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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hello all,
Just a question, we are only into soft swinging, anything goes except full intercourse, (oral, touching, playing etc).
We have had a few dates with others happy with that, but had a few lately where they insinuate that we are not real swingers unless we full intercourse.
Is meeting a soft swing couple a big issue, we just are happy that way.
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By *idsAndyMan
over a year ago
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"Do exactly what you want and no more, as I said elsewhere if others want more you aren't suited.
Don't let anyone else tell you what you are or aren't."
I'll second that! Exactly as I would have said  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We also prefer Soft Swing, but do on the odd occasion play fully, has to be the right people,
just go with your instincts, and don't feel pressured, it is all about enjoyment and if people insinuate that your not real swingers, ask them if they like sex and travel.
you will probably find it is much more difficult to find swingers who only play soft, but then when you do find them, it cam be rewarding sometimes if you find the right couple,
w have known a few couple for a number of years where we have only played soft, it is still enjoyable though
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We're the type of couple who just like to "go with the flow". It's very rare that we have a meet with anything specific in mind, it's just best to enjoy the moment in whatever way is comfortable for everyone.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks guys, we thought the same. We love watching and being watched and have had some great times at some clubs only soft swinging or watching.
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Some of our horniest and most erotic meets have been soft swing either by prior arrangement or just ended up that way through the direction of play...The only rules anyone should have to play by are their own... |
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No big issue to me if you only want more sensual sex without intercourse then thats what should be respected. Alot of couples only soft swing as most only want intercourse with each other which i think proves they want to keep that part special for each other which is lovely really xxx. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Hello all,
Just a question, we are only into soft swinging, anything goes except full intercourse, (oral, touching, playing etc).
We have had a few dates with others happy with that, but had a few lately where they insinuate that we are not real swingers unless we full intercourse.
Is meeting a soft swing couple a big issue, we just are happy that way.
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So what is the interpretation of ' real swinger's! I don't know, but do what you enjoy and are comfortable with, it doesn't need a title and you will always find plenty of people happy to have fun with you  |
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