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By *mm_n_Zed OP Couple
over a year ago
Fareham |
On Christmas Eve I (Emm) went to the cemetery to visit my son's grave. There were a lot of fallen leaves and I tripped over a concrete grave edging because it was obscured and pitched face-first into an old marble headstone.
I have several nasty lacerations, grazes and a fractured eye socket - it all looks very unsightly. We were planning to go to Abfabs bi night this Monday coming - I don't expect to play and I'll be avoiding the pool and hot tubs but Zed might get the chance to do all that so here's my question... what would you do? Would you still go along even if you looked like you'd done 10 rounds with Mike Tyson? Should I go along and risk people doing a double take in horror? Or should I stay away so I don't shock people? |
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By *mm_n_Zed OP Couple
over a year ago
Fareham |
"I'd still go. No idea what the theme is for that night but maybe get a masquerade mask and wear something glamourous.  "
It's a bi night so no theme - maybe I'll go and just wear something really tame and unobtrusive so I blend into the background lol |
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Ouch! Nasty bit of bad luck.
Apart from applying ice packs to your swollen face I would start taking arnica which will reduce pain and swelling. I hope you go out and have fun anyway. Just tell them you cut yourself shaving.  |
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By *oandjohnCouple
over a year ago
South Wales, will travel to Hereford, Worcestershire and Shropshire |
If I was your partners I would opt for a cosy night in and look after you... There is plenty of other party nights and I would not want to go if my lady couldn't play or join in the fun because she felt fragile or uncomfortable |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On Christmas Eve I (Emm) went to the cemetery to visit my son's grave. There were a lot of fallen leaves and I tripped over a concrete grave edging because it was obscured and pitched face-first into an old marble headstone.
I have several nasty lacerations, grazes and a fractured eye socket - it all looks very unsightly. We were planning to go to Abfabs bi night this Monday coming - I don't expect to play and I'll be avoiding the pool and hot tubs but Zed might get the chance to do all that so here's my question... what would you do? Would you still go along even if you looked like you'd done 10 rounds with Mike Tyson? Should I go along and risk people doing a double take in horror? Or should I stay away so I don't shock people?"
get better first ,surely you can't be that much in need ?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I definately wouldn't go .
As you say it will shock people , and the story behind it will hardly be one to help people who ask have a good night will it ?
Sorry this happened to you , there will be plenty more nights in the new year ahead . Get better soon . And the arnica will certainly help . |
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By *mm_n_Zed OP Couple
over a year ago
Fareham |
"On Christmas Eve I (Emm) went to the cemetery to visit my son's grave. There were a lot of fallen leaves and I tripped over a concrete grave edging because it was obscured and pitched face-first into an old marble headstone.
I have several nasty lacerations, grazes and a fractured eye socket - it all looks very unsightly. We were planning to go to Abfabs bi night this Monday coming - I don't expect to play and I'll be avoiding the pool and hot tubs but Zed might get the chance to do all that so here's my question... what would you do? Would you still go along even if you looked like you'd done 10 rounds with Mike Tyson? Should I go along and risk people doing a double take in horror? Or should I stay away so I don't shock people? get better first ,surely you can't be that much in need ? "
No - I'm not in 'need' at all. I rarely play when I go to a club but like the atmosphere. We can rarely make it to a bi night and were looking forward to it (I love seeing Z play with another guy). But I'll take all the comments on board and think it over Thanks everyone.
Emm x
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By (user no longer on site)
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If your happy with going dont worry what other ppl think.
But if your not comfy with it dont go you qont enjoy ur night if your to worried what others think
Hope you have a great night either way xx |
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"Having discussed the situation, we've decided to give this bi night a miss - there will be other opportunities.
Thanks for all your points of view - they were very helpful  "
I hope you recover quickly x |
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