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over a year ago
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I often receive messages from straight guys too who are looking to meet tv's one even had a verification from another straight guy stating he gave a great bj!!  |
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over a year ago
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I googled rates of gay and lesbian women. When surveyed, 1.6% men admitted to being gay, 0.9% of women admitted to being lesbian.
When asked if bisexual, 0.3% men admitted to being bi, 0.5% women admitted to being bi.
Not claiming this is reliable fact, just interested me. |
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I've had more 'biphobia' off gay men than straight tbh. All that 'bi-now, gay later' shit and worse.
That said, I too have a fair few expressions of interest from straight men. I'm happy to oblige fantasies and enlighten virgins so it's all fine by me.
Call yourself whatever you want, like I give a flying fuck.
I like straight men.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the general belief is that bi and gay men will be more understanding
A lot of bi guys don't like to openly admit they are bi because a lot of straight male couples will not meet them even though they are capable of being near a naked man and not touch and they like to keep their options open where as I think they think bi and gays will understand this and over look what's on their profile
I have a couples profile with a bi guy I meet that I use when just looking for bi guys to meet us together for a 3sum, I get loads of guys with straight on their profile mailing us to meet, for me its no big deal, I understand why they put straight and so long as we both like him we will meet, a profile is just a guide line for me it not the be all and end all and I certainly would no turn down a guy I liked because he had straight on his profile |
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By *6guy OP Man
over a year ago
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I like all men, so for me it's not a big deal what their orientation says, but I understand now why they wouldn't want to put bi. Would a straight man mind if I liked a photo of him? |
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"I guess women are just more open and relaxed about their sexuality?"
I suspect it's because it was never illegal to be gay as a woman.
Having said that, it seems generally accepted that being homophobic is unacceptable nowadays. Being bi is like sitting on the fence and I've found even the gay community can be pretty prejudice towards us. I was accused of being 'unsure' or 'afraid to just admit I was gay'. I've been called 'greedy' too but that's probably true!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The amount of couples profiles that specifically state no bi men and then message us is crazy and some then message to tell us that he has started to explore his bi side. Which is fine by us, as long as we know before we meet its not an issue. Their profile, their choice how they define themselves. |
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By *6guy OP Man
over a year ago
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"I guess women are just more open and relaxed about their sexuality?
I suspect it's because it was never illegal to be gay as a woman.
Having said that, it seems generally accepted that being homophobic is unacceptable nowadays. Being bi is like sitting on the fence and I've found even the gay community can be pretty prejudice towards us. I was accused of being 'unsure' or 'afraid to just admit I was gay'. I've been called 'greedy' too but that's probably true! "
Sorry to hear that, I must be greedy too! Ha ha! I believe that sex is something to be enjoyed and explored by all, I am not 100% bisexual, but in the right company it's a real turn on sharing a man and a woman!
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"Hello, I often receive messages from straight guys wanting to meet up - my profile says I am gay. Is being openly bi a taboo amongst the straight male community?"
If there was a message filter to block guys who are "straight" it would help. As we are both bi and not interested in straight guys yet receive numerous messages from the "I'm bi but can't put it on my profile for this or that reason" it's extremely annoying. We don't message straight guys given that we assume that is just what they are. Can you imagine the abuse we would get if we just thought "fuck it, they will clearly be bi" and message them regardless? |
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Most of my male contacts identify as straight...and given a choice,like a lot of women on here,that is my preference. I wink and fab straight guys on here..
Probably encountered more homophobia from gay/bi men than straight blokes..
Like someone else said,I like straight guys and don't give a fuck if their lying..  |
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over a year ago
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"They don't want to scare away the people who are not interested in bi guys so pretend to be straight  "
That is the usual response when I ask the question. |
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"Hello, I often receive messages from straight guys wanting to meet up - my profile says I am gay. Is being openly bi a taboo amongst the straight male community?"
Bisexual men are often shunned by both the straight and gay communities, so they will not be openly bisexual. Certainly when my partner goes to gay clubs he just lets people assume he is gay, and when he's with his straight friends, he just lets them assume he is straight. |
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"Hello, I often receive messages from straight guys wanting to meet up - my profile says I am gay. Is being openly bi a taboo amongst the straight male community?"
I get messages from straight men too. all good in da hood, as they say in New York |
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By *6guy OP Man
over a year ago
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"Hello, I often receive messages from straight guys wanting to meet up - my profile says I am gay. Is being openly bi a taboo amongst the straight male community?
Bisexual men are often shunned by both the straight and gay communities, so they will not be openly bisexual. Certainly when my partner goes to gay clubs he just lets people assume he is gay, and when he's with his straight friends, he just lets them assume he is straight."
Wow, I would not have thought the gay community would be like that, as we are a minority ourselves! I was just unsure as to how genuine these straight guys are, but I guess being on this site, I can safely assume if they wink or message, they like what they see. Lol |
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"Hello, I often receive messages from straight guys wanting to meet up - my profile says I am gay. Is being openly bi a taboo amongst the straight male community?"
Unfortunately yes |
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"Hello, I often receive messages from straight guys wanting to meet up - my profile says I am gay. Is being openly bi a taboo amongst the straight male community?
Bisexual men are often shunned by both the straight and gay communities, so they will not be openly bisexual. Certainly when my partner goes to gay clubs he just lets people assume he is gay, and when he's with his straight friends, he just lets them assume he is straight."
 I've found that too. Same for bisexual women.  |
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I've been called a "disease carrier" for being bi before by a gay man who I later found out had actually been married in the past before he'd come out. I get that some people are afraid of being outed but your equally in danger of being outed as a swinger, a liar and possibly also a cheat judging by some of the messages I've received on my different guises on fab from "straight" men. |
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