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Unshockable partner... ideas?
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By *atine OP Woman
over a year ago
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I have a fab partner in crime and while we have the most amazing sex and have experienced many of our fantasies together there is one thing I'm needing help with...
He has (as I do) a pretty extreme job and is a bit of an adrenalin junkie. He can be very dom, wild, in between but he can also be very sub. He is bi too.
He wants me to test him to his limits of which I am more than happy to oblige lol and with each meet it gets more and more adventurous and, for some, extreme. We do have moments of pure passion of the non extreme type.
He gets off on pain in a huge way and loves to see how far it can go until he has to say the safe word. He's been tied up, shackled, verbally abused, whipped, caned, been fucked in every hole, abused in soooo many porn type ways lol.
I know I shock him every time and he loves it, loves the pain, loves the pleasure, but dear friends I am looking for something that will make him say "oh! [SAFEWORD]!!!". Short of putting razor blades in his eyes (his suggestion not mine) he thinks he's invincible! Ideas?
It has occurred to me that maybe I'm on the wrong site but I know there are loads of fetish type swinging lovers out there!!! Maybe there is someone more extreme out there that can oblige? lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Get him to wank into a glass and Drink it ........... I make my dom friend do that drink his own warm cum x jo xx"
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By (user no longer on site)
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" Get him to wank into a glass and Drink it ........... I make my dom friend do that drink his own warm cum x jo xx"
I enjoy doing this I must admit...licking my own come from a lady's skin while its still warm. I think there's just something so base and delicious about it...  |
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" Get him to wank into a glass and Drink it ........... I make my dom friend do that drink his own warm cum x jo xx"
Kinky Jo. Like it.
To OP, I think it might be a case of diminishing returns-the more you do to shock him this time, the more you have to do next time.
Good luck to you both, hope your insurance covers your fun.  |
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might be a bit tame for him, but stinging nettles, freshly picked when they are in season, used as a whip in the obvious places.
Just make sure you wear gloves when using them on him, also be aware he could have an allergic reaction to them |
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By *atine OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I LOVE that idea!!! hahahaha (she said with a sinister laugh)
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Starting to think he might have pissed you off and you are just getting ideas There are some 'great'? Ideas though."
Gawd no! I do have some sort of swinging morals! x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"done the drinking your own cum thing... maybe I need a gallon of the cum of a 1000 people lol"
yes get some others in so he has a pint. lol x tell him its very good for vitmins and drink up x
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tie him up and put a hood over his head. pour ice cold water over him while holding a rag soaked in lighter fluid under his nose. the smell and the cold water will make him think you have poured lighter fluid on him... then tease him with a candle or lighter threatening so set light to it! |
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By *atine OP Woman
over a year ago
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"tie him up and put a hood over his head. pour ice cold water over him while holding a rag soaked in lighter fluid under his nose. the smell and the cold water will make him think you have poured lighter fluid on him... then tease him with a candle or lighter threatening so set light to it! "
That sounds like off limits techniques for prisoners of war! He would cotton on to that (if you follow me and what he does for a living)... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That sounds like off limits techniques for prisoners of war! He would cotton on to that (if you follow me and what he does for a living)...
where do you think i learned it lol "
Since when do your lot get your hands dirty with that kind of activity |
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"That sounds like off limits techniques for prisoners of war! He would cotton on to that (if you follow me and what he does for a living)...
where do you think i learned it lol
Since when do your lot get your hands dirty with that kind of activity "
you would be surprised what we do |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That sounds like off limits techniques for prisoners of war! He would cotton on to that (if you follow me and what he does for a living)...
where do you think i learned it lol
Since when do your lot get your hands dirty with that kind of activity
you would be surprised what we do "
Only cos you want to get your hands on their best kit... |
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"That sounds like off limits techniques for prisoners of war! He would cotton on to that (if you follow me and what he does for a living)...
where do you think i learned it lol
Since when do your lot get your hands dirty with that kind of activity
you would be surprised what we do
Only cos you want to get your hands on their best kit..."
looking ally is half the battle |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That sounds like off limits techniques for prisoners of war! He would cotton on to that (if you follow me and what he does for a living)...
where do you think i learned it lol
Since when do your lot get your hands dirty with that kind of activity
you would be surprised what we do
Only cos you want to get your hands on their best kit...
looking ally is half the battle "
 Just what I'd expect from one of your funny lot |
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"That sounds like off limits techniques for prisoners of war! He would cotton on to that (if you follow me and what he does for a living)...
where do you think i learned it lol
Since when do your lot get your hands dirty with that kind of activity
you would be surprised what we do
Only cos you want to get your hands on their best kit...
looking ally is half the battle
Just what I'd expect from one of your funny lot"
yeah yeah yeah... i bet you have special coloured stickers to put on your maps for us  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That sounds like off limits techniques for prisoners of war! He would cotton on to that (if you follow me and what he does for a living)...
where do you think i learned it lol
Since when do your lot get your hands dirty with that kind of activity
you would be surprised what we do
Only cos you want to get your hands on their best kit...
looking ally is half the battle
Just what I'd expect from one of your funny lot
yeah yeah yeah... i bet you have special coloured stickers to put on your maps for us "
Very sodding special........Ha! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Find a lady whos 20/30 stone get them to sit on his face no pants on...... when he is tied down ....... and have her sitting on him . Was seeing this on tv some woman make money out of doing this , lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i have hurd of this being done several times, calv a but plug out of ginger and use it on him!!!!! that is ment to be rather intense
also while doing that if you want to go really extreme, have him lie down on nettles while the plug is in his arse and use a violet wand on his balls!!! not my cup of tea but i think it might work lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"tie or handcuff his hands and feet to the bed...... then go shopping for a few hours lol"
yes with his Gold card ,, lol take it to the max .... that should do the trick too x
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Find a lady whos 20/30 stone get them to sit on his face no pants on...... when he is tied down ....... and have her sitting on him . Was seeing this on tv some woman make money out of doing this , lol "
I saw that in a magazine! She was gross too, dirty heffer. They paid a fortune for it!
You could always tell him you're not in the mood but that 83 year old Mildred next door has offered so will be bringing her dusty fanny round in 20 mins for a damned good licking? |
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"Ok, is it just me, or are other people now getting ready to hit the "block button" on certain profiles for fear of ever playing with them lol? 
Are you in the right thread mate? "
I hope you found something suitably brutal for him and that he was happy with it. Some of the suggestions made bits of me draw up for protection and others jsut reminded me how mean you Ladies can be at times...all for his benefit, of course. |
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Question, when does it stop being sex and just become plain pain endurance.
I'm not against a bit of rough, but quite frankly if my partner has just been whipped with nettles, I'm not going to be overly keen on having sex afterwards. And I'm sure once the adrenalin has left the body the continuing itching will be damn annoying.
If you really want him to say the safe word, just deny him any sex or fun and games until he says it. I'm sure a few weeks of no sex and he will be gagging for it. No need to deny yourself of course.
Just get one of those lock and key devices to make sure he does not releive himself.
If my missus was having sex whilst denying me, I'd read the dictionary to her in about 5 minutes if thats what she wanted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You could try bagging his cock and balls together before getting hard. They do look like chicken jiblets mind. And the tease him in whatever way you like. Binding with string would have the same effect. |
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By *atine OP Woman
over a year ago
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This has been one of the best postings I've ever had the pleasure of starting... I will let you all know how we get on over the coming weeks.
After that I'm gonna let him read this as he'll piss himself laughing...
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