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what do you look for in a profile?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What are the things in a profile which make you interested or Un interested?
For us , we need a few good veri's
And decent pics.crap pics and we soon get bored. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's very true! No one is going to write a bad one! They all say I met this beautiful lady etc amazing oral skills blah blah blah! Then you look at the photos and see they are not amazing or sexy lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do you ever read a bad veri? "
As in people we would be interested in.
Man who fuck tvs ain't our thing.
recent ones are good as a couple who have not met for a year may well be a split couple who the guy uses the profile to get pics of others.may not be but it's a risk we are prepared to take |
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"Do you ever read a bad veri?
As in people we would be interested in.
Man who fuck tvs ain't our thing.
recent ones are good as a couple who have not met for a year may well be a split couple who the guy uses the profile to get pics of others.may not be but it's a risk we are prepared to take"
I always go for the summery first. If they have met met or TVs but I can't read the veri for them then that tells me they ain't being honest haha  |
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We look at photos first then, if there's an attraction, we read the bio and varis.
If the pics are rubbish (badly shot or unattractive), we don't go any further. If the pics are good but the bio is terrible (5 words long, a wall of caps or txt spk) or they're looking for something that we're not into, it ends there.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you ever read a bad veri? "
No but I've read some very bland ones where you could read between the lines! It's not foolproof but gives you a good idea!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just look at the pictures and the height. If they have a good body and big cock but no face picture I'll send a message asking for a face picture. If they have veri's (I try and go for unverified guys) I'll look who they've met previously if they've met anyone less attractive than me it can put me off massively.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I look for veris, good pics, well written profiles, humour. None of that is 100% though, My favourite ever person on fab has no pics, his profile just says "ask me" and he didnt have a single veri until I met him! Ultimitely it depends on the messages xx |
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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago
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I don't like profiles where I have to spend time piecing it together.... The message will say bi, but the profile says straight; the message wants to meet but the profile says only meeting with someone else; the message tells me it's a single person but the profile is a couple........... I could go on and on and on.
V xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Veris are no way to find out what someone is like, If I was to go by veris then every woman on this sight is beautiful with a body to die for. We all know that's very far from the truth.
I only check veris for signs of barebacking.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just look at the pictures and the height. If they have a good body and big cock but no face picture I'll send a message asking for a face picture. If they have veri's (I try and go for unverified guys) I'll look who they've met previously if they've met anyone less attractive than me it can put me off massively.
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Somebody who immediately asks for a face pic after my first message is a massive turnoff for me though, even more when they don't have any pics themselves or just say 'face pic?'
But that's probably a moan for a separate thread  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's very true! No one is going to write a bad one! They all say I met this beautiful lady etc amazing oral skills blah blah blah! Then you look at the photos and see they are not amazing or sexy lol"
The same goes for men too... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People who are down to Earth and haven't written their autobiography followed by a list of demands.
Our meets so far have been based on the above followed up with plenty of texts/calls. Words on a screen can't convey everything you need to know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just look at the pictures and the height. If they have a good body and big cock but no face picture I'll send a message asking for a face picture. If they have veri's (I try and go for unverified guys) I'll look who they've met previously if they've met anyone less attractive than me it can put me off massively.
Somebody who immediately asks for a face pic after my first message is a massive turnoff for me though, even more when they don't have any pics themselves or just say 'face pic?'
But that's probably a moan for a separate thread "
When I ask guys for a face picture I send my own face picture with the message, it's only fair. |
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"What are the things in a profile which make you interested or Un interested?
For us , we need a few good veri's
And decent pics.crap pics and we soon get bored. "
. I like plenty of detail in order that I can make an assessment in order to ensure that the profile is not a fake. The profile should also contain a list of interests outside fab and a few comments that differentiates it from any other profile .
Pictures should be clear and we'll defined . An untidy background inna photo puts me off .
Text speak , numerous spelling mistakes and poor use of grammar are turn off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Face, arse, personality.
If they sound like they're fun and relaxed im much more likley to message than a long ranty profile.
I only message the ranty types of i fancy a quick fuck an go meet that day |
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"We look at photos first then, if there's an attraction, we read the bio and varis.
If the pics are rubbish (badly shot or unattractive), we don't go any further. If the pics are good but the bio is terrible (5 words long, a wall of caps or txt spk) or they're looking for something that we're not into, it ends there. "
Absolutely this!
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I look at the profile write up; clues as to intelligence, interest, plus reasonably clear summary of what you are looking for.
Long profiles are OK if they are interesting/ amusing / relevant. Short profile is fine if it is clear.
A few decent pictures.2 is fine; more than 10 gets boring.
Face pics not necessary ( in public, at least, I appreciate some people keep them private for good reason ( jobs etc)
Not the slightest interested in verifications .
Turn offs:
Bad English, spelling, and definitely no text-speak.
Loads of pictures of spunk and genitals : not necessary
Publishing pages of verifications. Especially those with graphic sexual descriptions.
The " to Sydney university " crap. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I look for signs of sanity and confidence. After that,if the face fits and they aren't the type to turn up to gang bangs week after week I will have a nice chat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't check veris because I think it will tell me exactly what that person is like. I check them because it means that the people who met them before escaped alive! Single woman safety tool :D lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't check veris because I think it will tell me exactly what that person is like. I check them because it means that the people who met them before escaped alive! Single woman safety tool :D lol x"
Aww thats cute...you dont realise i just take thier phones and write them myself while waiting for the acid to disolve them....i mean yes youre right!  ...fancy some ice cream? Its posion flavor!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't check veris because I think it will tell me exactly what that person is like. I check them because it means that the people who met them before escaped alive! Single woman safety tool :D lol x
Aww thats cute...you dont realise i just take thier phones and write them myself while waiting for the acid to disolve them....i mean yes youre right! ...fancy some ice cream? Its posion flavor! "
Haha u made me giggle  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't check veris because I think it will tell me exactly what that person is like. I check them because it means that the people who met them before escaped alive! Single woman safety tool :D lol x
Aww thats cute...you dont realise i just take thier phones and write them myself while waiting for the acid to disolve them....i mean yes youre right! ...fancy some ice cream? Its posion flavor!
Haha u made me giggle "
I hear thats a common side effect |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't check veris because I think it will tell me exactly what that person is like. I check them because it means that the people who met them before escaped alive! Single woman safety tool :D lol x
Aww thats cute...you dont realise i just take thier phones and write them myself while waiting for the acid to disolve them....i mean yes youre right! ...fancy some ice cream? Its posion flavor!
Haha u made me giggle
I hear thats a common side effect "
Oh no u got the antidote... Right? Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you ever read a bad veri?
As in people we would be interested in.
Man who fuck tvs ain't our thing.
recent ones are good as a couple who have not met for a year may well be a split couple who the guy uses the profile to get pics of others.may not be but it's a risk we are prepared to take
I always go for the summery first. If they have met met or TVs but I can't read the veri for them then that tells me they ain't being honest haha "
Or that the person who left it has left the site.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't check veris because I think it will tell me exactly what that person is like. I check them because it means that the people who met them before escaped alive! Single woman safety tool :D lol x
Aww thats cute...you dont realise i just take thier phones and write them myself while waiting for the acid to disolve them....i mean yes youre right! ...fancy some ice cream? Its posion flavor!
Haha u made me giggle
I hear thats a common side effect
Oh no u got the antidote... Right? Xx"
Oh yeah totally, it even comes in this special aplicator im afraid it has to administered, analy though |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you ever read a bad veri?
As in people we would be interested in.
Man who fuck tvs ain't our thing.
recent ones are good as a couple who have not met for a year may well be a split couple who the guy uses the profile to get pics of others.may not be but it's a risk we are prepared to take
I always go for the summery first. If they have met met or TVs but I can't read the veri for them then that tells me they ain't being honest haha "
Ive got veries from ts that you couldnt read the veri from, one was one of my favorite veries from one of my favorite people but they've left as they found a man to have a real relationship with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't check veris because I think it will tell me exactly what that person is like. I check them because it means that the people who met them before escaped alive! Single woman safety tool :D lol x
Aww thats cute...you dont realise i just take thier phones and write them myself while waiting for the acid to disolve them....i mean yes youre right! ...fancy some ice cream? Its posion flavor!
Haha u made me giggle
I hear thats a common side effect
Oh no u got the antidote... Right? Xx
Oh yeah totally, it even comes in this special aplicator im afraid it has to administered, analy though "
Shit I'll sit n die quietly then lol |
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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago
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".... if they've met anyone less attractive than me it can put me off massively. "
I'm the other way round. If they've met someone MORE attractive than me, I'm intimidated. |
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"What are the things in a profile which make you interested or Un interested?
For us , we need a few good veri's
And decent pics.crap pics and we soon get bored. "
Something that makes me smile and makes me want to find out more. Photos are a bonus - but not the most important thing. |
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