Ahh the old what is a cuckold question, there are probably as many answers to that as there are swingers ,,,, the most common would be hotwifing , where the female is in control, she decides on the people, the sex and involvement of her other half ,maybe the denial of the male halfs orgasm too. Chastity cages are often involved and lots of fun |
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over a year ago
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"Ahh the old what is a cuckold question, there are probably as many answers to that as there are swingers ,,,, the most common would be hotwifing , where the female is in control, she decides on the people, the sex and involvement of her other half ,maybe the denial of the male halfs orgasm too. Chastity cages are often involved and lots of fun "
Our take on hot wife is different. We both chose together and it's totally mutual. I get to see her play and she enjoys me watching.
As far as cuckold goes my understanding is that it's more of a dominance by the female and her bull over the cuckold. The cuck has no say and has to behave as directed which may include belittling verbal abuse locked in a cage and 'forced' to watch etc.
We much prefer the hot wife scenario and there is never ever any kind of dominance it's all totally mutual. |
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Our take on hot wife is different. We both chose together and it's totally mutual. I get to see her play and she enjoys me watching.
As far as cuckold goes my understanding is that it's more of a dominance by the female and her bull over the cuckold. The cuck has no say and has to behave as directed which may include belittling verbal abuse locked in a cage and 'forced' to watch etc.
We much prefer the hot wife scenario and there is never ever any kind of dominance it's all totally mutual. "
See everybody's idea of of the cuckold scene is different  that's where talking to the cuck couple is the key , you get to find out what their idea is and blend it with your own personally we avoid the term cuckold on our profile as we don't do the whole dominance-degradation from a bull or someone who thinks they are the "Dom". |
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Our take on hot wife is different. We both chose together and it's totally mutual. I get to see her play and she enjoys me watching.
As far as cuckold goes my understanding is that it's more of a dominance by the female and her bull over the cuckold. The cuck has no say and has to behave as directed which may include belittling verbal abuse locked in a cage and 'forced' to watch etc.
We much prefer the hot wife scenario and there is never ever any kind of dominance it's all totally mutual.
See everybody's idea of of the cuckold scene is different that's where talking to the cuck couple is the key , you get to find out what their idea is and blend it with your own personally we avoid the term cuckold on our profile as we don't do the whole dominance-degradation from a bull or someone who thinks they are the "Dom". "
That is the beauty of this wonderful scenario, so many different avenues to explore. As a bull, I have played many different levels, from mild to extreme but each and every one is highly arousing for all involved. The key for me, talking and getting to know the hotwife/cuckold couple. It's not about getting them into bed and fucking the wife. Mental stimulation as well as physical. |
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It is as diverse as that really, from sharing your hotwife with another man to watching with a guy or bull etc. The key is it's what you all agree on and are comfortable with, you can be as mild or as severe as you all wish I suppose so long as the dynamic is right  |
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"It is as diverse as that really, from sharing your hotwife with another man to watching with a guy or bull etc. The key is it's what you all agree on and are comfortable with, you can be as mild or as severe as you all wish I suppose so long as the dynamic is right "
What a great summary |
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"Ahh the old what is a cuckold question, there are probably as many answers to that as there are swingers ,,,, the most common would be hotwifing , where the female is in control, she decides on the people, the sex and involvement of her other half ,maybe the denial of the male halfs orgasm too. Chastity cages are often involved and lots of fun
Our take on hot wife is different. We both chose together and it's totally mutual. I get to see her play and she enjoys me watching.
As far as cuckold goes my understanding is that it's more of a dominance by the female and her bull over the cuckold. The cuck has no say and has to behave as directed which may include belittling verbal abuse locked in a cage and 'forced' to watch etc.
We much prefer the hot wife scenario and there is never ever any kind of dominance it's all totally mutual. "
We totally agree with this. Hotwife scenario is great. |
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I tend to call my self the 3rd member in a relationship. I hate the term Bull,
I usually meet a couple on neutral ground for a chat and a drink. I get to know a bit about them and whether it is a Hot Wife or Cuckold scenario they are into.
Ground rules are then set before we take it any further.
If it is a cuckold relationship, this initial meeting is usually the last time I actually speak with the male unless in a vanilla environment, whereas a Hot Wife scenario I tend to communicate primarily through the male.
In a Hot Wife scenario I am a guest and my role is as a guest for her gratification
In a cuckold I am also a guest within the relationship but I can control what happens also to the gratification of the lady.
99.9% of the time the male is in attendance although in a cuckold my ultimate goal is to have her to myself away from her cuck for a few hours |
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"I tend to call my self the 3rd member in a relationship. I hate the term Bull,
I usually meet a couple on neutral ground for a chat and a drink. I get to know a bit about them and whether it is a Hot Wife or Cuckold scenario they are into.
Ground rules are then set before we take it any further.
If it is a cuckold relationship, this initial meeting is usually the last time I actually speak with the male unless in a vanilla environment, whereas a Hot Wife scenario I tend to communicate primarily through the male.
In a Hot Wife scenario I am a guest and my role is as a guest for her gratification
In a cuckold I am also a guest within the relationship but I can control what happens also to the gratification of the lady.
99.9% of the time the male is in attendance although in a cuckold my ultimate goal is to have her to myself away from her cuck for a few hours "
So again a difference here because our idea of a hot wife is that they can and will go out alone and if they do pull then up to them when they come back whereas a cuckold majority of the time she's gonna fuck in front of you. That might just be us but yeah |
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"Ahh the old what is a cuckold question, there are probably as many answers to that as there are swingers ,,,, the most common would be hotwifing , where the female is in control, she decides on the people, the sex and involvement of her other half ,maybe the denial of the male halfs orgasm too. Chastity cages are often involved and lots of fun
Our take on hot wife is different. We both chose together and it's totally mutual. I get to see her play and she enjoys me watching.
As far as cuckold goes my understanding is that it's more of a dominance by the female and her bull over the cuckold. The cuck has no say and has to behave as directed which may include belittling verbal abuse locked in a cage and 'forced' to watch etc.
We much prefer the hot wife scenario and there is never ever any kind of dominance it's all totally mutual. "
We would call that simply voyeurism.
But as has been said everyone has a different interpretation. |
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"I tend to call my self the 3rd member in a relationship. I hate the term Bull,
I usually meet a couple on neutral ground for a chat and a drink. I get to know a bit about them and whether it is a Hot Wife or Cuckold scenario they are into.
Ground rules are then set before we take it any further.
If it is a cuckold relationship, this initial meeting is usually the last time I actually speak with the male unless in a vanilla environment, whereas a Hot Wife scenario I tend to communicate primarily through the male.
In a Hot Wife scenario I am a guest and my role is as a guest for her gratification
In a cuckold I am also a guest within the relationship but I can control what happens also to the gratification of the lady.
99.9% of the time the male is in attendance although in a cuckold my ultimate goal is to have her to myself away from her cuck for a few hours
So again a difference here because our idea of a hot wife is that they can and will go out alone and if they do pull then up to them when they come back whereas a cuckold majority of the time she's gonna fuck in front of you. That might just be us but yeah"
This version is my ultimate goal. Whatever way you wish to pigeon hole it.
To have a cuckold wife or hot wife dropped off at my place has always been my ultimate end game,
Difference being in a cuckold relationship it takes time that you have to work for whereas in a hot wife scenario this could be your first date |
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