Kissing? huge turn on for fabbers or a big no no?
I find it horny to set the mood of what's to come (no pun intended). nice teeth and minty breath a must though. Find most fabbers are not into it, especially bi guys. why's that? |
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"Kissing? huge turn on for fabbers or a big no no?
I find it horny to set the mood of what's to come (no pun intended). nice teeth and minty breath a must though. Find most fabbers are not into it, especially bi guys. why's that?"
I've only been with one person who didn't kiss. It wS in France. He was so hot that I put up with it - put it did make the sex feel clinical and I wouldn't do it again! X |
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"I won't meet anyone who doesn't kiss but can you force someone to? I like a lot of kissing and I'd be put off if it wasn't reciprocated. "
No you can't force.. I just won't meet to begin with  |
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"No kiss no play...
Same for us !
How can anyone that enjoys oral or fucking their playmate say kissing is too personal. ??
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Something I've never quite understood either x |
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"Kissing? huge turn on for fabbers or a big no no?
I find it horny to set the mood of what's to come (no pun intended). nice teeth and minty breath a must though. Find most fabbers are not into it, especially bi guys. why's that?
I've only been with one person who didn't kiss. It wS in France. He was so hot that I put up with it - put it did make the sex feel clinical and I wouldn't do it again! X"
Snap although not in France. Stupendously hot guy but no kissing spoilt it completely. |
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"Kissing is so sexy but only when done well....nothing worse than a bad kisser....major turn off   "
Was going to say this.. Leave the hard probing tongue for other tasks  |
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"I won't meet anyone who doesn't kiss but can you force someone to? I like a lot of kissing and I'd be put off if it wasn't reciprocated.
No you can't force.. I just won't meet to begin with "
A man may say he loves kissing but doesn't kiss much when you meet. I don't want to feel like I'm forcing myself on someone. |
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"I won't meet anyone who doesn't kiss but can you force someone to? I like a lot of kissing and I'd be put off if it wasn't reciprocated.
No you can't force.. I just won't meet to begin with
A man may say he loves kissing but doesn't kiss much when you meet. I don't want to feel like I'm forcing myself on someone. "
I don't get undressed until the kiss has made me want to  |
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"Kissing is so sexy but only when done well....nothing worse than a bad kisser....major turn off
Was going to say this.. Leave the hard probing tongue for other tasks
Exactly. ...slow gentle kissing is much sexier !  "
And guaranteed to get my kit off |
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"No kiss no play...
Same for us !
How can anyone that enjoys oral or fucking their playmate say kissing is too personal. ??
Xx
Something I've never quite understood either x"
It depends how you feel about kissing. If you feel it's an expression of your feelings for someone then you will only want to kiss passionately with someone you feel deeply for.
I don't understand why people insist on kissing because in my opinion it indicates that they are looking for a deeper connection than just sex.
Before I get flamed that is just how I feel. |
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"No kiss no play...
Same for us !
How can anyone that enjoys oral or fucking their playmate say kissing is too personal. ??
Xx
Something I've never quite understood either x
It depends how you feel about kissing. If you feel it's an expression of your feelings for someone then you will only want to kiss passionately with someone you feel deeply for.
I don't understand why people insist on kissing because in my opinion it indicates that they are looking for a deeper connection than just sex.
Before I get flamed that is just how I feel."
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I couldn't sleep with someone without kissing them first. How do you initiate sex if you can't kiss? Ive never met a person that wouldn't kiss and if they said no i couldn't go further. |
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"No kiss no play...
Same for us !
How can anyone that enjoys oral or fucking their playmate say kissing is too personal. ??
Xx
Something I've never quite understood either x
It depends how you feel about kissing. If you feel it's an expression of your feelings for someone then you will only want to kiss passionately with someone you feel deeply for.
I don't understand why people insist on kissing because in my opinion it indicates that they are looking for a deeper connection than just sex.
Before I get flamed that is just how I feel."
Nope not looking for anything more than sex... Everybody is different.. Just personally can't get in the mood with out a sexy kiss.. X |
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"I couldn't sleep with someone without kissing them first. How do you initiate sex if you can't kiss? Ive never met a person that wouldn't kiss and if they said no i couldn't go further."
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"I couldn't sleep with someone without kissing them first. How do you initiate sex if you can't kiss? Ive never met a person that wouldn't kiss and if they said no i couldn't go further."
Many, many people do initiate sex without kissing - all of our meets for instance.
Strangely, many of the couples we know that DO kiss their meets - have had less veris, less repeat meets than us - yet according to some of them they needed to kiss, as it would make for better sex...a better connection...unlock the key to exploration and stretching boundaries...but they never saw them again? What happened to the kissing connecting them I wonder...
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"I couldn't sleep with someone without kissing them first. How do you initiate sex if you can't kiss? Ive never met a person that wouldn't kiss and if they said no i couldn't go further.
Many, many people do initiate sex without kissing - all of our meets for instance.
Strangely, many of the couples we know that DO kiss their meets - have had less veris, less repeat meets than us - yet according to some of them they needed to kiss, as it would make for better sex...a better connection...unlock the key to exploration and stretching boundaries...but they never saw them again? What happened to the kissing connecting them I wonder...
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It's personal preference.just like everything else x |
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"I couldn't sleep with someone without kissing them first. How do you initiate sex if you can't kiss? Ive never met a person that wouldn't kiss and if they said no i couldn't go further.
Many, many people do initiate sex without kissing - all of our meets for instance.
Strangely, many of the couples we know that DO kiss their meets - have had less veris, less repeat meets than us - yet according to some of them they needed to kiss, as it would make for better sex...a better connection...unlock the key to exploration and stretching boundaries...but they never saw them again? What happened to the kissing connecting them I wonder...
It's personal preference.just like everything else x"
It is.
There's no right or wrong way to initiate sex.
kissing isn't the ignition key for everybody.
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It must be just a man thing then. I find gay or bi who are more gay and women tend to be ok with kissing but the DL bi men don't. Shame, kissing I agree is so sexy, it really sets the mood. how u can perform oral sex on someone and find kissing too personal is a conundrum to me also.
I must start to insist or no meets.  |
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"It must be just a man thing then. I find gay or bi who are more gay and women tend to be ok with kissing but the DL bi men don't. Shame, kissing I agree is so sexy, it really sets the mood. how u can perform oral sex on someone and find kissing too personal is a conundrum to me also.
I must start to insist or no meets. "
Haven't had the pleasure of a bi man yet.. Probably why
But everyone different bi/straight or gay so who knows |
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"I couldn't sleep with someone without kissing them first. How do you initiate sex if you can't kiss? Ive never met a person that wouldn't kiss and if they said no i couldn't go further.
Many, many people do initiate sex without kissing - all of our meets for instance.
Strangely, many of the couples we know that DO kiss their meets - have had less veris, less repeat meets than us - yet according to some of them they needed to kiss, as it would make for better sex...a better connection...unlock the key to exploration and stretching boundaries...but they never saw them again? What happened to the kissing connecting them I wonder...
It's personal preference.just like everything else x
It is.
There's no right or wrong way to initiate sex.
kissing isn't the ignition key for everybody.
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"No kiss no play...
Same for us !
How can anyone that enjoys oral or fucking their playmate say kissing is too personal. ??
Xx
Something I've never quite understood either x
It depends how you feel about kissing. If you feel it's an expression of your feelings for someone then you will only want to kiss passionately with someone you feel deeply for.
I don't understand why people insist on kissing because in my opinion it indicates that they are looking for a deeper connection than just sex.
Before I get flamed that is just how I feel."
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"It must be just a man thing then. I find gay or bi who are more gay and women tend to be ok with kissing but the DL bi men don't. Shame, kissing I agree is so sexy, it really sets the mood. how u can perform oral sex on someone and find kissing too personal is a conundrum to me also.
I must start to insist or no meets. "
It's a conundrum to lots of people but if you aren't going to meet people who don't kiss why worry about it?
I don't like to exchange body fluids with anyone other than Mr N. that's part of why it's too personal for me. |
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oh god I agree, everyone's different. I don't like many things so try and state my preferences before I meet someone. likeminded for likeminded. It was just a query really as I thought it must be me who thinks it's a bit cold (clinical) without kissing. |
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"oh god I agree, everyone's different. I don't like many things so try and state my preferences before I meet someone. likeminded for likeminded. It was just a query really as I thought it must be me who thinks it's a bit cold (clinical) without kissing."
But you equate oral sex with kissing so if you indulged in that it wouldn't be cold and clinical. |
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"oh god I agree, everyone's different. I don't like many things so try and state my preferences before I meet someone. likeminded for likeminded. It was just a query really as I thought it must be me who thinks it's a bit cold (clinical) without kissing."
I agree .. Others don't.. I've never had sex without kissing so can't comment on how it feels without.. X |
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"oh god I agree, everyone's different. I don't like many things so try and state my preferences before I meet someone. likeminded for likeminded. It was just a query really as I thought it must be me who thinks it's a bit cold (clinical) without kissing.
But you equate oral sex with kissing so if you indulged in that it wouldn't be cold and clinical. "
Good point. |
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"Yes it's a must have. We love kissing each other "
We love to kiss too, each other and our fab swinging partners - have played without kissing at other person's request but they had to remind us a few times! wasn't disrespecting their boundaries ion purpose it just feels so natural to kiss whilst caressing ...in the end the best solution we found was for to prolong the oral play, that way our mouths were too busy to kiss!!!!m x |
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"Yes it's a must have. We love kissing each other
We love to kiss too, each other and our fab swinging partners - have played without kissing at other person's request but they had to remind us a few times! wasn't disrespecting their boundaries ion purpose it just feels so natural to kiss whilst caressing ...in the end the best solution we found was for to prolong the oral play, that way our mouths were too busy to kiss!!!!m x"
We haven't actually met anyone yet, so not sure what boundaries would be set exactly
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