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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ive been chatting to a single man on here for a few days now and ment to be meeting on sat night.
Yesterday he messages me from a new profile hes just setting up as hes going to delete his old one because of time waster ect. I asked him why he didnt just block the people who he thought were wasting his time...to this he replied i just want to delete it and moved on.
After 5 mins and in less an hour of the new profile he has already got a verification. Now this can be totally true but alarm bells are ringing here as hes said if i dont call him and chat to him im def a time waster and hes becoming very pushy!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would not meet anyone that I had any concerns about
You have concerns as your asking for advice,I think you know already,listen to your instincts |
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"Ive been chatting to a single man on here for a few days now and ment to be meeting on sat night.
Yesterday he messages me from a new profile hes just setting up as hes going to delete his old one because of time waster ect. I asked him why he didnt just block the people who he thought were wasting his time...to this he replied i just want to delete it and moved on.
After 5 mins and in less an hour of the new profile he has already got a verification. Now this can be totally true but alarm bells are ringing here as hes said if i dont call him and chat to him im def a time waster and hes becoming very pushy!
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Two things:
1 - I don't understand people who say they need a new profile because of timewasters. Surely that just makes a fresh new profile for the same *cough* timewasters to hit on. People usually make now profiles to clear up their own baggage.
2 - tell him to fuck off! Seriously. People who say "do this or else" are generally not nice people, they are selfish and don't give a shit about you. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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If you are not 110% sure about meeting him then I think you already now what the answer is.....
I don't get the "starting new profiles" thing... says to me that is it "baggage clearing".... |
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3 - I don't think he understands the meaning of the term 'timewaster'.
I could be wrong, but, I would hazard a guess that a timewaster to him is someone who has said 'NO'... which then makes sense of the needing a new profile so he is not recognised by all the other people he's tried to manipulate and have told him to 'fuck off'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"3 - I don't think he understands the meaning of the term 'timewaster'.
I could be wrong, but, I would hazard a guess that a timewaster to him is someone who has said 'NO'... which then makes sense of the needing a new profile so he is not recognised by all the other people he's tried to manipulate and have told him to 'fuck off'."
*nods in agreement* |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ive been chatting to a single man on here for a few days now and ment to be meeting on sat night.
Yesterday he messages me from a new profile hes just setting up as hes going to delete his old one because of time waster ect. I asked him why he didnt just block the people who he thought were wasting his time...to this he replied i just want to delete it and moved on.
After 5 mins and in less an hour of the new profile he has already got a verification. Now this can be totally true but alarm bells are ringing here as hes said if i dont call him and chat to him im def a time waster and hes becoming very pushy!
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Anyone who is so pushy you feel uncomfortable with should be avoided. If you feel like that on line then it will be far worse in person. The block button is always useful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anyone who is so pushy you feel uncomfortable with should be avoided. If you feel like that on line then it will be far worse in person."
Definitely, if he's pushy, he's one to avoid. Some guys can keep up the 'nice guy' act for a few days, but not usually for much longer. I'm sure you've got lots more options for Saturday, as there truly are lots of nice single guys on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ALways listen to your gut instinct. If you are not happy then walk away. As the woman you should be in control of the whole situation, if you are not 100% happy there are plenty more men on this site! x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Other than him being pushy - what are the concerns regarding the verification?"
The fact that it was put up so quick after he made the new profile and i dont have concerns about the verification as such, just that he keep saying accept me as a friend on his new one.
And now hes sending sarkey messages to me about my update on here and via text!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Other than him being pushy - what are the concerns regarding the verification?
The fact that it was put up so quick after he made the new profile and i dont have concerns about the verification as such, just that he keep saying accept me as a friend on his new one.
And now hes sending sarkey messages to me about my update on here and via text!
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Block him from here and your phone and forget all about him |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree, he's possibly started a new profile as so many people have blocked him on old one.
I hope you will be the first to block him on his new profile 
If you need help on maybe blocking him off your phone ask here, someone may ne able to help. Some phones can block out the box, others can if you get an app.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you to everyones advice!
Ive decided not to meet him as you are correct if im not happy how he is behaving now how is he going to be on sat.
So thanks again!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ive been chatting to a single man on here for a few days now and ment to be meeting on sat night.
Yesterday he messages me from a new profile hes just setting up as hes going to delete his old one because of time waster ect. I asked him why he didnt just block the people who he thought were wasting his time...to this he replied i just want to delete it and moved on.
After 5 mins and in less an hour of the new profile he has already got a verification. Now this can be totally true but alarm bells are ringing here as hes said if i dont call him and chat to him im def a time waster and hes becoming very pushy!
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FUCK HIM OFF HUN HE SOUNDS LIKE A TIT X |
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A decent person will never be pushy.
A decent person will fully understand a need to be comfortable.
A decent person will take rejection like an adult.
A decent person will not call you a timewaster.
He doesn't sound like a decent person to me.  |
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