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over a year ago
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How do you know when both people in a couple are into it. I remember watching the Louis theroux BBC thing on swingers and it kind of seemed that one of the couples only the Mr was into it and the wife was playing along but maybe she was just nervous
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over a year ago
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It's normally obvious. Although I have had someone think I wasn't into it, the reality was they had annoyed me but I didn't think it fair to just stop play and leave .... But I guess it showed in my body language..
I enjoy it most when the couples are still very Much into each other and making little touches And glances as that to me makes me feel like they share it equally x |
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One couple I met gave me that feeling, she wasn't into it. I was wrong, turns out she had been swinging long before they got together, she was just a very quiet person. |
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"How do you know when both people in a couple are into it. I remember watching the Louis theroux BBC thing on swingers and it kind of seemed that one of the couples only the Mr was into it and the wife was playing along but maybe she was just nervous
How would you tell? "
It's usually obvious in their body language even if their verbal language is saying the opposite. We have met people socially where one or the other was just doing it to please the other and its very sad that one of them feels unable to say no, one of them is unable to read signals that are loud and clear to a stranger and both of them think that we would want to have sex with them under those circumstances. |
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