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By *abphil OP Man
over a year ago
sheffield |
I think the ideal meeting distance is between 5-10 miles. Why travel any further unless you live out in the sticks. For me its far enough away to be discreet and you don't live on top of one an other. Whats your ideal distance and why?  |
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"I think the ideal meeting distance is between 5-10 miles. Why travel any further unless you live out in the sticks. For me its far enough away to be discreet and you don't live on top of one an other. Whats your ideal distance and why? "
All over the country.
I like traveling and visit new places this gives me a reason, a fun new friend and possibly a tourguide. |
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over a year ago
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"I think the ideal meeting distance is between 5-10 miles. Why travel any further unless you live out in the sticks. For me its far enough away to be discreet and you don't live on top of one an other. Whats your ideal distance and why?
All over the country.
I like traveling and visit new places this gives me a reason, a fun new friend and possibly a tourguide."
 this....some of the best places I've been to have been to meet people in the lifestyle. .. |
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Before I had my children I travelled far and wide to experience the lifestyle I love travelling and meeting new people it's like enriching, now I stay closer to home unless they need me in event of an emergency. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We use distance as filter. Anyone more than 50 miles away is a no as experience has taught us they wont show up no matter what they promise."
Really?
In my experience distance doesnt make any difference at all.
And thats with distances up to 10,000km + lol |
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over a year ago
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"We use distance as filter. Anyone more than 50 miles away is a no as experience has taught us they wont show up no matter what they promise.
Really?
In my experience distance doesnt make any difference at all.
And thats with distances up to 10,000km + lol"
Seriously out of all the meets we arranged roughly 4 out of 5 over 50 miles no showed. Were as only 1 out of 5, 20 to 30 miles away, no showed. |
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over a year ago
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"We use distance as filter. Anyone more than 50 miles away is a no as experience has taught us they wont show up no matter what they promise.
Really?
In my experience distance doesnt make any difference at all.
And thats with distances up to 10,000km + lol
Seriously out of all the meets we arranged roughly 4 out of 5 over 50 miles no showed. Were as only 1 out of 5, 20 to 30 miles away, no showed."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We use distance as filter. Anyone more than 50 miles away is a no as experience has taught us they wont show up no matter what they promise.
Really?
In my experience distance doesnt make any difference at all.
And thats with distances up to 10,000km + lol
Seriously out of all the meets we arranged roughly 4 out of 5 over 50 miles no showed. Were as only 1 out of 5, 20 to 30 miles away, no showed."
Weird. Never had that issue. |
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we favour business guys from a long way away and tend to avoid local people unless we are in clubs. Been on receiving end of some abuse in the past when I didn't acknowledge someone I'd met when out shopping, they were with family as was I - so avoiding people very local to us is a big thing |
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All over the country.
I like traveling and visit new places this gives me a reason, a fun new friend and possibly a tourguide."
Likewise.
I set up my priorities straight: Traveling first, meeting fabs second. So far, so good. |
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By *abphil OP Man
over a year ago
sheffield |
"We use distance as filter. Anyone more than 50 miles away is a no as experience has taught us they wont show up no matter what they promise.
Really?
In my experience distance doesnt make any difference at all.
And thats with distances up to 10,000km + lol
Seriously out of all the meets we arranged roughly 4 out of 5 over 50 miles no showed. Were as only 1 out of 5, 20 to 30 miles away, no showed.
Weird. Never had that issue."
Really never had a no show lucky man |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
I'd like to find someone local to me less than 15 miles makes it easier for regular meets.. For the right person I'm happy to travel far and wide, .  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we favour business guys from a long way away and tend to avoid local people unless we are in clubs. Been on receiving end of some abuse in the past when I didn't acknowledge someone I'd met when out shopping, they were with family as was I - so avoiding people very local to us is a big thing"
A very good reason to avoid locals. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We use distance as filter. Anyone more than 50 miles away is a no as experience has taught us they wont show up no matter what they promise.
Really?
In my experience distance doesnt make any difference at all.
And thats with distances up to 10,000km + lol
Seriously out of all the meets we arranged roughly 4 out of 5 over 50 miles no showed. Were as only 1 out of 5, 20 to 30 miles away, no showed.
Weird. Never had that issue.Really never had a no show lucky man"
Yep.
Sometimes had to rearrange things as things come up/shit happens but always with plenty of notice and easily worked around.
But never had somone not be there.
I dont think its luck tbh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We enjoy traveling. We have travelled from Birmingham to Doncaster for a meet.
We enjoy getting a hotel and having a social. So far we have not had a no show but that is probably because we like to get to know the people we are meeting and we like to talk on the phone to both partners of the couple before hand. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I went 6 and a bit hours over 3 different trains paid 40p to have a pee in one train station and covered about 450 odd miles way way up to the north of England for a fuck. The following weekend and almost every weekend after for 15 months he would turn up at my door after driving down himself! |
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By *abphil OP Man
over a year ago
sheffield |
"we favour business guys from a long way away and tend to avoid local people unless we are in clubs. Been on receiving end of some abuse in the past when I didn't acknowledge someone I'd met when out shopping, they were with family as was I - so avoiding people very local to us is a big thing
A very good reason to avoid locals. "
So a nod of the head is sacrilidge? |
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"we favour business guys from a long way away and tend to avoid local people unless we are in clubs. Been on receiving end of some abuse in the past when I didn't acknowledge someone I'd met when out shopping, they were with family as was I - so avoiding people very local to us is a big thing
A very good reason to avoid locals.
So a nod of the head is sacrilidge?"
Not a sacrilege but it can avoid awkward questions like "how do you know them?" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think the ideal meeting distance is between 5-10 miles. Why travel any further unless you live out in the sticks. For me its far enough away to be discreet and you don't live on top of one an other. Whats your ideal distance and why? "
40+ mile by bicycle  |
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By *abphil OP Man
over a year ago
sheffield |
"we favour business guys from a long way away and tend to avoid local people unless we are in clubs. Been on receiving end of some abuse in the past when I didn't acknowledge someone I'd met when out shopping, they were with family as was I - so avoiding people very local to us is a big thing
A very good reason to avoid locals.
So a nod of the head is sacrilidge?
Not a sacrilege but it can avoid awkward questions like "how do you know them?" "
Used to go to the same school |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we favour business guys from a long way away and tend to avoid local people unless we are in clubs. Been on receiving end of some abuse in the past when I didn't acknowledge someone I'd met when out shopping, they were with family as was I - so avoiding people very local to us is a big thing
A very good reason to avoid locals.
So a nod of the head is sacrilidge?"
Yep. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a regular couple I visited who were about 45 miles away but that was only 40 mins in the car via the motorway and my word, they were very much worth travelling for.
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By *abphil OP Man
over a year ago
sheffield |
"I had a regular couple I visited who were about 45 miles away but that was only 40 mins in the car via the motorway and my word, they were very much worth travelling for.
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Ah so its time not distance then |
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I traveled 430 miles to meet my now wife.
A couple once traveled three hours to meet us and they were amazingly well worth it all and they were pleased with us so a bit of effort pays dividends.
L2 |
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By *abphil OP Man
over a year ago
sheffield |
"I traveled 430 miles to meet my now wife.
A couple once traveled three hours to meet us and they were amazingly well worth it all and they were pleased with us so a bit of effort pays dividends.
L2"
When me Mel were together much easier to travel as you have your loved one with you. All alone and a long tedious journey. Glad to know that love can still blossom on fab well done you two mwah |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I traveled 430 miles to meet my now wife.
A couple once traveled three hours to meet us and they were amazingly well worth it all and they were pleased with us so a bit of effort pays dividends.
L2
When me Mel were together much easier to travel as you have your loved one with you. All alone and a long tedious journey. Glad to know that love can still blossom on fab well done you two mwah"
Get a motorbike.
No such thing a tedious journey |
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"we favour business guys from a long way away and tend to avoid local people unless we are in clubs. Been on receiving end of some abuse in the past when I didn't acknowledge someone I'd met when out shopping, they were with family as was I - so avoiding people very local to us is a big thing
A very good reason to avoid locals.
So a nod of the head is sacrilidge?
Not a sacrilege but it can avoid awkward questions like "how do you know them?"
Used to go to the same school"
Not everyone would feel comfortable lying in that manner |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For the right people distance shouldn't be any obstacle, as long as you have the ways and means of getting there (and back). Have travelled to Cambridgeshire from Manchester for a meet in the past, which was well worth it. If you're lucky enough to find some one closer to home for regular fun then why travel any further, but I suspect that most guys may have to cast their nets a bit further afield.   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we favour business guys from a long way away and tend to avoid local people unless we are in clubs. Been on receiving end of some abuse in the past when I didn't acknowledge someone I'd met when out shopping, they were with family as was I - so avoiding people very local to us is a big thing
A very good reason to avoid locals.
So a nod of the head is sacrilidge?
Not a sacrilege but it can avoid awkward questions like "how do you know them?"
Used to go to the same school
Not everyone would feel comfortable lying in that manner "
Most people are also way to slow to lie effectively in that situation
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Distance is not a problem for us, a bit of planning round work, family etc and we are good to go, we get to spend time together travelling to meet people, we see places we would probably never visit and then you have the bonus of meeting people at your destination who you hopefully get along with  |
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"we favour business guys from a long way away and tend to avoid local people unless we are in clubs. Been on receiving end of some abuse in the past when I didn't acknowledge someone I'd met when out shopping, they were with family as was I - so avoiding people very local to us is a big thing
A very good reason to avoid locals.
So a nod of the head is sacrilidge?
Not a sacrilege but it can avoid awkward questions like "how do you know them?"
Used to go to the same school
Not everyone would feel comfortable lying in that manner
Most people are also way to slow to lie effectively in that situation
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The club I attend is 40 miles away, I class that as local as it's within an hours drive.
I will travel further for a meeting, and may possibly be going 120 miles just for a social in the new year.
All depends on the person, if it's someone I want to meet and share friendship with then distance isn't a problem. |
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By *abphil OP Man
over a year ago
sheffield |
"we favour business guys from a long way away and tend to avoid local people unless we are in clubs. Been on receiving end of some abuse in the past when I didn't acknowledge someone I'd met when out shopping, they were with family as was I - so avoiding people very local to us is a big thing
A very good reason to avoid locals.
So a nod of the head is sacrilidge?
Not a sacrilege but it can avoid awkward questions like "how do you know them?"
Used to go to the same school
Not everyone would feel comfortable lying in that manner "
Ah ok obviously ignoring someone goes by unnoticed |
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"we favour business guys from a long way away and tend to avoid local people unless we are in clubs. Been on receiving end of some abuse in the past when I didn't acknowledge someone I'd met when out shopping, they were with family as was I - so avoiding people very local to us is a big thing
A very good reason to avoid locals.
So a nod of the head is sacrilidge?
Not a sacrilege but it can avoid awkward questions like "how do you know them?"
Used to go to the same school
Not everyone would feel comfortable lying in that manner
Ah ok obviously ignoring someone goes by unnoticed"
Who says they'd be ignored? some would view it as respecting privacy and being discreet as opposed to ignorance nothing to say they wouldn't pop on here and say hi later in the day |
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By *abphil OP Man
over a year ago
sheffield |
"we favour business guys from a long way away and tend to avoid local people unless we are in clubs. Been on receiving end of some abuse in the past when I didn't acknowledge someone I'd met when out shopping, they were with family as was I - so avoiding people very local to us is a big thing
A very good reason to avoid locals.
So a nod of the head is sacrilidge?
Not a sacrilege but it can avoid awkward questions like "how do you know them?"
Used to go to the same school
Not everyone would feel comfortable lying in that manner
Ah ok obviously ignoring someone goes by unnoticed
Who says they'd be ignored? some would view it as respecting privacy and being discreet as opposed to ignorance nothing to say they wouldn't pop on here and say hi later in the day "
After they had said thought they were a nice friendly sincere couple....delete friend |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we favour business guys from a long way away and tend to avoid local people unless we are in clubs. Been on receiving end of some abuse in the past when I didn't acknowledge someone I'd met when out shopping, they were with family as was I - so avoiding people very local to us is a big thing
A very good reason to avoid locals.
So a nod of the head is sacrilidge?
Not a sacrilege but it can avoid awkward questions like "how do you know them?"
Used to go to the same school
Not everyone would feel comfortable lying in that manner
Ah ok obviously ignoring someone goes by unnoticed"
You great every single person you see??  |
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"we favour business guys from a long way away and tend to avoid local people unless we are in clubs. Been on receiving end of some abuse in the past when I didn't acknowledge someone I'd met when out shopping, they were with family as was I - so avoiding people very local to us is a big thing
A very good reason to avoid locals.
So a nod of the head is sacrilidge?
Not a sacrilege but it can avoid awkward questions like "how do you know them?"
Used to go to the same school
Not everyone would feel comfortable lying in that manner
Ah ok obviously ignoring someone goes by unnoticed
Who says they'd be ignored? some would view it as respecting privacy and being discreet as opposed to ignorance nothing to say they wouldn't pop on here and say hi later in the day
After they had said thought they were a nice friendly sincere couple....delete friend"
Fair enough if that how you'd like to view things completely your peroration just bare in mind not everyone is you |
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"we favour business guys from a long way away and tend to avoid local people unless we are in clubs. Been on receiving end of some abuse in the past when I didn't acknowledge someone I'd met when out shopping, they were with family as was I - so avoiding people very local to us is a big thing
A very good reason to avoid locals.
So a nod of the head is sacrilidge?
Not a sacrilege but it can avoid awkward questions like "how do you know them?"
Used to go to the same school
Not everyone would feel comfortable lying in that manner
Ah ok obviously ignoring someone goes by unnoticed
Who says they'd be ignored? some would view it as respecting privacy and being discreet as opposed to ignorance nothing to say they wouldn't pop on here and say hi later in the day
After they had said thought they were a nice friendly sincere couple....delete friend
Fair enough if that how you'd like to view things completely your peroration just bare in mind not everyone is you"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love that fab has taken me all over the place, from the lake district to the isle of Wight, And a have many more travels planned..why not? Go see new places, have some great sex at the same time?
I think it's a great way to spend time |
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By *abphil OP Man
over a year ago
sheffield |
"we favour business guys from a long way away and tend to avoid local people unless we are in clubs. Been on receiving end of some abuse in the past when I didn't acknowledge someone I'd met when out shopping, they were with family as was I - so avoiding people very local to us is a big thing
A very good reason to avoid locals.
So a nod of the head is sacrilidge?
Not a sacrilege but it can avoid awkward questions like "how do you know them?"
Used to go to the same school
Not everyone would feel comfortable lying in that manner
Ah ok obviously ignoring someone goes by unnoticed
You great every single person you see?? "
No but the ones i have fucked stupid i do greet |
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"we favour business guys from a long way away and tend to avoid local people unless we are in clubs. Been on receiving end of some abuse in the past when I didn't acknowledge someone I'd met when out shopping, they were with family as was I - so avoiding people very local to us is a big thing
A very good reason to avoid locals.
So a nod of the head is sacrilidge?
Not a sacrilege but it can avoid awkward questions like "how do you know them?"
Used to go to the same school
Not everyone would feel comfortable lying in that manner
Ah ok obviously ignoring someone goes by unnoticed
Who says they'd be ignored? some would view it as respecting privacy and being discreet as opposed to ignorance nothing to say they wouldn't pop on here and say hi later in the day
After they had said thought they were a nice friendly sincere couple....delete friend"
Friendly in swinging terms and vanilla terms can differ |
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"we favour business guys from a long way away and tend to avoid local people unless we are in clubs. Been on receiving end of some abuse in the past when I didn't acknowledge someone I'd met when out shopping, they were with family as was I - so avoiding people very local to us is a big thing
A very good reason to avoid locals.
So a nod of the head is sacrilidge?
Not a sacrilege but it can avoid awkward questions like "how do you know them?"
Used to go to the same school
Not everyone would feel comfortable lying in that manner
Ah ok obviously ignoring someone goes by unnoticed
You great every single person you see??
No but the ones i have fucked stupid i do greet"
No need to resort to name calling |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Currently... well, when I'm meeting!... traveling's hard to do due to a lack of funds. But when I am the furthest I could afford would be about a hundred miles ish for someone really special. And it wouldn't be a drop of a hat as I'd need to save up, I tend to talk to people for a fair while before we meet. |
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By *abphil OP Man
over a year ago
sheffield |
"we favour business guys from a long way away and tend to avoid local people unless we are in clubs. Been on receiving end of some abuse in the past when I didn't acknowledge someone I'd met when out shopping, they were with family as was I - so avoiding people very local to us is a big thing
A very good reason to avoid locals.
So a nod of the head is sacrilidge?
Not a sacrilege but it can avoid awkward questions like "how do you know them?"
Used to go to the same school
Not everyone would feel comfortable lying in that manner
Ah ok obviously ignoring someone goes by unnoticed
You great every single person you see??
No but the ones i have fucked stupid i do greet
No need to resort to name calling "
What is the vanilla thing and no name calling but very witty |
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"we favour business guys from a long way away and tend to avoid local people unless we are in clubs. Been on receiving end of some abuse in the past when I didn't acknowledge someone I'd met when out shopping, they were with family as was I - so avoiding people very local to us is a big thing
A very good reason to avoid locals.
So a nod of the head is sacrilidge?
Not a sacrilege but it can avoid awkward questions like "how do you know them?"
Used to go to the same school
Not everyone would feel comfortable lying in that manner
Ah ok obviously ignoring someone goes by unnoticed
You great every single person you see??
No but the ones i have fucked stupid i do greet
No need to resort to name calling "
In fact reading it back you may or may not have been name calling so I perhaps jumped the gun there sorry if that's the case |
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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago
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All over the country.
I like traveling and visit new places this gives me a reason, a fun new friend and possibly a tourguide."
I'm in the sticks too, so that 5-10 mile limit is laughable. I've travelled in the UK for quality over quantity. I've even had people visit me from the US. It was a holiday for them but the primary reason was sex. It makes the tourist sites so much more memorable too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Before I have been travelling all around London for sex. I don't do that anymore cos it just takes whole day, so I keep it local within 2 miles, can stretch it to 3 miles lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we favour business guys from a long way away and tend to avoid local people unless we are in clubs. Been on receiving end of some abuse in the past when I didn't acknowledge someone I'd met when out shopping, they were with family as was I - so avoiding people very local to us is a big thing
A very good reason to avoid locals.
So a nod of the head is sacrilidge?
Not a sacrilege but it can avoid awkward questions like "how do you know them?"
Used to go to the same school
Not everyone would feel comfortable lying in that manner
Ah ok obviously ignoring someone goes by unnoticed
You great every single person you see??
No but the ones i have fucked stupid i do greet"
Even if that would cause them issues and force them to lie? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Currently... well, when I'm meeting!... traveling's hard to do due to a lack of funds. But when I am the furthest I could afford would be about a hundred miles ish for someone really special. And it wouldn't be a drop of a hat as I'd need to save up, I tend to talk to people for a fair while before we meet. "
Megabus :p |
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By *abphil OP Man
over a year ago
sheffield |
"we favour business guys from a long way away and tend to avoid local people unless we are in clubs. Been on receiving end of some abuse in the past when I didn't acknowledge someone I'd met when out shopping, they were with family as was I - so avoiding people very local to us is a big thing
A very good reason to avoid locals.
So a nod of the head is sacrilidge?
Not a sacrilege but it can avoid awkward questions like "how do you know them?"
Used to go to the same school
Not everyone would feel comfortable lying in that manner
Ah ok obviously ignoring someone goes by unnoticed
You great every single person you see??
No but the ones i have fucked stupid i do greet
Even if that would cause them issues and force them to lie?"
Just a nod nod of acknowledgement is a greeting, you don' have to shag em over the freezers |
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By *renaaJirkaCouple
over a year ago
Prague and New York |
We are traveling 3-4 times a year to private parties in Vienna, Austria already for few years.
And oposite when we travel, then we try to meet some local/expat couple/ couples or we visit swingers club.
In last two years we had meetings from London to Qatar, Barcelona, Prague, Amman, Tel Aviv, Vienna to Tbilisi.
And then there is our spring week in Maspalomas on Gran Canaria each year...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Currently... well, when I'm meeting!... traveling's hard to do due to a lack of funds. But when I am the furthest I could afford would be about a hundred miles ish for someone really special. And it wouldn't be a drop of a hat as I'd need to save up, I tend to talk to people for a fair while before we meet.
Megabus :p"
Eh, no.
Get on your bike and ride.  |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
harrow |
"Currently... well, when I'm meeting!... traveling's hard to do due to a lack of funds. But when I am the furthest I could afford would be about a hundred miles ish for someone really special. And it wouldn't be a drop of a hat as I'd need to save up, I tend to talk to people for a fair while before we meet.
Megabus :p
Eh, no.
Get on your bike and ride. "
I get megabus back from club meets |
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By *rMisterMan
over a year ago
Near the Wall |
"I traveled 430 miles to meet my now wife.
A couple once traveled three hours to meet us and they were amazingly well worth it all and they were pleased with us so a bit of effort pays dividends.
L2"
See, it works. I need to make more efforts if I have to find a partner off here |
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By *abphil OP Man
over a year ago
sheffield |
"I traveled 430 miles to meet my now wife.
A couple once traveled three hours to meet us and they were amazingly well worth it all and they were pleased with us so a bit of effort pays dividends.
L2
See, it works. I need to make more efforts if I have to find a partner off here "
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over a year ago
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"we favour business guys from a long way away and tend to avoid local people unless we are in clubs. Been on receiving end of some abuse in the past when I didn't acknowledge someone I'd met when out shopping, they were with family as was I - so avoiding people very local to us is a big thing
A very good reason to avoid locals.
So a nod of the head is sacrilidge?
Not a sacrilege but it can avoid awkward questions like "how do you know them?"
Used to go to the same school
Not everyone would feel comfortable lying in that manner
Ah ok obviously ignoring someone goes by unnoticed
You great every single person you see??
No but the ones i have fucked stupid i do greet
Even if that would cause them issues and force them to lie?Just a nod nod of acknowledgement is a greeting, you don' have to shag em over the freezers "
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By *abphil OP Man
over a year ago
sheffield |
"we favour business guys from a long way away and tend to avoid local people unless we are in clubs. Been on receiving end of some abuse in the past when I didn't acknowledge someone I'd met when out shopping, they were with family as was I - so avoiding people very local to us is a big thing
A very good reason to avoid locals.
So a nod of the head is sacrilidge?
Not a sacrilege but it can avoid awkward questions like "how do you know them?"
Used to go to the same school
Not everyone would feel comfortable lying in that manner
Ah ok obviously ignoring someone goes by unnoticed
You great every single person you see??
No but the ones i have fucked stupid i do greet
Even if that would cause them issues and force them to lie?Just a nod nod of acknowledgement is a greeting, you don' have to shag em over the freezers
Its a greating which can ilicit "so whos that why are they nodding at you!?""
refer to my previous answer lol |
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"I think the ideal meeting distance is between 5-10 miles. Why travel any further unless you live out in the sticks. For me its far enough away to be discreet and you don't live on top of one an other. Whats your ideal distance and why? "
Between 1 and 3 hours. Very few local people are interested in me.
And yes - 3 hours was most definitely worth it! |
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over a year ago
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Furthest I have been is just over an hour and it was well worth it.
Don't really want meets right on my doorstep, could get awkward.
Otherwise happy for people to travel to my place for fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have travelled to London form Liverpool for a meet. We had talked for a while, tx, phone and video calls and eventually we met up. I had a day out in London, saw the sites and then had a hot date and an amazing night. All depends on if you click I suppose |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
Hereford |
I'm prepared to travel a couple of hours if I somehow manage to get a day to myself. Normally, I limit it to 20miles max.
There are loads of people I want to meet who are further away, but my life doesn't seem to allow... |
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"we favour business guys from a long way away and tend to avoid local people unless we are in clubs. Been on receiving end of some abuse in the past when I didn't acknowledge someone I'd met when out shopping, they were with family as was I - so avoiding people very local to us is a big thing
A very good reason to avoid locals.
So a nod of the head is sacrilidge?
Not a sacrilege but it can avoid awkward questions like "how do you know them?"
Used to go to the same school
Not everyone would feel comfortable lying in that manner
Ah ok obviously ignoring someone goes by unnoticed
You great every single person you see??
No but the ones i have fucked stupid i do greet
Even if that would cause them issues and force them to lie?Just a nod nod of acknowledgement is a greeting, you don' have to shag em over the freezers
Its a greating which can ilicit "so whos that why are they nodding at you!?"refer to my previous answer lol"
You're really not getting the point thsts trying to be made are you?
If your friendly nod puts that friend in an uncomfortable position would you say you are you still being a friend to make them feel that badly within the situation? do you now see how you could be putting yourself in the postion of being labelled a bit of a dick for making them feel that way?
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By *abphil OP Man
over a year ago
sheffield |
"we favour business guys from a long way away and tend to avoid local people unless we are in clubs. Been on receiving end of some abuse in the past when I didn't acknowledge someone I'd met when out shopping, they were with family as was I - so avoiding people very local to us is a big thing
A very good reason to avoid locals.
So a nod of the head is sacrilidge?
Not a sacrilege but it can avoid awkward questions like "how do you know them?"
Used to go to the same school
Not everyone would feel comfortable lying in that manner
Ah ok obviously ignoring someone goes by unnoticed
You great every single person you see??
No but the ones i have fucked stupid i do greet
Even if that would cause them issues and force them to lie?Just a nod nod of acknowledgement is a greeting, you don' have to shag em over the freezers
Its a greating which can ilicit "so whos that why are they nodding at you!?"refer to my previous answer lol
You're really not getting the point thsts trying to be made are you?
If your friendly nod puts that friend in an uncomfortable position would you say you are you still being a friend to make them feel that badly within the situation? do you now see how you could be putting yourself in the postion of being labelled a bit of a dick for making them feel that way?
Now if they they were doing the dirty on there partner but you telling me that kids watch your every move and there can be no discretion. Sorry i must be a dick simple
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over a year ago
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"we favour business guys from a long way away and tend to avoid local people unless we are in clubs. Been on receiving end of some abuse in the past when I didn't acknowledge someone I'd met when out shopping, they were with family as was I - so avoiding people very local to us is a big thing
A very good reason to avoid locals.
So a nod of the head is sacrilidge?
Not a sacrilege but it can avoid awkward questions like "how do you know them?"
Used to go to the same school
Not everyone would feel comfortable lying in that manner
Ah ok obviously ignoring someone goes by unnoticed
You great every single person you see??
No but the ones i have fucked stupid i do greet
Even if that would cause them issues and force them to lie?Just a nod nod of acknowledgement is a greeting, you don' have to shag em over the freezers
Its a greating which can ilicit "so whos that why are they nodding at you!?"refer to my previous answer lol"
So basically you're proving the point of everyone who doesn't meet local.
Because you completely lack discretion |
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By *abphil OP Man
over a year ago
sheffield |
"we favour business guys from a long way away and tend to avoid local people unless we are in clubs. Been on receiving end of some abuse in the past when I didn't acknowledge someone I'd met when out shopping, they were with family as was I - so avoiding people very local to us is a big thing
A very good reason to avoid locals.
So a nod of the head is sacrilidge?
Not a sacrilege but it can avoid awkward questions like "how do you know them?"
Used to go to the same school
Not everyone would feel comfortable lying in that manner
Ah ok obviously ignoring someone goes by unnoticed
You great every single person you see??
No but the ones i have fucked stupid i do greet
Even if that would cause them issues and force them to lie?Just a nod nod of acknowledgement is a greeting, you don' have to shag em over the freezers
Its a greating which can ilicit "so whos that why are they nodding at you!?"refer to my previous answer lol
So basically you're proving the point of everyone who doesn't meet local.
Because you completely lack discretion "
I refer to my previous answer |
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"we favour business guys from a long way away and tend to avoid local people unless we are in clubs. Been on receiving end of some abuse in the past when I didn't acknowledge someone I'd met when out shopping, they were with family as was I - so avoiding people very local to us is a big thing
A very good reason to avoid locals.
So a nod of the head is sacrilidge?
Not a sacrilege but it can avoid awkward questions like "how do you know them?"
Used to go to the same school
Not everyone would feel comfortable lying in that manner
Ah ok obviously ignoring someone goes by unnoticed
You great every single person you see??
No but the ones i have fucked stupid i do greet
Even if that would cause them issues and force them to lie?Just a nod nod of acknowledgement is a greeting, you don' have to shag em over the freezers
Its a greating which can ilicit "so whos that why are they nodding at you!?"refer to my previous answer lol
You're really not getting the point thsts trying to be made are you?
If your friendly nod puts that friend in an uncomfortable position would you say you are you still being a friend to make them feel that badly within the situation? do you now see how you could be putting yourself in the postion of being labelled a bit of a dick for making them feel that way?
Now if they they were doing the dirty on there partner but you telling me that kids watch your every move and there can be no discretion. Sorry i must be a dick simple
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If the person saw your actions as a lack of discretion the yes you're being bit a of dick just because you're ok being acknowledged publicly doesn't means the other party would be, you have to consider their feelings not just your own! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've driven an hour to meet but that was years ago, now I'd limit it to half an hour ish, I just don't have the time, I'd rather have more time playing than traveling. |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
In the past, I combined a meet with a trip to the football - 400 miles.
Have had a couple travel from Stoke to here to meet too... quite a distance.
Had a regular meet with a fella from Glasgow for a while too.
Now prefer to stay local and meet more if it suits both sides |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
I prefer local meets......within 10 - 15 miles. Makes life easier for repeat meets. I have travelled for 6 hours to see someone, and have planned my summer holidays to visit people I have chatted to on here. Camper van freedom |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we favour business guys from a long way away and tend to avoid local people unless we are in clubs. Been on receiving end of some abuse in the past when I didn't acknowledge someone I'd met when out shopping, they were with family as was I - so avoiding people very local to us is a big thing
A very good reason to avoid locals.
So a nod of the head is sacrilidge?
Not a sacrilege but it can avoid awkward questions like "how do you know them?"
Used to go to the same school
Not everyone would feel comfortable lying in that manner
Ah ok obviously ignoring someone goes by unnoticed
You great every single person you see??
No but the ones i have fucked stupid i do greet
Even if that would cause them issues and force them to lie?Just a nod nod of acknowledgement is a greeting, you don' have to shag em over the freezers
Its a greating which can ilicit "so whos that why are they nodding at you!?"refer to my previous answer lol
So basically you're proving the point of everyone who doesn't meet local.
Because you completely lack discretion "
It's why I always point out to people that I meet that I'm out and treat people I have sex with as my friends.
I would say hello in the street and see if people fancied a coffee if I had time. So people who need 'discretion' aren't for me. It works as a good filter. |
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"we favour business guys from a long way away and tend to avoid local people unless we are in clubs. Been on receiving end of some abuse in the past when I didn't acknowledge someone I'd met when out shopping, they were with family as was I - so avoiding people very local to us is a big thing
A very good reason to avoid locals.
So a nod of the head is sacrilidge?
Not a sacrilege but it can avoid awkward questions like "how do you know them?"
Used to go to the same school
Not everyone would feel comfortable lying in that manner
Ah ok obviously ignoring someone goes by unnoticed
You great every single person you see??
No but the ones i have fucked stupid i do greet
Even if that would cause them issues and force them to lie?Just a nod nod of acknowledgement is a greeting, you don' have to shag em over the freezers
Its a greating which can ilicit "so whos that why are they nodding at you!?"refer to my previous answer lol
So basically you're proving the point of everyone who doesn't meet local.
Because you completely lack discretion
It's why I always point out to people that I meet that I'm out and treat people I have sex with as my friends.
I would say hello in the street and see if people fancied a coffee if I had time. So people who need 'discretion' aren't for me. It works as a good filter."
That's fine if it's made clear from the start but it isn't always and could unfairly blindside someone |
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over a year ago
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"we favour business guys from a long way away and tend to avoid local people unless we are in clubs. Been on receiving end of some abuse in the past when I didn't acknowledge someone I'd met when out shopping, they were with family as was I - so avoiding people very local to us is a big thing
A very good reason to avoid locals.
So a nod of the head is sacrilidge?
Not a sacrilege but it can avoid awkward questions like "how do you know them?"
Used to go to the same school
Not everyone would feel comfortable lying in that manner
Ah ok obviously ignoring someone goes by unnoticed
You great every single person you see??
No but the ones i have fucked stupid i do greet
Even if that would cause them issues and force them to lie?Just a nod nod of acknowledgement is a greeting, you don' have to shag em over the freezers
Its a greating which can ilicit "so whos that why are they nodding at you!?"refer to my previous answer lol
So basically you're proving the point of everyone who doesn't meet local.
Because you completely lack discretion
It's why I always point out to people that I meet that I'm out and treat people I have sex with as my friends.
I would say hello in the street and see if people fancied a coffee if I had time. So people who need 'discretion' aren't for me. It works as a good filter.
That's fine if it's made clear from the start but it isn't always and could unfairly blindside someone"
Yeah for sure. I always ask questions about how 'out' people are. I mean I wouldn't say 'hey how was Xtasia last night?' if I saw them in the high street but I would always say hello and have a quick catch up.
It's not exactly hard to make up a reason that you met someone though. As far as most people are concerned I met one of my partners 'through photography'. That's all the info they have. Another partner met me 'at an exhibition'. And a FWB met me 'at the pub'. It's not difficult. |
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By *abphil OP Man
over a year ago
sheffield |
"we favour business guys from a long way away and tend to avoid local people unless we are in clubs. Been on receiving end of some abuse in the past when I didn't acknowledge someone I'd met when out shopping, they were with family as was I - so avoiding people very local to us is a big thing
A very good reason to avoid locals.
So a nod of the head is sacrilidge?
Not a sacrilege but it can avoid awkward questions like "how do you know them?"
Used to go to the same school
Not everyone would feel comfortable lying in that manner
Ah ok obviously ignoring someone goes by unnoticed
You great every single person you see??
No but the ones i have fucked stupid i do greet
Even if that would cause them issues and force them to lie?Just a nod nod of acknowledgement is a greeting, you don' have to shag em over the freezers
Its a greating which can ilicit "so whos that why are they nodding at you!?"refer to my previous answer lol
So basically you're proving the point of everyone who doesn't meet local.
Because you completely lack discretion
It's why I always point out to people that I meet that I'm out and treat people I have sex with as my friends.
I would say hello in the street and see if people fancied a coffee if I had time. So people who need 'discretion' aren't for me. It works as a good filter.
That's fine if it's made clear from the start but it isn't always and could unfairly blindside someone
Yeah for sure. I always ask questions about how 'out' people are. I mean I wouldn't say 'hey how was Xtasia last night?' if I saw them in the high street but I would always say hello and have a quick catch up.
It's not exactly hard to make up a reason that you met someone though. As far as most people are concerned I met one of my partners 'through photography'. That's all the info they have. Another partner met me 'at an exhibition'. And a FWB met me 'at the pub'. It's not difficult."
Too late mate already branded |
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"we favour business guys from a long way away and tend to avoid local people unless we are in clubs. Been on receiving end of some abuse in the past when I didn't acknowledge someone I'd met when out shopping, they were with family as was I - so avoiding people very local to us is a big thing
A very good reason to avoid locals.
So a nod of the head is sacrilidge?
Not a sacrilege but it can avoid awkward questions like "how do you know them?"
Used to go to the same school
Not everyone would feel comfortable lying in that manner
Ah ok obviously ignoring someone goes by unnoticed
You great every single person you see??
No but the ones i have fucked stupid i do greet
Even if that would cause them issues and force them to lie?Just a nod nod of acknowledgement is a greeting, you don' have to shag em over the freezers
Its a greating which can ilicit "so whos that why are they nodding at you!?"refer to my previous answer lol
So basically you're proving the point of everyone who doesn't meet local.
Because you completely lack discretion
It's why I always point out to people that I meet that I'm out and treat people I have sex with as my friends.
I would say hello in the street and see if people fancied a coffee if I had time. So people who need 'discretion' aren't for me. It works as a good filter.
That's fine if it's made clear from the start but it isn't always and could unfairly blindside someone
Yeah for sure. I always ask questions about how 'out' people are. I mean I wouldn't say 'hey how was Xtasia last night?' if I saw them in the high street but I would always say hello and have a quick catch up.
It's not exactly hard to make up a reason that you met someone though. As far as most people are concerned I met one of my partners 'through photography'. That's all the info they have. Another partner met me 'at an exhibition'. And a FWB met me 'at the pub'. It's not difficult.
Too late mate already branded"
No one 'branded' you
I was trying to help you consider another perspective |
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"I'd prefer to not meet locally just so I don't run into someone in the supermarket or town.
And they turn out to be the kind of nuisance that thinks it's ok to acknowledge me in the 'real' world "
I see what you did there
The minx part of your name really is quite relevant |
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By *abphil OP Man
over a year ago
sheffield |
"I'd prefer to not meet locally just so I don't run into someone in the supermarket or town.
And they turn out to be the kind of nuisance that thinks it's ok to acknowledge me in the 'real' world
I see what you did there
The minx part of your name really is quite relevant "
Ooh er i say cat fight coming on lol |
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"I'd prefer to not meet locally just so I don't run into someone in the supermarket or town.
And they turn out to be the kind of nuisance that thinks it's ok to acknowledge me in the 'real' world
I see what you did there
The minx part of your name really is quite relevant Ooh er i say cat fight coming on lol"
No not at all |
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By *onesal20Couple
over a year ago
North East England |
Closest less than a mile, furthest 130 miles. Never had a no show yet, although a few single guys and one couple have bottled out and vanished off the radar the day or so before we were due to meet.
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over a year ago
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"I went 6 and a bit hours over 3 different trains paid 40p to have a pee in one train station and covered about 450 odd miles way way up to the north of England for a fuck. The following weekend and almost every weekend after for 15 months he would turn up at my door after driving down himself! "
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
harrow |
I will be honest I don't often meet people in the south east......
Reason is every other weekend I am in Manchester so for me it make sense that I play my Manc weekends then have a free weekend in between means I get my energy back
I am in Manc as I am a Mufc season ticket holder |
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"we favour business guys from a long way away and tend to avoid local people unless we are in clubs. Been on receiving end of some abuse in the past when I didn't acknowledge someone I'd met when out shopping, they were with family as was I - so avoiding people very local to us is a big thing
A very good reason to avoid locals.
So a nod of the head is sacrilidge?"
No, but 6 text messages saying "I cant believe you didn't speak to me , you c*nt" was not exactly ideal |
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By *abphil OP Man
over a year ago
sheffield |
"we favour business guys from a long way away and tend to avoid local people unless we are in clubs. Been on receiving end of some abuse in the past when I didn't acknowledge someone I'd met when out shopping, they were with family as was I - so avoiding people very local to us is a big thing
A very good reason to avoid locals.
So a nod of the head is sacrilidge?
No, but 6 text messages saying "I cant believe you didn't speak to me , you c*nt" was not exactly ideal "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think the ideal meeting distance is between 5-10 miles. Why travel any further unless you live out in the sticks. For me its far enough away to be discreet and you don't live on top of one an other. Whats your ideal distance and why?
All over the country.
I like traveling and visit new places this gives me a reason, a fun new friend and possibly a tourguide."
my feelings exactly....happy to travel...have a meet...see a new place...so will go a fair distance. People think you might be mad or desperate...not in the slightest...! |
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Why restrict your choice to 5-10 miles?
I've travelled three hours each way for a great two hour meet. Ladies have travelled up to four hours to meet me.
Then there was the time I flew 5000 miles in three airliners to meet a lady....but she became my wife |
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By (user no longer on site)
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When I was meeting people, no more than an hour to me was about as much as I could afford and I wouldn't let anyone travel more than an hour to me either. I did make exceptions for two guys and we met halfway but then we had been chatting for a long time, redundancy money paid for the petrol |
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By *abphil OP Man
over a year ago
sheffield |
"It depends on the person how far I will travel. "
I did say an ideal distance, because to travel long distances you have to have time to do it. Shift workers people on rotas family commitments etc eat time up |
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