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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago
Southend |
We love blocking timewasters or unsuitable people.
How long to you leave it before you block someone who has read your message and not replied?
*please note we leave some time so both partners can read message xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don;t block anyone. Ever.
1/ I want to hear it all
2/ It's pointless blocking people
3/ I view it as a failure
Enjoy blocking people. It changes nothing.  "
me neither , i get guys message me and i chat even tho im straight , its nice to be nice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If someone hasn't read my profile and is nothing like my preferences I dont reply... I don't have time to reply to junk mail that is mass posted through my letter box either. "
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"I don;t block anyone. Ever.
1/ I want to hear it all
2/ It's pointless blocking people
3/ I view it as a failure
Enjoy blocking people. It changes nothing.
thats you blocked by OP dude haha"
Aren't we all  |
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"I don;t block anyone. Ever.
1/ I want to hear it all
2/ It's pointless blocking people
3/ I view it as a failure
Enjoy blocking people. It changes nothing.
thats you blocked by OP dude haha"
...and they would confuse me with someone who gives a shit...
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"I don;t block anyone. Ever.
1/ I want to hear it all
2/ It's pointless blocking people
3/ I view it as a failure
Enjoy blocking people. It changes nothing.
me neither , i get guys message me and i chat even tho im straight , its nice to be nice "
BOOOOMMMM!!!! blocked  |
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"I don;t block anyone. Ever.
1/ I want to hear it all
2/ It's pointless blocking people
3/ I view it as a failure
Enjoy blocking people. It changes nothing.
thats you blocked by OP dude haha
...and they would confuse me with someone who gives a shit...
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Double blocked if its possible in fact I reckon they are starting a new profile just to block you on that one  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We love blocking timewasters or unsuitable people.
How long to you leave it before you block someone who has read your message and not replied?
*please note we leave some time so both partners can read message xx"
I don't.
There's been times where eve read a message but then got distracted and it's been days before I've got back to it.
I accept that others may be as forgetful as me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We just don't have time for losers, sorry peeps xx"
Wait so people who don't reply fast enough to your messages are losers?
I get the feeling there's a lot of people who've dodged the entitled bullet here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I block people I have no interest in meeting or talking to. Simple really.
It's a tool on the site like any of the other filters. "
But the question was how long after someone has read your message and not replied do you block them?
Or are you saying you're messaging g people you have no interest in? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a huge block list this is because i dont want to hassel any one that is not interested in me.
So if i get a no not type reply i will block.
Or if i look at a profile which really does not do it for me then i block it.
It makes my life easier when hunting lol.
But if i do not get a reply i may send another message in no fewer than few weeks and if its read and not replyed then it will be a block. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find being blocked says more about the person that blocks than it does about the recipient.
I can understand why people block, presumably due to their previous experiences, but it shows a wee lack of class in my opinion.
Just don't reply to the message or say "no thanks"? |
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"I find being blocked says more about the person that blocks than it does about the recipient.
I can understand why people block, presumably due to their previous experiences, but it shows a wee lack of class in my opinion.
Just don't reply to the message or say "no thanks"?"
thats a blocking |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
"I block people I have no interest in meeting or talking to. Simple really.
It's a tool on the site like any of the other filters.
But the question was how long after someone has read your message and not replied do you block them?
Or are you saying you're messaging g people you have no interest in?"
Sometimes after messaging a while, it goes cold. So I say thanks, good luck and block.
I delete all my sent messages so don't check... but use the private notes when I initiate contact. If I go to message someone, see I've messaged before and no follow up note, it's obvious they aren't interested so I would block then to avoid hassling anyone.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've read messages and,for whatever the reason I haven't had the time to reply soon after reading.
Tied up with work,called away from pc,illness and,offline for a while.
As with most of us,it doesn't make us bad people? that warrant blocking.  |
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"We love blocking timewasters or unsuitable people.
How long to you leave it before you block someone who has read your message and not replied?
*please note we leave some time so both partners can read message xx"
What about the people you haven't messaged? How long does it take you to decide they're losers and block them? |
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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago
Southend |
"We love blocking timewasters or unsuitable people.
How long to you leave it before you block someone who has read your message and not replied?
*please note we leave some time so both partners can read message xx
What about the people you haven't messaged? How long does it take you to decide they're losers and block them? "
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We message everyone we think could be match xx |
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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago
Southend |
"I'm more than happy for someone to block me before they've even spoken to me/messaged me before. I get very few blocks.
I just love this site!"
Don't need to message some people, their account does the work for them xx |
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Lots of single chaps jumping on the offensive here. Forum regulars know what a ball ache women and couples have with messages, from a handful a day to the princesses who get hundreds. It's a filter.
I'm no bombarded hotty but get enough to get trigger happy with it on occasion.
However, I'd never block if someone hasn't replied. Might change my mind later down the line... |
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"We love blocking timewasters or unsuitable people.
How long to you leave it before you block someone who has read your message and not replied?
*please note we leave some time so both partners can read message xx
What about the people you haven't messaged? How long does it take you to decide they're losers and block them? m
We message everyone we think could be match xx"
That wasn't the question though.. |
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I have form! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We love blocking timewasters or unsuitable people.
How long to you leave it before you block someone who has read your message and not replied?
*please note we leave some time so both partners can read message xx"
yes but its really sad that you are constantly being negative and burning bridges but hey Ho whatever floats your negative boat ,I personally avoid blocking anyone  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lots of single chaps jumping on the offensive here. Forum regulars know what a ball ache women and couples have with messages, from a handful a day to the princesses who get hundreds. It's a filter.
I'm no bombarded hotty but get enough to get trigger happy with it on occasion.
However, I'd never block if someone hasn't replied. Might change my mind later down the line..."
Yep single guys are totally to blame here.
Couple complains that people aren't replying to them so they block them
This is clearly the fault of single males flooding their inboxes....
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"Lots of single chaps jumping on the offensive here. Forum regulars know what a ball ache women and couples have with messages, from a handful a day to the princesses who get hundreds. It's a filter.
I'm no bombarded hotty but get enough to get trigger happy with it on occasion.
However, I'd never block if someone hasn't replied. Might change my mind later down the line...
Yep single guys are totally to blame here.
Couple complains that people aren't replying to them so they block them
This is clearly the fault of single males flooding their inboxes....
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Kinda missed my point there. Not bashing anyone, just those getting their knickers in a whimsy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Did I hear blocking well sometimes it is a great tool to save trying to remember those that sent you abuse or you have tyred being nice by saying no thank you to but they keep trying but me I will chat to anyone only happy to get the odd reply |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've seen it a few times now on the forums and I still don't quite understand it.
The need to declare blocks, it baffles me
I can only come up with the idea that it gives some people a bit of an ego boost or provides closure.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've seen it a few times now on the forums and I still don't quite understand it.
The need to declare blocks, it baffles me
I can only come up with the idea that it gives some people a bit of an ego boost or provides closure.
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No I think this is a first on the forums. I've never heard of someone being blocked because they didn't answer fast enough.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've seen it a few times now on the forums and I still don't quite understand it.
The need to declare blocks, it baffles me
I can only come up with the idea that it gives some people a bit of an ego boost or provides closure.
No I think this is a first on the forums. I've never heard of someone being blocked because they didn't answer fast enough. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've seen it a few times now on the forums and I still don't quite understand it.
The need to declare blocks, it baffles me
I can only come up with the idea that it gives some people a bit of an ego boost or provides closure.
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.. or something.... |
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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago
Southend |
"We love blocking timewasters or unsuitable people.
How long to you leave it before you block someone who has read your message and not replied?
*please note we leave some time so both partners can read message xx yes but its really sad that you are constantly being negative and burning bridges but hey Ho whatever floats your negative boat ,I personally avoid blocking anyone "
How does it burn bridges if there wasn't a bridge to start with? Xx |
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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago
Southend |
"Lots of single chaps jumping on the offensive here. Forum regulars know what a ball ache women and couples have with messages, from a handful a day to the princesses who get hundreds. It's a filter.
I'm no bombarded hotty but get enough to get trigger happy with it on occasion.
However, I'd never block if someone hasn't replied. Might change my mind later down the line..."
What would make you change your mind? Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We love blocking timewasters or unsuitable people.
How long to you leave it before you block someone who has read your message and not replied?
*please note we leave some time so both partners can read message xx"
I find the whole block a bit controlling and silly as what you fancy one day is not what you want the next
It's also pointless as most people have two accounts anyway
If I look at a girl or couple and am blocked by them I think . They know me I wonder who they are and quickly go on and have a look
also when you are not a sofa swinger and meet people and swap fab names it saves the oh I can't find you.
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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago
Southend |
"We love blocking timewasters or unsuitable people.
How long to you leave it before you block someone who has read your message and not replied?
*please note we leave some time so both partners can read message xx
I find the whole block a bit controlling and silly as what you fancy one day is not what you want the next
It's also pointless as most people have two accounts anyway
If I look at a girl or couple and am blocked by them I think . They know me I wonder who they are and quickly go on and have a look
also when you are not a sofa swinger and meet people and swap fab names it saves the oh I can't find you.
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I know what your saying, but would you want to be contacted by someone who had ignored you for two months and decided to contact you because their bored one day? Xx |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"would you want to be contacted by someone who had ignored you for two months and decided to contact you because their bored one day? Xx"
That's how I use the site. If I'm in the mood I'll message them. If they are, they message me. If we're both available then we arrange something.
That's how I run my off-Fab life too. I do not like to be pestered constantly by people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I get a polite message off a random I reply if it's a sorry not interested .But if it's rude off a random I generally block .And I love blocking .Local who's updates get on my nerves I block as well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't block people either, seems a little pointless to me. If I don't want to talk to someone that's messaged I just don't open the message and it goes in the bulk delete. Which is probably why I've been blocked by the OP...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I block and I expect to be blocked.
Blocking is just a tool on here that's all.
Nobody has to explain why they've blocked someone.
Your right, they don't, just always curious as to why xx"
Ok, why did you block me?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don;t block anyone. Ever.
1/ I want to hear it all
2/ It's pointless blocking people
3/ I view it as a failure
Enjoy blocking people. It changes nothing.
thats you blocked by OP dude haha
...and they would confuse me with someone who gives a shit...
Double blocked if its possible in fact I reckon they are starting a new profile just to block you on that one "
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
I've only blocked one person in four and a bit years...Yep they were / are very special...
And no it wasn't cos they didn't reply to my message.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We love blocking timewasters or unsuitable people.
How long to you leave it before you block someone who has read your message and not replied?
*please note we leave some time so both partners can read message xx
I find the whole block a bit controlling and silly as what you fancy one day is not what you want the next
It's also pointless as most people have two accounts anyway
If I look at a girl or couple and am blocked by them I think . They know me I wonder who they are and quickly go on and have a look
also when you are not a sofa swinger and meet people and swap fab names it saves the oh I can't find you.
I know what your saying, but would you want to be contacted by someone who had ignored you for two months and decided to contact you because their bored one day? Xx"
I do it all the time it's no big deal .
I don't use this type of lifestyle for friendship
If they were a friend in my friends Facebook rather than my causal acquaintances Facebook then it would be different |
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"We love blocking timewasters or unsuitable people.
How long to you leave it before you block someone who has read your message and not replied?
*please note we leave some time so both partners can read message xx
I find the whole block a bit controlling and silly as what you fancy one day is not what you want the next
It's also pointless as most people have two accounts anyway
If I look at a girl or couple and am blocked by them I think . They know me I wonder who they are and quickly go on and have a look
also when you are not a sofa swinger and meet people and swap fab names it saves the oh I can't find you.
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How do you 'have a look' when your blocked? |
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Why block ?
This is suppose to be a sex dating site not membership to the local golf course.
I find the blockers are usually the ones who never meet, or chat, want to become friend then block.
I only block offensive messengers, otherwise just move on and find the real member of here who do want to enjoy the site rather than playing silly games, like blocking because you do not reply in 1 seconds etc.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't.
It just seems mean.
A lot of negativity for no reason really.
Seems like an ego trip 'you weren't fast enough replying to us'
seems a bit up ones own bottom |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We love blocking timewasters or unsuitable people.
How long to you leave it before you block someone who has read your message and not replied?
*please note we leave some time so both partners can read message xx"
I never block people that don't reply to me. Don't see the point.
Someone did that to myself and my partner this week. We were having a chat, he asked us a question, we were waiting until we had the time to discuss it - i.e. the next day, and when we'd discussed it and gone back to him later to say 'yes, when can we meet?' he'd already blocked us.
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"Lots of single chaps jumping on the offensive here. Forum regulars know what a ball ache women and couples have with messages, from a handful a day to the princesses who get hundreds. It's a filter.
I'm no bombarded hotty but get enough to get trigger happy with it on occasion.
However, I'd never block if someone hasn't replied. Might change my mind later down the line...
What would make you change your mind? Xx"
Mood and timing. There are days when I have time to consider someone's profile, days when I feel shitty and others where I simply scan and delete.
I've had a few reappear and I've felt differently. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We don't block for a non-reply as we don't reply to all messages ourselves.
Why not? Xx"
Have you seen the inbox of a tgirl? Believe me, there are not enough hours in the day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We love blocking timewasters or unsuitable people.
How long to you leave it before you block someone who has read your message and not replied?
*please note we leave some time so both partners can read message xx
I find the whole block a bit controlling and silly as what you fancy one day is not what you want the next
It's also pointless as most people have two accounts anyway
If I look at a girl or couple and am blocked by them I think . They know me I wonder who they are and quickly go on and have a look
also when you are not a sofa swinger and meet people and swap fab names it saves the oh I can't find you.
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I don't think most people have two accounts
I think that's more just the creepy stalker types. |
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