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You can't kiss me but you can fuck me ?!?!
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By *vadown OP Man
over a year ago
Wickham |
Is it just me but.... well perhaps just a little neck nibble |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't know how people have sex without kissing...  |
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Kissing, if they dont kiss i wont meet |
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Having sex without kissing is easy.
So, ya wanna make love? Well why didn't ya tell me that? |
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"I don't know how people have sex without kissing... "
Some people don't - it's a bit weird but whatever |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
"Kissing, if they dont kiss i wont meet"
Same!!! |
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"I don't know how people have sex without kissing... "
This x 1000 |
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By *r ManxMan
over a year ago
NeverWhere |
"Kissing, if they dont kiss i wont meet
Same!!!"
same here might as well stay at home and watch porn  |
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Kissing is like THE most essential part |
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By *vadown OP Man
over a year ago
Wickham |
"Having sex without kissing is easy.
So, ya wanna make love? Well why didn't ya tell me that?"
know where yer coming from but its a sex site not prostitution, to me there has to be attraction to at least want to kiss and not mind being in the company if yr going to fuck with them.
in general for me.
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By *ucky78Woman
over a year ago
liverpool |
I love kissing problem is my hands wander |
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By *vadown OP Man
over a year ago
Wickham |
"I love kissing problem is my hands wander "
that's good yer, by the time kissing is ok i wouldn't be too adverse to some feeling to going on  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Each to there own, but we love kissing x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Could not meet if kissing was not allowed. A kiss is the start of everything that follows to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love kissing at meets and the rest just flows so it yes to kissing and no meet if they don't kiss |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I couldn't have sex without kissing!!! |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
"I don't know how people have sex without kissing...
Some people don't - it's a bit weird but whatever"
Why is it any more weird than not wanting anal, nipple clamps, asphyxiation, urination or any of the other sexual activities that some indulge in and see as an essential part of their sex lives ? It's just a matter for personal choice - for some swinging is about raw sex while kissing is about romantic love and close involvement, and for them the two sides are incompatible.
Not wrong just a choice to be respected. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It makes me laugh when people say the don't kiss on meets because it's to intimate. I would class oral and full sex rather intimate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My favourite thing is to be kissed well. I don't think I could be turned on if I wasn't kissed  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I saw 2 homeless guys fucking in my local park. They weren't kissing. Maybe because they were still drinking cider....who really knows...  |
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"Kissing, if they dont kiss i wont meet"
This! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My favourite thing is to be kissed well. I don't think I could be turned on if I wasn't kissed "
I fully agree, but I respect those who prefer leaving kissing for a significant other. Interesting that kissing the lower set of lips is fine but not the upper pair |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it just me but.... well perhaps just a little neck nibble"
Thanks, but no thanks, contrary to some beliefs sometimes straight means what it says on the tin  |
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By *elloWoman
over a year ago
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I very seldom kiss I'd much rather neck nuzzle, doesn't matter if it's with a casual meet or a long term partner, which has lead to more than a few heated arguments with ex boyfriends. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know how people have sex without kissing...
Some people don't - it's a bit weird but whatever
Why is it any more weird than not wanting anal, nipple clamps, asphyxiation, urination or any of the other sexual activities that some indulge in and see as an essential part of their sex lives ? It's just a matter for personal choice - for some swinging is about raw sex while kissing is about romantic love and close involvement, and for them the two sides are incompatible.
Not wrong just a choice to be respected."
Oh I respect it I just don't understand it personally. I couldn't do it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know how people have sex without kissing...
Some people don't - it's a bit weird but whatever
Why is it any more weird than not wanting anal, nipple clamps, asphyxiation, urination or any of the other sexual activities that some indulge in and see as an essential part of their sex lives ? It's just a matter for personal choice - for some swinging is about raw sex while kissing is about romantic love and close involvement, and for them the two sides are incompatible.
Not wrong just a choice to be respected."
and I have found most men aren't bothered about kissing. And never bothered till a few years ago. I adore kissing Mr but other men. I do tend to avoid it mostly as I'll be honest and say it doesn't do it for me and can actually turn me off. |
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Nothing kills my lady boner quicker if they don't or can't kiss 
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"I don't know how people have sex without kissing...
Some people don't - it's a bit weird but whatever
Why is it any more weird than not wanting anal, nipple clamps, asphyxiation, urination or any of the other sexual activities that some indulge in and see as an essential part of their sex lives ? It's just a matter for personal choice - for some swinging is about raw sex while kissing is about romantic love and close involvement, and for them the two sides are incompatible.
Not wrong just a choice to be respected.
and I have found most men aren't bothered about kissing. And never bothered till a few years ago. I adore kissing Mr but other men. I do tend to avoid it mostly as I'll be honest and say it doesn't do it for me and can actually turn me off. "
Met a bi guy who wasn't in the slightest bit interested in kissing, just wanted to be fucked. From behind. Almost like I wasn't there.
Well, that's not entirely true |
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I thinking kissing is an important part of a meeting, makes you feel closer and more connected, slipping tongues in mouths before he slips his cock in to you. |
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Kissing is what gets me going, fuels the exploration of the lady's body with my hands. I an get excited without kissing but I strongly prefer to kiss.
snogging is underrated. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kissing! Wouldn't meet someone who didn't kiss. |
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Each to there own?
If people don't want to kiss then they are fine to state that.
I find it strange that people don't get that some people equate kissing to a far more intimate act than sex.
It may not be the same for you but if we were all the same life would be dull.
Some people enjoy just kissing and foreplay without full penetration.
Others want to slap and scratch and bite each other.
Just because people choose to engage in different aspects makes them no weirder than the rest.
Ask anyone vanilla about swingers and they would think the whole thing is weird regardless of individual preferences. |
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By *ltravioletWoman
over a year ago
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"Is it just me but.... well perhaps just a little neck nibble"
Kissing is essential for me, as the song goes "" it's in his kiss"" it can be the spark that ignites a sexual connection ( I couldnt meet someone that doesn't kiss that's my preference ) also the right type of kiss can turn me on so much sometimes that my juices start running into my nix |
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Nothing better than a sensual long kiss as you are both locked together,it adds to the spiritual side of sex.
The merging of bodies and minds all felt through the gentle feel of lips. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I cant meet unless we can kiss |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can't do sex without kissing - but other people can and do and that's fine if it's what suits them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kissing is critical for us both. |
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Kissing is essential to us.
A friend recently had a meet with a couple, she was allowed to kiss the female but not the male! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Kissing is critical for us both. "
Pucker up ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kissing is part of foreplay it's a turn on and if the person is a good kisser can't be a fantastic turn on  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I cant meet unless we can kiss"
Kiss kiss |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No kissing = No passion = No point! |
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"No kissing = No passion = No point!"
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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how many men would actually turn down a meet if a couple said 'no kissing' ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Having sex without kissing is easy.
So, ya wanna make love? Well why didn't ya tell me that?
know where yer coming from but its a sex site not prostitution, to me there has to be attraction to at least want to kiss and not mind being in the company if yr going to fuck with them.
in general for me.
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It's never long before the word prostitution gets used in these threads. That's a pretty nasty inference.
That said we've had 'weird' already. How many pejoratives can we end up with by the end. All sorts of preferences and kinks on here but for some reason these threads give free reign to personal insults to anyone who has a different view on kissing. Maybe that's a bit weird too?
Bx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Having sex without kissing is easy.
So, ya wanna make love? Well why didn't ya tell me that?
know where yer coming from but its a sex site not prostitution, to me there has to be attraction to at least want to kiss and not mind being in the company if yr going to fuck with them.
in general for me.
It's never long before the word prostitution gets used in these threads. That's a pretty nasty inference.
That said we've had 'weird' already. How many pejoratives can we end up with by the end. All sorts of preferences and kinks on here but for some reason these threads give free reign to personal insults to anyone who has a different view on kissing. Maybe that's a bit weird too?
Bx"
I've noticed this. It seems like 'no kissing' is one of the things it's still ok to ridicule people for. I don't meet without kissing and I can't really relate to or understand it but it seems shitty to suggest people are wrong for it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Kissing is critical for us both.
Pucker up ! "
lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Kissing is critical for us both.
Pucker up !
lol"
....... dangles mistletoe above crotch lol |
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Of all the people we have met only one man has even tried to kiss me passionately, full on the mouth. One told us before we met that he felt it was the proper preserve of the couple.
It's a preference like all the others and as such shouldn't be treated with astonishment or disbelief. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know how people have sex without kissing... "
Because it doesn't feel very nice for some people.
...next? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Having sex without kissing is easy.
So, ya wanna make love? Well why didn't ya tell me that?
know where yer coming from but its a sex site not prostitution, to me there has to be attraction to at least want to kiss and not mind being in the company if yr going to fuck with them.
in general for me.
It's never long before the word prostitution gets used in these threads. That's a pretty nasty inference.
That said we've had 'weird' already. How many pejoratives can we end up with by the end. All sorts of preferences and kinks on here but for some reason these threads give free reign to personal insults to anyone who has a different view on kissing. Maybe that's a bit weird too?
Bx
I've noticed this. It seems like 'no kissing' is one of the things it's still ok to ridicule people for. I don't meet without kissing and I can't really relate to or understand it but it seems shitty to suggest people are wrong for it "
yes totally agree, the impression im getting is there is no place for non kissers in the swinging community. |
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"Having sex without kissing is easy.
So, ya wanna make love? Well why didn't ya tell me that?
know where yer coming from but its a sex site not prostitution, to me there has to be attraction to at least want to kiss and not mind being in the company if yr going to fuck with them.
in general for me.
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So you would say then that somebody like me who saves kissing for my husband but has happily ducked other men is a prostitute?
Thanks for that, I'll put it on my cv.  |
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"Having sex without kissing is easy.
So, ya wanna make love? Well why didn't ya tell me that?
know where yer coming from but its a sex site not prostitution, to me there has to be attraction to at least want to kiss and not mind being in the company if yr going to fuck with them.
in general for me.
It's never long before the word prostitution gets used in these threads. That's a pretty nasty inference.
That said we've had 'weird' already. How many pejoratives can we end up with by the end. All sorts of preferences and kinks on here but for some reason these threads give free reign to personal insults to anyone who has a different view on kissing. Maybe that's a bit weird too?
Bx
I've noticed this. It seems like 'no kissing' is one of the things it's still ok to ridicule people for. I don't meet without kissing and I can't really relate to or understand it but it seems shitty to suggest people are wrong for it
yes totally agree, the impression im getting is there is no place for non kissers in the swinging community. "
Kissing and pubic hair are two things that some really find it difficult to be open minded about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Having sex without kissing is easy.
So, ya wanna make love? Well why didn't ya tell me that?
know where yer coming from but its a sex site not prostitution, to me there has to be attraction to at least want to kiss and not mind being in the company if yr going to fuck with them.
in general for me.
It's never long before the word prostitution gets used in these threads. That's a pretty nasty inference.
That said we've had 'weird' already. How many pejoratives can we end up with by the end. All sorts of preferences and kinks on here but for some reason these threads give free reign to personal insults to anyone who has a different view on kissing. Maybe that's a bit weird too?
Bx
I've noticed this. It seems like 'no kissing' is one of the things it's still ok to ridicule people for. I don't meet without kissing and I can't really relate to or understand it but it seems shitty to suggest people are wrong for it "
Very well said. Xx |
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We do not kiss and may swingers have the same view that it is kept for ourselves.
Ridicule all you like but that is how it is for us and we accept freely that not all agree as per this rather silly thread.
Each to their own all.
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By *eltonmanMan
over a year ago
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I prefer to have a good kiss at a meet.
have had a couple of 'I'm married so I won't kiss anone else'.
no problem as was still a good meet |
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By *W69Couple
over a year ago
Bournemouth |
We love to kiss when meeting people but fully respect the fact that not all do.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Each to there own but I want to be kissed lots everywhere and really well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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well said hear hear each TOO THERE OWN |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can't beat a good snog. I've never met anyone who doesn't want to kiss. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We do not kiss and may swingers have the same view that it is kept for ourselves.
Ridicule all you like but that is how it is for us and we accept freely that not all agree as per this rather silly thread.
Each to their own all.
L2"
Each to their own and complaining of being ridiculed yet you call this a silly thread!? |
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Yea I fucked this lady n she would not let me kiss her cos her fellow was watching us . But I luv sensual kissing n was with another lady n she never done French kissing just gentle pecking on d lips she did not do tongues at all . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It makes me laugh when people say the don't kiss on meets because it's to intimate. I would class oral and full sex rather intimate "
This.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why would I not want some sort of emotional content with some one I was going to be intimate with???? , this is not to suggest that it's I'm possible , I look forward to reading the above comments too see if I can learn , great post OP very intriguing . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We do not kiss and may swingers have the same view that it is kept for ourselves.
Ridicule all you like but that is how it is for us and we accept freely that not all agree as per this rather silly thread.
Each to their own all.
L2
Each to their own and complaining of being ridiculed yet you call this a silly thread!?"
It is a bit of a silly thread though. Because the OP blatantly ignores the fact that some people just don't enjoy kissing (either any kissing, or kissing people other than their partners).
It ignores the fact that people have preferences, and belittles them by basically saying 'if you don't want people to kiss you but you'll let them have sex, then you're daft'. |
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"It makes me laugh when people say the don't kiss on meets because it's to intimate. I would class oral and full sex rather intimate
This.... "
Full sex and oral needn't be intimate in my opinion but faces, mouth, eyes in close contact tongues inserted with no barrier, exchange of body fluid...pretty intimate to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I didn't realise some people were against kissing.. I love kissing and I'd probably find it awkward getting straight into it without a few kisses. So I wouldn't meet anyone that's against it. Plus, I just love smooching  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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seems like non kissing is ridiculed as much as 'soft swinging'. We personally did not think there were any rules. its what you make if it and what you are comfortable with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I respect it not sure I get it , but then we are living in a Society where people lick each other's arses but if you re-dip your Nacho after taking a bite folks lose their mind!! Lol |
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"I didn't realise some people were against kissing.. I love kissing and I'd probably find it awkward getting straight into it without a few kisses. So I wouldn't meet anyone that's against it. Plus, I just love smooching "
I'm not against it, it's a very pleasurable thing when you are doing it with someone you want to do it with. Just like any sexual activity though I only want to do it when and with who I choose. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We do not kiss and may swingers have the same view that it is kept for ourselves.
Ridicule all you like but that is how it is for us and we accept freely that not all agree as per this rather silly thread.
Each to their own all.
L2
Each to their own and complaining of being ridiculed yet you call this a silly thread!?
It is a bit of a silly thread though. Because the OP blatantly ignores the fact that some people just don't enjoy kissing (either any kissing, or kissing people other than their partners).
It ignores the fact that people have preferences, and belittles them by basically saying 'if you don't want people to kiss you but you'll let them have sex, then you're daft'."
I don't think the OP is blatantly ignoring anything, he's just posing a question and asking for opinions...isn't that the point of these forums, or am I missing something?
I also don't see where he belittles anyone either but maybe I need more practice at reading between the lines. |
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over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We do not kiss and may swingers have the same view that it is kept for ourselves.
Ridicule all you like but that is how it is for us and we accept freely that not all agree as per this rather silly thread.
Each to their own all.
L2
Each to their own and complaining of being ridiculed yet you call this a silly thread!?
It is a bit of a silly thread though. Because the OP blatantly ignores the fact that some people just don't enjoy kissing (either any kissing, or kissing people other than their partners).
It ignores the fact that people have preferences, and belittles them by basically saying 'if you don't want people to kiss you but you'll let them have sex, then you're daft'.
I don't think the OP is blatantly ignoring anything, he's just posing a question and asking for opinions...isn't that the point of these forums, or am I missing something?
I also don't see where he belittles anyone either but maybe I need more practice at reading between the lines."
I don't think you need to read between , sometimes it's fine to give people the benefit of the doubt |
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"I love kissing problem is my hands wander "
With your figure so would mine. |
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"We do not kiss and may swingers have the same view that it is kept for ourselves.
Ridicule all you like but that is how it is for us and we accept freely that not all agree as per this rather silly thread.
Each to their own all.
L2
Each to their own and complaining of being ridiculed yet you call this a silly thread!?
It is a bit of a silly thread though. Because the OP blatantly ignores the fact that some people just don't enjoy kissing (either any kissing, or kissing people other than their partners).
It ignores the fact that people have preferences, and belittles them by basically saying 'if you don't want people to kiss you but you'll let them have sex, then you're daft'.
I don't think the OP is blatantly ignoring anything, he's just posing a question and asking for opinions...isn't that the point of these forums, or am I missing something?
I also don't see where he belittles anyone either but maybe I need more practice at reading between the lines."
He does later on make a slightly unsavoury prostitution reference. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We do not kiss and may swingers have the same view that it is kept for ourselves.
Ridicule all you like but that is how it is for us and we accept freely that not all agree as per this rather silly thread.
Each to their own all.
L2
Each to their own and complaining of being ridiculed yet you call this a silly thread!?
It is a bit of a silly thread though. Because the OP blatantly ignores the fact that some people just don't enjoy kissing (either any kissing, or kissing people other than their partners).
It ignores the fact that people have preferences, and belittles them by basically saying 'if you don't want people to kiss you but you'll let them have sex, then you're daft'.
I don't think the OP is blatantly ignoring anything, he's just posing a question and asking for opinions...isn't that the point of these forums, or am I missing something?
I also don't see where he belittles anyone either but maybe I need more practice at reading between the lines."
Those lines can be a bitch |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We do not kiss and may swingers have the same view that it is kept for ourselves.
Ridicule all you like but that is how it is for us and we accept freely that not all agree as per this rather silly thread.
Each to their own all.
L2
Each to their own and complaining of being ridiculed yet you call this a silly thread!?
It is a bit of a silly thread though. Because the OP blatantly ignores the fact that some people just don't enjoy kissing (either any kissing, or kissing people other than their partners).
It ignores the fact that people have preferences, and belittles them by basically saying 'if you don't want people to kiss you but you'll let them have sex, then you're daft'.
I don't think the OP is blatantly ignoring anything, he's just posing a question and asking for opinions...isn't that the point of these forums, or am I missing something?
I also don't see where he belittles anyone either but maybe I need more practice at reading between the lines."
It's the "?!?!" in the title. It's an expression most used when someone thinks something is totally ridiculous and stupid.
"You're not into kissing ?!?!" is really a statement of total disbelief at how this could possible be a sensible thing to not be into.
(And yes, the prostitution remark wasn't great either.) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We do not kiss and may swingers have the same view that it is kept for ourselves.
Ridicule all you like but that is how it is for us and we accept freely that not all agree as per this rather silly thread.
Each to their own all.
L2
Each to their own and complaining of being ridiculed yet you call this a silly thread!?
It is a bit of a silly thread though. Because the OP blatantly ignores the fact that some people just don't enjoy kissing (either any kissing, or kissing people other than their partners).
It ignores the fact that people have preferences, and belittles them by basically saying 'if you don't want people to kiss you but you'll let them have sex, then you're daft'.
I don't think the OP is blatantly ignoring anything, he's just posing a question and asking for opinions...isn't that the point of these forums, or am I missing something?
I also don't see where he belittles anyone either but maybe I need more practice at reading between the lines.
He does later on make a slightly unsavoury prostitution reference."
Agreed that is slightly unsavoury... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We do not kiss and may swingers have the same view that it is kept for ourselves.
Ridicule all you like but that is how it is for us and we accept freely that not all agree as per this rather silly thread.
Each to their own all.
L2
Each to their own and complaining of being ridiculed yet you call this a silly thread!?
It is a bit of a silly thread though. Because the OP blatantly ignores the fact that some people just don't enjoy kissing (either any kissing, or kissing people other than their partners).
It ignores the fact that people have preferences, and belittles them by basically saying 'if you don't want people to kiss you but you'll let them have sex, then you're daft'.
I don't think the OP is blatantly ignoring anything, he's just posing a question and asking for opinions...isn't that the point of these forums, or am I missing something?
I also don't see where he belittles anyone either but maybe I need more practice at reading between the lines.
It's the "?!?!" in the title. It's an expression most used when someone thinks something is totally ridiculous and stupid.
"You're not into kissing ?!?!" is really a statement of total disbelief at how this could possible be a sensible thing to not be into.
(And yes, the prostitution remark wasn't great either.)"
I understand what you're saying but if he has this opinion who are we to state his thread is silly? After all it is only his opinion, of which he is entitled to have. Whether it could have been relayed in a more eloquent manner is another matter. |
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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
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When I meet, I do so knowing what things they do and don't like/allow and I'm always respectful of these.
That said, I've never met anyone that doesn't kiss as it's a major sexual stimulus for me and I'm not sure that I'd get much out of a meet if snogging wasn't allowed. |
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"We do not kiss and may swingers have the same view that it is kept for ourselves.
Ridicule all you like but that is how it is for us and we accept freely that not all agree as per this rather silly thread.
Each to their own all.
L2"
With you on this one leicester2 kissing is for us, everything else goes with others but not that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'll kiss people on meets, but I'm not "snogging" anyone! 
-Courtney |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Kissing, if they dont kiss i wont meet
Same!!!"
and neither would i |
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"I don't know how people have sex without kissing...
Some people don't - it's a bit weird but whatever
Why is it any more weird than not wanting anal, nipple clamps, asphyxiation, urination or any of the other sexual activities that some indulge in and see as an essential part of their sex lives ? It's just a matter for personal choice - for some swinging is about raw sex while kissing is about romantic love and close involvement, and for them the two sides are incompatible.
Not wrong just a choice to be respected."
Well said! |
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I do not kiss anyone other than Bradley simply because I do not enjoy it. - The same as you wouldn't do anal if you didn't enjoy it or, for the straight guys, if you wouldn't kiss another man because you didn't enjoy it. It just does absolutely nothing for me and therefore it's not so much a conscious decision but I will probably naturally turn away if someone moves in for a snog.
I'd much rather sink my teeth into your neck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love kissing myself ..... but respect others wishes |
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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago
CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly) |
"When I meet, I do so knowing what things they do and don't like/allow and I'm always respectful of these.
That said, I've never met anyone that doesn't kiss as it's a major sexual stimulus for me and I'm not sure that I'd get much out of a meet if snogging wasn't allowed."
Kiss, kiss, kiss ... Snog, Snog, Snog. ...suck n fuck xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I meet, I do so knowing what things they do and don't like/allow and I'm always respectful of these.
That said, I've never met anyone that doesn't kiss as it's a major sexual stimulus for me and I'm not sure that I'd get much out of a meet if snogging wasn't allowed."
We tried meeting a couple who didn't want kissing but the net result was that I couldn't get wood! It's not just that it's pleasurable, it's helps me focus on the person too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know how people have sex without kissing... "
Nor do we but as they say , there's nowt so strange as folk .... |
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By *mojeeCouple
over a year ago
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"I don't know how people have sex without kissing...
Some people don't - it's a bit weird but whatever
Why is it any more weird than not wanting anal, nipple clamps, asphyxiation, urination or any of the other sexual activities that some indulge in and see as an essential part of their sex lives ? It's just a matter for personal choice - for some swinging is about raw sex while kissing is about romantic love and close involvement, and for them the two sides are incompatible.
Not wrong just a choice to be respected."
That's how we feel and Em won't kiss. I've said to her it's fine if she wants to but she doesn't. It's purely personal preference and not weird as some have said. Let's face it most people would class us a weird for being who we are and what we do with others. |
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"Kissing, if they dont kiss i wont meet"
Not sure I'd go that far - but kissing is a very sensual thing - I love to kiss and cuddle. I've met people who can't stand to be touched after they cum  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It makes me laugh when people say the don't kiss on meets because it's to intimate. I would class oral and full sex rather intimate "
To you but for me a lingering tender kiss is much more intimate than sex or oral. I can have both oral and sex without a care in the world. I find kissing more personal and close. It's the closeness I struggle with.
I do on occasion kiss on meets... I'm quite good at avoiding it and yet never seen as cold or clinical.. I love how it feels when I share a kiss with Mr... And I love that he kisses other with passion and abandonment but I can not do the same to other men...
Its not weird it's just my personal preference, same as others have theirs. Funny is I wouldn't enjoy a meet so much If Mr can't kiss the lady but I'm happy as Larry if the guy doesn't want to or makes no effort to kiss me. X I do this for my own pleasure and for mutual enjoyment.... So why would I do something that with other men can leave me cold |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it depends on the situation personally, one on one or with people we really know in foursomes, then yes...I'm one of those hypocrites who loves kissing women...there's something very erotic about it, but can take or leave kissing the men... if we're at a party and it's pretty full on play, kissing tends to play no part at all and if someone not too shabby has their cock or pussy near me and doesn't object, I'm going to suck or lick it without insisting on kissing them first... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it depends on the situation personally, one on one or with people we really know in foursomes, then yes...I'm one of those hypocrites who loves kissing women...there's something very erotic about it, but can take or leave kissing the men... if we're at a party and it's pretty full on play, kissing tends to play no part at all and if someone not too shabby has their cock or pussy near me and doesn't object, I'm going to suck or lick it without insisting on kissing them first..."
Sounds like me |
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"I can't do sex without kissing - but other people can and do and that's fine if it's what suits them. "
in a nutshell! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Spot on. I totally agree with you . And I find that most people on this thread are single men who have no knowledge or experience of sharing their loved ones. Just horny bustards |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Spot on. I totally agree with you . And I find that most people on this thread are single men who have no knowledge or experience of sharing their loved ones. Just horny bustards "
Except the women and couples, right?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kissing is essential for me. No kissing, no meeting, I'm afraid it's just too cold for me without it x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i suppose there is no right or wrong, if u enjoy kissing at meets carry on, if you don't you make it clear at the start your dos and dont's and if they are not happy you move on. You will eventually find what you are looking for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well, I suppose it might seem a bit odd but we're all different in somethings thank goodness.....
Just think how dreadfully boring it would be otherwise not finding out about each others preferences and it's surprising how it often makes you think........ Well, why not...... go with it, it might be fun this way or that way after all.
The opportunity to say yes ok, or, no it's not for me is always there after all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"how many men would actually turn down a meet if a couple said 'no kissing' ? "
with you probably no one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i must admit when we first started our swinging journey, kissing was off the menu and was only soft swing but as you get into it you develop a taste to try more on the menu ! Everyones taste is different. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know how people have sex without kissing...
Some people don't - it's a bit weird but whatever
Why is it any more weird than not wanting anal, nipple clamps, asphyxiation, urination or any of the other sexual activities that some indulge in and see as an essential part of their sex lives ? It's just a matter for personal choice - for soswinging is about raw sex while kissing is about romantic love and close involvement, and for them the two sides are incompatible.
Not wrong just a choice to be respected."
Well said....we have NEVER been turned down by a single male or a couple.....lot of hot air |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know how people have sex without kissing...
This x 1000 "
...plus infinity!
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By *abel-30Woman
over a year ago
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I'm not a huge fan of kissing. Don't tend to do it in meets at all, I'm a smoker and if I'm meeting a non smoker that can't be nice for them.
Some like it some don't, it wouldn't stop me meeting someone because of it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know how people have sex without kissing...
This x 1000
...plus infinity!
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i think comments like this are just looking to stir and trying to make non kissers look like freaks !!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Each to there own?
If people don't want to kiss then they are fine to state that.
I find it strange that people don't get that some people equate kissing to a far more intimate act than sex.
It may not be the same for you but if we were all the same life would be dull.
Some people enjoy just kissing and foreplay without full penetration.
Others want to slap and scratch and bite each other.
Just because people choose to engage in different aspects makes them no weirder than the rest.
Ask anyone vanilla about swingers and they would think the whole thing is weird regardless of individual preferences. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know how people have sex without kissing...
This x 1000
...plus infinity!
i think comments like this are just looking to stir and trying to make non kissers look like freaks !!!"
or just kissing each other's arses! |
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kissing a beautiful, sexy woman is wonderful. I can't get hard without sensual kissing. To be kissing as your cock slides in ... now that's really sexy. |
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Played with kissers and none kissers and women only kissers.
It's never felt cold or lacking passion.
The only time it has ever lacked passion is when there is zero response from the people we were playing with. Ps they did kiss.
Being a kisser does not make a swinger any more passionate or any less cold. Either there is a connection or there is not.
We get that some people can have sex without kissing and that's fine. Its the lack of understanding for those who can have fun without kissing that seems strange.
If you replaced kissing with anal maybe that would make sense. Some people love anal but others don't. Not wanting to do anal does not make something weird it's just a personal preference.
We do kiss but find kissing to be far more intimate an act than sex. Holding hands to can be far more intimate than a blow job. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know how people have sex without kissing...
Some people don't - it's a bit weird but whatever
Why is it any more weird than not wanting anal, nipple clamps, asphyxiation, urination or any of the other sexual activities that some indulge in and see as an essential part of their sex lives ? It's just a matter for personal choice - for some swinging is about raw sex while kissing is about romantic love and close involvement, and for them the two sides are incompatible.
Not wrong just a choice to be respected."
Absolutely spot on ....you can tell half the people on here should stick to dating sites |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kissing is what gets me really hard!!! |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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I do like a good snog when I am shagging. Note the word 'good'. Nothing more off putting than someone who thinks that gumming me or licking my face is sexy, or the ones who drool a lot. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This non-kissing thing seems quite common. Total fucking turn-off for us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Drool a lot
No kissing = no fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No kissing no meeting... Kissing is the start of the tease and tantlisation... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love kissing before, during and after sex. Respect others boundaries but I personally won't play with anyone who won't/cant kiss me. It's a major part of play and being intimate and I can't imagine having sex with someone I can't kiss on the mouth. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do like a good snog when I am shagging. Note the word 'good'. Nothing more off putting than someone who thinks that gumming me or licking my face is sexy, or the ones who drool a lot."
or a mouthful of tounge. Nothing worse.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love kissing before, during and after sex. Respect others boundaries but I personally won't play with anyone who won't/cant kiss me. It's a major part of play and being intimate and I can't imagine having sex with someone I can't kiss on the mouth. "
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I do like a good snog when I am shagging. Note the word 'good'. Nothing more off putting than someone who thinks that gumming me or licking my face is sexy, or the ones who drool a lot. or a mouthful of tounge. Nothing worse. "
I love kissing with tongues, but some guys think just poking it in and out of my mouth is sexy. It is not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I saw 2 homeless guys fucking in my local park. They weren't kissing. Maybe because they were still drinking cider....who really knows... "
Jeez Hun! What park do you go to?
On second thoughts - don't tell me!! Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love kissing before, during and after sex. Respect others boundaries but I personally won't play with anyone who won't/cant kiss me. It's a major part of play and being intimate and I can't imagine having sex with someone I can't kiss on the mouth.
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Same again here! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wonder sometimes if those posting all the threads about who they won't meet get the situation. Those who don't kiss. Don't. Want. To. Meet. You. Either. You are not compatible with their requirements and your requirements are a total turn off for them.
Now, I wonder why there aren't countless thread entries making that point? Is it because it sounds all a bit rude and non inclusive and just a bit like your rules are better and less stupid than other people's? And generally maybe that's a tone some would like to avoid. in fact this thread, more than many previous has tried to make that point. But I guess the same comments needs to be repeated, ad nauseam. We get it, you won't meet us, we don't kiss.
I'm guessing many of you haven't seen the old footage of the experiment by the US teacher with blue eyed and brown eyed kids? Google it, it's pretty much this shit all over.
And breathe!
Bx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do like a good snog when I am shagging. Note the word 'good'. Nothing more off putting than someone who thinks that gumming me or licking my face is sexy, or the ones who drool a lot. or a mouthful of tounge. Nothing worse.
I love kissing with tongues, but some guys think just poking it in and out of my mouth is sexy. It is not."
me too but once met someone who just shoved her full tougne in my mouth and left it there. . Was not a good kiss. Tougnes should be teasing xx |
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"I wonder sometimes if those posting all the threads about who they won't meet get the situation. Those who don't kiss. Don't. Want. To. Meet. You. Either. You are not compatible with their requirements and your requirements are a total turn off for them.
Now, I wonder why there aren't countless thread entries making that point? Is it because it sounds all a bit rude and non inclusive and just a bit like your rules are better and less stupid than other people's? And generally maybe that's a tone some would like to avoid. in fact this thread, more than many previous has tried to make that point. But I guess the same comments needs to be repeated, ad nauseam. We get it, you won't meet us, we don't kiss.
I'm guessing many of you haven't seen the old footage of the experiment by the US teacher with blue eyed and brown eyed kids? Google it, it's pretty much this shit all over.
And breathe!
Bx"
Says it all really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love kissing before, during and after sex. Respect others boundaries but I personally won't play with anyone who won't/cant kiss me. It's a major part of play and being intimate and I can't imagine having sex with someone I can't kiss on the mouth. "
There lies the difference for me. Having nsa sex isn't intimate for me. So I don't enjoy the kissing with it x when I am with my partner it's totally different. If he didn't want to kiss me I'd feel rejected and wonder what was wrong xx as his kisses make it so much more intimate. But for me intimacy isn't something I share with just anyone x |
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By *mojeeCouple
over a year ago
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By *mojeeCouple
over a year ago
Dunfermline |
"I love kissing before, during and after sex. Respect others boundaries but I personally won't play with anyone who won't/cant kiss me. It's a major part of play and being intimate and I can't imagine having sex with someone I can't kiss on the mouth.
There lies the difference for me. Having nsa sex isn't intimate for me. So I don't enjoy the kissing with it x when I am with my partner it's totally different. If he didn't want to kiss me I'd feel rejected and wonder what was wrong xx as his kisses make it so much more intimate. But for me intimacy isn't something I share with just anyone x "
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"No kissing = No passion = No point!"
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By *eddABCMan
over a year ago
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"I don't know how people have sex without kissing... "
I agree with you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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sex with out kissing no thanks I'd be better of just playing with myself then... |
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By *mojeeCouple
over a year ago
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"No kissing = No passion = No point!
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For us the passion is just for us but when we invite someone to join us then it becomes an adventure and you have to leave some things for just the two of you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is it just me. But I can not even imagine how a meet gets started without kissing. Yer can't just divebomb into sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"sex with out kissing no thanks I'd be better of just playing with myself then... "
Mwah |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it just me. But I can not even imagine how a meet gets started without kissing. Yer can't just divebomb into sex "
Pretty much this. If he won't kiss me he ain't sticking it in me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it just me. But I can not even imagine how a meet gets started without kissing. Yer can't just divebomb into sex "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At the end of the day being a single male. I'm there for the couples enjoyment. I'm their sex toy and I play by their rules. The No kissing rule is fine with me.
You can loads of fun without kissing.
I've never encountered the no kissing rule when playing with a single female. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Kissing is like THE most essential part "
It sure is!! |
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The one We don't get is... the two woman can kiss but my Mr can't kiss her and her mr can't kiss me... Talk about confused. Com! Can you imagin how hard it is to remember in the middle of things ?!
Yeap each to their own n all that ... But not for us! ( mrs ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kissin is a must for me while havin sex just givs it dat lil extra bit ov lovein wats happnin between each other at that amazin moment of pleasure |
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Come across this, I must say I think it spoils the mood. |
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over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Il do Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"At the end of the day being a single male. I'm there for the couples enjoyment. I'm their sex toy and I play by their rules. The No kissing rule is fine with me.
You can loads of fun without kissing.
I've never encountered the no kissing rule when playing with a single female. "
Men aren't couples' sex toys, they are people. It should be everyone's rules. Everyone should have fun.
If you want to feel like a sex toy that's cool but don't lose your self worth for a fuck. |
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over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No. Men aren't couples sex toys...,,,
They're mine
Giz us a kiss boys |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Third time lucky! Damn auto fuck up feature on my phone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we love to kiss - its a one of those pass people by things for us if they dont |
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"I don't know how people have sex without kissing... "
exactly ! we just dont get people that wont kiss |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know how people have sex without kissing...
exactly ! we just dont get people that wont kiss"
I don't get people who won't shag obese people... |
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over a year ago
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We prefer to kiss when swinging because kissing is a great turn on for us and really enhances the experience but we have encountered no kissing couple meets before - as long as they are responding warmly to the stroking, touching etc we felt a bit stilted but because we could still exchange kisses within the two of us here presence of the other couple still brought something extra to the experience.
Have never come across a mfm or fmf where kissing wasn't acceptable! Not yet anyway !! If that happens I am sure I will accept their rules but I think I would seek some additional afterwards. |
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over a year ago
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"I don't know how people have sex without kissing...
exactly ! we just dont get people that wont kiss
I don't get people who won't shag obese people..."
I don't get people who won't wear full scuba gear to shag. |
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over a year ago
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I've had meets where I don't kiss and meets where I do.
It doesn't really make any difference to the quality of my meets! I can take it or leave it! |
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over a year ago
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Id like a xmas snog..... |
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over a year ago
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over a year ago
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Oh I love a good snog lol |
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"At the end of the day being a single male. I'm there for the couples enjoyment. I'm their sex toy and I play by their rules. The No kissing rule is fine with me.
You can loads of fun without kissing.
I've never encountered the no kissing rule when playing with a single female.
Men aren't couples' sex toys, they are people. It should be everyone's rules. Everyone should have fun.
If you want to feel like a sex toy that's cool but don't lose your self worth for a fuck."
Summed up nicely what I was thinking when I read his comments. Little wonder some couples expect single men to jump through hoops if they encounter men with such mindset. |
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over a year ago
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Taking this whole idea further, when I was travelling, I had several encounters with ladies who would give head and let me go down on them only to then say no to sex as it was too intimate and they hadn't known me long enough. Cop out excuse if you ask me! |
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over a year ago
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"Taking this whole idea further, when I was travelling, I had several encounters with ladies who would give head and let me go down on them only to then say no to sex as it was too intimate and they hadn't known me long enough. Cop out excuse if you ask me!"
When I was in the navy I was seeing a rather charming lady for thirteen months before we progressed to full sex.
We spent hours every day kissing and often I'd go down on her but for those thirteen months she never touched me in return. |
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over a year ago
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"I wonder sometimes if those posting all the threads about who they won't meet get the situation. Those who don't kiss. Don't. Want. To. Meet. You. Either. You are not compatible with their requirements and your requirements are a total turn off for them.
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Absolutely this |
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"I don't know how people have sex without kissing...
exactly ! we just dont get people that wont kiss"
You don't need to. That point has been made, your meet criteria isn't compatible with theirs so there is no problem. |
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"Is it just me. But I can not even imagine how a meet gets started without kissing. Yer can't just divebomb into sex
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Foreplay. There are hundreds probably thousands of variations of which kissing is only one.
Lack of imagination is usually what inhibits this. |
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over a year ago
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"Is it just me. But I can not even imagine how a meet gets started without kissing. Yer can't just divebomb into sex
Foreplay. There are hundreds probably thousands of variations of which kissing is only one.
Lack of imagination is usually what inhibits this."
Wouldn't want to play with people who lack imagination. |
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"Is it just me. But I can not even imagine how a meet gets started without kissing. Yer can't just divebomb into sex
Foreplay. There are hundreds probably thousands of variations of which kissing is only one.
Lack of imagination is usually what inhibits this.
Wouldn't want to play with people who lack imagination. "
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over a year ago
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On a one to one meet I'd want kissing involved but in group play, I'm not so bothered about kissing. |
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over a year ago
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"At the end of the day being a single male. I'm there for the couples enjoyment. I'm their sex toy and I play by their rules. The No kissing rule is fine with me.
You can loads of fun without kissing.
I've never encountered the no kissing rule when playing with a single female.
Men aren't couples' sex toys, they are people. It should be everyone's rules. Everyone should have fun.
If you want to feel like a sex toy that's cool but don't lose your self worth for a fuck."
So true .
So many of the guys we meet say the experience with us is so different as they feel equally as important . Which they are - the fun we have is so much better when all parties are enjoying themselves fully . There is no way see any meet as less worthy than us .
Hence why kissing is an integral part of the meet .
A while back a guy turned up , and said he didn't kiss , he just wanted a suck and go . Well that was demeaning to Sabrina who enjoys kissing , and it taught us a lesson . He got the suck and go and we felt somewhat flat afterwards . We won't arrange a one on one without being sure that kissing is on now .
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over a year ago
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"At the end of the day being a single male. I'm there for the couples enjoyment. I'm their sex toy and I play by their rules. The No kissing rule is fine with me.
You can loads of fun without kissing.
I've never encountered the no kissing rule when playing with a single female.
Men aren't couples' sex toys, they are people. It should be everyone's rules. Everyone should have fun.
If you want to feel like a sex toy that's cool but don't lose your self worth for a fuck."
I know some men like to feel like a sex toy, but when we play with single guys we want them to enjoy themselves. The experience is supposed to be fun and beneficial for all three people. That is where my enjoyment is. If I wanted a sex toy I have a bag full already.
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no man who has played with us has ever been made to feel like a sex toy, we make it clear from the start that its a three way thing.
If people feel that not indulging in sensual, passionate kissing with them is an insult or demeaning in any way they are free not to meet us as many have vehemently stated.
I don't do anal but that seems to be ok with most people too. |
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