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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I was here for about 2 years as part of a couple and originally it was my than-partners idea to try this on a d*unk night. 2 years later and I'm still at it! I had another partner a few not he ago and it ended because we just didn't have the same ideas sex wise. So it got me thinking, how did you bring the subject up or convince your other half to have a go? Because let's face it, to the unknowing it's a huge step and could make or break a relationship, even suggesting it. |
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C and I are different as we're not a 'real' couple, but when we met I was rather inexperienced and probably vanilla. He had 20 years experience, and it was his suggestion to take me swinging.
Since then I haven't looked back  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was open with my (nesting) partner right from the start. I told him that I enjoyed swinging and if he wanted to be with me then that was something he would have to accept.
He was fine.
My new girlfriend is also fine. And is keen to head to clubs with me. |
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I'm actively looking for a swinging partner. Would rather have it all out in the open from the off.
Many single folk I meet say they're happy to swing as a single but would never do it in a relationship. That couples should be utterly faithful to each other. Reeks of hypocrisy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Because let's face it, to the unknowing it's a huge step and could make or break a relationship, even suggesting it. "
It didn't go well then
Or maybe they are both going to set up a couples account  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had 3sums before but seeing as I'm single the opportunity to swing just eludes me for now,but I couldn't think of anything better than being in a totally honest relationship with all the cards on the table.I'm very open about what I like,just need to meet the person who is gonna be open with me.then grow&explore together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm in quite a new relationship and he knows about fab ect. I included it in a conversation about fantasies. Went down well. He's even debating trying it with me in the future  |
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