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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We have decided that mrs is going to take on a FB. We were thinking about looking for one at club f on wednesday night. She likes the idea of trying loads of guys out before choosing one to regularly fuck her. Any guys that would be interested in this or couples that have done similar? |
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"We have decided that mrs is going to take on a FB. We were thinking about looking for one at club f on wednesday night. She likes the idea of trying loads of guys out before choosing one to regularly fuck her. Any guys that would be interested in this or couples that have done similar?"
Would love to be the part of the party... But i don't visit club f  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Try loads, as you know you may be attracted to someone but they don't do it for you in the bed room department.
Have rules and boundaries too on both sides. Although you say NSA things can get complicated and quickly. See the many FB threads on here.
I have 3 reg Fb, 2 of whom I've been swinging with for 8 years. I / we think we have a good balance with our FB arrangements. Notice I did not say relationship.
Good luck in your search. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Try loads, as you know you may be attracted to someone but they don't do it for you in the bed room department.
Have rules and boundaries too on both sides. Although you say NSA things can get complicated and quickly. See the many FB threads on here.
I have 3 reg Fb, 2 of whom I've been swinging with for 8 years. I / we think we have a good balance with our FB arrangements. Notice I did not say relationship.
Good luck in your search. "
Great advice thank you. Looking forward to finding someone |
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Have rules and boundaries too on both sides. Although you say NSA things can get complicated and quickly.. "
Great advice 
The only thing I'd add is that i think mine are relationships, just not in the traditional sense. I too have several that I've seen for years- longest must be 7 years?? - but equally you have to work at the relationship to make it work. "Booty calls" alone don't work long term I find - need to chat in between. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I see where you are coming from but I think it's purely NSA boot calls we are looking for. Would be nice to have someone to fuck me when he is away with work |
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Something we've talked about and of interest is E having her own FB, suppose it's a difficult arrangement to find though as not looking for a relationship as such just a "friend" who fucks her now and then when they both decide.....Without any awkward feelings getting in the way so to speak lol.
Will be watching this thread for advice and experiences  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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We will be attending club f on wednesday the 23rd and hope to find a suitable male to become our fuck buddy. Please pm us if you are interested in meeting up with us there. The idea is that mrs slutty will "meet" everyone interested to see who fits (pun not intended) |
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It is something we have done in the past but have to say, it isn't easy finding the right person. It has to be someone you feel comfortable with, get on with socially and have amazing sex with but there have to be ground rules and trust, which does not happen over night.
The FB we had in the past happened by accident rather than planning but when it works, its brilliant and definitely something we would consider again, if the right person came along  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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That's good advice. We have a friend in mind and have asked him but he lives in Ireland and struggles to get back to mainland so could only do it over one weekend. Looking for someone more local. Husband would be present bur not involved at all times, well to start with anyway |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why is she taking a fuck buddy. !!! is it because you chopped your cock off, in your sliding patio doors  "
Lol fancy patio doors with an installed shower
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Is it just a male fb you are looking for? I guess there will be plenty of choice., probably too much choice!"
We would consider a bi female Fb also but the main focus is on getting a male |
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By (user no longer on site)
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A reliable fb has got to be one of the most hardest things to find...well definately for me.
The amount of lies and time wasters that i have personally come across has been dam exhausting.
I now decide to stick to clubs, and if i get lucky...i walk away a happy bunny x
But best of luck to you OP xx
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By (user no longer on site)
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Sods law, such a shame you live so far away. I generally meet one or two couples on a regular basis. But opportunities to meet a woman on a 1to1 basis are rare for me.
A regular fuck buddy would be the icing on the cake |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have decided that mrs is going to take on a FB. We were thinking about looking for one at club f on wednesday night. She likes the idea of trying loads of guys out before choosing one to regularly fuck her. Any guys that would be interested in this or couples that have done similar?"
I have about 4 who I see regular but they don't know about each other.
I'm I cheating? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have decided that mrs is going to take on a FB. We were thinking about looking for one at club f on wednesday night. She likes the idea of trying loads of guys out before choosing one to regularly fuck her. Any guys that would be interested in this or couples that have done similar?
I have about 4 who I see regular but they don't know about each other.
I'm I cheating? "
Not at all! A FB NSA arrangement does not imply exclusivity. If they are not OK with you seeing other ppl then either they are possessive idiots or they are not as NSA as you'd think and might have feelings for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have decided that mrs is going to take on a FB. We were thinking about looking for one at club f on wednesday night. She likes the idea of trying loads of guys out before choosing one to regularly fuck her. Any guys that would be interested in this or couples that have done similar?
I have about 4 who I see regular but they don't know about each other.
I'm I cheating? "
Mine don't all know about each other,they don't all ask or want to know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have decided that mrs is going to take on a FB. We were thinking about looking for one at club f on wednesday night. She likes the idea of trying loads of guys out before choosing one to regularly fuck her. Any guys that would be interested in this or couples that have done similar?
I have about 4 who I see regular but they don't know about each other.
I'm I cheating?
Not at all! A FB NSA arrangement does not imply exclusivity. If they are not OK with you seeing other ppl then either they are possessive idiots or they are not as NSA as you'd think and might have feelings for you."
They don't know about each other and we never talked about if I'm seeing other men or if they seeing other women.
It has been going on for years.
Wonder if they would agree to a mmmm f |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Good luck with your search
Thanks guys x"
All i can say is that once you find your 'regular'....it will be great. Having been seeing a couple for over a year now and it has been the most amazing time. They have also become great friends
Not what i set out for originally on fabs but would not change for the world. It works for us. ....so good luck. Hope you find what you seek. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A reliable fb has got to be one of the most hardest things to find...well definately for me.
The amount of lies and time wasters that i have personally come across has been dam exhausting.
I now decide to stick to clubs, and if i get lucky...i walk away a happy bunny x
But best of luck to you OP xx
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Yeah it is exhausting, I'm finding.
People either aren't regularly available after all, lie or like to fuck with your head!
Think it's less hassle with the battery operated variety! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Impossible. I'd normally find one at work but I only work with gay/married men.
Time to look for a new job methinks as it's not happening in these parts! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Good luck with your search! It's something I previously did, saw a woman regularly and her partner worked away a lot. It was ideal for us both at the time, we all got on and trust was there, but always NSA. As long as you communicate well with all parties, it'll be fine
I'd happily do that again with the right woman, but it's not easy to, and I'm not really looking to find that specifically. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have decided that mrs is going to take on a FB. couples that have done similar?"
We tried this last time we were on here as to rather than meet different single guys all the time just for fun.. If I was to find a fb then it'd add to the excitement of staying at his and me being 'shared' as a 'hot wife' BUT finding a decent single guy is hard enough lol |
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"We will be attending club f on wednesday the 23rd and hope to find a suitable male to become our fuck buddy. Please pm us if you are interested in meeting up with us there. The idea is that mrs slutty will "meet" everyone interested to see who fits (pun not intended)"
surely a fb arrangement develops over time, not a case of saying oi you, you'll do |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We will be attending club f on wednesday the 23rd and hope to find a suitable male to become our fuck buddy. Please pm us if you are interested in meeting up with us there. The idea is that mrs slutty will "meet" everyone interested to see who fits (pun not intended)
surely a fb arrangement develops over time, not a case of saying oi you, you'll do"
One would imagine so , but perhaps everyone suitable gets to try it and see ?
No doubt a busy night at the club will ensue .
Or is it going to be like an interview for each candidate ?
Each to their own and all that , but it seems a bit contrived ..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had one or two, brief but fun. They need to tick all the boxes and that's difficult to find.....still looking for one "
Me too :-s
Starting to give up hope! |
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