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over a year ago
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So try as we have to respond to messages even just to say a no thanks, or we aren't interested. We've just got to the stage of being fed up with the abuse from single guys.
So far today we've had the grammar police and the guy that is tired of silly time wasting cunts like us.
Guys, if you aren't our cup of tea then we don't have to appease your sensitivities.
If any guy wonders why his message goes unread or he just gets blocked without a reply then you have the abusers to thank
Rant over!
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"So try as we have to respond to messages even just to say a no thanks, or we aren't interested. We've just got to the stage of being fed up with the abuse from single guys.
So far today we've had the grammar police and the guy that is tired of silly time wasting cunts like us.
Guys, if you aren't our cup of tea then we don't have to appease your sensitivities.
If any guy wonders why his message goes unread or he just gets blocked without a reply then you have the abusers to thank
Rant over!
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Your best bet is to do the looking yourselves |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So try as we have to respond to messages even just to say a no thanks, or we aren't interested. We've just got to the stage of being fed up with the abuse from single guys.
So far today we've had the grammar police and the guy that is tired of silly time wasting cunts like us.
Guys, if you aren't our cup of tea then we don't have to appease your sensitivities.
If any guy wonders why his message goes unread or he just gets blocked without a reply then you have the abusers to thank
Rant over!
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Sadly I understand where you're coming from. It makes it so much harder and more frustrating for those of us who really are nice genuine single guys when messages go unread or unanswered because of the absolute idiots on here. |
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"So try as we have to respond to messages even just to say a no thanks, or we aren't interested. We've just got to the stage of being fed up with the abuse from single guys.
So far today we've had the grammar police and the guy that is tired of silly time wasting cunts like us.
Guys, if you aren't our cup of tea then we don't have to appease your sensitivities.
If any guy wonders why his message goes unread or he just gets blocked without a reply then you have the abusers to thank
Rant over!
Sadly I understand where you're coming from. It makes it so much harder and more frustrating for those of us who really are nice genuine single guys when messages go unread or unanswered because of the absolute idiots on here."
Oh no, no ,no no.
Not the "bad guys spoil it for the good "genuine" guys" tired old argument again... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It really intrigues me as to why people get so many abusive messages from saying a no thank you,when I've said no thank you hundreds of times and only had 3 negative remarks from it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Sadly I understand where you're coming from. It makes it so much harder and more frustrating for those of us who really are nice genuine single guys when messages go unread or unanswered because of the absolute idiots on here."
That isn't the reason. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well done....only took you 7 months to work out how to use the tools provided by the site.
Missed the point a bit? "
Your feeling a bit shit and wanted a thread full of false compliments and sucking up about how you're wonderful and these guys are all assholes?
That was the point right? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well done....only took you 7 months to work out how to use the tools provided by the site.
Missed the point a bit?
Nope i don't think i did."
I believe you did. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well done....only took you 7 months to work out how to use the tools provided by the site.
Missed the point a bit?
Nope i don't think i did.
I believe you did."
Care to explain? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It really intrigues me as to why people get so many abusive messages from saying a no thank you,when I've said no thank you hundreds of times and only had 3 negative remarks from it "
I think a few reasons why.
Location, age of guys, and how they _iew promiscuous women.
How attractive the person being messaged is. Obviously the more attractive then the more disappointed the guy will be, us 'mingers' they're like meh don't really care if i fuck you or not so don't get mad lol.
Whatever reasons. There's no excuses for being a dick. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well done....only took you 7 months to work out how to use the tools provided by the site.
Missed the point a bit?
Your feeling a bit shit and wanted a thread full of false compliments and sucking up about how you're wonderful and these guys are all assholes?
That was the point right?"
Probably just venting. We've all done it when something pisses us off. I know i have anyway.
It's also possible they're trying to get guys to stop being aggressive with them when they reject them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It really intrigues me as to why people get so many abusive messages from saying a no thank you,when I've said no thank you hundreds of times and only had 3 negative remarks from it
I think a few reasons why.
Location, age of guys, and how they _iew promiscuous women.
How attractive the person being messaged is. Obviously the more attractive then the more disappointed the guy will be, us 'mingers' they're like meh don't really care if i fuck you or not so don't get mad lol.
Whatever reasons. There's no excuses for being a dick."
Unlucky angel, you've just been downgraded to a "minger" it seems.
I had no idea that peoples attractiveness was judged by how abusive people were to them.
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"So try as we have to respond to messages even just to say a no thanks, or we aren't interested. We've just got to the stage of being fed up with the abuse from single guys.
So far today we've had the grammar police and the guy that is tired of silly time wasting cunts like us.
Guys, if you aren't our cup of tea then we don't have to appease your sensitivities.
If any guy wonders why his message goes unread or he just gets blocked without a reply then you have the abusers to thank
Rant over!
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But,but,but I love you guys.Please do not leave me without my light shining a path through the Fab darkness,I promise to try and eliminate all the bad guys from your profile and then we can make sweet passionate love to the sound of pan pipes.
OOPS typo meant to say fuck them assholes giving me a bad name  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It really intrigues me as to why people get so many abusive messages from saying a no thank you,when I've said no thank you hundreds of times and only had 3 negative remarks from it
I think a few reasons why.
Location, age of guys, and how they _iew promiscuous women.
How attractive the person being messaged is. Obviously the more attractive then the more disappointed the guy will be, us 'mingers' they're like meh don't really care if i fuck you or not so don't get mad lol.
Whatever reasons. There's no excuses for being a dick.
Unlucky angel, you've just been downgraded to a "minger" it seems.
I had no idea that peoples attractiveness was judged by how abusive people were to them.
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Mingers is in 'quotes'. stop twisting what i said.
Them's my theories. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It really intrigues me as to why people get so many abusive messages from saying a no thank you,when I've said no thank you hundreds of times and only had 3 negative remarks from it
I think a few reasons why.
Location, age of guys, and how they _iew promiscuous women.
How attractive the person being messaged is. Obviously the more attractive then the more disappointed the guy will be, us 'mingers' they're like meh don't really care if i fuck you or not so don't get mad lol.
Whatever reasons. There's no excuses for being a dick."
My feet are a bit minging to be honest. I put it down to they're secretly relieved I said no and don't have to have a desperation fuck with a fat old bird |
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"So try as we have to respond to messages even just to say a no thanks, or we aren't interested. We've just got to the stage of being fed up with the abuse from single guys.
So far today we've had the grammar police and the guy that is tired of silly time wasting cunts like us.
Guys, if you aren't our cup of tea then we don't have to appease your sensitivities.
If any guy wonders why his message goes unread or he just gets blocked without a reply then you have the abusers to thank
Rant over!
Sadly I understand where you're coming from. It makes it so much harder and more frustrating for those of us who really are nice genuine single guys when messages go unread or unanswered because of the absolute idiots on here.
Oh no, no ,no no.
Not the "bad guys spoil it for the good "genuine" guys" tired old argument again..."
you do realise you have no obligation to respond to forum posts you have an aversion to yes? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It really intrigues me as to why people get so many abusive messages from saying a no thank you,when I've said no thank you hundreds of times and only had 3 negative remarks from it
I think a few reasons why.
Location, age of guys, and how they _iew promiscuous women.
How attractive the person being messaged is. Obviously the more attractive then the more disappointed the guy will be, us 'mingers' they're like meh don't really care if i fuck you or not so don't get mad lol.
Whatever reasons. There's no excuses for being a dick.
Unlucky angel, you've just been downgraded to a "minger" it seems.
I had no idea that peoples attractiveness was judged by how abusive people were to them.
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's ok. I know I'm no catch on here. I must admit that the 3 abusive messages came after I was a little sardonic with my replies. I don't often do that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It really intrigues me as to why people get so many abusive messages from saying a no thank you,when I've said no thank you hundreds of times and only had 3 negative remarks from it
I think a few reasons why.
Location, age of guys, and how they _iew promiscuous women.
How attractive the person being messaged is. Obviously the more attractive then the more disappointed the guy will be, us 'mingers' they're like meh don't really care if i fuck you or not so don't get mad lol.
Whatever reasons. There's no excuses for being a dick.
My feet are a bit minging to be honest. I put it down to they're secretly relieved I said no and don't have to have a desperation fuck with a fat old bird "
Quotes mean sarcasm by the way.
Idk why guys abuse people but i'm sure it's mainly down to the guy himself and his expectations, sometimes the reply might be because of the woman goading him but i think this would be rare. I know i've had abuse when not even replying to some random quick enough. |
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"So try as we have to respond to messages even just to say a no thanks, or we aren't interested. We've just got to the stage of being fed up with the abuse from single guys.
So far today we've had the grammar police and the guy that is tired of silly time wasting cunts like us.
Guys, if you aren't our cup of tea then we don't have to appease your sensitivities.
If any guy wonders why his message goes unread or he just gets blocked without a reply then you have the abusers to thank
Rant over!
Sadly I understand where you're coming from. It makes it so much harder and more frustrating for those of us who really are nice genuine single guys when messages go unread or unanswered because of the absolute idiots on here.
Oh no, no ,no no.
Not the "bad guys spoil it for the good "genuine" guys" tired old argument again...
you do realise you have no obligation to respond to forum posts you have an aversion to yes?"
Errr.... I think you could do with following your own advice!
At least my contributions make sense |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The reason most msgs don't get read is cos they get inundated with msgs so more than likely do a mass delete rather than look at each msg lol."
no, its not. It is far more likely that a quick look at the senders profile shows clearly they havent bothered reading the profile of the person they are messaging. |
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"So try as we have to respond to messages even just to say a no thanks, or we aren't interested. We've just got to the stage of being fed up with the abuse from single guys.
So far today we've had the grammar police and the guy that is tired of silly time wasting cunts like us.
Guys, if you aren't our cup of tea then we don't have to appease your sensitivities.
If any guy wonders why his message goes unread or he just gets blocked without a reply then you have the abusers to thank
Rant over!
Sadly I understand where you're coming from. It makes it so much harder and more frustrating for those of us who really are nice genuine single guys when messages go unread or unanswered because of the absolute idiots on here.
Oh no, no ,no no.
Not the "bad guys spoil it for the good "genuine" guys" tired old argument again...
you do realise you have no obligation to respond to forum posts you have an aversion to yes?
Errr.... I think you could do with following your own advice!
At least my contributions make sense "
yes sir white knight of fabbington you keep telling yourself that. x x x x x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It really intrigues me as to why people get so many abusive messages from saying a no thank you,when I've said no thank you hundreds of times and only had 3 negative remarks from it
I think a few reasons why.
Location, age of guys, and how they _iew promiscuous women.
How attractive the person being messaged is. Obviously the more attractive then the more disappointed the guy will be, us 'mingers' they're like meh don't really care if i fuck you or not so don't get mad lol.
Whatever reasons. There's no excuses for being a dick.
Unlucky angel, you've just been downgraded to a "minger" it seems.
I had no idea that peoples attractiveness was judged by how abusive people were to them.
's ok. I know I'm no catch on here. I must admit that the 3 abusive messages came after I was a little sardonic with my replies. I don't often do that."
In my defence you didnt have to be so mean about my hat |
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"It really intrigues me as to why people get so many abusive messages from saying a no thank you,when I've said no thank you hundreds of times and only had 3 negative remarks from it
I think a few reasons why.
Location, age of guys, and how they _iew promiscuous women.
How attractive the person being messaged is. Obviously the more attractive then the more disappointed the guy will be, us 'mingers' they're like meh don't really care if i fuck you or not so don't get mad lol.
Whatever reasons. There's no excuses for being a dick."
Umm. Are you saying that, in order for someone one to convince you that they actually fancy you and find you quite attractive, they should send you an abusive reply if you turn them down first time? I'll keep that in mind next time I message you. LOL
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So try as we have to respond to messages even just to say a no thanks, or we aren't interested. We've just got to the stage of being fed up with the abuse from single guys.
So far today we've had the grammar police and the guy that is tired of silly time wasting cunts like us.
Guys, if you aren't our cup of tea then we don't have to appease your sensitivities.
If any guy wonders why his message goes unread or he just gets blocked without a reply then you have the abusers to thank
Rant over!
Sadly I understand where you're coming from. It makes it so much harder and more frustrating for those of us who really are nice genuine single guys when messages go unread or unanswered because of the absolute idiots on here.
Oh no, no ,no no.
Not the "bad guys spoil it for the good "genuine" guys" tired old argument again...
you do realise you have no obligation to respond to forum posts you have an aversion to yes?
Errr.... I think you could do with following your own advice!
At least my contributions make sense
yes sir white knight of fabbington you keep telling yourself that. x x x x x"
You realise youre having a go at the wrong person right?
Hes not the one white kighting he was quoting and replying to the guy white knighting saying the "few bad eggs ruin it for the genuine guys" argument is tired and bollocks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The reason most msgs don't get read is cos they get inundated with msgs so more than likely do a mass delete rather than look at each msg lol.
no, its not. It is far more likely that a quick look at the senders profile shows clearly they havent bothered reading the profile of the person they are messaging."
Yep. No woman is that inundated apart from those that relish in the attention and don't utilise the filters effectively. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It really intrigues me as to why people get so many abusive messages from saying a no thank you,when I've said no thank you hundreds of times and only had 3 negative remarks from it
I think a few reasons why.
Location, age of guys, and how they _iew promiscuous women.
How attractive the person being messaged is. Obviously the more attractive then the more disappointed the guy will be, us 'mingers' they're like meh don't really care if i fuck you or not so don't get mad lol.
Whatever reasons. There's no excuses for being a dick.
Umm. Are you saying that, in order for someone one to convince you that they actually fancy you and find you quite attractive, they should send you an abusive reply if you turn them down first time? I'll keep that in mind next time I message you. LOL
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Lol, yes please do. It makes my panties wet.
I was taking the piss. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So try as we have to respond to messages even just to say a no thanks, or we aren't interested. We've just got to the stage of being fed up with the abuse from single guys.
So far today we've had the grammar police and the guy that is tired of silly time wasting cunts like us.
Guys, if you aren't our cup of tea then we don't have to appease your sensitivities.
If any guy wonders why his message goes unread or he just gets blocked without a reply then you have the abusers to thank
Rant over!
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can't you keep rants to yourself its Xmas  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sometimes it just feels good to 'rant'"
The day something on here makes me want to rant is the day i leave. The problem i have with rant threads is that they always want to change the behaviour of others, which they will never do. They never seem to twig that the solution is in changing their own behaviour and the way they do things and approach the site. |
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"So try as we have to respond to messages even just to say a no thanks, or we aren't interested. We've just got to the stage of being fed up with the abuse from single guys.
So far today we've had the grammar police and the guy that is tired of silly time wasting cunts like us.
Guys, if you aren't our cup of tea then we don't have to appease your sensitivities.
If any guy wonders why his message goes unread or he just gets blocked without a reply then you have the abusers to thank
Rant over!
Sadly I understand where you're coming from. It makes it so much harder and more frustrating for those of us who really are nice genuine single guys when messages go unread or unanswered because of the absolute idiots on here.
Oh no, no ,no no.
Not the "bad guys spoil it for the good "genuine" guys" tired old argument again...
you do realise you have no obligation to respond to forum posts you have an aversion to yes?
Errr.... I think you could do with following your own advice!
At least my contributions make sense
yes sir white knight of fabbington you keep telling yourself that. x x x x x
You realise youre having a go at the wrong person right?
Hes not the one white kighting he was quoting and replying to the guy white knighting saying the "few bad eggs ruin it for the genuine guys" argument is tired and bollocks."
nope dude i know exactly who i meant to reference |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So try as we have to respond to messages even just to say a no thanks, or we aren't interested. We've just got to the stage of being fed up with the abuse from single guys.
So far today we've had the grammar police and the guy that is tired of silly time wasting cunts like us.
Guys, if you aren't our cup of tea then we don't have to appease your sensitivities.
If any guy wonders why his message goes unread or he just gets blocked without a reply then you have the abusers to thank
Rant over!
Sadly I understand where you're coming from. It makes it so much harder and more frustrating for those of us who really are nice genuine single guys when messages go unread or unanswered because of the absolute idiots on here.
Oh no, no ,no no.
Not the "bad guys spoil it for the good "genuine" guys" tired old argument again...
you do realise you have no obligation to respond to forum posts you have an aversion to yes?
Errr.... I think you could do with following your own advice!
At least my contributions make sense
yes sir white knight of fabbington you keep telling yourself that. x x x x x
You realise youre having a go at the wrong person right?
Hes not the one white kighting he was quoting and replying to the guy white knighting saying the "few bad eggs ruin it for the genuine guys" argument is tired and bollocks.
nope dude i know exactly who i meant to reference "
So the guy making the exact same argument as you is the one youre having a go at?
Bizarre |
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By (user no longer on site)
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OP you could put on your profile that you don't reply to everyone who messages you. I've done that on mine so if they don't know that i don't reply they didn't read my profile anyway so i don't care or feel bad about not replying. |
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"It really intrigues me as to why people get so many abusive messages from saying a no thank you,when I've said no thank you hundreds of times and only had 3 negative remarks from it "
You're very lucky then .... i would say 60% of the guys i say no thanks to then send me abusive messeges. |
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"So try as we have to respond to messages even just to say a no thanks, or we aren't interested. We've just got to the stage of being fed up with the abuse from single guys.
So far today we've had the grammar police and the guy that is tired of silly time wasting cunts like us.
Guys, if you aren't our cup of tea then we don't have to appease your sensitivities.
If any guy wonders why his message goes unread or he just gets blocked without a reply then you have the abusers to thank
Rant over!
Sadly I understand where you're coming from. It makes it so much harder and more frustrating for those of us who really are nice genuine single guys when messages go unread or unanswered because of the absolute idiots on here.
Oh no, no ,no no.
Not the "bad guys spoil it for the good "genuine" guys" tired old argument again...
you do realise you have no obligation to respond to forum posts you have an aversion to yes?
Errr.... I think you could do with following your own advice!
At least my contributions make sense
yes sir white knight of fabbington you keep telling yourself that. x x x x x
You realise youre having a go at the wrong person right?
Hes not the one white kighting he was quoting and replying to the guy white knighting saying the "few bad eggs ruin it for the genuine guys" argument is tired and bollocks.
nope dude i know exactly who i meant to reference
So the guy making the exact same argument as you is the one youre having a go at?
Bizarre "
My argument if it is such is that yes some people spoil it for others of a certain group his is that this does not happen and that nobody is responsible for spoiling but a person themself,the OP has just pointed out that she has now an aversion to the SM because of messages received. |
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"It really intrigues me as to why people get so many abusive messages from saying a no thank you,when I've said no thank you hundreds of times and only had 3 negative remarks from it
You're very lucky then .... i would say 60% of the guys i say no thanks to then send me abusive messeges."
Well don't reply, just delete. Then if they send another, delete that without opening it. That way you can't get upset. If they continue report and block  |
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"My argument if it is such is that yes some people spoil it for others of a certain group his is that this does not happen and that nobody is responsible for spoiling but a person themself,the OP has just pointed out that she has now an aversion to the SM because of messages received."
Kind of true.
I've changed my behaviour on here because of men. But the seemingly decent guys stand out a whole lot more because of it, but yes they won't get a reply from me if i'm not interested.
End of the day we're all here for fun and if something makes it not fun then we will find ways to make it more so again. |
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"So try as we have to respond to messages even just to say a no thanks, or we aren't interested. We've just got to the stage of being fed up with the abuse from single guys.
So far today we've had the grammar police and the guy that is tired of silly time wasting cunts like us.
Guys, if you aren't our cup of tea then we don't have to appease your sensitivities.
If any guy wonders why his message goes unread or he just gets blocked without a reply then you have the abusers to thank
Rant over!
Sadly I understand where you're coming from. It makes it so much harder and more frustrating for those of us who really are nice genuine single guys when messages go unread or unanswered because of the absolute idiots on here.
Oh no, no ,no no.
Not the "bad guys spoil it for the good "genuine" guys" tired old argument again...
you do realise you have no obligation to respond to forum posts you have an aversion to yes?
Errr.... I think you could do with following your own advice!
At least my contributions make sense
yes sir white knight of fabbington you keep telling yourself that. x x x x x
You realise youre having a go at the wrong person right?
Hes not the one white kighting he was quoting and replying to the guy white knighting saying the "few bad eggs ruin it for the genuine guys" argument is tired and bollocks.
nope dude i know exactly who i meant to reference
So the guy making the exact same argument as you is the one youre having a go at?
Bizarre
My argument if it is such is that yes some people spoil it for others of a certain group his is that this does not happen and that nobody is responsible for spoiling but a person themself,the OP has just pointed out that she has now an aversion to the SM because of messages received."
Really???
Oh fair enough from the "i mean fuck them arseholes for giving me a bad name" i assumed you were being sarcastic
And the op merly said theyd stop giving polite no thank yous to the turn down list
So youre odds remain unaffected.
You may return to your brown nosing. |
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"This is going well 
Isn't it just! It's Christmas for heaven's sake,stop the squabbling at least for a couple of day's. I get more grown up behaviour from my teenagers. "
They have better drugs than we do. |
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"So try as we have to respond to messages even just to say a no thanks, or we aren't interested. We've just got to the stage of being fed up with the abuse from single guys.
So far today we've had the grammar police and the guy that is tired of silly time wasting cunts like us.
Guys, if you aren't our cup of tea then we don't have to appease your sensitivities.
If any guy wonders why his message goes unread or he just gets blocked without a reply then you have the abusers to thank
Rant over!
Sadly I understand where you're coming from. It makes it so much harder and more frustrating for those of us who really are nice genuine single guys when messages go unread or unanswered because of the absolute idiots on here.
Oh no, no ,no no.
Not the "bad guys spoil it for the good "genuine" guys" tired old argument again...
you do realise you have no obligation to respond to forum posts you have an aversion to yes?
Errr.... I think you could do with following your own advice!
At least my contributions make sense
yes sir white knight of fabbington you keep telling yourself that. x x x x x
You realise youre having a go at the wrong person right?
Hes not the one white kighting he was quoting and replying to the guy white knighting saying the "few bad eggs ruin it for the genuine guys" argument is tired and bollocks.
nope dude i know exactly who i meant to reference
So the guy making the exact same argument as you is the one youre having a go at?
Bizarre
My argument if it is such is that yes some people spoil it for others of a certain group his is that this does not happen and that nobody is responsible for spoiling but a person themself,the OP has just pointed out that she has now an aversion to the SM because of messages received.
Really???
Oh fair enough from the "i mean fuck them arseholes for giving me a bad name" i assumed you were being sarcastic
And the op merly said theyd stop giving polite no thank yous to the turn down list
So youre odds remain unaffected.
You may return to your brown nosing."
you forgot the "OOPS TYPO" after my teary plea not to be cast aside but if you wish to cherry pick one line from my initial reply then I can't argue with that |
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"So try as we have to respond to messages even just to say a no thanks, or we aren't interested. We've just got to the stage of being fed up with the abuse from single guys.
So far today we've had the grammar police and the guy that is tired of silly time wasting cunts like us.
Guys, if you aren't our cup of tea then we don't have to appease your sensitivities.
If any guy wonders why his message goes unread or he just gets blocked without a reply then you have the abusers to thank
Rant over!
Sadly I understand where you're coming from. It makes it so much harder and more frustrating for those of us who really are nice genuine single guys when messages go unread or unanswered because of the absolute idiots on here.
Oh no, no ,no no.
Not the "bad guys spoil it for the good "genuine" guys" tired old argument again...
you do realise you have no obligation to respond to forum posts you have an aversion to yes?
Errr.... I think you could do with following your own advice!
At least my contributions make sense
yes sir white knight of fabbington you keep telling yourself that. x x x x x
You realise youre having a go at the wrong person right?
Hes not the one white kighting he was quoting and replying to the guy white knighting saying the "few bad eggs ruin it for the genuine guys" argument is tired and bollocks.
nope dude i know exactly who i meant to reference
So the guy making the exact same argument as you is the one youre having a go at?
Bizarre
My argument if it is such is that yes some people spoil it for others of a certain group his is that this does not happen and that nobody is responsible for spoiling but a person themself,the OP has just pointed out that she has now an aversion to the SM because of messages received."
Ok. I'll make this nice and simple.
If you think that other people spoil your chances on here you go ahead and think that if it makes you feel better.
I take responsibility for my own success or failure on the site and don't blame or credit some random guys behaving badly to some random other couples or women that I will never contact.
Yes, I know that some couples may stop dealing with single guys as a result of the bad behaviour.
I get that.
But there are still plenty of women and couples on the site, and I don't have any problem finding them, chatting to them, and meeting them.
If some don't want to that's fine.
That's down to me.
Nobody else.
Have you finally got it?
I hope so. |
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Isn't it just! It's Christmas for heaven's sake,stop the squabbling at least for a couple of day's. I get more grown up behaviour from my teenagers.
They have better drugs than we do."
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I just had a stinker of a reply and then he blocked me so I couldn't give him a piece of my mind back! Bastard!
In 33 minutes I've deleted 29 messages without replying to them. One guy messaged saying think he's in love blah blah. I ask him for the required pictures as stated in my profile. He says he can't trust a profile that's been on here 6 months without any verifications. I say I'm real just send the dick and the face and he then says no you're a fake your pictures are fake!
Had someone messaging just to say I'm a whore that's too far up my own arse. A message asking how much I'll charge, it's like mate I'll fuck you for a bag of steak mcCoys and a wispa if you've got a handsome face and a donkey dick. |
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over a year ago
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"It really intrigues me as to why people get so many abusive messages from saying a no thank you,when I've said no thank you hundreds of times and only had 3 negative remarks from it
I think a few reasons why.
Location, age of guys, and how they _iew promiscuous women.
How attractive the person being messaged is. Obviously the more attractive then the more disappointed the guy will be, us 'mingers' they're like meh don't really care if i fuck you or not so don't get mad lol.
Whatever reasons. There's no excuses for being a dick.
Unlucky angel, you've just been downgraded to a "minger" it seems.
I had no idea that peoples attractiveness was judged by how abusive people were to them.
's ok. I know I'm no catch on here. I must admit that the 3 abusive messages came after I was a little sardonic with my replies. I don't often do that.
In my defence you didnt have to be so mean about my hat "
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"So try as we have to respond to messages even just to say a no thanks, or we aren't interested. We've just got to the stage of being fed up with the abuse from single guys.
So far today we've had the grammar police and the guy that is tired of silly time wasting cunts like us.
Guys, if you aren't our cup of tea then we don't have to appease your sensitivities.
If any guy wonders why his message goes unread or he just gets blocked without a reply then you have the abusers to thank
Rant over!
Sadly I understand where you're coming from. It makes it so much harder and more frustrating for those of us who really are nice genuine single guys when messages go unread or unanswered because of the absolute idiots on here.
Oh no, no ,no no.
Not the "bad guys spoil it for the good "genuine" guys" tired old argument again...
you do realise you have no obligation to respond to forum posts you have an aversion to yes?
Errr.... I think you could do with following your own advice!
At least my contributions make sense
yes sir white knight of fabbington you keep telling yourself that. x x x x x
You realise youre having a go at the wrong person right?
Hes not the one white kighting he was quoting and replying to the guy white knighting saying the "few bad eggs ruin it for the genuine guys" argument is tired and bollocks.
nope dude i know exactly who i meant to reference
So the guy making the exact same argument as you is the one youre having a go at?
Bizarre
My argument if it is such is that yes some people spoil it for others of a certain group his is that this does not happen and that nobody is responsible for spoiling but a person themself,the OP has just pointed out that she has now an aversion to the SM because of messages received."
I'd suggest the couple in question have an aversion to the guys that send abusive messages.. Have they spoilt it for me.?.. No. If the couple are interested in single guys they can either search themselves and hopefully a well written interesting profile wil attract their attention or they'll now adapt their way of managing their messagese and respond to messages that again interest them. Either way the abusive guy hasn't spoilt it for me.. if anything the abusive guy might have made it easier for me to stand out.. |
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over a year ago
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"It really intrigues me as to why people get so many abusive messages from saying a no thank you,when I've said no thank you hundreds of times and only had 3 negative remarks from it
You're very lucky then .... i would say 60% of the guys i say no thanks to then send me abusive messeges.
Well don't reply, just delete. Then if they send another, delete that without opening it. That way you can't get upset. If they continue report and block "
I have it sorted thank you lol.
I delete and block after the first abusive messege.
They don't upset me lol |
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over a year ago
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"I just had a stinker of a reply and then he blocked me so I couldn't give him a piece of my mind back! Bastard!
In 33 minutes I've deleted 29 messages without replying to them. One guy messaged saying think he's in love blah blah. I ask him for the required pictures as stated in my profile. He says he can't trust a profile that's been on here 6 months without any verifications. I say I'm real just send the dick and the face and he then says no you're a fake your pictures are fake!
Had someone messaging just to say I'm a whore that's too far up my own arse. A message asking how much I'll charge, it's like mate I'll fuck you for a bag of steak mcCoys and a wispa if you've got a handsome face and a donkey dick. "
From love to fake in 5 miniutes :p
And you better have those steak McCoy's when i get there :p |
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"It really intrigues me as to why people get so many abusive messages from saying a no thank you,when I've said no thank you hundreds of times and only had 3 negative remarks from it
I think a few reasons why.
Location, age of guys, and how they _iew promiscuous women.
How attractive the person being messaged is. Obviously the more attractive then the more disappointed the guy will be, us 'mingers' they're like meh don't really care if i fuck you or not so don't get mad lol.
Whatever reasons. There's no excuses for being a dick.
Unlucky angel, you've just been downgraded to a "minger" it seems.
I had no idea that peoples attractiveness was judged by how abusive people were to them.
's ok. I know I'm no catch on here. I must admit that the 3 abusive messages came after I was a little sardonic with my replies. I don't often do that.
In my defence you didnt have to be so mean about my hat
Shouldn't wear a stoopid hat then "
Its not his fault!
His mum dropped him on his head when he was a puppy |
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over a year ago
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"I just had a stinker of a reply and then he blocked me so I couldn't give him a piece of my mind back! Bastard!
In 33 minutes I've deleted 29 messages without replying to them. One guy messaged saying think he's in love blah blah. I ask him for the required pictures as stated in my profile. He says he can't trust a profile that's been on here 6 months without any verifications. I say I'm real just send the dick and the face and he then says no you're a fake your pictures are fake!
Had someone messaging just to say I'm a whore that's too far up my own arse. A message asking how much I'll charge, it's like mate I'll fuck you for a bag of steak mcCoys and a wispa if you've got a handsome face and a donkey dick.
From love to fake in 5 miniutes :p
And you better have those steak McCoy's when i get there :p"
I was thinking we have some bacon butties and watch uncle buck? |
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"I just had a stinker of a reply and then he blocked me so I couldn't give him a piece of my mind back! Bastard!
In 33 minutes I've deleted 29 messages without replying to them. One guy messaged saying think he's in love blah blah. I ask him for the required pictures as stated in my profile. He says he can't trust a profile that's been on here 6 months without any verifications. I say I'm real just send the dick and the face and he then says no you're a fake your pictures are fake!
Had someone messaging just to say I'm a whore that's too far up my own arse. A message asking how much I'll charge, it's like mate I'll fuck you for a bag of steak mcCoys and a wispa if you've got a handsome face and a donkey dick.
From love to fake in 5 miniutes :p
And you better have those steak McCoy's when i get there :p
I was thinking we have some bacon butties and watch uncle buck?"
Deal, we can shave a little meat off the guys knee caps while we're at it |
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"I just had a stinker of a reply and then he blocked me so I couldn't give him a piece of my mind back! Bastard!
In 33 minutes I've deleted 29 messages without replying to them. One guy messaged saying think he's in love blah blah. I ask him for the required pictures as stated in my profile. He says he can't trust a profile that's been on here 6 months without any verifications. I say I'm real just send the dick and the face and he then says no you're a fake your pictures are fake!
Had someone messaging just to say I'm a whore that's too far up my own arse. A message asking how much I'll charge, it's like mate I'll fuck you for a bag of steak mcCoys and a wispa if you've got a handsome face and a donkey dick.
From love to fake in 5 miniutes :p
And you better have those steak McCoy's when i get there :p
I was thinking we have some bacon butties and watch uncle buck?
Deal, we can shave a little meat off the guys knee caps while we're at it"
Or use it to get rid of somebodies ass pubes? A hee hee hee, that laugh he does in the car! |
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"Well done....only took you 7 months to work out how to use the tools provided by the site.
Missed the point a bit?
Nope i don't think i did.
I believe you did."
Nope, no reply is no thank you. Stated in site FAQ'S. It's not rude to ignore, or block. So you could've just done so from the start. But it's taken 7 months to use the tools of the site.  |
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"So try as we have to respond to messages even just to say a no thanks, or we aren't interested. We've just got to the stage of being fed up with the abuse from single guys.
So far today we've had the grammar police and the guy that is tired of silly time wasting cunts like us.
Guys, if you aren't our cup of tea then we don't have to appease your sensitivities.
If any guy wonders why his message goes unread or he just gets blocked without a reply then you have the abusers to thank
Rant over!
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Merry Christmas.
As you can see from some of the replies.... some people get terribly grumpy when they don't get a shag. Chin up. |
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"So try as we have to respond to messages even just to say a no thanks, or we aren't interested. We've just got to the stage of being fed up with the abuse from single guys.
So far today we've had the grammar police and the guy that is tired of silly time wasting cunts like us.
Guys, if you aren't our cup of tea then we don't have to appease your sensitivities.
If any guy wonders why his message goes unread or he just gets blocked without a reply then you have the abusers to thank
Rant over!
Merry Christmas.
As you can see from some of the replies.... some people get terribly grumpy when they don't get a shag. Chin up. "
Wait you mean I'm meant to not be grumpy when I've had a shag?
Thats a big change im unwilling to make tbh. |
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"So try as we have to respond to messages even just to say a no thanks, or we aren't interested. We've just got to the stage of being fed up with the abuse from single guys.
So far today we've had the grammar police and the guy that is tired of silly time wasting cunts like us.
Guys, if you aren't our cup of tea then we don't have to appease your sensitivities.
If any guy wonders why his message goes unread or he just gets blocked without a reply then you have the abusers to thank
Rant over!
Sadly I understand where you're coming from. It makes it so much harder and more frustrating for those of us who really are nice genuine single guys when messages go unread or unanswered because of the absolute idiots on here.
Oh no, no ,no no.
Not the "bad guys spoil it for the good "genuine" guys" tired old argument again...
you do realise you have no obligation to respond to forum posts you have an aversion to yes?
Errr.... I think you could do with following your own advice!
At least my contributions make sense
yes sir white knight of fabbington you keep telling yourself that. x x x x x
You realise youre having a go at the wrong person right?
Hes not the one white kighting he was quoting and replying to the guy white knighting saying the "few bad eggs ruin it for the genuine guys" argument is tired and bollocks.
nope dude i know exactly who i meant to reference
So the guy making the exact same argument as you is the one youre having a go at?
Bizarre
My argument if it is such is that yes some people spoil it for others of a certain group his is that this does not happen and that nobody is responsible for spoiling but a person themself,the OP has just pointed out that she has now an aversion to the SM because of messages received.
I'd suggest the couple in question have an aversion to the guys that send abusive messages.. Have they spoilt it for me.?.. No. If the couple are interested in single guys they can either search themselves and hopefully a well written interesting profile wil attract their attention or they'll now adapt their way of managing their messagese and respond to messages that again interest them. Either way the abusive guy hasn't spoilt it for me.. if anything the abusive guy might have made it easier for me to stand out.. "
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