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Does any of your family members or adult kids knows or has any knowledge of your swinging actives .. Most of our family do know that we have a very open lifestyle .. Taken both side of family (cousins )to a swinging club .. |
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"Two family members knows i'm on here. Both are adults, i got one to join up but she never uses it."
We have tried scores of our friends to join the life style . .. But got success only in a few . But yes we did help in planting the seed .. |
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"Two family members knows i'm on here. Both are adults, i got one to join up but she never uses it.
We have tried scores of our friends to join the life style . .. But got success only in a few . But yes we did help in planting the seed .. "
I'm not close enough to any other family members for them to know, not sure if they'd be interested or not, and if they'd be surprised i was on here. |
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"No and I won't, what I do sexually is none of their business
By the same token I really really don't want to know what they're into sexually either, I'd rather keep those images out of my mind!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One of my grown up kids has a strong inkling - we had a good conversation once about being liberated and me being a bit 'eccentric' - she is very down to earth and mature attitude - and she is happy that I am happy - we have all agreed no need for details, m x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A cousin knows I'm on here . She saw me in a sauna a few months back and out 2 and 2 together . We often talk about out sex lives . Very open with each other . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, they don't know - and don't need to know either.
I've told one friend so she can be my safe buddy when I meet, knows when I meet, where and who with but that's it. |
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"Does any of your family members or adult kids knows or has any knowledge of your swinging actives .. Most of our family do know that we have a very open lifestyle .. Taken both side of family (cousins )to a swinging club .. "
Have your cousins been back to the club or was it just a one-off? |
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"My mother in law knows my hubby and I do, but my parents would be mortified. "
How do you guys feel to know that your mother in law knows .. How does she know ?? Caught in the act of you guys told her .. |
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By *abphilMan
over a year ago
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"Does any of your family members or adult kids knows or has any knowledge of your swinging actives .. Most of our family do know that we have a very open lifestyle .. Taken both side of family (cousins )to a swinging club .. "
Think so, been caught in the act on more than one occassion (when swinging as a couple) but don't really care! |
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"No family members, but we have told our close friends, most have been interested, but not tried it yet. "
Hello Chris how it's going . ..long time ..
Any progress on that friend of your.. you planted the seed of swinging .. |
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Friends do family don't. Actually a few weeks a go so.et hinge online led a rant by my mum on swinger's and she loomed at me and said it terrible what's the world coming to me bright red just nodded and said just 21 St century hobbies. She's murder me if she knew Nd that was just normal sex swinging never mind my bdsm world mwahhhigh lol |
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"My mother in law knows my hubby and I do, but my parents would be mortified.
How do you guys feel to know that your mother in law knows .. How does she know ?? Caught in the act of you guys told her .. "
We're ok with her knowing. She used to swing as well a few years ago until my father in law died and they were open with my hubby about it when he was 17.
We were thinking of trying it so asked their advice. |
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"My mother in law knows my hubby and I do, but my parents would be mortified.
How do you guys feel to know that your mother in law knows .. How does she know ?? Caught in the act of you guys told her ..
We're ok with her knowing. She used to swing as well a few years ago until my father in law died and they were open with my hubby about it when he was 17.
We were thinking of trying it so asked their advice."
Wow now that's something we would want to have . Lucky you ..
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"Friends do family don't. Actually a few weeks a go so.et hinge online led a rant by my mum on swinger's and she loomed at me and said it terrible what's the world coming to me bright red just nodded and said just 21 St century hobbies. She's murder me if she knew Nd that was just normal sex swinging never mind my bdsm world mwahhhigh lol "
I bet it got you wee bit turned on ..
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"Friends do family don't. Actually a few weeks a go so.et hinge online led a rant by my mum on swinger's and she loomed at me and said it terrible what's the world coming to me bright red just nodded and said just 21 St century hobbies. She's murder me if she knew Nd that was just normal sex swinging never mind my bdsm world mwahhhigh lol
I bet it got you wee bit turned on ..
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That's what's makes it more fun... The risk of being found out. A big turn on lol  |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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"No family members, but we have told our close friends, most have been interested, but not tried it yet.
Hello Chris how it's going . ..long time ..
Any progress on that friend of your.. you planted the seed of swinging .. "
No, nothing yet, still the 2 couples where the wife wants to, but the man doesn't  |
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My dad & step-mum do. They think I use it as a dating site though. I told them when I came across my ex-husbands couple profile - I'd rather they heard it from me than him.
My brother (same mum, different dad) also knows because his friend found my profile. He's promised not to tell my mum & step-dad.
And a cousin because she has a couples profile on here & found my profile |
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over a year ago
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"Our guess they have been .. As they were bit shy when went with us though they got naked in the pool .. We did play with a few couples in from of them .."
That would have been very fun to watch! Always enjoy observing newbies in a hot tub |
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"No family members, but we have told our close friends, most have been interested, but not tried it yet.
Actually my cousin probably knows because she's on here too! "
Wow did she send your profile yet .. Can we have a look at her profile if you don't mind .. |
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over a year ago
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"We find it very liberating and it gets us turned on a too .. Some of his co workers saw some of our naughty videos we posted online ..  "
I would love to see some of your online videos |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope.
Because my sex life is no-ones feckin' business but mine and my hubbies.
Really couldn't care less if anyone in my family or friends are swingers either."
This why would/should anyone , apart from on here, need to know about your sex life. |
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over a year ago
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Should have seen my mum's face when she took the blindfold off at the end of the bukake party! That's how you break the news to 'em!..leave 'em with no doubts! |
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over a year ago
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No - not that I know of!
Only my parents live in "Hogsmeade" and the rest of my family live in Sheffield, so if any of my family are on here there's a low risk of them noticing my profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Google Neha indian wife having a massage ..
wow so sexy x
Did you get to see the video . How is it .. "
It was very sexy and I now have a bulge that will need taken care of x |
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over a year ago
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"Nope.
Because my sex life is no-ones feckin' business but mine and my hubbies.
Really couldn't care less if anyone in my family or friends are swingers either.
This why would/should anyone , apart from on here, need to know about your sex life."
I don't even tell people on here about my sex life.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does any of your family members or adult kids knows or has any knowledge of your swinging actives .. Most of our family do know that we have a very open lifestyle .. Taken both side of family (cousins )to a swinging club .. "
most of our Family knows as my auntie so me on TV BBC and told most of my mama Brothers and sisters, they was supposed to blank out our faces off but never did as the story they was doing went wrong we where extras at lachambre to fill the club, and our grown-up Kids know that to thank to some slut but our kids are ok with it just don't let them know what we are doing doesn't feel right At all
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some of my mates think they know I'm a swinger as they know I've been to a few clubs. However, they don't know for certain. My family just think I'm a bit of a player. Who am I to shatter their illusions lol |
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"We find it very liberating and it gets us turned on a too .. Some of his co workers saw some of our naughty videos we posted online .. "
Where's the video posted guys? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd prefer my sex life to be private tbh.. It's not something I would openly discuss with family members!
I do have a few friends that I've known for years on here mind! |
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Up until 6 Months ago only a couple of friends new. After leaving our computer logged in and my girlfriends adult daughters using it every bugger and their dog knows.
After a huge bust up and lots of shouting we are now the black sheep of the family |
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"Up until 6 Months ago only a couple of friends new. After leaving our computer logged in and my girlfriends adult daughters using it every bugger and their dog knows.
After a huge bust up and lots of shouting we are now the black sheep of the family"
oops! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My brother knows everything  I left my phone in livingroom and he read all me mail seen all my pics everything.
I found out after a disagreement in the pub one evening 
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Nope. It would not occur to me to talk about it. But my family would not want to know anyway even if sex was a topic for discussion.
1 or 2 friends know but no great details and would not be able to find our profile. |
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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago
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"No and I won't, what I do sexually is none of their business
By the same token I really really don't want to know what they're into sexually either, I'd rather keep those images out of my mind!"
This exactly |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does any of your family members or adult kids knows or has any knowledge of your swinging actives .. Most of our family do know that we have a very open lifestyle .. Taken both side of family (cousins )to a swinging club .. "
How did your family react when they find out? any positive or negative reactions? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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2 adult kids know plus a step dad. A few close friends know too. We don't hide what we do but we don't publish it either.
A couple of friends and very interested since knowing to the point the ladies have had a little feel of each others boobies  |
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Our 24 year daughter knows.The rest of the family will never know. My, Jez, parents are very prudish as our my brother and his wife. Tracy patents have passed away but if they were alive they would probably be ok with it. |
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"Does any of your family members or adult kids knows or has any knowledge of your swinging actives .. Most of our family do know that we have a very open lifestyle .. Taken both side of family (cousins )to a swinging club .. most of our Family knows as my auntie so me on TV BBC and told most of my mama Brothers and sisters, they was supposed to blank out our faces off but never did as the story they was doing went wrong we where extras at lachambre to fill the club, and our grown-up Kids know that to thank to some slut but our kids are ok with it just don't let them know what we are doing doesn't feel right At all "
I'm sure it makes you feel liberated .. Doesn't it ?? |
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"Does any of your family members or adult kids knows or has any knowledge of your swinging actives .. Most of our family do know that we have a very open lifestyle .. Taken both side of family (cousins )to a swinging club ..
How did your family react when they find out? any positive or negative reactions?"
No they never judge us .. I'm proud to have family like them .. For an Asian couple we are damn lucky .. Then we also come from the land of Kamasutra .. |
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Our eldest son (he's 24) sussed on what we are up to and his girlfriend told us he knew but didn't want to approach us about it. We had a talk with him and told him that yes we do swing and it's our lives and we'll do what we want and if you don't like it then tough. He said he's no problem with it as long as we are happy, we sat down with our younger son who's 21 as we thought it was only fair that he knew and he's no problem with what we're doing in fact he's intrigued and asked questions. We feel relieved now that they know and there's no more lying about where we're going x |
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"Does any of your family members or adult kids knows or has any knowledge of your swinging actives .. Most of our family do know that we have a very open lifestyle .. Taken both side of family (cousins )to a swinging club ..
How did your family react when they find out? any positive or negative reactions?
No they never judge us .. I'm proud to have family like them .. For an Asian couple we are damn lucky .. Then we also come from the land of Kamasutra .. "
I think you're really lucky. My family wouldn't be offended if they knew but they do have big mouths and a tendency to gossip. |
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No family (now) but a couple of close family friends know I am on here, whom I met at moresome meet in Pontefract end of 2013, it was scary at first, but then we giggled lots  |
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"Our eldest son (he's 24) sussed on what we are up to and his girlfriend told us he knew but didn't want to approach us about it. We had a talk with him and told him that yes we do swing and it's our lives and we'll do what we want and if you don't like it then tough. He said he's no problem with it as long as we are happy, we sat down with our younger son who's 21 as we thought it was only fair that he knew and he's no problem with what we're doing in fact he's intrigued and asked questions. We feel relieved now that they know and there's no more lying about where we're going x"
Honesty is the best policy .. A big thumbs up .. |
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"Does any of your family members or adult kids knows or has any knowledge of your swinging actives .. Most of our family do know that we have a very open lifestyle .. Taken both side of family (cousins )to a swinging club ..
How did your family react when they find out? any positive or negative reactions?
No they never judge us .. I'm proud to have family like them .. For an Asian couple we are damn lucky .. Then we also come from the land of Kamasutra .. "
If more families were like this then swinging would be far more accepted... which would be nice |
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"Does any of your family members or adult kids knows or has any knowledge of your swinging actives .. Most of our family do know that we have a very open lifestyle .. Taken both side of family (cousins )to a swinging club ..
How did your family react when they find out? any positive or negative reactions?
No they never judge us .. I'm proud to have family like them .. For an Asian couple we are damn lucky .. Then we also come from the land of Kamasutra ..
If more families were like this then swinging would be far more accepted... which would be nice"
We second that.. |
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Family don't know but it wouldn't surprise them, always been the one to be different from the others! Think my son knowss though as once sent a message to him by mistake that was a snap shot of a message with "fabswingers.com" at the top ....biggest DOH moment ever! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lucky it wasn't an action shot lol "
Oh my goodness, yes that would have been awful but did send one of those to my boss!!!! Good job he knows I'm Bi & it was fem/fen action & he's my mate too so not too bad that one  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My Ex knows because a 'friend' sent him some lovely big pictures she downloaded from my profile!
My oldest daughter knows due to Swingfields 2015 getting so much press coverage (I was there). Others know/suspect but rarely comment on it.
At the end of the day I'm single so I'm harming no-one! Xx  |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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"Does any of your family members or adult kids knows or has any knowledge of your swinging actives .. Most of our family do know that we have a very open lifestyle .. Taken both side of family (cousins )to a swinging club ..
How did your family react when they find out? any positive or negative reactions?
No they never judge us .. I'm proud to have family like them .. For an Asian couple we are damn lucky .. Then we also come from the land of Kamasutra ..
If more families were like this then swinging would be far more accepted... which would be nice"
Families can be funny things, we are very close, but sex is NEVER discussed in our family. We have been a family of virgins for many many generations, we are all adopted and none of us has ever had sex, honest 
But we are out to our friends, and one of my motivations for sharing was to break down the shame and taboo around alternative relationship types. |
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Interesting thread and have been following but one thing that keeps coming back to me is -why?. Why would you want to tell them? Do you ring up your mum/dad brother etc and say "wow, had great sex with the other half last night" |
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"Interesting thread and have been following but one thing that keeps coming back to me is -why?. Why would you want to tell them? Do you ring up your mum/dad brother etc and say "wow, had great sex with the other half last night" "
Why do gay people 'come out'? |
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"Interesting thread and have been following but one thing that keeps coming back to me is -why?. Why would you want to tell them? Do you ring up your mum/dad brother etc and say "wow, had great sex with the other half last night"
Why do gay people 'come out'?
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Because their partner is of the same sex- makes life easier. |
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"Interesting thread and have been following but one thing that keeps coming back to me is -why?. Why would you want to tell them? Do you ring up your mum/dad brother etc and say "wow, had great sex with the other half last night"
Why do gay people 'come out'?
Because their partner is of the same sex- makes life easier. "
I'd imagine life is easier if your social circle know you swing and you don't have to make up bs excuses everytime you have a big grin on your face after a visit to AbFabs |
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"Interesting thread and have been following but one thing that keeps coming back to me is -why?. Why would you want to tell them? Do you ring up your mum/dad brother etc and say "wow, had great sex with the other half last night"
Why do gay people 'come out'? "
Why should they have to? |
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"Interesting thread and have been following but one thing that keeps coming back to me is -why?. Why would you want to tell them? Do you ring up your mum/dad brother etc and say "wow, had great sex with the other half last night"
Why do gay people 'come out'?
Why should they have to?"
I don't remember saying they do |
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"Interesting thread and have been following but one thing that keeps coming back to me is -why?. Why would you want to tell them? Do you ring up your mum/dad brother etc and say "wow, had great sex with the other half last night"
Why do gay people 'come out'? "
The best answer it sums it up ..
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"Interesting thread and have been following but one thing that keeps coming back to me is -why?. Why would you want to tell them? Do you ring up your mum/dad brother etc and say "wow, had great sex with the other half last night"
Why do gay people 'come out'?
The best answer it sums it up ..
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How?
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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"Interesting thread and have been following but one thing that keeps coming back to me is -why?. Why would you want to tell them? Do you ring up your mum/dad brother etc and say "wow, had great sex with the other half last night"
Why do gay people 'come out'?
The best answer it sums it up ..
How?
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Because being gay is nothing to be ashamed of, and being a swinger is nothing to be ashamed of either. |
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Some friends know - because I found them on here and we ended up playing together, lol. With one couple, we actually all kinda hit it off before we even realised we knew each other, so I guess that points to the strength of the friendship, lol. |
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"Interesting thread and have been following but one thing that keeps coming back to me is -why?. Why would you want to tell them? Do you ring up your mum/dad brother etc and say "wow, had great sex with the other half last night"
Why do gay people 'come out'?
The best answer it sums it up ..
How?
Because being gay is nothing to be ashamed of, and being a swinger is nothing to be ashamed of either."
Being gay is nothing to be ashamed of. I never said it was. |
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"Does any of your family members or adult kids knows or has any knowledge of your swinging actives .. Most of our family do know that we have a very open lifestyle .. Taken both side of family (cousins )to a swinging club .. "
My family don't know how much I earn, the balance in my bank account, the full details of my job nor I theirs.
We love each other dearly but we tend to keep certain aspects of our private lives...err...private. |
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"No and I won't, what I do sexually is none of their business
By the same token I really really don't want to know what they're into sexually either, I'd rather keep those images out of my mind!"
Amen to that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My parents are very traditional (and very Catholic). I have absolutely no reason to inform them about my sex life but I do wish I could share my sexuality with them. |
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I am sure my late father guessed that there was something non-traditional about my marriage. But he was discrete enough never to discuss it or ask questions.
My mother is incredibly straight laced and traditional as are others of her generation in my family. She'd be horrified and very hurt if she knew what my wife and I get up to together and separately. |
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"Does any of your family members or adult kids knows or has any knowledge of your swinging actives .. Most of our family do know that we have a very open lifestyle .. Taken both side of family (cousins )to a swinging club .. "
Nope, discretion always. |
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over a year ago
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no
why would i discuss my sex life with my family or kids?
when i was married i never told them what me and my husband got upto sexually so why would i tell them im on here
some people call telling everybody being open and honest i call it attention seeking, there is no need at all to be open and honesy about your sex life with your family or kids |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"no
why would i discuss my sex life with my family or kids?
when i was married i never told them what me and my husband got upto sexually so why would i tell them im on here
some people call telling everybody being open and honest i call it attention seeking, there is no need at all to be open and honesy about your sex life with your family or kids "
I wish I'd put it as eloquently as that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Didn't discuss my sex life with family or friends before I found swinging so won't start now. I find is really exciting that I have a part of my life that is secret just for me that's not up for discussion or opinions x |
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"no
why would i discuss my sex life with my family or kids?
when i was married i never told them what me and my husband got upto sexually so why would i tell them im on here
some people call telling everybody being open and honest i call it attention seeking, there is no need at all to be open and honesy about your sex life with your family or kids "
I think this is one of the main reasons that some people don't like Swingers.
Some Swingers are obsessed with telling the world about their sex life. Every single intimate detail. They don't care that the other people really don't want to know about their sex lives, and wish they would just shut the fuck up. |
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