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By *asker10 OP Man
over a year ago
london |
So nice and simply, what area of; or certain piece of kit really pushes your buttons like no other? Predominantly a question for kit and accessories rather that furniture.
Out for a shop today and intrigued to hear people's individual preferences. Going for an 'o' piece leather gag to switch up with a ball gag, what a lucky girl she is.  |
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over a year ago
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"So nice and simply, what area of; or certain piece of kit really pushes your buttons like no other? Predominantly a question for kit and accessories rather that furniture.
Out for a shop today and intrigued to hear people's individual preferences. Going for an 'o' piece leather gag to switch up with a ball gag, what a lucky girl she is. "
Not sure where you are gpoing today, but it;s london Alternative Market tomorrow and they always have some fantastic kit for sale |
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
North Cambs |
"So nice and simply, what area of; or certain piece of kit really pushes your buttons like no other? Predominantly a question for kit and accessories rather that furniture.
Out for a shop today and intrigued to hear people's individual preferences. Going for an 'o' piece leather gag to switch up with a ball gag, what a lucky girl she is. "
If you are going for an O-ring gag, you may encounter some problems (depending on how you intend to use it). I had to return one as it was far too small to fit my cock through and yet, so far the women who have tried to use the one I replaced it with (which is big enough), have not been able to open their mouths wide enough to insert it... 
I need to encounter some women with bigger mouths....  |
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By *asker10 OP Man
over a year ago
london |
"So nice and simply, what area of; or certain piece of kit really pushes your buttons like no other? Predominantly a question for kit and accessories rather that furniture.
Out for a shop today and intrigued to hear people's individual preferences. Going for an 'o' piece leather gag to switch up with a ball gag, what a lucky girl she is.
Not sure where you are gpoing today, but it;s london Alternative Market tomorrow and they always have some fantastic kit for sale"
Sounds interesting, could head there tomorrow too. You been before? Any good? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So nice and simply, what area of; or certain piece of kit really pushes your buttons like no other? Predominantly a question for kit and accessories rather that furniture.
Out for a shop today and intrigued to hear people's individual preferences. Going for an 'o' piece leather gag to switch up with a ball gag, what a lucky girl she is.
Not sure where you are gpoing today, but it;s london Alternative Market tomorrow and they always have some fantastic kit for sale
Sounds interesting, could head there tomorrow too. You been before? Any good? "
LAM is excellent. Everything there will be far higher quality and far better value than you'll find on the high street |
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By *asker10 OP Man
over a year ago
london |
"So nice and simply, what area of; or certain piece of kit really pushes your buttons like no other? Predominantly a question for kit and accessories rather that furniture.
Out for a shop today and intrigued to hear people's individual preferences. Going for an 'o' piece leather gag to switch up with a ball gag, what a lucky girl she is.
If you are going for an O-ring gag, you may encounter some problems (depending on how you intend to use it). I had to return one as it was far too small to fit my cock through and yet, so far the women who have tried to use the one I replaced it with (which is big enough), have not been able to open their mouths wide enough to insert it...
I need to encounter some women with bigger mouths.... "
Ha ha. They don't make it easy. Will ask to go for a sizing once in there! Cheers for the heads up.
Straight as, but while I'm here, kudos to your training. Looking strong dude. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And my favorite kit are my made to order (and not quite unique but pretty rare) pair of barbed wire floggers with nunchuka handles "
I assume they're complete show peices?
Barbed wire flogging would surely do some pretty massive flesh removal
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And my favorite kit are my made to order (and not quite unique but pretty rare) pair of barbed wire floggers with nunchuka handles
I assume they're complete show peices?
Barbed wire flogging would surely do some pretty massive flesh removal
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Sorry, I missed the word faux from the description. If you google floffermeister you will see similar there (it is the handles that are unusual), the barbed knots are PVC, they tend to leave interesting patterns rather than remove skin
They are very showy but also completely usable |
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"And my favorite kit are my made to order (and not quite unique but pretty rare) pair of barbed wire floggers with nunchuka handles
I assume they're complete show peices?
Barbed wire flogging would surely do some pretty massive flesh removal
Sorry, I missed the word faux from the description. If you google floffermeister you will see similar there (it is the handles that are unusual), the barbed knots are PVC, they tend to leave interesting patterns rather than remove skin
They are very showy but also completely usable"
Ahh that makes more sense.
Everyone is way to into floggers and wide paddles these days what ever happened to single tailed whips |
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Oh so much I have already, estim and violet wand are just fab toys, impact toys got them in abundance, gags and restraints they are already to over kill.
New things I would like, hmmm I would love an inflatable latex hood as I think that would be a real mind fuck, I am also a little facinated by large deep enemas at the moment. As as furniture I would just love to have the space for a vintage dentist chair, I could see much fun with that.
I would back up the previous poster on recomending LAM in London and the BBB (3rd Sunday of the month) in Birmingham as great events to buy toys I used to do LAM quite often.
I shouldn't leave out LFF (london fetish fair) second Sunday in the month and SWAMP in Bristol but I haven't been to either in years. |
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Everyone is way to into floggers and wide paddles these days what ever happened to single tailed whips"
Because single tails take a great deal of skill and practice to use well without doing significant physical harm and with the massive influx of people who see BDSM as something trendy they can't be arsed to take the time and to practice how to use them in a safe sane way. I don't know if they still meet up on Clifton Downs in Bristol to teach how to use single tails but I went a couple of times and it was a great crack |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So nice and simply, what area of; or certain piece of kit really pushes your buttons like no other? Predominantly a question for kit and accessories rather that furniture.
Out for a shop today and intrigued to hear people's individual preferences. Going for an 'o' piece leather gag to switch up with a ball gag, what a lucky girl she is.
Not sure where you are gpoing today, but it;s london Alternative Market tomorrow and they always have some fantastic kit for sale
Sounds interesting, could head there tomorrow too. You been before? Any good?
LAM is excellent. Everything there will be far higher quality and far better value than you'll find on the high street"
Second the vote for LAM, all this stall holders will talk you through how best to use your kit pieces as well! My fave bits I got from there, and they were an animal tail butt plug (which has been lost in the great yonder, which is a shame because it was purple) and my paddle, and flogger. I also have some cool nails that slide over the top of my fingers which make for good sensation play. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And my favorite kit are my made to order (and not quite unique but pretty rare) pair of barbed wire floggers with nunchuka handles
I assume they're complete show peices?
Barbed wire flogging would surely do some pretty massive flesh removal
Sorry, I missed the word faux from the description. If you google floffermeister you will see similar there (it is the handles that are unusual), the barbed knots are PVC, they tend to leave interesting patterns rather than remove skin
They are very showy but also completely usable
Ahh that makes more sense.
Everyone is way to into floggers and wide paddles these days what ever happened to single tailed whips"
Floggers are cheap and accesible. A decent whip isn't cheap, you need an open space to use it, someone to teach you how to use it and the potential to injure someone is far, far higher than with floggers. Non of that appeals to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Everyone is way to into floggers and wide paddles these days what ever happened to single tailed whips
Because single tails take a great deal of skill and practice to use well without doing significant physical harm and with the massive influx of people who see BDSM as something trendy they can't be arsed to take the time and to practice how to use them in a safe sane way. I don't know if they still meet up on Clifton Downs in Bristol to teach how to use single tails but I went a couple of times and it was a great crack "
The pain from them is far to disperse and "muddy/cloudy" can't focus and enjoy it like a clean single infliction |
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" I also have some cool nails that slide over the top of my fingers which make for good sensation play. "
If they are the metal ones, try using the violet wand with a secondary contacts, then you will see sparks fly. Great fun! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A little flogger named "the little bastard" it doesn't look much but packs a hell of a sting, I love using it but my partner now regrets wanting to buy it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" I also have some cool nails that slide over the top of my fingers which make for good sensation play.
If they are the metal ones, try using the violet wand with a secondary contacts, then you will see sparks fly. Great fun! "
That is just lovely  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My pair of kabunza leather nunchaka floggers, love them. Followed by my handtreated rope.
I really like LAM and may be there tomorrow, but the Birmingham Bizarre Bazaar knocks the spots of it. Three floors of fetish fun and a good cafe for the full English pick me up for the day after the night before, as there are a host of events the saturday night.
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you) |
I love my pinwheel and anal hook - my lead is run through the loop so I am collared to it and can't move 
I am thinking I need to get a violet wand because I do love the pain |
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I am thinking I need to get a violet wand because I do love the pain "
If your looking at pain you would be much better off going down the Estim route, the violet wand is more of a sensual toy, unless you have a low pain threshold!
Use estim combined with say a pin wheel across the nerve endings while restrained and you will have a whole new appreciation of pain |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you) |
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I am thinking I need to get a violet wand because I do love the pain
If your looking at pain you would be much better off going down the Estim route, the violet wand is more of a sensual toy, unless you have a low pain threshold!
Use estim combined with say a pin wheel across the nerve endings while restrained and you will have a whole new appreciation of pain "
I have a really high pain threshold so I will look into an Estim, thank you |
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Length of black rope is the most useful object- best when combined with a kinky mind
Half of my play kit consisted of repurposed items including clothes pegs and small latching or sprung toolbox clips, some short lengths of rope with various end mods for different stim effects, and a bunch of 18" long cable ties, secured at the block end which allow everything from a scratchy tickle to a pretty full on whipping |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I shouldn't leave out LFF (london fetish fair) second Sunday in the month "
They are currently struggling to find a venue so not running. Normal service in May apparently |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I am thinking I need to get a violet wand because I do love the pain
If your looking at pain you would be much better off going down the Estim route, the violet wand is more of a sensual toy, unless you have a low pain threshold!
Use estim combined with say a pin wheel across the nerve endings while restrained and you will have a whole new appreciation of pain "
The violet wand can be very painful with the right attachments
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My restraints, pinwheel, rope (always handy)
Heavy suede flogger is a great addition.
Got a heavy wood bat with silicone teeth on it....provide nice marks and a decent sting
Actually, I love it all!!
Especially my ball gag!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like my Swede whip being used on me by my Dom.
When I'm in mistress mode I like to use my sounds and my horse riding crop. And cord to tie those cock and balls and my foot to kick. need to stop now making me wet  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Daddys victor tella singletail whip would be my favourite, though the rounders bat with studs would be a close second. Ones so thuddy and the other so stingy"
OOOh you have a Daddy, I have a Daddy Dom. NO not age play before the Fab police start. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Anything that produces singular sharp clean pain.
Cant stand floggers and paddles.
I know they exist because they let people deal out pain without really causing any real damage cause they spread the force out so much, but because of thag it doesnt register as proper pain just irritation.
Muddy blurred and irritating and just fristrates me.
Cleanest and most pleasurable pain is a very sharp cutting impliment but obviously thats out cause it's way too much hassle, messy, dressing wounds scaring etc.
Those thin impact canes seem decent though.
But id love to try a well wielded single strand whip see how that works.
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"Daddys victor tella singletail whip would be my favourite, though the rounders bat with studs would be a close second. Ones so thuddy and the other so stingy
OOOh you have a Daddy, I have a Daddy Dom. NO not age play before the Fab police start. "
My Daddy is a Daddy Dom too and no we don't do the age play bit either really |
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"Anything that produces singular sharp clean pain.
Cant stand floggers and paddles.
I know they exist because they let people deal out pain without really causing any real damage cause they spread the force out so much, but because of thag it doesnt register as proper pain just irritation.
Muddy blurred and irritating and just fristrates me.
Cleanest and most pleasurable pain is a very sharp cutting impliment but obviously thats out cause it's way too much hassle, messy, dressing wounds scaring etc.
Those thin impact canes seem decent though.
But id love to try a well wielded single strand whip see how that works.
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Singletails are great for the sort of stingy pain you talk about, I adore them. |
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"And my favorite kit are my made to order (and not quite unique but pretty rare) pair of barbed wire floggers with nunchuka handles
I assume they're complete show peices?
Barbed wire flogging would surely do some pretty massive flesh removal
Sorry, I missed the word faux from the description. If you google floffermeister you will see similar there (it is the handles that are unusual), the barbed knots are PVC, they tend to leave interesting patterns rather than remove skin
They are very showy but also completely usable
Ahh that makes more sense.
Everyone is way to into floggers and wide paddles these days what ever happened to single tailed whips
Floggers are cheap and accesible. A decent whip isn't cheap, you need an open space to use it, someone to teach you how to use it and the potential to injure someone is far, far higher than with floggers. Non of that appeals to me"
But when you find someone who knows how to use them they are an utter delight. We got ours from the states and its bliss |
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