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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Like seriously .. Why do men ask ' have u came yet'?
Obviously I haven't n knew I wasn't going too , so now I've to slap his arse .. Tell him not to stop n fake it all  
Only for me to fuck ur clothes at u n say Thanks ., finish myself off when u go 
Y do men ask ??
Can't u tell ??
(Didn't happen tonight or recently but it does happen .. A lot )
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well if its happening alot maybe look at the guys your selecting "
Hmm I've looked ..
I find it hard to cum as it is.. For someone to ask thou.. Kinda adds on the pressure  |
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"Well if its happening alot maybe look at the guys your selecting
Hmm I've looked ..
I find it hard to cum as it is.. For someone to ask thou.. Kinda adds on the pressure "
well do you speak to them beforehand and explain this and tell them what sort of thing works for you?
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Had that at a club when I was with Mr and it made both of us laugh .... I used to find it hard to come, so would tell any guy I met, don't take it personally, but I will finish myself off afterwards. Now, no worries, as I come easily, sometimes too easily ....(can't leave it alone today, have been told I must give Mr a three hour break now so he can recoup after round three ...) for me it was about a psychological barrier, not sure what it was but its evaporated now .... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Had that at a club when I was with Mr and it made both of us laugh .... I used to find it hard to come, so would tell any guy I met, don't take it personally, but I will finish myself off afterwards. Now, no worries, as I come easily, sometimes too easily ....(can't leave it alone today, have been told I must give Mr a three hour break now so he can recoup after round three ...) for me it was about a psychological barrier, not sure what it was but its evaporated now ...."
Thanks .. Thought has crossed my mind on more than one occasion  |
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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago
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"Yes.. I'm always honest, when I tell someone I leave it with, it also cuts out the chit chat n straight down to the dirty talk which is all good..
I hear the same lines and see the same attitudes and think ' oh this will b good' it just doesn't materialise 
Don't get me wrong.. It's all fun n games until I can't come n don't want them to feel disappointed
I don't come but gush and squirt, I want to and can sometimes if lots of clit play is involved. I have recently told my partner this and that along with the toy be brought me, did achieve this I think
This happened once like you tru clitoral play .. ..
Glad you have uncovered this x"
He uncovered this with small wand he brought me for Xmas. He's talking about getting the mains one |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yes.. I'm always honest, when I tell someone I leave it with, it also cuts out the chit chat n straight down to the dirty talk which is all good..
I hear the same lines and see the same attitudes and think ' oh this will b good' it just doesn't materialise
Don't get me wrong.. It's all fun n games until I can't come n don't want them to feel disappointed
I don't come but gush and squirt, I want to and can sometimes if lots of clit play is involved. I have recently told my partner this and that along with the toy be brought me, did achieve this I think
This happened once like you tru clitoral play .. ..
Glad you have uncovered this x
He uncovered this with small wand he brought me for Xmas. He's talking about getting the mains one "
Hahahaha go for it onwards And upwards.. So to speak no pun intended xx |
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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago
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"Like seriously .. Why do men ask ' have u came yet'?
Obviously I haven't n knew I wasn't going too , so now I've to slap his arse .. Tell him not to stop n fake it all
Only for me to fuck ur clothes at u n say Thanks ., finish myself off when u go
Y do men ask ??
Can't u tell ??
(Didn't happen tonight or recently but it does happen .. A lot )
Song Ride It, My Pony -Nelly comes to mind "
Try to select guys who couldn't give a fuck.
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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I'd say you are meeting very young guys, as it is a very immature things to say. Maybe meet guys that are a little more experienced.
If you haven't come with them - then get off in front of them. Why wait until they have gone? You have just fucked a near stranger, so get that vib or dildo in you and bring yourself off! He'll probably get hard again and come all over you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'd say you are meeting very young guys, as it is a very immature things to say. Maybe meet guys that are a little more experienced.
If you haven't come with them - then get off in front of them. Why wait until they have gone? You have just fucked a near stranger, so get that vib or dildo in you and bring yourself off! He'll probably get hard again and come all over you "
I was with the same man (older man ) for ten years
I've only been with 2 fellas younger than me n that's only by a couple of years ..
As for playing in front of men .. That's a giving anyway ..
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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago
Cheshire |
I see asking if you've cum as considerate? As in, should they finish or keep going. They'd be critisised for not asking and just pulling out. Can't really win.
Definitely agree with making yourself cum Infront of them rather than after they leave.
Also, age has nothing to do with it. Asking if you've cum is surely politeness not immaturity. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Had that at a club when I was with Mr and it made both of us laugh .... I used to find it hard to come, so would tell any guy I met, don't take it personally, but I will finish myself off afterwards. Now, no worries, as I come easily, sometimes too easily ....(can't leave it alone today, have been told I must give Mr a three hour break now so he can recoup after round three ...) for me it was about a psychological barrier, not sure what it was but its evaporated now ...."
I had a similar problem in that it takes me ages to cum and Mr used to stop playing with me and apologise for not doing it for me. Made me feel like crap, like these was something wrong with my body and it wasn't doing what it should. Because I knew he would stop playing it put pressure on me to cum which has the opposite effect in my head so nothing would happen.
I finally explained how him constantly apologising made me feel so now he doesn't and recognises that it takes me longer than he thinks and things have been much better since. Definitely all about communication. |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
yumsville |
I haven't had the need to ask someone if they are going to come for years, you either know or you dont. That's why I thought they would be younger and more inexperienced. I would think it'd be quite off-putting; if a woman was asking me if I was going to come and I wasn't even brewing, it'd put me off.
You said originally you'd fake it and finish yourself off afterward - it sounds like the guys you are fucking. Pick different guys is the answer really. Either that, or don't let em leave till the job is done. |
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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago
Southampton |
"Yes.. I'm always honest, when I tell someone I leave it with, it also cuts out the chit chat n straight down to the dirty talk which is all good..
I hear the same lines and see the same attitudes and think ' oh this will b good' it just doesn't materialise
Don't get me wrong.. It's all fun n games until I can't come n don't want them to feel disappointed
I don't come but gush and squirt, I want to and can sometimes if lots of clit play is involved. I have recently told my partner this and that along with the toy be brought me, did achieve this I think
This happened once like you tru clitoral play .. ..
Glad you have uncovered this x
He uncovered this with small wand he brought me for Xmas. He's talking about getting the mains one
Hahahaha go for it onwards And upwards.. So to speak no pun intended xx"
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