you are.
The ninjas come shortly afterwards.
Good luck.
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"It means exactly what it says. Anyone has a fabulous body no matter what size because it is whats attractive to the person that has said it. We may not think our bodies are fabulous but somewhere out there is someone that does "
Yes of course that is absolutely true
But at the same time No it's not
we all have our personal idea of "FABULOUS"
But at the same time we know that the the wider world the majority opinion "the man or woman in the street/on the Clapham Omnibus" has an idea of what is "fabulous"
For example thinking back to the much missed (in this house) "Strictly Come Dancing"...
The person in the street will think Natalie Lowe had a FABULOUS body and Anne Widdecombe er... DIDN'T
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Ive clearly stated on my profile im a dress size 24 so people if they have an issue can toodle along..
given the option id refer to myself as a HEFFER
Out of the standardisation i put a BBW and some men have said im just a BW,, a beautiful woman :D - some right charmers on here lol
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"It means exactly what it says. Anyone has a fabulous body no matter what size because it is whats attractive to the person that has said it. We may not think our bodies are fabulous but somewhere out there is someone that does
Yes of course that is absolutely true
But at the same time No it's not
we all have our personal idea of "FABULOUS"
But at the same time we know that the the wider world the majority opinion "the man or woman in the street/on the Clapham Omnibus" has an idea of what is "fabulous"
For example thinking back to the much missed (in this house) "Strictly Come Dancing"...
The person in the street will think Natalie Lowe had a FABULOUS body and Anne Widdecombe er... DIDN'T
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I cant comment as i never watch it and no idea who Natalie Lowe is but yes, i would agree in that situation ie television, slim (as i take it Natalie is) is always preferred, in the real world, its different. Perhaps the majority are embarrassed to choose Ann |
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"I always thought the sizes were
curvy= fat
ample= very fat
large= vast
fabulous= elephant
curvy is usually a size 12....if you think thats fat then you may upset a lot of people lol. I'm a larger lady but certainly not an elephant!!"
Curvy is a 12?!?!?!?!
Bloody hell, going to change mine to fabulous going by that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I always thought the sizes were
curvy= fat
ample= very fat
large= vast
fabulous= elephant
curvy is usually a size 12....if you think thats fat then you may upset a lot of people lol. I'm a larger lady but certainly not an elephant!!
Curvy is a 12?!?!?!?!
Bloody hell, going to change mine to fabulous going by that!"
lol its a long time since i was a size 12 and i was always called curvy.....now a size 22!!!! |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"What has the word fabulous got to do with size, and why are people associating it with very large women. To me fabulous is a word meaning incredible, astounding, or when people say, had a fab time, ie; marvellous Fabswingers for example,it means fabulous swingers ie; the best, incredible, astounding people, does not mean everyone on here is supersized swingers.
the word curvy does not relate to a size either. What I think of as a curvy woman is a woman with an hourglass figure, ie; boobs, usually big, noticable waist, ie; slimmer at that point, hips flared out again.
Just cos we're swingers doesnt mean we can change the meaning of words in the english dictionary.
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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago
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Put a pic of yourself up and problem solved, ppl then can make up their own minds as to what body shape you are lol
Ps sorry i dont understand what fab has got to do with size either |
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"What has the word fabulous got to do with size, and why are people associating it with very large women. To me fabulous is a word meaning incredible, astounding, or when people say, had a fab time, ie; marvellous Fabswingers for example,it means fabulous swingers ie; the best, incredible, astounding people, does not mean everyone on here is supersized swingers.
the word curvy does not relate to a size either. What I think of as a curvy woman is a woman with an hourglass figure, ie; boobs, usually big, noticable waist, ie; slimmer at that point, hips flared out again.
Just cos we're swingers doesnt mean we can change the meaning of words in the english dictionary.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Do you know over years meet some from the sites at clubs....... and thay look nothing like profiles ...... some look so tall and thay are 5ft nothing lol and thay use stuff to air brush pics do all sorts to them -selfs , lol weird but some who are clever on pc can do all sorts. just a shock when you meet some face to face at times. |
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"Do you know over years meet some from the sites at clubs....... and thay look nothing like profiles ...... some look so tall and thay are 5ft nothing lol and thay use stuff to air brush pics do all sorts to them -selfs , lol weird but some who are clever on pc can do all sorts. just a shock when you meet some face to face at times."
Can never understand why people would doctor their pics .
As the man said "Be sure your sin will find you out".
And it usually does!
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"Do you know over years meet some from the sites at clubs....... and thay look nothing like profiles ...... some look so tall and thay are 5ft nothing lol and thay use stuff to air brush pics do all sorts to them -selfs , lol weird but some who are clever on pc can do all sorts. just a shock when you meet some face to face at times."
Ive looked round socials for people before thinking they are not there. Then someone tells me who they are, can be a real eye opener. Unfortunatly i look just like my pictures and every i know recognizes me instantly. |
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"Do you know over years meet some from the sites at clubs....... and thay look nothing like profiles ...... some look so tall and thay are 5ft nothing lol and thay use stuff to air brush pics do all sorts to them -selfs , lol weird but some who are clever on pc can do all sorts. just a shock when you meet some face to face at times.
Can never understand why people would doctor their pics .
As the man said "Be sure your sin will find you out".
And it usually does!
XXXX"
Agree. How awful to see a look of disappointment on your meets face lol |
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"What exactly does a fabulous body mean? Unlike slim or average etc this term seems meaningless. "
Pretty obvious really as the sizes go up on a sliding scale. Use the word fabulous as what other phrase would you suggest? Some people still seem confused by it though.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we've met "attractive" people who'd look better if they wore a mask, we've met "athletic" people built like darts players and "tall" people who'd bump their arse stepping off the pavement.
There are plenty of people who are not what they say they are, or even what they portray themselves as
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You say you are size 10 but by which shop?, as they vary so much from store to store.
Also a size sixteen can look great on a lady who is 5ft 9 compared to one at 5ft 1.
I am a size 16 at the top and 12 at the bottom, so how the hell do I describe me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You say you are size 10 but by which shop?, as they vary so much from store to store.
Also a size sixteen can look great on a lady who is 5ft 9 compared to one at 5ft 1.
I am a size 16 at the top and 12 at the bottom, so how the hell do I describe me"
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"we've met "attractive" people who'd look better if they wore a mask, we've met "athletic" people built like darts players and "tall" people who'd bump their arse stepping off the pavement.
There are plenty of people who are not what they say they are, or even what they portray themselves as
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Gorgeous of Truro "
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We agree. fabulous is in the eye of the beholder. Personally we pass by any profiles where people describe themselves as "beautiful" or "stunning".
Far too vain for our liking. |
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"We agree. fabulous is in the eye of the beholder. Personally we pass by any profiles where people describe themselves as "beautiful" or "stunning".
Far too vain for our liking."
I guess we all make our own choices but seems a little negative to make such a snap judgement, after all when your partner has written a profile with you and describes you that way it doesnt mean you are vain. Also what happened to being confident? Seems unnecessary as it wasnt really related to the op. Have met many who are indeed as gorgeous as they say and couldnt be less stuck up! Your profile is an advert afterall. Notice your comment on another thread about peeps being nasty... |
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"We agree. fabulous is in the eye of the beholder. Personally we pass by any profiles where people describe themselves as "beautiful" or "stunning".
Far too vain for our liking.
I guess we all make our own choices but seems a little negative to make such a snap judgement, after all when your partner has written a profile with you and describes you that way it doesnt mean you are vain. Also what happened to being confident? Seems unnecessary as it wasnt really related to the op. Have met many who are indeed as gorgeous as they say and couldnt be less stuck up! Your profile is an advert afterall. Notice your comment on another thread about peeps being nasty... "
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"we've met "attractive" people who'd look better if they wore a mask, we've met "athletic" people built like darts players and "tall" people who'd bump their arse stepping off the pavement.
There are plenty of people who are not what they say they are, or even what they portray themselves as
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Gorgeous of Truro "
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"We agree. fabulous is in the eye of the beholder. Personally we pass by any profiles where people describe themselves as "beautiful" or "stunning".
Far too vain for our liking.
I guess we all make our own choices but seems a little negative to make such a snap judgement, after all when your partner has written a profile with you and describes you that way it doesnt mean you are vain. Also what happened to being confident? Seems unnecessary as it wasnt really related to the op. Have met many who are indeed as gorgeous as they say and couldnt be less stuck up! Your profile is an advert afterall. Notice your comment on another thread about peeps being nasty... "
I personally don't care what people decide to put on their profile, as they are advertising themselves. Profiles that purport to be "stunning" usually continue along the lines "no oompah loompas/fatties" please. You can be confident without insulting others but if it attracts like minded people it works for them, although I daresay it will also put others off.
As for "bbw" it's a label used to let others know you're bigger than normal. It's not one I like myself but smart enough to know the user doesn't necessarily see herself as "beautiful" in the same way as the "stunners" obviously do...but why do I think you know that?!! |
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"We agree. fabulous is in the eye of the beholder. Personally we pass by any profiles where people describe themselves as "beautiful" or "stunning".
Far too vain for our liking.
I guess we all make our own choices but seems a little negative to make such a snap judgement, after all when your partner has written a profile with you and describes you that way it doesnt mean you are vain. Also what happened to being confident? Seems unnecessary as it wasnt really related to the op. Have met many who are indeed as gorgeous as they say and couldnt be less stuck up! Your profile is an advert afterall. Notice your comment on another thread about peeps being nasty...
I personally don't care what people decide to put on their profile, as they are advertising themselves. Profiles that purport to be "stunning" usually continue along the lines "no oompah loompas/fatties" please. You can be confident without insulting others but if it attracts like minded people it works for them, although I daresay it will also put others off.
As for "bbw" it's a label used to let others know you're bigger than normal. It's not one I like myself but smart enough to know the user doesn't necessarily see herself as "beautiful" in the same way as the "stunners" obviously do...but why do I think you know that?!! "
Actually Im making the point that I dont know why any women have to bash other women about looks or confidence. Personally know women of all different shapes, sizes and looks. Would not be happy about critisising any women because of their confidence size or looks. Being self confident is a very attractive quality in itself no matter what your physical attributes are. I think judging people by very sketchy details is never a very sound judgement. I have never understood why women judge eachother in this way either side. Its not something I agree with and I find it ugly reading. |
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"You say you are size 10 but by which shop?, as they vary so much from store to store.
Also a size sixteen can look great on a lady who is 5ft 9 compared to one at 5ft 1.
I am a size 16 at the top and 12 at the bottom, so how the hell do I describe me
"fucktastic""
hahahaha thats brilliant - we need that as an option on the profiles!! |
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There seems to be some people spending an inordinate amount of time scrutinising profiles, commenting on how others describe themselves and taking umbridge with it!
Why?!!
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