Had this discussion yesterday ... and not sure if our opinion has changed since we became a couple ... do you prefer repeat meets with a small social circle of regulars, one off meets with new playmates or a combination? As singles, we both prefer the latter, similarly we feel the same way as a couple ... something about repeat meets with the same people over and over that does not appeal to us ... |
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"Had this discussion yesterday ... and not sure if our opinion has changed since we became a couple ... do you prefer repeat meets with a small social circle of regulars, one off meets with new playmates or a combination? As singles, we both prefer the latter, similarly we feel the same way as a couple ... something about repeat meets with the same people over and over that does not appeal to us ..."
Forgot which order I put my list in (okay, am knackered, that's my excuse) .... we both prefer one off meets with new playmates, after that, familiarity breeds contempt and the thrill of the chase is gone .... |
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over a year ago
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We like both. Meeting new people and sharing in those different experiences is awesome. But at the same time there are things we would like to try that aren't going to happen with people we have never met before.
So both works well for us.
-Courtney |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I like a combination. If i meet someone that i click with and we have great sex i like to meet them more than once....but i also thoroughly enjoy the one offs.  |
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I like the combination..I'd tend not to meet up with people specifically looking for repeat meets though, while I'm single I prefer doing my own thing...I'd never term my repeat meets as fb's to be honest..
and I have no jealousy issues if my friends are meeting other people, nor am I nosy in asking about their meets..with such things like "why was I not invited to that all girl fuck session!" |
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Of the meets I've had most I wouldnt be worried about seeing again. However, there is a couple and a single girl I've made friends with. And of the single male meets, one I've met twice and would see again but not worried if I don't. Another I would definitely meet again socially if not naughtily. And another two I could happily see time and time again though sadly lost touch with one over a silly misunderstanding.
I think I'd like a mix of both really. Someone regular but mixing in newbies as well. Greedy haha. |
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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago
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For me, I generally prefer repeats, as it lets us explore more and push some boundaries only comfortable once there is a trust level.
However, making new connections is always fun. Be it at a club or friends of friends.
With friends of friends they might not be completely new but are new to me/her/them. Oh dear, that sounds like a second hand pair of underpants  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I prefer to establish some kind of ongoing connection. Seeing people regularly (be that once every three months, once every year, whatever) is nice because you aren't discovering them each time and you can build on what you have done in the past. |
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"I like the combination..I'd tend not to meet up with people specifically looking for repeat meets though, while I'm single I prefer doing my own thing...I'd never term my repeat meets as fb's to be honest..
and I have no jealousy issues if my friends are meeting other people, nor am I nosy in asking about their meets..with such things like "why was I not invited to that all girl fuck session!""
Yeah I'm pretty much the same apart from i approach it from the married perspective so there's no way i could deal with someone wanting more than the occasional great session |
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By *annooWoman
over a year ago
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I like meeting people again and again because each time is different each situation is different and I've had better experiences further on with some people than the first meet.
But I dnt rule out fresh meets either because variety id the fruit of life and given this is a nsa site it makes more sense to not get too hooked on one person |
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