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I've tried it a few times with a girl as she knows I find it sexy. However she says it feels uncomfortable and I want her to enjoy herself and not just do it for my sake. I use lube and ease into it usually after vaginal sexy and go slow and take my time. She tells me she will get more use to it but is there any tips people would like to share so I can enhance hey experience X thanks all and merry Christmas x |
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"I've tried it a few times with a girl as she knows I find it sexy. However she says it feels uncomfortable and I want her to enjoy herself and not just do it for my sake. I use lube and ease into it usually after vaginal sexy and go slow and take my time. She tells me she will get more use to it but is there any tips people would like to share so I can enhance hey experience X thanks all and merry Christmas x "
yes helps if your hard  |
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Start off with a well lubed finger with a latex glove obviously. Gently till her sphincter relaxes. Then a second finger till the sphincter is totally relaxed and then you are fine. It works with me anyway lol |
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The more I did it the easier it became. I really wanted it so I used toys in myself to get used to something big in me. She has to have her anal sphincter gently relaxed by your fingers or a toy and plenty of lube. |
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Personally I hate fingers if you stick a finger in there for more than a few seconds then we ain't having sex as you've basically made the shutters come down.
A small toy designed for anal is better in my experience smoother, no nail and doesn't flex about so much.
For me I've found rotating your hips around and generally moving till you find the spot where it's comfortable (this is as the receptive partner) staying still while the person penetrating you does all the moving just doesn't work and makes it uncomfortable.
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"Personally I hate fingers if you stick a finger in there for more than a few seconds then we ain't having sex as you've basically made the shutters come down.
A small toy designed for anal is better in my experience smoother, no nail and doesn't flex about so much.
For me I've found rotating your hips around and generally moving till you find the spot where it's comfortable (this is as the receptive partner) staying still while the person penetrating you does all the moving just doesn't work and makes it uncomfortable.
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I agree with you on the latter point,I move to get the comfortable position. I prefer fingers to toys because I have more control with my fingers,I can feel where I'm going-in me and him-and I can get more movement inside. I'd still like to know if it feels different for a man and a woman something I will never know. |
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I found it different with all types of women. Succeeded with doggy and just go slow. After awhile of getting use to it it does get easier. In porns they make it look so easy. Just turn up and your in but just takes time and lube |
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"Personally I hate fingers if you stick a finger in there for more than a few seconds then we ain't having sex as you've basically made the shutters come down.
A small toy designed for anal is better in my experience smoother, no nail and doesn't flex about so much.
For me I've found rotating your hips around and generally moving till you find the spot where it's comfortable (this is as the receptive partner) staying still while the person penetrating you does all the moving just doesn't work and makes it uncomfortable.
I agree with you on the latter point,I move to get the comfortable position. I prefer fingers to toys because I have more control with my fingers,I can feel where I'm going-in me and him-and I can get more movement inside. I'd still like to know if it feels different for a man and a woman something I will never know. "
I tend to use my own fingers as he pops a condom on, two or three, just to make the initial entry easier. If he's spent time licking me I am usually pretty relaxed.
I love to move. Lying there as if he's stunned me with a brick just ain't my style  |
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Using toys like butt plugs before play can help relax her and stretch the anal passage too. I find that relaxation is massively important, if you think its going to hurt then you tense up so toys, lots of foreplay, lube all help. It can be amazing for both parties  |
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"Start off with a well lubed finger with a latex glove obviously. Gently till her sphincter relaxes. Then a second finger till the sphincter is totally relaxed and then you are fine. It works with me anyway lol"
Yep. Don't be just ramming your wang in there, she needs warming up first.
Spunk is a good thick lube for anal (yes it's really called that) and if you're so inclined, use amyl/poppers which helps relax things.
Just get some before end of this year before they become illegal  |
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