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Is a wink a bad thing???
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over a year ago
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Some people like them, others take no notice and prefer a message. I think if you're going to wink rather than message then your profile has to be bang on in detail with good photos to grab someone's attention enough to respond. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Winks work for me. I can decide if I want to send an introductory message. I also send winks...time is of a premium and I like to send well written messages to someone who I know has some interest.  |
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"Good points guys, and noted. As a single bloke to do a full on individual message for the recipient to not like your haircut is a bit gutting, hence the wink?"
I would only ever respond to a message but that's just me. Others are different. I think it's up to you to read profiles and decide if a wink might work |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some people like them, others take no notice and prefer a message. I think if you're going to wink rather than message then your profile has to be bang on in detail with good photos to grab someone's attention enough to respond."
This ^^^  |
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I like getting them, and probably get as many as do msgs from women ( more both low numbers than suggesting I get loads!)
I also use them and put on my profile why I wink some people and msg others. Generally though I more luck when I get one than when I wink |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally I prefer a message and generally ignore winks.
They tend to be from people who don't match what I like.
But occasionally they get me winking back "
...really ?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We like winks kinds of a polite way to see if people are interested it works better when you have face pics but we dont have them so cant say much "
Winks are fine.....and can lead to the most unexpected of things. See part 1 of a story i wrote called 'where a wink can lead....' in stories and forums. Was 14 months ago and still having fun....so i do like winks .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont mind winks and occasionally send them. But is it right to respond to a wink with a wink?
The other thing. When we receive a wink and message back sometimes we don't get a return message. I always wonder what the point of the initial wink was! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In the very early and befuddling days of my time on Planet Fab I got a wink from an astonishingly divine looking gent. I assumed he'd winked in error, but was a tiny bit tipsy so winked back (well you never know, a gorgeous Adonis might like slightly batty history geeks!).
He hadn't winked in error.
He's now my number one wing man.
I'm still not quite sure how the hell I managed it as I'm not so much out of his league as possibly out of his entire galaxy. But I'm happy to get all that I can before he comes to his senses!!
Hence. I love a well placed wink.  |
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I understand why men wink,but if you really really like the look of someone it's best to message. I don't suppose many women take an awful lot of notice of winks when they have messages to go through. |
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"I like to wink as an initial show of interest. The recipient(s) can then respond if interested and we can go on from there, or not. X
Please advise..."
A wink isn't a bad thing if you've read a profile and think you are a match.
Not a good thing when a wink sent from a non match trying his chances |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In the very early and befuddling days of my time on Planet Fab I got a wink from an astonishingly divine looking gent. I assumed he'd winked in error, but was a tiny bit tipsy so winked back (well you never know, a gorgeous Adonis might like slightly batty history geeks!).
Good for you...same as me....lol...hope she neverncomes to her senses
He hadn't winked in error.
He's now my number one wing man.
I'm still not quite sure how the hell I managed it as I'm not so much out of his league as possibly out of his entire galaxy. But I'm happy to get all that I can before he comes to his senses!!
Hence. I love a well placed wink. "
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It's worth reading a profile to see if the person you're winking likes them. Mine says I ignore them but if someone doesn't read that they may think I'm not interested when in reality i have no idea of their interest.
If you're really interested in someone then drop them a nice message  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like to wink as an initial show of interest. The recipient(s) can then respond if interested and we can go on from there, or not. X
Please advise..."
hey nothings bad everything draws attention to you and that's what you are here for ,so all good wink away |
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