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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't accom as I have kids.
I travel but public transport but if I tick the travel box people think that means travel all over.....I have meets and loads of fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I put down that I can't accommodate as the majority of the time I can't, doesn't mean I can't ever. I have a child that stays with her father on weekends so if I wanted anyone to stay over I could. |
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By *annooWoman
over a year ago
Hastings |
I dnt have my own place there for cannot accom
And altho I travel, I have family commitments that may require me to get home petty sharpish so its in an attempt to stop people thinking that ill travel the other side of the country to them
Not that it works....people still try their luck
But for the right people negotiation is do able
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can't accommodate as I've my son living with me. And I put don't travel because whilst I do drive and have car, I've no interest in meeting anyone more than an hours drive away as that at the time, was about all I could afford. Now I can't afford to travel at all |
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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago
Nuneaton |
I dont drive so cant travel far
i only accom if ive met a guy a few times an feel safe as im a single fem, i meet esp on a first meet in a neutral place like a pub nr me. Its for safety reasons my safety is paramount an wont put my safety at risk for any guy
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"I dont drive so cant travel far
i only accom if ive met a guy a few times an feel safe as im a single fem, i meet esp on a first meet in a neutral place like a pub nr me. Its for safety reasons my safety is paramount an wont put my safety at risk for any guy
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This
The amount of guys that try talk me out of meeting in public is unbelievable |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"I am a loss how anyone that puts this on their profile can ever meet. Can anyone explain please"
Cyber-dildonics
For me, it means that I will only ever meet in a nearby club for the first couple of times |
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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago
Nuneaton |
"I dont drive so cant travel far
i only accom if ive met a guy a few times an feel safe as im a single fem, i meet esp on a first meet in a neutral place like a pub nr me. Its for safety reasons my safety is paramount an wont put my safety at risk for any guy
This
The amount of guys that try talk me out of meeting in public is unbelievable"
same as me but if they don't accept it . Either they think of my safety or they get rejected for me
its not worth putting yourself at risk
safety should always come first. If a guy is decent he will meet at a neutral place. An think of you
that tells me everything if they dont
always a danger sign if they dont what have they to hide. ie they are married, dont want to be seen in public etc etc |
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The amount of guys that try talk me out of meeting in public is unbelievable"
That's strange behaviour....
Although I have had occasional meets going straight to a hotel/ house etc,
It seems utterly normal to meet someone in a pub/ cafe/ public place first: gives security to the lady and a chance for both of us to know chemistry is right.
I prefer that.
As to "don't accommodate, don't travel", I have always assumed that
" don't accommodate " means exactly that;( and it's none of my business why)
And " don't travel " means " Local only"
Anyway, you work that out when you discuss .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I put down that I can't accommodate as the majority of the time I can't, doesn't mean I can't ever. I have a child that stays with her father on weekends so if I wanted anyone to stay over I could. "
Wow seawich I'd be more than happy to travel and stay over! |
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