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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When visiting a club with either another couple or going with someone who isn't in a relationship with you, would you expect them to be devoted to you only all night.
This is why we wouldn't normally go to a club asa group.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No I wouldn't - unless it was agreed that we would!
Everyone's expectations are different so best to check what the people you're going with have in mind!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's between you and the people going, how you all behave there should be discussed and decided on between yourselves, not the consensus of a group of strangers  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not at all, if we attend a club with a couple then we don't expect them to solely play with us.
We've gone to a club with a couple we know, split up for the night and then met up later on and gone back to theirs for a sleep over
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If two singles are going as a couple, I think most clubs insist you stay together and don't just wander off and do your own thing...slightly different point to OP but just as relevant |
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I do this nearly every time I go to a club.
And I usually play it so that I will stick with the lady, but if she sees someone she likes, then I will go n do my own thing for a while, but keep my eye out for her and not wander too far.
I generally find this works, it's rare I get approached and rarely approch, I more use clubs as an amusement park for adults. Going for a look round more than anything. |
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"No I wouldn't - unless it was agreed that we would!
Everyone's expectations are different so best to check what the people you're going with have in mind! "
Was going to say..them things are what you discuss before hand as it can be very uncomfortable if one wants to play with someone but the other doesn't. .way I done it was we play together or not at all but that was always the F call..so must've been doing someting right..right?  |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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We always play together as a couple because that's what we enjoy most, but if we went to a club with others we certainly wouldn't expect them to stay with us. If we did, why bother going to a club ? A hotel room would be better |
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"We always play together as a couple because that's what we enjoy most, but if we went to a club with others we certainly wouldn't expect them to stay with us. If we did, why bother going to a club ? A hotel room would be better "
And that's it in a nutshell |
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"Oh and we use the chewing gum rule for "I don't fancy xxxx"
Whats the chewing gum rule lol "
If one of you doesn't fancy the opposite partner, the ask if your "date" wants some chewing gum or something similar (many establishments don't allow gum). |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We always play together as a couple because that's what we enjoy most, but if we went to a club with others we certainly wouldn't expect them to stay with us. If we did, why bother going to a club ? A hotel room would be better "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Oh and we use the chewing gum rule for "I don't fancy xxxx"
Whats the chewing gum rule lol
If one of you doesn't fancy the opposite partner, the ask if your "date" wants some chewing gum or something similar (many establishments don't allow gum)."
oh i see, thats a good idea lol |
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"We always play together as a couple because that's what we enjoy most, but if we went to a club with others we certainly wouldn't expect them to stay with us. If we did, why bother going to a club ? A hotel room would be better "
Yeah I get that and it fits your circumstances.
But I have the sexiest little Irish friend, who is desperate to experience a club.
She's been asking me for the last year and if I take her I think it's more appropriate to let her explore.
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