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We like to have a social meet at a neutral venue before we commit ourselves to the bedroom. Generally we lime the to be non pressurised light hearted occasions. Anyone else share our sentiments? |
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If we have a private meet always start on neutral ground pub ect ,before any play ensures or agreed makes it no pressure all must be happy with situation |
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"We like to have a social meet at a neutral venue before we commit ourselves to the bedroom. Generally we lime the to be non pressurised light hearted occasions. Anyone else share our sentiments? "
We do but it isn't for everyone. |
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Most of you seem to agree. We're not really happy to go into details about sex etc as we don't want to send out the wrong signals. How do others feel about this? |
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"Most of you seem to agree. We're not really happy to go into details about sex etc as we don't want to send out the wrong signals. How do others feel about this? "
When we meet socially we generally just chat as we would with anybody. The talk will move on to general experiences and likes and dislikes etc but nothing specific.
The thing is to do things how you want to if others don't agree then you aren't suited.  |
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"We like to have a social meet at a neutral venue before we commit ourselves to the bedroom. Generally we lime the to be non pressurised light hearted occasions. Anyone else share our sentiments? "
Nope , not in the slightest .
We are here to meet people for sexual fun .
Nothing more , nothing less .
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"We like to have a social meet at a neutral venue before we commit ourselves to the bedroom. Generally we lime the to be non pressurised light hearted occasions. Anyone else share our sentiments? "
Absolutely, we make it clear that there will be no play without a social meet first and there will be no play on that first meet either. |
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There are people who love the excitement of the unexpected.
There are those who would probably do pretty much anything with anybody and good luck to them.
We will not meet for sex without a social first and then play on another meet. If there is no connection then for us the sex is crap and there is more than enough crap in life with out generating more.
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Social first.
I'm toying with timing my socials (new men) being in the same pub as a female friend. We both went out to separate pubs to meet socially the other week. We could have planned that better.
Just worried a single bloke might not want to meet 2 ladies or rescue the other should there be a no show or it not go great 
Be nice to know I'm on hand should she need me or vice versa though and worse case us girls always have a giggle x |
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"Social first.
I'm toying with timing my socials (new men) being in the same pub as a female friend. We both went out to separate pubs to meet socially the other week. We could have planned that better.
Just worried a single bloke might not want to meet 2 ladies or rescue the other should there be a no show or it not go great
Be nice to know I'm on hand should she need me or vice versa though and worse case us girls always have a giggle x"
 This sounds a good idea. If there's a no-show (or 2), you still have a fun evening out with a friend. If everyone turns up, there's a more interesting dynamic for the evening - conversation might flow better with 4 instead of 2. Less likelihood of awkward lack of conversation.
I'd imagine 2 chatty girls would be twice the fun |
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