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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

hi all ,im soooooo nervous of seeing my partner with another guy having sex but excites me , we both want it but im worried about our relationship and feelings after . any advice people x

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By *laything1966Man over a year ago

Birmingham

Go for it you will have so much fun and remember it's the same with all swinging it's you who he love's and is going home with

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you've any doubts don't do it, not worth buggering up your relationship. xx

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By *unterslickCouple over a year ago

tullamore

try soft swap first,and see how you feel and work from there and always make sure that you are together or at least can see each other

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

Watching someone I fuck, fuck someone else, just makes me want to fuck them more!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You need to be sure it's what you want.

Indecision can lead to mistrust and that can mean trouble.

If in doubt, don't do it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

no one can be sure when they first start out in this how they will really feel

the only thing you can agree on is how you will behave and handle this

can i suggest if your really worried that you both go to a club

you can have fun there with each other and then watch other people - it may be a way of stepping slowly into this and give you a chance to discuss in more detail how you both feel

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"hi all ,im soooooo nervous of seeing my partner with another guy having sex but excites me , we both want it but im worried about our relationship and feelings after . any advice people x"

I have assumed that this question is a little redundant, hasn't this already happened on the 10 Jan ?

I have also assumed that this is the male asking the question, "with another guy"?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think the best thing is discuss it with your other half, if he agrees, maybe go to a club night and see how you feel if he kisses someone else, and how he feels about you watching him, you can take it slow from there.

If he does not want to do this, respect his wish.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Confused - are you a couple or a single?

Are you looking to watch your male partner playing with another bloke? Or are you the bloke writing on a woman's profile?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"hi all ,im soooooo nervous of seeing my partner with another guy having sex but excites me , we both want it but im worried about our relationship and feelings after . any advice people x"

If you have to post a question like this then no don't do it!! As has been said any doubts and it will ruin your relationship, fantasy aint always as good as reality

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Confused - are you a couple or a single?

Are you looking to watch your male partner playing with another bloke? Or are you the bloke writing on a woman's profile?"

Actually reading on yeah! who the hell is it? really confusing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"hi all ,im soooooo nervous of seeing my partner with another guy having sex but excites me , we both want it but im worried about our relationship and feelings after . any advice people x"
if your nervous you really should think about this and chat about how you feel together .... I find if your open about your feeling to each other it help and if strong together you can over come most things.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just checked profile too think its a fake and although they say they bi curious the verification says straight weird.

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By *ruitWoman over a year ago

near kings lynn

Its a couple with a female profile but talking about them both.

To the OP. Delete your profile and change it to a couple one as people like honesty in my opinion. If your a couple have a couple profile if your a single have a single profile!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just make sure you are doing it or allowing something to happen for the the right reasons.

Dont just do things because you think it will make your partner happy or allowing him to do things that you are not comfortable with.

I think the other person will have more respect if you are honest and open about any reservations you have.

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