'as trying to be open and honest doesn't seem to work on here'
I would say that the open and honest approach does work. The opposite really doesn't with me.
Of course being open and honest doesn't guarantee a meet, because other factors will decide.
For instance I might be on the look out for a dominant assertive guy for some rough sex one week and if you are not that then I'm not going to choose you. However I will remember the honesty and perhaps another time I will remember that when I am feeling open to something different.
Whereas tell me that you are assertive but you turn out not to be, which I might out in messages anyway, and you get a private note put on your profile that says 'liar' or 'fantasist' or I just block you, rather than 'honest' plus 'gentle' or 'foot fetish' or 'part time cd' or whatever, which another time might be something I feel like.
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Have met Reddyman many times, become good friends with him, hes a gentle caring kind of guy, reliable and trustworthy.
Cute faced and a very tender lover , the perfect date ...... |
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There is the Nottinham Invasion Tgirl night. I've not been but I know people who like it.
It's a bit like a smaller LFF in that it's a pub crawl around a few different venues, starting and finishing at the New Forresters.
I think it is the 3rd Friday of the month.
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"Hi,what's the best way to meet and get to know people?as trying to be open and honest doesn't seem to work on here "
Most ppl are genuine if you swap numbers and you get to know each other so much better with a 5 min call than a 100 mags on here xx  |
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"Hi,what's the best way to meet and get to know people?as trying to be open and honest doesn't seem to work on here "
Greenhouse Sauna in Walsall on Friday night's. Good mix and some sexy Asian tgirls in also. |
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You have a pretty good profile actually, missing a couple of pics but thats not a show stopper and maybe a bit more detail in the description about the sort of things you enjoy but otherwise I cant see why your profile would be a problem.
As regards meets, you have a fair few veris there so looks like you are getting some kink.
I think it may be down to demographics, there are a lot of single guys on here and for every 20 guys that messaqe me, only a few kinda fit what I tend to be looking for and then its down to when I do go out for a meet its generally going to be just one or two guys. So luck of the draw I think to a certain extent.
But I think your honest approach is always the best in the long run.
As for chix, yeah it can be a bit slow on there.
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