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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We've frequently heard a local club let's too many single men in, personally we don't think it's a problem as long as they respect people's boundaries but someone recently described them as horny zombies lurking a little too close or just outside the private rooms thinking they might get invited in. What's your thoughts? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only occasionally play with couples - so it's hot single guys that get me into clubs! Without them I wouldn't go!
For that reason I rarely go to clubs on 'couples and single ladies only night'!
If couples don't want single males around there are plenty of clubs with couples/single fems only nights!
Simple! 
Oh - and The ones I play with are the ones who chat to me at the bar - not the 'cock conga' who follow me around! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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as a single guy you're sorta dammed if you do and dammed if you dont...
take away the female half of a couple and you'd be left with the male halves...acting like single men!- fact!
I know what its like to be a couple, swingwise and not...so I lack the elitist nature some couples think they have over singles.
I give respect and want that equally back, regardless of my marital status. |
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"We've frequently heard a local club let's too many single men in, personally we don't think it's a problem as long as they respect people's boundaries but someone recently described them as horny zombies lurking a little too close or just outside the private rooms thinking they might get invited in. What's your thoughts? "
My thoughts having been to clubs and seen single men with my own eyes is 'horse apples'.
Sick of single male bashing from couples who have "heard" this n that. |
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"without single guys, you would have no clubs,  "
The smiley means you're joking right?
Just in case you aren't, without single guys there certainly won't be as many clubs, but there are enough couples who aren't interested in single guys to keep a few clubs open. The number of couples who attend couples only nights in the Manchester area would keep at least one of the clubs up here going for a few nights a week. |
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all this stuff about clubs wouldn't exist without single guys is bollocks.
I know of a club that charges each sex the same price and they do ok.
Not all clubs charge ridiculous prices and membership fees for single men. Townhouse is a good example of this and the single men there are the best behaved that I've come across. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We've frequently heard a local club let's too many single men in, personally we don't think it's a problem as long as they respect people's boundaries but someone recently described them as horny zombies lurking a little too close or just outside the private rooms thinking they might get invited in. What's your thoughts? "
That's exactly why I don't really have time for couples, that attitude is apparent amongst the majority in my experience, like they're doing is single guys a favour  |
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"without single guys, you would have no clubs,
The smiley means you're joking right?
Just in case you aren't, without single guys there certainly won't be as many clubs, but there are enough couples who aren't interested in single guys to keep a few clubs open. The number of couples who attend couples only nights in the Manchester area would keep at least one of the clubs up here going for a few nights a week. "
I believe you are both correct. The amount and the quality of clubs would certainly diminish without the single guys money.
You may well have one club in eg Manchester doing ok. But those couples any distance away are less likely to attend. Especially on a cold winters night.
To the OP, As one of the single guys I can honestly say most of us behave very well. Don't believe the stories that you will be pawed or groped told by some couples or females. That is an exception rather than the rule, and is something ladies are guilty of as well when they have had too many sherbets. |
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"without single guys, you would have no clubs,
The smiley means you're joking right?
Just in case you aren't, without single guys there certainly won't be as many clubs, but there are enough couples who aren't interested in single guys to keep a few clubs open. The number of couples who attend couples only nights in the Manchester area would keep at least one of the clubs up here going for a few nights a week. "
Yeah because half the couples attending are not actually 2 singles together at all |
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"We've frequently heard a local club let's too many single men in, personally we don't think it's a problem as long as they respect people's boundaries but someone recently described them as horny zombies lurking a little too close or just outside the private rooms thinking they might get invited in. What's your thoughts?
That's exactly why I don't really have time for couples, that attitude is apparent amongst the majority in my experience, like they're doing is single guys a favour "
I disagree, Most couples I have met in clubs have been friendly and open. However I chat in social areas and try and guage where their interests lie. If they are only looking for couples I respect that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are some great single guys out there, and there are some idiots.
There are some great couples out there and there are some idiots.
There are some great single women out there and there are some idiots.
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I have to add that in our experience, the singles are far more friendly than the couples .... many of them do indeed seem to have some sense of being better than ... because they are in a couple? Who knows? |
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"Yeah because half the couples attending are not actually 2 singles together at all "
In our experience they're not - most couples we have seen at clubs have been married or in long term relationships. Parties arranged through websites probably have quite a few fb couples but the couples who go day in day out are usually partners.
We play with single guys, we find couples only nights cliquey and full of socialites, but, to suggest clubs will die or drop their standards without single guys is a total nonsense.
The present number of clubs will reduce if single guys left the scene, but there would still be enough custom to maintain at least one club in all the areas that are currently overpopulated with clubs. |
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Without single guys I nor my girl friends would attend
I like the variety of clubs we have now. Forcing everyone into one club per area is business suicide. Everyone would stop going.
Swingers travel. Even when I lived lower Midlands I went to bury as us ladies wanted single men on a Saturday night. That was the only club that allowed single men Saturdays back then.
I know more fb couples than I know of relationship couples on this scene
Admitted they don't volunteer this info |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We never go to clubs on couples nights .
Why ? Because we like to enjoy fun with all sorts of people from guys , to girls , to TVs and occasionally couples , but only if they aren't so far up their own arses that the sun never shines , and treat everyone the same .
A rarity unfortunately , but nonetheless a fact of life in the lifestyle .
Couples are not entitled to any more than anyone else in our opinion . They are no better than anyone else , and that's all I have to say about that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Line the single men up for me then. But then I am a greedy girl...."
And you're absolutely needed my lovely!
If all women actually swung as little as I do - even when I go to clubs - then the scene would die on its arse!!
Vive la greedy girls! |
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