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over a year ago
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I Havant told my gf about this site and am thinking off telling her and to come on as a couple what are other couples thoughts off this as I Havant met anyone on here and really feel bad on a few things  but want to make are sex life alot better than vanilla thoughts and suggestions are welcome |
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My first thought would be .... dont you have any idea of what she would think? Surely you have an inkling, certainly more than we do as we dont know her ... also, I wouldn't advertise the fact that its to make your sex life better... |
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"I Havant told my gf about this site and am thinking off telling her and to come on as a couple what are other couples thoughts off this as I Havant met anyone on here and really feel bad on a few things but want to make are sex life alot better than vanilla thoughts and suggestions are welcome "
Other couples thoughts aren't relevant. The only person's whose are is your girl friend...talk to her. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Sorry wasn't trying to sound nieve been together eight years and sorry to say understanding her reactions is what what blokes mess up on the best  I do understand but don't know how tactful ide have to be and unfortunately don't know her view on swinging sex was amazing but with mundane life and day to day things we have lost touch a little |
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"Sorry wasn't trying to sound nieve been together eight years and sorry to say understanding her reactions is what what blokes mess up on the best I do understand but don't know how tactful ide have to be and unfortunately don't know her view on swinging sex was amazing but with mundane life and day to day things we have lost touch a little "
Get back in touch with her, hide your profile, concentrate on the two of you, make time to talk she's as much responsible for the success of your sex life as you are. I'm not patronising you at all but at your age the two of you have many years ahead, learn to communicate your needs now and they will be sexually satisfying ones.
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The best sex comes from communication with each other and taking time for and with each other, not on here. We are on here for NSA bi, for Mr mainly. It does augment or improve what we have .... plus we love the social aspect of swinging and have made some good friends .... tell her what you have told us, it was amazing and you guys have lost yourselves somewhere along the way ... |
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Our journey into the lifestyle was simply a natural progression from what was and still is and amazing sex life. The closer you are the better this scene will be for you. Love, trust and honesty all cement a good relationship together and are the foundations for any good lifestyle relationship.
You say you've lost touch with each other a bit? Then our opinion would be for you both to find each other before you head towards this world. If you are solid you'll have a great time, any cracks then see you later.....
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