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over a year ago
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If its normal fir him not to come n its clear he enjoys the meet then why add performance pressure. I very rare come but love the majority of meets ive had. Also the body n mind not always in sync. I can be absolutely loving something but my body wont be co-operating n id need lube yet should be absolutely soaking. I dont fake it tho. If its about coming for the mans ego i be with the wrong man. By the same notion if its all about the womans ego ur friends with the wrong lass. I meet a man who not on here n he very rare can penetrate let alone orgasm but theres plenty of fun to be had by both if theres no end goal n no performance pressure. I hate a guy constantly asking are u coming yet are u gonna come for me are u close. Im not a performer in a circus n neither should men feel under pressure either |
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"If its normal fir him not to come n its clear he enjoys the meet then why add performance pressure. I very rare come but love the majority of meets ive had. Also the body n mind not always in sync. I can be absolutely loving something but my body wont be co-operating n id need lube yet should be absolutely soaking. I dont fake it tho. If its about coming for the mans ego i be with the wrong man. By the same notion if its all about the womans ego ur friends with the wrong lass. I meet a man who not on here n he very rare can penetrate let alone orgasm but theres plenty of fun to be had by both if theres no end goal n no performance pressure. I hate a guy constantly asking are u coming yet are u gonna come for me are u close. Im not a performer in a circus n neither should men feel under pressure either "
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sometime I do, sometimes i dont..sometimes theres alot sometimes theres not..sometimes i can repeat,other times I wont.
theres lots of reasons why this happens...the main one would be just being a person in general.
Women appear to mostly think theres lots of pressure on them to live up to an ecxpectation(as a squirter mainly), most people will admit that shouldnt be the case..yet, even on these forums some people will slag off a males sexual prowess that they met(ie was a flop/did not cum much/didnt give oral).
I'd say I've had great meets in the past, but the meeting of the people was far more important than the actual sex,in most cases. |
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over a year ago
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"Just wondering bcoz sometimes i dont cum but still love the fuckin. ( obv  )...n the girl feels its her fault ...when its not..."
If u think that may happen maybe bring it up in a low key way. I say to a guy who seems hell bent on making me come that the easiest way to do that is to go with the flow n both relax. Performance anxiety is the quickest way to stop an orgasm be it self inflicted as in trying to hard or a partner hell bent on it occurring |
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"Do woman get pissed off if the guy thyre having sex with doesnt cum ?...
Even if thyr both enjoying fucking but sometimes the guy doesnt cum
Im askin for a friend  lol "
Yep mate,
does depend on the girl though. Had a couple for them that think you should cum on demand (like we are some sort of performing monkey) even had some criticize: saying "oh what the point YOU DONT Cum" which ain't true (can shoot load under the right circumstances) the impatient bitches just couldn't be bothered to wait, or put in the effort or encouragement.
one even demanded i cum on count of... I walked away! after a few words.
Don't let it discourage you (like i did for a bit) I learned, just move on.
After all you aren't in this life to live up to anyone else's (so why get a phobia about it) expectations. |
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"Just wondering bcoz sometimes i dont cum but still love the fuckin. ( obv )...n the girl feels its her fault ...when its not..."
Yea I would think it was my fault!  |
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"Just wondering bcoz sometimes i dont cum but still love the fuckin. ( obv )...n the girl feels its her fault ...when its not...
Yea I would think it was my fault! "
I'd make up for it in the morn xxx |
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By *LCCCouple
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Maybe it's just me, but I think most guys tend not to last as long with a new playmate. But when swinging you dont want it to be all over quickly, so I have had it twice now, where I have tried really hard to stop myself cumming too early, but then not been able to cum later on.
The last time I just said that it meant we could concentrate more on her, and so that's what we did, more oral, more kissing, massage etc. She said that she enjoyed it, maybe that's true, maybe she was just protecting my ego  |
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"Do woman get pissed off if the guy thyre having sex with doesnt cum ?...
Even if thyr both enjoying fucking but sometimes the guy doesnt cum
Im askin for a friend lol "
N gets a bit down if a guy doesn't cum, but that's only happened once  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Only had one guy that didnt cum, my mrs said it made her feel inadequate, even though he said "i rarely cum" she said never again and actively looks for repeaters not stayers |
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"Only had one guy that didnt cum, my mrs said it made her feel inadequate, even though he said "i rarely cum" she said never again and actively looks for repeaters not stayers"
Literally exactly what N said, and what we now do xx |
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