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By *hal OP Man
over a year ago
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What is it with people on fab who have been on for a long time ( some over a year plus) who have no varies ( not even a green tick) who pretend to be looking for meets etc.....I just don't get it......are they just time wasters? |
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over a year ago
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Not in all cases im sure some like me have been off and on and in nothern ireland its bloody hard work theres that many more guys to available couples/females i can assure you im 100% genuine and looking for meets |
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"What is it with people on fab who have been on for a long time ( some over a year plus) who have no varies ( not even a green tick) who pretend to be looking for meets etc.....I just don't get it......are they just time wasters?"
Why on earth should their operations and use of the site be of any concern whatsoever to you? |
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I have been on here over 4 years come off but did not tell no one ( whats it got to do with any one any way ) back now and not met any one been trying but the site has changed and full of time wastes.
that's my answer |
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What is it with people on fab who have been on for a long time ( some over a year plus) who have no pics ( not even an avatar) who pretend to be looking for meets etc.....I just don't get it......are they just time wasters?... |
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"You put a lot of stock into verifications....it's the first thing you say about yourself in your profile.
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You're not suggesting that the OP might ever so subtlety be drawing attention to his own veris do you?
How cynical! |
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"What is it with people on fab who have been on for a long time ( some over a year plus) who have no varies ( not even a green tick) who pretend to be looking for meets etc.....I just don't get it......are they just time wasters?" . Why would anyone be concerned as to whether or not anyone has any verifications or whether members are fakes ?.
You sell yourself on fab by having a detailed well written profile and good pictures . |
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"What is it with people on fab who have been on for a long time ( some over a year plus) who have no varies ( not even a green tick) who pretend to be looking for meets etc.....I just don't get it......are they just time wasters?. Why would anyone be concerned as to whether or not anyone has any verifications or whether members are fakes ?.
You sell yourself on fab by having a detailed well written profile and good pictures ."
And having a detailed and well written profile with good pictures makes you less of a time waster , less of a fake ?
Seriously , over a year with no meets , no veris , equals either someone who isn't here to meet , or a waste of time to those who are looking for someone to meet . No matter how good their profile is . |
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"You sell yourself on fab by having a detailed well written profile and good pictures ."
Totally agree. Without the regulation 15 lines on your profile and a host of photos you will never meet anyone. |
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seeing a profile with tons of verifications actually turns me off. Makes me think there is something wrong with that person why people won't meet them again so they have to keep meeting different people all the time. so i guess it can work in reverse too. |
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"What is it with people on fab who have been on for a long time ( some over a year plus) who have no varies ( not even a green tick) who pretend to be looking for meets etc.....I just don't get it......are they just time wasters?. Why would anyone be concerned as to whether or not anyone has any verifications or whether members are fakes ?.
You sell yourself on fab by having a detailed well written profile and good pictures .
And having a detailed and well written profile with good pictures makes you less of a time waster , less of a fake ?
Seriously , over a year with no meets , no veris , equals either someone who isn't here to meet , or a waste of time to those who are looking for someone to meet . No matter how good their profile is ." . I don't think that many fakes or so called time wasters would go to the effort of writing a decent profile . With a well written profile , members should be able to make their own assessment of the profile concerned . How would any member know or for that matter be interested in how many meets someone has had ?. |
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"seeing a profile with tons of verifications actually turns me off. Makes me think there is something wrong with that person why people won't meet them again so they have to keep meeting different people all the time. so i guess it can work in reverse too." . A good post and a very valid point . Quality over quantity .
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"seeing a profile with tons of verifications actually turns me off. Makes me think there is something wrong with that person why people won't meet them again so they have to keep meeting different people all the time. so i guess it can work in reverse too."
Some of us don't want repeat meets , so your theory may work in reverse too . |
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"What is it with people on fab who have been on for a long time ( some over a year plus) who have no varies ( not even a green tick) who pretend to be looking for meets etc.....I just don't get it......are they just time wasters?"
No, they are simply people who use the site different to you |
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"seeing a profile with tons of verifications actually turns me off. Makes me think there is something wrong with that person why people won't meet them again so they have to keep meeting different people all the time. so i guess it can work in reverse too.
Some of us don't want repeat meets , so your theory may work in reverse too ."
....and some of us have repeat meets with no further need to expect or display corresponding repeat verifications from those who've already written one |
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over a year ago
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Its seems some people are obsessed with veris, too many, not enough, none displayed, none at all etc and some seem more concerned with getting a veri than actually meeting people for fun. |
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After a while you spot the fakes, combination of no verifications, short profiles, photos you seen in other profiles, very short messages etc.
I just ignore them and let them play their games with someone else.
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By *hal OP Man
over a year ago
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"What is it with people on fab who have been on for a long time ( some over a year plus) who have no varies ( not even a green tick) who pretend to be looking for meets etc.....I just don't get it......are they just time wasters?. Why would anyone be concerned as to whether or not anyone has any verifications or whether members are fakes ?.
You sell yourself on fab by having a detailed well written profile and good pictures .
And having a detailed and well written profile with good pictures makes you less of a time waster , less of a fake ?
Seriously , over a year with no meets , no veris , equals either someone who isn't here to meet , or a waste of time to those who are looking for someone to meet . No matter how good their profile is ."
Could not agree more |
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"What is it with people on fab who have been on for a long time ( some over a year plus) who have no varies ( not even a green tick) who pretend to be looking for meets etc.....I just don't get it......are they just time wasters?. Why would anyone be concerned as to whether or not anyone has any verifications or whether members are fakes ?.
You sell yourself on fab by having a detailed well written profile and good pictures .
And having a detailed and well written profile with good pictures makes you less of a time waster , less of a fake ?
Seriously , over a year with no meets , no veris , equals either someone who isn't here to meet , or a waste of time to those who are looking for someone to meet . No matter how good their profile is .
Could not agree more "
Even if that's true, why are you worried about it? What impact can it possibly have on you and how is your time wasted.
It makes no sense. |
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"What is it with people on fab who have been on for a long time ( some over a year plus) who have no varies ( not even a green tick) who pretend to be looking for meets etc.....I just don't get it......are they just time wasters?"
Some are undoubtedly oddballs. Some just enjoy chatting and teasing/anticipation. Takes all sorts. |
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over a year ago
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"What is it with people on fab who have been on for a long time ( some over a year plus) who have no varies ( not even a green tick) who pretend to be looking for meets etc.....I just don't get it......are they just time wasters?. Why would anyone be concerned as to whether or not anyone has any verifications or whether members are fakes ?.
You sell yourself on fab by having a detailed well written profile and good pictures .
And having a detailed and well written profile with good pictures makes you less of a time waster , less of a fake ?
Seriously , over a year with no meets , no veris , equals either someone who isn't here to meet , or a waste of time to those who are looking for someone to meet . No matter how good their profile is .
Could not agree more
Even if that's true, why are you worried about it? What impact can it possibly have on you and how is your time wasted.
It makes no sense."
Exactly, why worry about what others that don't affect you are getting up to? You do your thing and let others do theirs. |
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"seeing a profile with tons of verifications actually turns me off. Makes me think there is something wrong with that person why people won't meet them again so they have to keep meeting different people all the time. so i guess it can work in reverse too."
Just because people don't have multiple veris on show from the same people doesn't mean they don't get repeat meets |
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"seeing a profile with tons of verifications actually turns me off. Makes me think there is something wrong with that person why people won't meet them again so they have to keep meeting different people all the time. so i guess it can work in reverse too.
Just because people don't have multiple veris on show from the same people doesn't mean they don't get repeat meets "
Exactly the point I made earlier.
I think that if you do display several verifications from the same person it may be regarded as padding up your profile, so I only display one veri per person.
Quite a few I've met are also not into verifications at all. |
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OP:
1. It's none of your business.
2. Some guys have real difficulties getting meets
3. Some people are not on here 24/7, are not trying to get wall to wall meets, and only visit the site occasionally
4. Some people don't like being verified, or have no interest in it.
I meet people for sex, not verifications: I could not care less if they have them or not; I find out if they are real people, and if they are people that I will like, by other means once I have made contact.
I note that you are so obsessed with your verifications that you mention them in your profile too.
And of course advertise them with this thread.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Green tick for photo verification means nothing, doesn't mean they are verified just stood in front of a camera holding a piece of paper with their name, doesn't prove they will turn up |
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I guess it's like this .
You log on , and if you are on here to meet like minded people to meet , you look at local updates and check your inbox .
Upon checking your mail , there may be a few messages from potential meets , so you go through the profile . Nice write up , good pics , right age etc..... Then you notice been on the site a year and no verifications . After a while of doing the whole message them asking how come they haven't met , you realise in most cases that they are probably not going to meet , so you block non verified , or don't waste your time messaging them back . But it doesn't stop you from wondering why they bother .
So that's why people ask the question on the forum . It's certainly a more pertinent question than the kiss , fuck , avoid threads . Or the size threads isn't it ?
The constant replies saying it doesn't affect you so why worry , are as pointless as the question is in the grand scheme of things .
If one actually is naive enough to arrange a meet with on of these unverified profiles , it certainly does waste ones time . A lesson learned you may say , but still a waste of time .
So the question will still be asked again and again , as there will always be those who come onto sites like this to get their kicks from taking the piss by arranging meets and not showing up . Or getting their jollies from leading you on with promises which won't materialise .
Others may think they want to meet but don't have the bottle . Some like to chat and keep up with old friends , but they generally say so on their profile . Some are on a break , and again say so .
Some can't be bothered to even attend a social to get verified , and that include the guys who say it isn't easy to get a meet .
I think that just about covers it . |
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"I guess it's like this .
You log on , and if you are on here to meet like minded people to meet , you look at local updates and check your inbox .
Upon checking your mail , there may be a few messages from potential meets , so you go through the profile . Nice write up , good pics , right age etc..... Then you notice been on the site a year and no verifications . After a while of doing the whole message them asking how come they haven't met , you realise in most cases that they are probably not going to meet , so you block non verified , or don't waste your time messaging them back . But it doesn't stop you from wondering why they bother .
So that's why people ask the question on the forum . It's certainly a more pertinent question than the kiss , fuck , avoid threads . Or the size threads isn't it ?
The constant replies saying it doesn't affect you so why worry , are as pointless as the question is in the grand scheme of things .
If one actually is naive enough to arrange a meet with on of these unverified profiles , it certainly does waste ones time . A lesson learned you may say , but still a waste of time .
So the question will still be asked again and again , as there will always be those who come onto sites like this to get their kicks from taking the piss by arranging meets and not showing up . Or getting their jollies from leading you on with promises which won't materialise .
Others may think they want to meet but don't have the bottle . Some like to chat and keep up with old friends , but they generally say so on their profile . Some are on a break , and again say so .
Some can't be bothered to even attend a social to get verified , and that include the guys who say it isn't easy to get a meet .
I think that just about covers it ."
Well it's a completely different matter if they fail to turn up to a meet or mess you around in some way, then you've every cause to be annoyed, but just randomly observing that some have no verifications after a year and then automatically labelling them as timewasters etc., seemingly without even having made any contact with them, is not contributing positively to the grand order of things at all |
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"I guess it's like this .
You log on , and if you are on here to meet like minded people to meet , you look at local updates and check your inbox .
Upon checking your mail , there may be a few messages from potential meets , so you go through the profile . Nice write up , good pics , right age etc..... Then you notice been on the site a year and no verifications . After a while of doing the whole message them asking how come they haven't met , you realise in most cases that they are probably not going to meet , so you block non verified , or don't waste your time messaging them back . But it doesn't stop you from wondering why they bother .
So that's why people ask the question on the forum . It's certainly a more pertinent question than the kiss , fuck , avoid threads . Or the size threads isn't it ?
The constant replies saying it doesn't affect you so why worry , are as pointless as the question is in the grand scheme of things .
If one actually is naive enough to arrange a meet with on of these unverified profiles , it certainly does waste ones time . A lesson learned you may say , but still a waste of time .
So the question will still be asked again and again , as there will always be those who come onto sites like this to get their kicks from taking the piss by arranging meets and not showing up . Or getting their jollies from leading you on with promises which won't materialise .
Others may think they want to meet but don't have the bottle . Some like to chat and keep up with old friends , but they generally say so on their profile . Some are on a break , and again say so .
Some can't be bothered to even attend a social to get verified , and that include the guys who say it isn't easy to get a meet .
I think that just about covers it ."
Copy and paste that into your notes please.
Then re paste it into every one of these threads.
Job done. |
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"What is it with people on fab who have been on for a long time ( some over a year plus) who have no varies ( not even a green tick) who pretend to be looking for meets etc.....I just don't get it......are they just time wasters?" verifications don't mean any think we have arranged to meet people with verifications and got messed about more then once
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"What is it with people on fab who have been on for a long time ( some over a year plus) who have no varies ( not even a green tick) who pretend to be looking for meets etc.....I just don't get it......are they just time wasters?
Why on earth should their operations and use of the site be of any concern whatsoever to you?"
The arrogance of some! |
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I think people get hooked too much sometimes on veris.
To be honest... we were all un verified once.. does that mean we were fakes then? No
If i see a profile with ten's of verifications and another with a few.. me personally I would meet the one with a few... thats my preference and choice.
Time waster have veris have photos etc.. |
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"I think people get hooked too much sometimes on veris.
To be honest... we were all un verified once.. does that mean we were fakes then? No
If i see a profile with ten's of verifications and another with a few.. me personally I would meet the one with a few... thats my preference and choice.
Time waster have veris have photos etc.. "
So you turn down all those offers you get from those with too many verifications? |
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By *hal OP Man
over a year ago
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"I guess it's like this .
You log on , and if you are on here to meet like minded people to meet , you look at local updates and check your inbox .
Upon checking your mail , there may be a few messages from potential meets , so you go through the profile . Nice write up , good pics , right age etc..... Then you notice been on the site a year and no verifications . After a while of doing the whole message them asking how come they haven't met , you realise in most cases that they are probably not going to meet , so you block non verified , or don't waste your time messaging them back . But it doesn't stop you from wondering why they bother .
So that's why people ask the question on the forum . It's certainly a more pertinent question than the kiss , fuck , avoid threads . Or the size threads isn't it ?
The constant replies saying it doesn't affect you so why worry , are as pointless as the question is in the grand scheme of things .
If one actually is naive enough to arrange a meet with on of these unverified profiles , it certainly does waste ones time . A lesson learned you may say , but still a waste of time .
So the question will still be asked again and again , as there will always be those who come onto sites like this to get their kicks from taking the piss by arranging meets and not showing up . Or getting their jollies from leading you on with promises which won't materialise .
Others may think they want to meet but don't have the bottle . Some like to chat and keep up with old friends , but they generally say so on their profile . Some are on a break , and again say so .
Some can't be bothered to even attend a social to get verified , and that include the guys who say it isn't easy to get a meet .
I think that just about covers it ."
That is exactly my point, you make a valid point and contribution to the forum and you get some people just looking to argue for the sake of it....I think taiking about big pussys BBC's and big nipples is more up there street and more important by the looks of it...
Merry Christmas All |
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By *hal OP Man
over a year ago
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"Simply our observations , directly relating to the op . So in the grand scheme of things , a positive contribution I think .
Yours is a positive contribution, his isn't.
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Have I touched a Nerve? Lol
Cheer up Smile it's Christmas get rid of all this built up frustration you have, go have a wank and let it all out if you have to.....- |
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"Simply our observations , directly relating to the op . So in the grand scheme of things , a positive contribution I think .
Yours is a positive contribution, his isn't.
Have I touched a Nerve? Lol
Cheer up Smile it's Christmas get rid of all this built up frustration you have, go have a wank and let it all out if you have to.....- "
There's only one wanker in this thread and it's definitely not me. |
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"I think people get hooked too much sometimes on veris.
To be honest... we were all un verified once.. does that mean we were fakes then? No
If i see a profile with ten's of verifications and another with a few.. me personally I would meet the one with a few... thats my preference and choice.
Time waster have veris have photos etc..
So you turn down all those offers you get from those with too many verifications?"
If am honest...yes |
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"I think people get hooked too much sometimes on veris.
To be honest... we were all un verified once.. does that mean we were fakes then? No
If i see a profile with ten's of verifications and another with a few.. me personally I would meet the one with a few... thats my preference and choice.
Time waster have veris have photos etc..
So you turn down all those offers you get from those with too many verifications?
If am honest...yes"
Lucky you getting all those offers....
If you ARE honest... |
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"What is it with people on fab who have been on for a long time ( some over a year plus) who have no varies ( not even a green tick) who pretend to be looking for meets etc.....I just don't get it......are they just time wasters?"
They may or may not be timewasters.
Must admit - when I see a couple profile which is over a year old, no veris and NO photo verification - I'm suspicious. I mean - photo verification is the SIMPLTEST thing to do. |
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"seeing a profile with tons of verifications actually turns me off. Makes me think there is something wrong with that person why people won't meet them again so they have to keep meeting different people all the time. so i guess it can work in reverse too."
LOL i got quite a few veris and majority of em turn to regs so that post made me lmao just because some people can get multiple meets and others really cant...hahaa |
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"What is it with people on fab who have been on for a long time ( some over a year plus) who have no varies ( not even a green tick) who pretend to be looking for meets etc.....I just don't get it......are they just time wasters?
They may or may not be timewasters.
Must admit - when I see a couple profile which is over a year old, no veris and NO photo verification - I'm suspicious. I mean - photo verification is the SIMPLTEST thing to do."
It might be unusual, and if you are suspicious, well then leave them be and pass on by...
THAT'S the simplest thing to do.
All this fretting about the way others manage their profiles is just so much busybodying... |
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"What is it with people on fab who have been on for a long time ( some over a year plus) who have no varies ( not even a green tick) who pretend to be looking for meets etc.....I just don't get it......are they just time wasters?
They may or may not be timewasters.
Must admit - when I see a couple profile which is over a year old, no veris and NO photo verification - I'm suspicious. I mean - photo verification is the SIMPLTEST thing to do.
It might be unusual, and if you are suspicious, well then leave them be and pass on by...
THAT'S the simplest thing to do.
All this fretting about the way others manage their profiles is just so much busybodying..."
His comment about photo verification being the simplest was pure sarcasm lol |
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"What is it with people on fab who have been on for a long time ( some over a year plus) who have no varies ( not even a green tick) who pretend to be looking for meets etc.....I just don't get it......are they just time wasters?
They may or may not be timewasters.
Must admit - when I see a couple profile which is over a year old, no veris and NO photo verification - I'm suspicious. I mean - photo verification is the SIMPLTEST thing to do.
It might be unusual, and if you are suspicious, well then leave them be and pass on by...
THAT'S the simplest thing to do.
All this fretting about the way others manage their profiles is just so much busybodying...
His comment about photo verification being the simplest was pure sarcasm lol"
I see.
My main point still stands though. |
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"I think people get hooked too much sometimes on veris.
To be honest... we were all un verified once.. does that mean we were fakes then? No
If i see a profile with ten's of verifications and another with a few.. me personally I would meet the one with a few... thats my preference and choice.
Time waster have veris have photos etc..
So you turn down all those offers you get from those with too many verifications?
If am honest...yes
Lucky you getting all those offers....
If you ARE honest..."
I didnt say i was.. or was not getting offers
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By *hal OP Man
over a year ago
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"What is it with people on fab who have been on for a long time ( some over a year plus) who have no varies ( not even a green tick) who pretend to be looking for meets etc.....I just don't get it......are they just time wasters?
They may or may not be timewasters.
Must admit - when I see a couple profile which is over a year old, no veris and NO photo verification - I'm suspicious. I mean - photo verification is the SIMPLTEST thing to do.
It might be unusual, and if you are suspicious, well then leave them be and pass on by...
THAT'S the simplest thing to do.
All this fretting about the way others manage their profiles is just so much busybodying...
His comment about photo verification being the simplest was pure sarcasm lol"
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some of us just cant get a meet, we couldnt get one in 5 years so we deleted, came back a few weeks ago and guess what........still cant get one. it happens |
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"some of us just cant get a meet, we couldnt get one in 5 years so we deleted, came back a few weeks ago and guess what........still cant get one. it happens"
Did you guys get to clubs or socials ever? I remember your profile from before, loving the new pink hair by the way ... |
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"Did you guys get to clubs or socials ever? I remember your profile from before, loving the new pink hair by the way ..."
thank you, we have been to clubs before, years ago, just wernt for us |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
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"some of us just cant get a meet, we couldnt get one in 5 years so we deleted, came back a few weeks ago and guess what........still cant get one. it happens"
Your capital letters rather hostile rant at the start of your profile possibly puts people off? Hope you have better luck this time. |
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There are lots of time wasters, I am more inclined to take people with pic's and veri's seriously, this is because of experience. You learn lessons in this game, some of them the hard way. There are lots of really good and nice people on the scene, I have had the pleasure of meeting quite a lot of them. I have also had dealings with a lot of time wasters, the genuine people do tend to have pic's and veri's.
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"There are lots of time wasters, I am more inclined to take people with pic's and veri's seriously, this is because of experience. You learn lessons in this game, some of them the hard way. There are lots of really good and nice people on the scene, I have had the pleasure of meeting quite a lot of them. I have also had dealings with a lot of time wasters, the genuine people do tend to have pic's and veri's.
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I've met plenty of people too, and agree that it's wiser to contact those who have photo and verifications, and therefore avoid those who don't.
If they don't have veris then they're only wasting their own time.
If the OP has been foolish enough to contact them expecting a meet and was disappointed then it's better to avoid them
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I have been on this site for nearly 6 months now and haven't been verified as yet.
I don't see it as a problem because we all start from zero at some point.
It's a swingers site with many single profiles to which I fall in, making things a little more difficult for meets.
I'm genuine and i have had some great message conversation with many couples and single ladies. When the time is right I am sure things will change.
I shouldn't be judged on whether I have a green tick next to my name though.
If someone is genuinely interested in mine or someone else's profile for that matter, they can get in touch and there are many grown up ways of verifying ourselves. It really is that easy.
Thanks
Peter xx |
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