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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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well that's for you to answer, do you have a trusted play friend or FB?
Take it slowly and with lots of lube, if you like it, then keep going if not just say no not for me!
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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If you feel like trying it you are probably half way there. Personally I find the idea repulsive and a total turn off, so nothing would ever make me want to try -even with someone I totally trusted to be gentle. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"I don't no what to do now x lol "
If you are uncertain about anything in swinging - don't do it. That would be our advice. You will know when the time is right, and therefore enjoy it far more. |
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"If you feel like trying it you are probably half way there. Personally I find the idea repulsive and a total turn off, so nothing would ever make me want to try -even with someone I totally trusted to be gentle."
I agree,it just makes me wince |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would never allow a meet from here to fist me, as most are one off meets or not that regular.
It needs someone who you trust, and you feel totally relaxed with.
It takes forever with me, lots of lube, loads of foreplay, and a guy who knows what he is doing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Trust is the key and you should never so anything unless you feel confident.
Its something we've done but won't be rushing back.
Old scholl KY is what we use. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Once upon a time the thought of being fisted seemed so shameful to me. But I'm an adventurous kind of girl willing to try most things so try it I did. At first I was embarrassed to even say the word never mind admit I'd done it. As time went by I got over it and now shout from the rooftops how much I really enjoy this activity. But not with everyone... I have to trust them and have a special connection beyond that of a casual encounter.
Don't overthink it. One day it may just happen because it feels right. Or one day it might not. Have fun either way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do like this but it's only something I've done with someone I've trusted and known a long time. You need to be really relaxed, take it really slowly and LOTS of lube, it's incredibly intense but soooooo good! X |
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Mrs. kinkysouls, loves it. We had to build things up slowly. Don't be disheartened if you can't take it straight away, some times it take a fair few sessions, lots of lube and patience.
I love doing it because its a whole different set of sensations for me, plus I can relax a bit and watch her face. She loves me doing it, because she says it a whole different sensation, to fucking, oral, and the numerous toys we use.
Just remind your play partner to trim their nails for obvious reasons, or make them wear suitable medical gloves...
Hope you have fun... |
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I've only done it with one woman, a meet through this site, and the first time it came rather out of the blue. I was fingering her, replaced one finger with two and found she was particularly wet and thrusting her crotch forward enthusiastically. I enquired whether she would like to try three fingers and got a keen response. Before we knew it, my whole fist was inside her. We didn't need any lube other than her own. I even have a photo to mark the occasion!
I imagine some women find it easier to take a whole fist than others, and it could be very painful and uncomfortable if the lady wasn't aroused enough, or sufficient lube used. |
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If you're not sure, then be careful. If you do try it as the receiver, ensure it is with someone experienced.
Some people love it, some don't mind and some hate it. Some women take to it easily while others need gently stretching, possibly over several sessions...and some may find they cannot be fisted at all.
I was taught how to fist at an adult party more than 10 years ago. I had an idea what to do, but a lady who enjoyed being fisted spent some time teaching me properly and I am grateful to this day. It's vital that a first timer plays with someone who knows what they are doing otherwise they can really hurt you and might make you bleed.
I find it incredibly sensual and erotic, often the lady has very powerful orgasms and writhes around, her pelvis moving up and down...and I have to go with that, while all the time feeling her muscles clench around my fist and feeling the waves of her orgasm through those muscles. It's quite amazing.
But if you're not sure, then go easy. You can always see what three fingers or an inflating dildo feel like. Indeed I recommend an inflating dildo too. |
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I have done it with a lady, i made her wet with lots of foreplay. I did not use any lube, started with two fingers first and then inserted third and fourth. My hand is not big, and managed to insert my hand smoothly into her pussy. She has given birth, so her pussy was not tight.
If your pussy tight, begin with two fingers first. |
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"I have done it with a lady, i made her wet with lots of foreplay. I did not use any lube, started with two fingers first and then inserted third and fourth. My hand is not big, and managed to insert my hand smoothly into her pussy. She has given birth, so her pussy was not tight.
If your pussy tight, begin with two fingers first."
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"I have done it with a lady, i made her wet with lots of foreplay. I did not use any lube, started with two fingers first and then inserted third and fourth. My hand is not big, and managed to insert my hand smoothly into her pussy. She has given birth, so her pussy was not tight.
If your pussy tight, begin with two fingers first."
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"Just to ask is it nice or not iv been ask to do this lots of times???? Thanks xxxx"
Oh this is interesting! I've never tried, because C has big hands and I'm on the narrow side but now I'm interested! I LOVE fingers, have managed to take 3 before now. |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"Thanks x what lube is best to use xxx"
liquid silk - though the knuckles are one of the most important bits to cover. There's more to it than just sticking a bunch of fingers in. Imagine sex and imagine good sex, it is either good, crap or shit as hell. |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"Would never allow a meet from here to fist me, as most are one off meets or not that regular.
It needs someone who you trust, and you feel totally relaxed with.
It takes forever with me, lots of lube, loads of foreplay, and a guy who knows what he is doing. "
can you not relax with a man? You never met someone decent that can turn you on?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never took a while fist it gets to painful before it gets to that point
To be honest the idea does not appeal to me but I have tried, always had to stop due to the discomfort |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would never allow a meet from here to fist me, as most are one off meets or not that regular.
It needs someone who you trust, and you feel totally relaxed with.
It takes forever with me, lots of lube, loads of foreplay, and a guy who knows what he is doing.
can you not relax with a man? You never met someone decent that can turn you on? "
I get what she means
Lots of guys off here are just out for their own pleasure
Some are so rough, I love anal but will never do anal with guys off here as they just slam it in and bang away putting your head through the wall
For some things you need to know the guy, not all guys on here care about the woman's needs or if they are enjoying it
Don't get me wrong I've met many lovely guys off here who I have had a great time with, some very considerate and caring lovers even though we have never played before but untill you get to know them you have no idea what type of lovers they are so some things are left untill you do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have done it with a lady, i made her wet with lots of foreplay. I did not use any lube, started with two fingers first and then inserted third and fourth. My hand is not big, and managed to insert my hand smoothly into her pussy. She has given birth, so her pussy was not tight.
If your pussy tight, begin with two fingers first."
Never given birth maybe that's why I find it so painful? |
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We love it. Supersexy can be double fisted. Yes 2 whole fists. Girls fists that is. She absolutely loves it. She is the first person I managed to fist. My hands are massive! Supersexy would be very glad to meet for a girl on girl. She is very gentle and would give you great pleasure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I effing love a fist up my soaked slutty snatch  its delectable!
My first time was hard... Took him about 45 minutes to get in but he persevered, that was also the fisrt time I squirted. I've been a lover of it ever since, I reach a much more intense orgasm.
I recommended a few orgasms, lots of lube and a brave heart before trying
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just to ask is it nice or not iv been ask to do this lots of times???? Thanks xxxx"
It just happened, once - and my partner enjoyed it (and I enjoyed her continued pleasure).
Fisting is an ugly, violent word - this was a much gentler act as my fingers and then my hand worked inside her after some lovely, long foreplay.
Maybe I just have small hands and nimble fingers? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I effing love a fist up my soaked slutty snatch its delectable!
My first time was hard... Took him about 45 minutes to get in but he persevered, that was also the fisrt time I squirted. I've been a lover of it ever since, I reach a much more intense orgasm.
I recommended a few orgasms, lots of lube and a brave heart before trying
X"
I've never heard it described as delectable before... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm going to try this weekend xxxxx"
As long as your partner knows what they are doing, it's fabulous. If it hurts, as opposed to feeling full up and tight, they are getting it wrong. Good luck x x x |
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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago
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"If you feel like trying it you are probably half way there. Personally I find the idea repulsive and a total turn off, so nothing would ever make me want to try -even with someone I totally trusted to be gentle.
I agree,it just makes me wince"
ditto |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm going to try this weekend xxxxx"
Good luck - don't worry if it doesn't work, do worry if it is painful and not pleasant.
I'm a regular at the Holiday Inn, Barnsley if you fancy a 'helping hand' one night  xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Give it a go, it's armless
Lol.. Joking..
I actually never done that to anyone before but it looks like the woman has a lot of fun..
Would love to try
Don't pick a goalkeeper or basketball player (big fuckoff hands) ha |
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I LOVE receiving and giving! I've done it plenty of times on meets, without it being planned or using lube and never had a complaint so my 'technique' must be bloody brilliant! Haha! I don't have a technique at all, to anything really, I just go with the flow and when I say I've done it unplanned, it's usually when a woman is ridiculously wet and turned on and wants more...some women don't realise I've got my whole fist in until I tell them and that's usually when I feel them getting tighter because they tense up...it's all about being relaxed enough with whoever you're with and being super turned on...I don't have the most delicate/feminine/small hands in the world and actually think I have quite blokey/big hands but size has never been an issue because of the build up...if/when done right, it can be a VERY intense feeling and fabulously strong orgasm...the only bad experience I've had is when I was receiving once, she went in way too soon, way too fast and way too hard, took no consideration to how much natural lube I'd produced or in that case, not produced and just tried shoving her fist in!!! It was excruciating, completely killed the mood and well, it was just shit! I've not met many women that are willing to give it a go though unfortunately! It's one of my favourite things to do as nothing gives me an orgasm like fisting does...just a tip though, don't forget about the rest of the woman and just focus on the actual fisting as many do...I don't claim to be an expert on anything but hell yes, I'm fucking brilliant at it!!!! Barnsley isn't too far if you're hot!!!! Haha! I only do it with women though, no reason for that other than not really fucking men alone much! |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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You need to be really seriously horny, take it very slowly and plenty of lube if you are not naturally very wet.....
It very much depends on the person as to their fist too - some have hands like shovels!
I would say if you are bi then try it with a lady first as we are more understanding.
I love it but not all the time - needs to be right person, time and place etc..... |
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"I've got big hands. Nobody ever asked me to do it. Lol"
that's what I once said to a lady at an adult party, on her birthday no less. So she taught me a few techniques and thirty minutes later I was fisting her on the couch in the living room. |
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"You need to be really seriously horny, take it very slowly and plenty of lube if you are not naturally very wet.....
It very much depends on the person as to their fist too - some have hands like shovels!
I would say if you are bi then try it with a lady first as we are more understanding... And right size hand:p
I love it but not all the time - needs to be right person, time and place etc....."
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We've done, started with fingers and tongues and end up a fist. Relaxed and with a lube top up to be safe. Don't rush or force.
I'm wary of blokes fist being too big, so on the lookout for a lady to do instead |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Would never allow a meet from here to fist me, as most are one off meets or not that regular.
It needs someone who you trust, and you feel totally relaxed with.
It takes forever with me, lots of lube, loads of foreplay, and a guy who knows what he is doing.
can you not relax with a man? You never met someone decent that can turn you on? "
Yes I relax with men, and most of the men I have met are decent and turn me on while playing.
What I was saying is that as I don't do many repeat meetings then the trust needed for fisting or anal would not be built with a guy from here.
I do have a long-term FWB who I trust and adore anal and fisting with him. |
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over a year ago
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"We've tried uploading a fisting pic a couple of times and they wouldn't allow it either  "
It's classed as forbidden by the government or something like that! |
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"There's actually a photo of us fisting in our images 
My pic of that was rejected by mods!! "
So was mine!!! And I've tried uploading it a few times just in case the mods were in a bad mood cos of having no sex that day! Turns out they're always miserable and it's been rejected every time! |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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"There's actually a photo of us fisting in our images
My pic of that was rejected by mods!!
So was mine!!! And I've tried uploading it a few times just in case the mods were in a bad mood cos of having no sex that day! Turns out they're always miserable and it's been rejected every time! "
Least I'm not alone!! You aren't far away, we should join forces and storm them! Protest boards at the ready!! Lol |
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