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Guys, help me open my wife to the idea of swinging
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 , when she is not afraid of making noise (i.e hotel) she really lets go and orgasm's like a train, pushing her pussy hard up and down in your face (she loves being licked) and holding your head tight against it when she grinds your face into her pussy and bucks and arches when she comes - I love watching / feeling her. Dress size 14 (when I say she is tall, she is tall!) Size c -d boobs, a gorgeuos body, greatkisser, softest lips, sweetest tasting pussy and extreemely sensitive nipples, - she did once confess during sex that she would like a mouth lcling her pussy and one licking her nipples -my goodness mew she would come like a juggernaut. She gives head to die for, loves to swallow, sexy, pretty eyes, and a great wanking technique - sorry girls most women I have been with are not so good. She definitly has an inner slut, a few glasses of wine and it begins to come out. To see her dressed in a bodystocking, I tell you I did not loose me erection all night. Dressed in an evening / cocktail dress - she looks like the sort of woman that most
vanilla wives would be worried about, cauase the hubby would be mentally undressing her!
Anyway, guys, contact me if you think you can help, you need to be VERY good looking, muscled etc - I am certainly not, but I am the hubby and I might be wrong but she will want a bit of totty so to speak. Hence - photos a must!Can sort pictures after chatting iif you like, not a male picture collector don't worry.
OK, and anyone esle out there, male or female, that has any advice I would appreciate it.
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"dont know if its just me but i would say you need to sit dowsn and talk to her about it and see if its what she wants before you start telling all the guys how big her tits are, how she cums and asking them to mail you for meets or are you just after dirty messages ". Funny, I read this and thought, hello, someone has woken with a horn and looking for wanking material to knock one off before work!  | |||
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Yes , probably a bit too descriptive, it's a FAULT OF MINE!
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"PPS - too descriptive, I think she is stunning and sex on long legs, and love her to bits "...is that why you don't feature her on your profile? | |||
"if no guys are interested, unlikely it will happen. Rather deal with guys off here as most understand the score " Someone on here will take part - that's the point of the site. Consider that part confirmed, now for the tricky bit...asking the lady. | |||
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"If you were my partner, I'd kick you out then start up my own profile....What a horrible thing to do - it's not your project, it's meant to be something you do together as a couple. She'll be devastated if you ever do tell her what you've been up to, I'm telling you now." I thought the use of the word "project" inappropriate in this instance too!  | |||
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"Fair points guys - to make myself more clear she will, at all times, be informed of the situation." Informed? Your gonna "inform" your wife that she will be having sex with other men? If you were my husband, I would inform you of the name of a good divorce solicitor. | |||
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"Fair points guys - to make myself more clear she will, at all times, be informed of the situation. Informed? Your gonna "inform" your wife that she will be having sex with other men? If you were my husband, I would inform you of the name of a good divorce solicitor. " I, on the other hand, would be informing you a rough grid loc for the field I'd dumped your stuff in. If you want to try it, talk to her BEFORE you do this. Oh and you want to hope she never stumbles across your profile and see's your status..... | |||
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Even if she fucks other men, still don't even think about splashing her over the net without her permission - you'll find it's not what the site's about. | |||
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"Posted full history, then removed it as it looked like I was appologising which I am not. Put simply, she fucks other men, I know she does and she knows I know. She also knows I see other people. Seperate parts of our lives at mo. Put simply, I would like to see them together. " You put it so nicely too, and I thought romance was dead. | |||
"Posted full history, then removed it as it looked like I was appologising which I am not. Put simply, she fucks other men, I know she does and she knows I know. She also knows I see other people. Seperate parts of our lives at mo. Put simply, I would like to see them together. " Ok..so you have communicated enough to have an "open" relationship..??? then swinging together..surely thats an easy topic to discuss..??? Or are you both just really bad at sneakily cheating on each other behind each others back..??? and know each other is doing it.. and know each other know..and just dont talk about it...??? Guy..thats a bit sad and strange...and is that making either of you happy..??? Blimey..swinging together seems like a less radical relationship threatening option than an "open" relationship....or one when you are both burying yours heads in the sand.. shagging other peeps...and ignoring the "elephant in the room". Or is all of this just happening inside your own head..do you really have a partner at all...???? as your O.P did read like a bit of a "Reader's Wive's Wank fest to be honest | |||
"Posted full history, then removed it as it looked like I was appologising which I am not. Put simply, she fucks other men, I know she does and she knows I know. She also knows I see other people. Seperate parts of our lives at mo. Put simply, I would like to see them together. You put it so nicely too, and I thought romance was dead. " I agree, have a look at my first post, tried my best, but failed so I thought OK lets just try very plain speaking.
Sharp dressed man pointed out that I don't feature her on my profile - I was not explicit in saying that is becuase we have, up to now, always done our own thing with other people. Reasons behind it are complicated as it is a situation that has evolved, she is not comfortable about discussing this aspect of her life in detail. This has been going on long before we got together, through previous partners. When her first found out he started beating her.
I found out later on,that is a long story in itself but we ended up with a sort of uneasy understanding and oblique communication between us - again, very complicated.
To be honest, outside of this site and even with my wife I not comfortable, yet, about being totally open about my bisexuality - still being somewhat confused about it myself!! (why is it acceptable for women? what is bi-curious?.... that's another subject  )
Through our oblique and methods of communication on the subject she has agreed to consider the possiblity, and I repeat only the possibilty, of us actually, openly, playing as a couple.
Time pressures (work etc) mean that something has to give. | |||
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"Posted full history, then removed it as it looked like I was appologising which I am not. Put simply, she fucks other men, I know she does and she knows I know. She also knows I see other people. Seperate parts of our lives at mo. Put simply, I would like to see them together. You put it so nicely too, and I thought romance was dead. I agree, have a look at my first post, tried my best, but failed so I thought OK lets just try very plain speaking.
Sharp dressed man pointed out that I don't feature her on my profile - I was not explicit in saying that is becuase we have, up to now, always done our own thing with other people. Reasons behind it are complicated as it is a situation that has evolved, she is not comfortable about discussing this aspect of her life in detail. This has been going on long before we got together, through previous partners. When her first found out he started beating her.
I found out later on,that is a long story in itself but we ended up with a sort of uneasy understanding and oblique communication between us - again, very complicated.
To be honest, outside of this site and even with my wife I not comfortable, yet, about being totally open about my bisexuality - still being somewhat confused about it myself!! (why is it acceptable for women? what is bi-curious?.... that's another subject )
Through our oblique and methods of communication on the subject she has agreed to consider the possiblity, and I repeat only the possibilty, of us actually, openly, playing as a couple.
Time pressures (work etc) mean that something has to give."Complicated..??? NO its presents as simple. You "partner".....clearly has issues from her past. You clearly have conflicts with your sexual preferances and orientation.. Should you even be thinking about swinging at this point in time..???. most peeps want to play with couples that are funloving.. complication and issue free...slightly worried that this would be a big DRAMA just waiting to unfold ...maybe all this should just remain your fantasy... | |||
"Ok..so you have communicated enough to have an "open" relationship..??? then swinging together..surely thats an easy topic to discuss..??? Or are you both just really bad at sneakily cheating on each other behind each others back..??? and know each other is doing it.. and know each other know..and just dont talk about it...??? Guy..thats a bit sad and strange...and is that making either of you happy..??? "Discussions and communication about this subject are not easy and not good between us - it's sort of as you say (ish) about I know she is, she knows I am etc but with a slow gain of understanding, maybe? Sad and strange? maybe. Burying heads in the sand? Probably. Swinging is less radical and easier - it is for me, I am on this site now!! Happening inside my own head? - Readers wives wank fest?  I recommend Liter**ica for good, well written erotic fiction stories, unfortunatly this one is real. . Readers wives wank fest - err, is that an insult or a compliment? | |||
" Complicated..??? NO its presents as simple. You "partner".....clearly has issues from her past. You clearly have conflicts with your sexual preferances and orientation.. Should you even be thinking about swinging at this point in time..???. most peeps want to play with couples that are funloving.. complication and issue free...slightly worried that this would be a big DRAMA just waiting to unfold ...maybe all this should just remain your fantasy..." OK, an accurate insight on my partner but I am not going to go into it on an open forum. Simple, not complicated - I suppose when you look at it that is also true. True about me . Drama in waiting - I don't know, maybe, it's a possibility. bugger!!!
Open to suggestions | |||
"Ok..so you have communicated enough to have an "open" relationship..??? then swinging together..surely thats an easy topic to discuss..??? Or are you both just really bad at sneakily cheating on each other behind each others back..??? and know each other is doing it.. and know each other know..and just dont talk about it...??? Guy..thats a bit sad and strange...and is that making either of you happy..???
Discussions and communication about this subject are not easy and not good between us - it's sort of as you say (ish) about I know she is, she knows I am etc but with a slow gain of understanding, maybe? Sad and strange? maybe. Burying heads in the sand? Probably. Swinging is less radical and easier - it is for me, I am on this site now!!
Happening inside my own head? - Readers wives wank fest? I recommend Liter**ica for good, well written erotic fiction stories, unfortunatly this one is real. . Readers wives wank fest - err, is that an insult or a compliment? "NEITHER...just a personal opinion..and I recommend DR Phil McGraw...Life Matters...excellant chaper on communication.. | |||
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"Gonna leave this for a while and think. Thought I could get a way forward here, but you are right, it could be a time bomb. Insight appreciated, even if it may not be what I wanted to hear it is probably what I needed to hear "hey..just been on the scene for a while and seen that if a couple isn't solid together...or solid and self aware about themselves...with openess and honest at the core of their relationship then....things have the potential to go pretty wrong...good luck.x | |||
"Gonna leave this for a while and think. Thought I could get a way forward here, but you are right, it could be a time bomb. Insight appreciated, even if it may not be what I wanted to hear it is probably what I needed to hear
hey..just been on the scene for a while and seen that if a couple isn't solid together...or solid and self aware about themselves...with openess and honest at the core of their relationship then....things have the potential to go pretty wrong...good luck.x "hey its doctor phylis lol prople pay no attention to this lady she gave me advice the other day and I ended up getting a penis ring.lol | |||
"Gonna leave this for a while and think. Thought I could get a way forward here, but you are right, it could be a time bomb. Insight appreciated, even if it may not be what I wanted to hear it is probably what I needed to hear
hey..just been on the scene for a while and seen that if a couple isn't solid together...or solid and self aware about themselves...with openess and honest at the core of their relationship then....things have the potential to go pretty wrong...good luck.x
hey its doctor phylis lol prople pay no attention to this lady she gave me advice the other day and I ended up getting a penis ring.lol "Look the guys at A&E (once they had cut it off) said that when the infection clears up...and you get some partial circulation back...it might work again... | |||
"Gonna leave this for a while and think. Thought I could get a way forward here, but you are right, it could be a time bomb. Insight appreciated, even if it may not be what I wanted to hear it is probably what I needed to hear
hey..just been on the scene for a while and seen that if a couple isn't solid together...or solid and self aware about themselves...with openess and honest at the core of their relationship then....things have the potential to go pretty wrong...good luck.x
hey its doctor phylis lol prople pay no attention to this lady she gave me advice the other day and I ended up getting a penis ring.lol
Look the guys at A&E (once they had cut it off) said that when the infection clears up...and you get some partial circulation back...it might work again... "lolol I give up you win this round lol that was a good comeback lol.  | |||
"Gonna leave this for a while and think. Thought I could get a way forward here, but you are right, it could be a time bomb. Insight appreciated, even if it may not be what I wanted to hear it is probably what I needed to hear
hey..just been on the scene for a while and seen that if a couple isn't solid together...or solid and self aware about themselves...with openess and honest at the core of their relationship then....things have the potential to go pretty wrong...good luck.x
hey its doctor phylis lol prople pay no attention to this lady she gave me advice the other day and I ended up getting a penis ring.lol
Look the guys at A&E (once they had cut it off) said that when the infection clears up...and you get some partial circulation back...it might work again...
lolol I give up you win this round lol that was a good comeback lol. "Mwah..ya know I love ya..Dr Phillis love it...I'm off my soap box now and off to bed with the Big Fella.. | |||
" Complicated..??? NO its presents as simple. You "partner".....clearly has issues from her past. You clearly have conflicts with your sexual preferances and orientation.. Should you even be thinking about swinging at this point in time..???. most peeps want to play with couples that are funloving.. complication and issue free...slightly worried that this would be a big DRAMA just waiting to unfold ...maybe all this should just remain your fantasy... OK, an accurate insight on my partner but I am not going to go into it on an open forum. Simple, not complicated - I suppose when you look at it that is also true. True about me . Drama in waiting - I don't know, maybe, it's a possibility. bugger!!!
Open to suggestions "You have already on an open forum I would hate my other 1/2 to be openly discussing me like this. | |||
