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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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There are lots n lots of people on this site so I wonder other than the obvious answer is there any other reasons why we like to swing? Or if it is just for the sex how did you get into it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me it's a lot of things!
Made some brilliant friends.
It provides a great social life
I have a lot of fun!
I've had by far the best sex of my life with some really great guys!
Lucky me!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Sex is the basic reason otherwise you might as well join a social club. However over time reasons and motives evolve."
Anyone can go out and pull for sex swinging is alot more social and people can express what they want out of a meet more rather than a wham bam thank u cya later lol but obviously people have their own view on why they started. I dont think u understood what I ment cause I did note sex was the obvious answer. |
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"Sex is the basic reason otherwise you might as well join a social club. However over time reasons and motives evolve.
Anyone can go out and pull for sex swinging is alot more social and people can express what they want out of a meet more rather than a wham bam thank u cya later lol but obviously people have their own view on why they started. I dont think u understood what I ment cause I did note sex was the obvious answer. "
I did understand what you meant, sorry if my answer wasn't what you wanted but what I meant was that some people do join just for sex and over time their reasons evolve. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Sex is the basic reason otherwise you might as well join a social club. However over time reasons and motives evolve.
Anyone can go out and pull for sex swinging is alot more social and people can express what they want out of a meet more rather than a wham bam thank u cya later lol but obviously people have their own view on why they started. I dont think u understood what I ment cause I did note sex was the obvious answer.
I did understand what you meant, sorry if my answer wasn't what you wanted but what I meant was that some people do join just for sex and over time their reasons evolve."
I was looking for people to share stories not something that goes without saying. sorry if I sound rude it is not ment to come off like that lol |
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"Sex is the basic reason otherwise you might as well join a social club. However over time reasons and motives evolve.
Anyone can go out and pull for sex swinging is alot more social and people can express what they want out of a meet more rather than a wham bam thank u cya later lol but obviously people have their own view on why they started. I dont think u understood what I ment cause I did note sex was the obvious answer.
I did understand what you meant, sorry if my answer wasn't what you wanted but what I meant was that some people do join just for sex and over time their reasons evolve.
I was looking for people to share stories not something that goes without saying. sorry if I sound rude it is not ment to come off like that lol "
no, that's fine I'm not being rude either when I say that on a public forum you will get loads of different answers and they wont necessarily be the ones you want. Anyway I'll leave you to it. |
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"Swinging to me is not all about sex, its about meeting like minded friends and having fun in a club.
Maybe im wrong? but it works for me!
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Deffo not wrong its your answer and it works for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's not *just* sex, at least for me. It's partly because I usually find people who are open sexually tend to be more liberal and, therefore, more likely to actually be fairly interesting.
I tend to get on really well with people into kink scenes as well and have gone along with friends in that scene to meetup's and the like, although since that's not a scene that is I find particularily sexually exciting there is no really incentive to play. Still, enjoy the company.
Also, on the sex side, while this is probably the hardest possible way for a single guy to get laid, goddamn is it worth it when you do.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Has opened up a whole new world of friends, some of which have made me change the way I think about things, and have also made me feel sooo much better about myself.
Was very shy before I went into a club, now it's my favourite place to be, I can be myself there, and like who I am again!
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For us it was a fetish for being watched. Summer nudist and swingers clubs created the perfect safe atmosphere for that, from there if evolved after we met some great people with the same kinky outlook on life as us. |
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"Swinging to me is not all about sex, its about meeting like minded friends and having fun in a club.
Maybe im wrong? but it works for me!
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I agree! It has been a lot of fun and is exciting for my sweetie and me. Plus it has given us loads to talk about... Actually had brought us closer to have this secret we share. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Socialism with people who have the same sence of humour as me meeting people who I would never normally talk to big and amazing events exploring a whole new lifestyle its everything for me the fun and play is obviously a bonus xxx |
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