Part whinge, part question.
Had a meet with a guy who does tantric massage. I'm up for new experiences, so thought I'd give it a whirl.
Let my guard down, relaxed, got into it, started to enjoy myself...then he came on my chest and announced it was over
Can anyone tell me if this is standard practice? Do I assume that's all there is to tantra?
I'm left feeling rather frustrated and unsatisfied by it all
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"Part whinge, part question.
Had a meet with a guy who does tantric massage. I'm up for new experiences, so thought I'd give it a whirl.
Let my guard down, relaxed, got into it, started to enjoy myself...then he came on my chest and announced it was over
Can anyone tell me if this is standard practice? Do I assume that's all there is to tantra?
I'm left feeling rather frustrated and unsatisfied by it all
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I bet you were, how selfish - and totally not tantra I am sure! |
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Selfish and inexcusable!! Even when that had happened he should have continued with the massage since its a two way experience.We love massage and fortunately its never happened to us when massaging others....if it was about to happen then the other person would ask us to stop or we change over....unless we were approaching the end of the massage!! |
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"Part whinge, part question.
Had a meet with a guy who does tantric massage. I'm up for new experiences, so thought I'd give it a whirl.
Let my guard down, relaxed, got into it, started to enjoy myself...then he came on my chest and announced it was over
Can anyone tell me if this is standard practice? Do I assume that's all there is to tantra?
I'm left feeling rather frustrated and unsatisfied by it all
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Definitely not tantra lol although I do love hearing the good old this usually never happens excuse |
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Totally disgraceful what a wanker he must of been this is one of the best experiences you can have in erotic sensual massarge if done right it's totally mind blowing as is its counter part breath massarge |
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"Part whinge, part question.
Had a meet with a guy who does tantric massage. I'm up for new experiences, so thought I'd give it a whirl.
Let my guard down, relaxed, got into it, started to enjoy myself...then he came on my chest and announced it was over
Can anyone tell me if this is standard practice? Do I assume that's all there is to tantra?
I'm left feeling rather frustrated and unsatisfied by it all
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His interpretation of tantric sex is obviously as wrong as his ethics. There are genuine people out there who practise it though |
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That is not a tantric massage. Its about the person receiving the massage and its not always about a climax or orgasm at the end.
The person giving creates the space to hold the person receiving and the receiver dictates the boundaries of the massage. Google for a proper tantra practitioner in your area |
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"Crikey, I posted this ages ago and have still yet to experience proper tantra. Fellas just don't have the patience "
Tantra is fun
Much better to take time to enjoy the whole experience rather than just orgasm |
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Oh dear. He sounds like yet another ignoramus who thinks tantra is a posh wank. Sigh. Couldnt be further fromthe truth. Its not about orgasm though if you do, thats a bonus. He needs a good slap. |
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"Crikey, I posted this ages ago and have still yet to experience proper tantra. Fellas just don't have the patience "
Sad sorry. It is very annoying people using tanra for their pervert "fantasy".
It is adoring a body and worshiping it. A tantra can turn on with their partner. The more you enjoy and turned on it should reflect the other partner. The longlest it lasts the bodys feels better and souls get more intense
I believe that guy was just a " wanker" |
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well, if any of you ever come to Ireland, contact me for an out of this world Tantric experience. I have been practising tantra bodywork and massage for 12 years. Have a read of the testimonials on my website. Pm me for details. |
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