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By *oxycouple28 OP   Couple  over a year ago

bexley

Hi all,

We are taking a bit of an enforced break at the moment due to Candy being most of the way through pregnancy. We keep finding ourselves sitting in at the weekend, stuck for thing to do.

So it begs the questions, WHAT THE HELL DO VANILLA PEOPLE DO AT THE WEEKENDS?!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We spend our time on the weekends travelling the country, visiting English heritage and national trust sites. We try to get meets to fit in with our other plans. If we didn't meet, I imagine our vanilla life would be the same, but without the added meets.

-Courtney

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By *LCCCouple  over a year ago

Cambridge


"We spend our time on the weekends travelling the country, visiting English heritage and national trust sites. We try to get meets to fit in with our other plans. If we didn't meet, I imagine our vanilla life would be the same, but without the added meets.

-Courtney"

Ah bless, it must be nice for you being in a country with some history and heritage

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By *enard ArgenteMan  over a year ago

London and France

The same things that we all do, when we are not fucking?

That's a bit like train spotters saying

"'What do non-trainspotters do all weekend ?

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By *epper123Woman  over a year ago

London

How interesting, as I don't swing too much and would never want it to take over my life .... movies, meal, pub (I don't drink, but still fun), go out with friends, go out with the kids, museums, art galleries, games night ... monopoly and cards, just chill, go for a walk, I went to the gym until I was eight and a half months pregnant, or just stay home and cook together, rest up after work .... make the most of peace and quiet and enjoy each other.

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"Hi all,

We are taking a bit of an enforced break at the moment due to Candy being most of the way through pregnancy. We keep finding ourselves sitting in at the weekend, stuck for thing to do.

So it begs the questions, WHAT THE HELL DO VANILLA PEOPLE DO AT THE WEEKENDS?!!"

All the same stuff swingers do. Go shopping, meet their friends, defrost the fridge.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I would be at the gym or watching tv lol.

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By *oxycouple28 OP   Couple  over a year ago

bexley

We have been doing a lot of that sort of stuff Pepper, we went swimming earlier today (Candy is a long distance swimmer and does a lot of events). For us its the weekend evenings that seem to be a bit lacking.

Although we do seem to suffer a lot at this time of year anyway, we are naturally summer people and this weather is killing us!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Shop, drink, go on a adventure somewhere decorate lol erm read a book?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

They have a large collection of MB Games.

Operation, anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We spend our time on the weekends travelling the country, visiting English heritage and national trust sites. We try to get meets to fit in with our other plans. If we didn't meet, I imagine our vanilla life would be the same, but without the added meets.

-Courtney

Ah bless, it must be nice for you being in a country with some history and heritage "

I would argue, but it's true.

-Courtney

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By *oxycouple28 OP   Couple  over a year ago

bexley


"We spend our time on the weekends travelling the country, visiting English heritage and national trust sites. We try to get meets to fit in with our other plans. If we didn't meet, I imagine our vanilla life would be the same, but without the added meets.

-Courtney

Ah bless, it must be nice for you being in a country with some history and heritage

I would argue, but it's true.

-Courtney"

Funnily enough we were talking about going to Leeds Castle tomorrow. I (Duke) am into my photography and think it would be cool go wander the garden and explore

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By *layfullsamMan  over a year ago

Solihull

pubs, beer, curry, football and if time allows I try to get a meet on fab

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We spend our time on the weekends travelling the country, visiting English heritage and national trust sites. We try to get meets to fit in with our other plans. If we didn't meet, I imagine our vanilla life would be the same, but without the added meets.

-Courtney

Ah bless, it must be nice for you being in a country with some history and heritage

I would argue, but it's true.

-Courtney"

I think there's a lot of heritage in the US too. It's just a bit newer than ours!

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By *awandOrderCouple  over a year ago

SW London

I play loads of Facebook games, sadly ... and even worse, catch up with work ... new year resolution to not do that so much. Mr watches movies or looks at porn .... trying not to spend so much time in the kitchen as we are both putting on too much weight. And there is always the housework.

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By *oxycouple28 OP   Couple  over a year ago

bexley


"I play loads of Facebook games, sadly ... and even worse, catch up with work ... new year resolution to not do that so much. Mr watches movies or looks at porn .... trying not to spend so much time in the kitchen as we are both putting on too much weight. And there is always the housework. "

Our kitchen is horrid. We can't stand it. This summer we are having our kitchen and diner knocked into one and made awesome.

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan  over a year ago

London


"Hi all,

We are taking a bit of an enforced break at the moment due to Candy being most of the way through pregnancy. We keep finding ourselves sitting in at the weekend, stuck for thing to do.

So it begs the questions, WHAT THE HELL DO VANILLA PEOPLE DO AT THE WEEKENDS?!!

All the same stuff swingers do. Go shopping, meet their friends, defrost the fridge."

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By *awandOrderCouple  over a year ago

SW London


"Hi all,

We are taking a bit of an enforced break at the moment due to Candy being most of the way through pregnancy. We keep finding ourselves sitting in at the weekend, stuck for thing to do.

So it begs the questions, WHAT THE HELL DO VANILLA PEOPLE DO AT THE WEEKENDS?!!

All the same stuff swingers do. Go shopping, meet their friends, defrost the fridge.

"

I do think its a bit weird to divide people into swingers and vanilla people. I mean is anyone really swingers all the time? Vanilla all the time? Doesn't everyone have a vanilla life too?

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By *iewMan  over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

Have better sex lives than many swingers

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi all,

We are taking a bit of an enforced break at the moment due to Candy being most of the way through pregnancy. We keep finding ourselves sitting in at the weekend, stuck for thing to do.

So it begs the questions, WHAT THE HELL DO VANILLA PEOPLE DO AT THE WEEKENDS?!!

All the same stuff swingers do. Go shopping, meet their friends, defrost the fridge.

I do think its a bit weird to divide people into swingers and vanilla people. I mean is anyone really swingers all the time? Vanilla all the time? Doesn't everyone have a vanilla life too?"

They do what we do..

They eat sleep fuck and work I imagine..

One persons vanilla is like one persons kink, never the same

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi all,

We are taking a bit of an enforced break at the moment due to Candy being most of the way through pregnancy. We keep finding ourselves sitting in at the weekend, stuck for thing to do.

So it begs the questions, WHAT THE HELL DO VANILLA PEOPLE DO AT THE WEEKENDS?!!

All the same stuff swingers do. Go shopping, meet their friends, defrost the fridge.

I do think its a bit weird to divide people into swingers and vanilla people. I mean is anyone really swingers all the time? Vanilla all the time? Doesn't everyone have a vanilla life too?"

Or just a life.

Everyone's different, but we are all the same.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple  over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Have better sex lives than many swingers "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Have better sex lives than many swingers "

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By *oxycouple28 OP   Couple  over a year ago

bexley


"

I do think its a bit weird to divide people into swingers and vanilla people. I mean is anyone really swingers all the time? Vanilla all the time? Doesn't everyone have a vanilla life too?"

Slightly off topic, but I would say its normal to divide us up... after all, a swinger can have a vanilla side, but I dont see that a vanilla person has a swinger side. Unless they are cheating/have an open relationship?

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By *awandOrderCouple  over a year ago

SW London


"

I do think its a bit weird to divide people into swingers and vanilla people. I mean is anyone really swingers all the time? Vanilla all the time? Doesn't everyone have a vanilla life too?

Slightly off topic, but I would say its normal to divide us up... after all, a swinger can have a vanilla side, but I dont see that a vanilla person has a swinger side. Unless they are cheating/have an open relationship?"

I guess I had this before, when some woman berated us for having a bi lifestyle ... I was unsure as to what that was as my vanilla life takes priority, my job, my kids, my partner as my partner (we also swing but only occasionally). I don't see us as that different from anyone else out there to be honest .... I don't see us as a species apart. I guess that is what meant....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi all,

We are taking a bit of an enforced break at the moment due to Candy being most of the way through pregnancy. We keep finding ourselves sitting in at the weekend, stuck for thing to do.

So it begs the questions, WHAT THE HELL DO VANILLA PEOPLE DO AT THE WEEKENDS?!!"

Take stuff to the dump

Go to garden centres

Go to b and q

Look at caravans

Argue

Be sad

Gardening

Wash car

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By *awandOrderCouple  over a year ago

SW London


"Hi all,

We are taking a bit of an enforced break at the moment due to Candy being most of the way through pregnancy. We keep finding ourselves sitting in at the weekend, stuck for thing to do.

So it begs the questions, WHAT THE HELL DO VANILLA PEOPLE DO AT THE WEEKENDS?!!

Take stuff to the dump

Go to garden centres

Go to b and q

Look at caravans

Argue

Be sad

Gardening

Wash car

"

How about decorating and lying in bed. when I was single, I used to laze around in bed a lot .... now we do

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