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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago
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"I never understood why women feel this way about their belly. Personally I love womens bodies... so sensual and a curvy belly is bliss to explore. love yourself.  "
I am always getting my kit off......Luv to be naked xxxxx |
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I'm constantly naked at home and grow up in a naturist enviroment so bodies are what they are. i would be a hypocrite though if i didn't mention i feel insecure at moments i noticed time has taken it's toll but it passes. i'm lucky though that my body more or less behaves itself. |
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over a year ago
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It's all about the first kiss, get it right and the clothes just magically disappear and she's so into it you get her to that 'fuck it I may as well sit on his face' stage  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Probably because of the creeping insidious hype from the media of how, unless your body is perfect, courtesy of Photoshop of a fucking good team of makeup artists, you are not a fit human being ?
Then we see that abomination of a human being called Kim Kardashian .... perfect my arse, but that's the kind of shit that the media play towards and it rubs off on us lesser mortals
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's all about the first kiss, get it right and the clothes just magically disappear and she's so into it you get her to that 'fuck it I may as well sit on his face' stage
I like the 'sit on his face' stage  "
I've tried to incorporate it into 2nd base but I'm just in denial, def 3rd base stuff thee ol cheeks on the face |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"weve met a few females now and most are fearful of showing their naked body.why..?"
Hides the bits they don't like.. Bellies, love handles, arms (hate my arms) |
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"Probably because of the creeping insidious hype from the media of how, unless your body is perfect, courtesy of Photoshop of a fucking good team of makeup artists, you are not a fit human being ...shit that the media play towards and it rubs off on us lesser mortals
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does this apply to men also ? |
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"Probably because of the creeping insidious hype from the media of how, unless your body is perfect, courtesy of Photoshop of a fucking good team of makeup artists, you are not a fit human being ...shit that the media play towards and it rubs off on us lesser mortals
does this apply to men also ?"
Me slightly although it's more of a continuing healthy living And getting fit routine rather this being impressed by so called celebs. They can fuck off for all I care. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's all about the first kiss, get it right and the clothes just magically disappear and she's so into it you get her to that 'fuck it I may as well sit on his face' stage "
wise words. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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For me it's because I hate how my body looks. I hide it to try and help me get over the thoughts of how awful I must look in certain positions etc. I can hide behind some underwear or an outfit and in a way it's like a comfort blanket.
It doesn't stop all the thoughts and the nerves. I still think them but it allows me not to get trapped in them and actually enjoy the experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't mind stripping, lets face it I'm not small, eat too much chocolate and have many lumps and bumbs, but it doesn't seem to worry anyone so why should it me  |
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I don't like how I look naked - it's just as simple as that. If I'm naked I'm thinking about the rolls and wobbly bits instead of enjoying the experience. I'd rather cover up discreetly and be able to focus on how I feel rather than how I look. |
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I honestly (well in my head) don't think men care. If a guy is generally attracted to you as a person, facially and physically I don't think a few imperfections are going to put him off.
Yes there are guys and women that are deeply attracted to just physical looks, but I'm never going to attract someone who wants body perfection.
When my stomach and arms went after I'd lost my weight I had a general conversation with a couple of my close male friends one hadn't noticed and one didn't care less..
Ladies ask yourself this, if you was meeting a guy and you was attracted to him and when he got undressed he had a bit of a belly or a few stretch marks or something else would it bother you?
It wouldn't bother me in the least.
I like to have fun in the bedroom and for me I wouldn't be a le to be myself if I was worrying aboit covering bits of!myself up or not doing certain things I'm also to much in the zone to even think a out these things.
I actually put a photo on my profile of me in bra and knickers with my belly in all its glory as an experiment.
I didn't get one negative comment and it got quite a few fabs. Now if I can get my belly out there so can you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Because if a woman isn't comfortable and confident with a part of her body , that will take the focus away from the fun for all parties .
Simple really "
this!
It's that fear that you look good with clothes on and the person will be disappointed once you get naked! Paranoia. I am mostly at ease with my body, but ultimately I've had 2 children, 2 csections and have breastfed both of them. There will always be a bit of nervousness for me when I'm with someone new. |
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my word ive started something now..reason being is i took a lady upstairs to bed but she didnt wont to go up stairs first so i would follow and see her body shape.i find that sad how women feel about them selves..by the way i found this lady very attractive |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"weve met a few females now and most are fearful of showing their naked body.why..?"
"most"? Surely this should read "some".
I'm a bit chunky, and there's no denying I have wobbly bits rather than a six-pack, but if I'm turned on, the clothes come off. |
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Parts that you hate others love. I myself love all body types skinny to chubby makes no difference so long as they have a great personality to go with it. I hate my chubby bum but others love it so if they can accept my faults i can accept any faults they think they have xxx |
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I also don't think men are daft unless they only go for youthful 18 year olds our bodies change as we get older, whether babies, operations or just our body changing naturally. Some may have no imperfections but I'm guessing the majority of us do
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By (user no longer on site)
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I hate my body I don't even own a long or big mirror just 1 big enough to do my hair...I can't look at my self naked let alone let any else seem me naked |
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"I guess because everyone is different.
For example on here there are some who are happy to pose naked virtually but not in reality.
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Indeed everyone is different xxx But attitudes can change, I met a larger lady last year who hated seeing herself naked and others seeing her xxx We met a few times and i was able to give her enough of a confidence boost that i unintentionally made her a nudist she loves being naked indoors and out now at nudist beaches as well xxx Last time i met her was on a nudist beach a few months back and she looked great and more confident than when i met her first xxx Well proud of her  |
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We are bombarded with information and images making us think we need to be perfect for men to like/fancy us.
In reality none of us are. Some of us cling to the idea of perfection and hide their 'imperfect' bodies.
Some of us realise that's it's not about being perfect but about feeling so sexy with a guy that lumps, bumps, scars or whatever really don't matter |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some look better with clothes on and from that, they feel more confident."
This is so very true.. If only i could always have a strategically placed hand......shame i don't give a Fuck once I'm getting down And dirty  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some look better with clothes on and from that, they feel more confident.
This is so very true.. If only i could always have a strategically placed hand......shame i don't give a Fuck once I'm getting down And dirty "
At least it would be a well manicured hand  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's all about the first kiss, get it right and the clothes just magically disappear and she's so into it you get her to that 'fuck it I may as well sit on his face' stage
I like the 'sit on his face' stage "
I never sit on a face. Just in case they don't survive |
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"It's all about the first kiss, get it right and the clothes just magically disappear and she's so into it you get her to that 'fuck it I may as well sit on his face' stage
I like the 'sit on his face' stage
I have to pray they can breathe through their ears...im a BIG woman lol!!..but yeah its hard to get naked at first....when u know if yr playmates comfy its different x
I never sit on a face. Just in case they don't survive "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't have a problem being naked. There are parts of me I wish looked nicer (like my legs) but I'm too lazy to do anything about it and I figure that men can see past it to the good bits.
-Courtney |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't like being naked. As a child growing up my parents insisted I cover up, straight from the bath I had to put nightie and dressing gown on, no wearing towels, sleeping always in a nightie, the only time I was ever naked was in the bath.
Naked feels unnatural to me. I never walk around home naked. My OH is the only person I feel comfortable with being naked, but that's only in bed, I wouldn't walk around the bedroom naked.
I would never strip completely off in swinging situations. I am not worried about my body as such, I know I'm big and I don't wear that much to hide it. One thing I have got is lovely skin, it's blemish free and it's smooth, but I wouldn't walk around stark naked or have sex with others completely naked |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"weve met a few females now and most are fearful of showing their naked body.why..?"
How do you know they are 'fearful'? Perhaps they just don't want to be naked.
Why not respect their wishes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't like being naked. My skin is blemished and scarred and stretched and generally a bit fucked. I feel a million times sexier if I can start off with something that enables me to distract attention away from that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There aren't many people out there with perfect bodies. I don't care what anyone thinks of my body. If they don't like it they can go fuck someone else.
its sad that some women are so lacking in confidence. Confidence is a turn on.
If a man truly believes that a woman should have a perfect body then he better go look elsewhere because I wouldn't want to be with someone like that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do cover up somewhat with crotchless knickers and stockings and heels for meets. Wouldn't say it was a body hang up though just how I like to be dressed for a play meet. Only ever get fully naked for shower sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Every woman has those bits she isn't so pleased about.
I have lumps, bumps, stretch marks. arse the size of a small country etc BUT happy to strut around starkers thanks to confidence. It's important that the man helps instill that confidence too. |
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"Because if a woman isn't comfortable and confident with a part of her body , that will take the focus away from the fun for all parties .
Simple really "
Very true, I also agree the media has a lot to answer for with this.
Personally we haven't met any women that have not been happy to get naked with us.
That may be because we are not perfect but enjoy being naked for naughty fun.
In fact I am very comfortable naked. I have stretch marks and a baby belly for a reason 
It is also visible on my photos.
If guys have a problem with it, then we won't be their kinda couple.
Nita |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have no problem getting my wobbly bits out, I went past the lights out and hide under the duvet stage many moons ago
Some woman just haven't got the confidence and prefer to wear sexy undies and stockings, men love all that however some like to peel of the layers because they like you, so relax and enjoy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Because they are out of shape but we all have things we don't like about our bodies or taking pics of them ,let's face it we take the pics that show us off at our best xx      
It's not as simple as being 'out of shape'. - not for women who've had children anyway! It's a lottery every time a woman gets pregnant. - you've no idea what body you'll end up with!
The lucky ones look like they've never had kids.
Some loose their once pert boobs (me)
Some get a little loose tummy skin (me)
Some get thread veins or varicose veins (me again - lucky cow aren't I?).
Some get lots of stretch marks
Some get a LOT of loose skin or excess 'mummy tummy' they find hard to shift!
Men - you don't have that problem! You see women on TV who've had children, passed them to nannies as spent all day every day getting their figure back asap with a team of professionals - then finishing the job off with surgery - and expect the average woman on the street to look the same!!
(If any mums out there feel I've missed something - please feel free to add to it! )
But all men don't think that women have to look perfect. Men can have body issues too. x
Very true Hun - and as I think we all know I'm far from being a man-hater - but I thought I should explain why perhaps more women have body issues than men!
Personally I WILL get naked with men - after I've made them aware I'm far from perfect without lingerie and hold-up's!
If you think men expect and want perfection you are meeting the wrong guys. I've never had to or felt the need to explain that I'm not perfect or point out my trouble areas before getting my kit off."
I've had 4 children and have few if any body issues - I just choose not to reveal all to the entire site. I always start in sexy lingerie, stockings and heels but am quite happy to strip off in front of the guys I meet.
Nor do I ever feel the need to point out any tiger stripes or less than firm areas...they're usually too distracted by the awesome bits to notice those anyway! |
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By *uncpl83Couple
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Ive had 3 children all by csection so I have 3 scars that overlap and look like a smiley face just above my pubic area-not great!
I've only recently started to be body confident but that has been with the help of my husband who constantly tells me how sexy I am and caresses every part of my body and because I know he finds me sexy than that makes me feel sexy!
It is different when we go to a club and I make sure I'm covered as much as I can be but it still wouldn't hold me back from getting naked and having some fun in a private room with someone |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well I have a massive issue with my boobs and only ever go full naked with my partner. Will always leave the bra or slip on with meets. Just my issue, if they don't like it they know where the door is! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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When I was younger and had the perfect body I was too shy to show it off
Now it's not so perfect but I'm older and worry less I have no issues with getting naked |
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