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By *olarfox OP   Man  over a year ago

North Cambs

Have you ever worried that you might be addicted to sex. To the extent that it starts to occupy practically your every waking moment and ends up getting in the way of other stuff in life?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Nope.

-Courtney

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By *oodmessMan  over a year ago

yumsville

At one point I was meeting 8,9 10, 11, 12, 13, 14 days a week and resting for a day then meeting for the same amount of consecutive again. It didn't worry me at all and didn't interrupt any other part of my life whatsoever.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Time for a career change maybe?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Nah, we could stop anytime we want. We'll prove it and stop right now...........well, not 'right now' as it would be rude to take our meet request down, but after that........oh, apart from the meet we have planned next week....... Then maybe just one more after that...........but addicted? Never lol x

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By *arvsmMan  over a year ago

birmingham

yes

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No

Much as I love sex sex works round my life not the other way round

I often wish I had more time to meet as I don't get anywhere enough sex but I'd never put off things in my real life for sex

That is the only down side of being single

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"At one point I was meeting 8,9 10, 11, 12, 13, 14 days a week and resting for a day then meeting for the same amount of consecutive again. It didn't worry me at all and didn't interrupt any other part of my life whatsoever. "

You was meeting 14 days a week?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No. It's nice.

But the be all and end all? Nah

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

right now, no.

have been in the past though, kind of liked it tbh and had a great sex life, but i've found better coping mechanisms now and am on top of myself and my life.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Cold shower ! Sex addiction or perversion ? lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It is amazing how many people on here do expect you to change your plans to meet them, ive had guys a few times tell me to call in sick because I'm working when they want to meet I even had a guy tell me to change my plans with my daughter because I was going out with her on the night he wanted to meet, he said tell her your going another day you can go out any time with your kids

Some people do think sex is the priority of your life

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By *olarfox OP   Man  over a year ago

North Cambs


"At one point I was meeting 8,9 10, 11, 12, 13, 14 days a week and resting for a day then meeting for the same amount of consecutive again. It didn't worry me at all and didn't interrupt any other part of my life whatsoever. "

14 days a week - unusually long weeks in that incredible world of yours.....

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By *oodmessMan  over a year ago

yumsville

OK, 14 evenings a week

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Cant have to much sex just not enough time to fit all the sex in lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"OK, 14 evenings a week "

You sure you don't mean 14 times a week, there isn't 14 evenings in a week

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By *oodmessMan  over a year ago

yumsville


"OK, 14 evenings a week

You sure you don't mean 14 times a week, there isn't 14 evenings in a week "

I am totally sure - I am brilliant like that

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By *oodmessMan  over a year ago

yumsville

to be clear I was meeting up to two weeks concurrent.

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By *olarfox OP   Man  over a year ago

North Cambs


"OK, 14 evenings a week

You sure you don't mean 14 times a week, there isn't 14 evenings in a week "

Must be that little fantasy land he lives in

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"OK, 14 evenings a week

You sure you don't mean 14 times a week, there isn't 14 evenings in a week

I am totally sure - I am brilliant like that "

Can I borrow one of your weeks please only I have 84 hours at work this week and if I could spread them over 14 evening that would be smashing

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By *oodmessMan  over a year ago

yumsville


"OK, 14 evenings a week

You sure you don't mean 14 times a week, there isn't 14 evenings in a week

Must be that little fantasy land he lives in "

well I was trying to make a joke out of it. But fuck, If your gonna bust me about it, I can by all means go into a a great amount of detail?

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman  over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

No,but I have a sneaking suspicion you're heading in that direction

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By *olarfox OP   Man  over a year ago

North Cambs


"No,but I have a sneaking suspicion you're heading in that direction "

that's what I am worried about ...come and save me by shagging me out of it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have been addicted and have had the most amazing shags and meets (not from this site). Right now I dont crave or feel I need sex

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I have been addicted and have had the most amazing shags and meets (not from this site). Right now I dont crave or feel I need sex "

(not from this site) made me laugh. i'll be so chuffed for you when you get a veri going on about the lovely fuck and bbq you had with a gilf.

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By *an_WoodMan  over a year ago

Stafford

First symptom of sex addiction is time appears to double up I think I have got addicted and need more and more nsa fun

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By *olarfox OP   Man  over a year ago

North Cambs


"First symptom of sex addiction is time appears to double up I think I have got addicted and need more and more nsa fun "

LMAO - you mean weeks develop 14 days and nights...lol

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By *oodmessMan  over a year ago

yumsville

lol.

Are you a sex addict if you have to inform people that you are busy all week but you are free a week on tues, busy weds, free thurs, busy fri, sat and free the following sun. Nope - just very good at what you do.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm not addicted but I do think about sex an awful lot. Not just intercourse though. More the intrigue, excitement and adventure that comes with it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm not addicted but I do think about sex an awful lot. Not just intercourse though. More the intrigue, excitement and adventure that comes with it

"

Oh me too

Every time I pass a guy who I'm attracted to I look and think...yep I would

All because I don't have time to meet regular I think about it a lot

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It is amazing how many people on here do expect you to change your plans to meet them, ive had guys a few times tell me to call in sick because I'm working when they want to meet I even had a guy tell me to change my plans with my daughter because I was going out with her on the night he wanted to meet, he said tell her your going another day you can go out any time with your kids

Some people do think sex is the priority of your life "

Instant dismissal for me if anyone even hints that I should change my plans to fit them in. Plenty of other people they can meet instead.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes I think I could be I would rather be out having sex with done random bloke than sat at home with my hubby and kids. But I stop at home and be the good wife and mother because that's what I am supposed to do. And yes I resent them for it at times

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By *oodmessMan  over a year ago

yumsville

Love these sex addict threads, it's like what's vwe or would you kiss, fuck avoid. lol

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By *ibertine_LifestyleCouple  over a year ago

Sheerness

A little bit. I was really bad..or good dep what way you look at it..

when I was single. I was on another site plus out every weekend and the more I had the more I wanted. I would have sex 2-3 times a day if I could with lots of playing and as much as men say they love a girl that wants sex all the time, in reality it's difficult to keep such a girl happy xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I was /am officially registered as a sex addict and currently have it under control.

When it controls me it is awful and becomes all consuming. I've done things like forgotten to pick kids up. Brought underwear rather than food etc etc.

I could still have sex every day a few times and want more. The difference currently is that I don't put it above everything else. When your putting it first then it's an addiction and also hiding how much your having too.

It is actually quite a serious issue when its addiction. Thankfully one of the things that Mr helped me sort out was what I put first.

And that is always my family and kids. Sounds easy but like any addiction it can take over. I just keep a level head about it now and am enjoying it much much more now x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No. Apart from all the other stuff, I have a proper career and wouldn't jeopardise that for sex.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yep, I'm an addict

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

here a question you can ask any addict to see if they are really addicted

You have £50 to last you till next week, no food in the house and a hungry child, you have an offer off a meet off here but you have to pay for hotel

do you buy food for your child or pay for an hotel

and no smart arse answers like get a cheap room and buy value range food with the change

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I have been addicted and have had the most amazing shags and meets (not from this site). Right now I dont crave or feel I need sex

(not from this site) made me laugh. i'll be so chuffed for you when you get a veri going on about the lovely fuck and bbq you had with a gilf. "

Yes you have to state from where as most will wonder why no veris lol and yes same here, a veri from a gilf and having a bbq in her garden would be fab, dont forget the hot dogs

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I have been addicted and have had the most amazing shags and meets (not from this site). Right now I dont crave or feel I need sex

(not from this site) made me laugh. i'll be so chuffed for you when you get a veri going on about the lovely fuck and bbq you had with a gilf. Yes you have to state from where as most will wonder why no veris lol and yes same here, a veri from a gilf and having a bbq in her garden would be fab, dont forget the hot dogs "

They sell massive hot dogs at the corner shop here.

Tempted to pay for you to come to mine for a bbq*, just to meet you, don't even care about the sex, you're an awesome guy and deserve at least one meet from this site.

*When it's not raining.

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By *yrdwomanWoman  over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I've had my moments in the past but feel I have a satisfying balance now.

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By *yrdwomanWoman  over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"They sell massive hot dogs at the corner shop here.

Tempted to pay for you to come to mine for a bbq*, just to meet you, don't even care about the sex, you're an awesome guy and deserve at least one meet from this site.

*When it's not raining."

We should arrange a Fab BBQ just for Shaggy next summer.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Definitely not.

I enjoy sex at times but it's not something I need.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Have you ever worried that you might be addicted to sex. To the extent that it starts to occupy practically your every waking moment and ends up getting in the way of other stuff in life?"

No.

I have a week off each month

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"They sell massive hot dogs at the corner shop here.

Tempted to pay for you to come to mine for a bbq*, just to meet you, don't even care about the sex, you're an awesome guy and deserve at least one meet from this site.

*When it's not raining.

We should arrange a Fab BBQ just for Shaggy next summer. "

Someone should yeah. We could have him travelling the country and having bbqs everywhere.

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By *olarfox OP   Man  over a year ago

North Cambs


"Have you ever worried that you might be addicted to sex. To the extent that it starts to occupy practically your every waking moment and ends up getting in the way of other stuff in life?

No.

I have a week off each month "

Maybe I should try that ..or perhaps every couple of months...call it R&R

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Have you ever worried that you might be addicted to sex. To the extent that it starts to occupy practically your every waking moment and ends up getting in the way of other stuff in life?"

Didn't until a week ago then I noticed certain aspects in my life was overtaking my actual life and work

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By *yrdwomanWoman  over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"They sell massive hot dogs at the corner shop here.

Tempted to pay for you to come to mine for a bbq*, just to meet you, don't even care about the sex, you're an awesome guy and deserve at least one meet from this site.

*When it's not raining.

We should arrange a Fab BBQ just for Shaggy next summer.

Someone should yeah. We could have him travelling the country and having bbqs everywhere."

Nah, he won't leave his bush even for Haribos, so we'll have to go to him.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Have you ever worried that you might be addicted to sex. To the extent that it starts to occupy practically your every waking moment and ends up getting in the way of other stuff in life?

No.

I have a week off each month

Maybe I should try that ..or perhaps every couple of months...call it R&R "

Its not through choice

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By *entleman and SassyPussCouple  over a year ago

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No, we just don't get enough sex!

-Venus

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"They sell massive hot dogs at the corner shop here.

Tempted to pay for you to come to mine for a bbq*, just to meet you, don't even care about the sex, you're an awesome guy and deserve at least one meet from this site.

*When it's not raining.

We should arrange a Fab BBQ just for Shaggy next summer.

Someone should yeah. We could have him travelling the country and having bbqs everywhere.

Nah, he won't leave his bush even for Haribos, so we'll have to go to him."

Is he tagged

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By *yrdwomanWoman  over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"They sell massive hot dogs at the corner shop here.

Tempted to pay for you to come to mine for a bbq*, just to meet you, don't even care about the sex, you're an awesome guy and deserve at least one meet from this site.

*When it's not raining.

We should arrange a Fab BBQ just for Shaggy next summer.

Someone should yeah. We could have him travelling the country and having bbqs everywhere.

Nah, he won't leave his bush even for Haribos, so we'll have to go to him.

Is he tagged "

No, just chicken.

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By *oxy_minxWoman  over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Nope, I'm already a few months without now, I can cope but still a little bit

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Wish I had the time! Real life always cones first.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"They sell massive hot dogs at the corner shop here.

Tempted to pay for you to come to mine for a bbq*, just to meet you, don't even care about the sex, you're an awesome guy and deserve at least one meet from this site.

*When it's not raining.

We should arrange a Fab BBQ just for Shaggy next summer.

Someone should yeah. We could have him travelling the country and having bbqs everywhere.

Nah, he won't leave his bush even for Haribos, so we'll have to go to him.

Is he tagged

No, just chicken. "

He doesn't have time either, what with his gym and that.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I have been addicted and have had the most amazing shags and meets (not from this site). Right now I dont crave or feel I need sex

(not from this site) made me laugh. i'll be so chuffed for you when you get a veri going on about the lovely fuck and bbq you had with a gilf. Yes you have to state from where as most will wonder why no veris lol and yes same here, a veri from a gilf and having a bbq in her garden would be fab, dont forget the hot dogs

They sell massive hot dogs at the corner shop here.

Tempted to pay for you to come to mine for a bbq*, just to meet you, don't even care about the sex, you're an awesome guy and deserve at least one meet from this site.

*When it's not raining."

Ty and yes a bbq sounds good to when its sunny and would be cool to meet you once as well. I would bring extra haribo

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Perhaps a lot would say we are .

But to be honest we only go out two or three times a week , and while we may have 3 meets a night on occasion , we don't see it as an addiction .

We have family life , both work and have a great life away from swinging .

We also enjoy a great sex life with each other .

We don't drink alcohol , or do any drugs , sex is our buzz .

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By *ornyJ30Man  over a year ago

Bath

Call me old fashioned but shouldn't he be paying for the room?!

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By *sla69Woman  over a year ago

coventry/Leicestershire border

I would love sex every day not sure that makes me a addict... i dont actually get sex every day but if i could i would

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Perhaps a lot would say we are .

But to be honest we only go out two or three times a week , and while we may have 3 meets a night on occasion , we don't see it as an addiction .

We have family life , both work and have a great life away from swinging .

We also enjoy a great sex life with each other .

We don't drink alcohol , or do any drugs , sex is our buzz .

"

3 meets a night? Jesus wept.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

no not at all i only meet every now and then

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By *inky-MinxWoman  over a year ago

Grantham

#anotherophaslotsofsexpost

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Have you ever worried that you might be addicted to sex. To the extent that it starts to occupy practically your every waking moment and ends up getting in the way of other stuff in life?"

I don't worry that I am, I know that I am. Yes it preoccupies my life at times but I am lucky enough to be self employed so I can relieve myself pretty much at leisure.

My only saving grace is that I'm not a man because I imagine I would have a boner far too often.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think about sex a lot, but I work very hard, have a family and have lots of other interests. It makes those times I do get to meet and play all the more special.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think I was at one time - early on in my fab days. I'd accommodate then and had meets at home - Until the neighbours became convinced I was a prostitute! Because I didn't want the kids hearing horrible stories about their mum I knocked that on the head - and I now have a much healthier balance and enjoy my meets a lot more when I have them!

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By *p4funCouple  over a year ago

Plymouth


"#anotherophaslotsofsexpost"

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By *at69driveMan  over a year ago

Hertford


"Have you ever worried that you might be addicted to sex. To the extent that it starts to occupy practically your every waking moment and ends up getting in the way of other stuff in life?"
. I would hope not . It would be a dull , boring and unexciting life if all you could think about was sex . In any event you can only spend a very limited time doing it .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Have you ever worried that you might be addicted to sex. To the extent that it starts to occupy practically your every waking moment and ends up getting in the way of other stuff in life?"

No.

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By *imiUKMan  over a year ago

Hereford

No.

I've got work to do. It's hard enough to find time to meet at the best of times...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No I haven't ever worried because I know that I'm not addicted to sex. I don't have a particularly high sex drive either.

Swinging to me is not me having lots of sex because that isn't the pull for me. I enjoy clubs and parties but many times I only have sex with my partner. I just really enjoy the decadence of the scene.

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By *olarfox OP   Man  over a year ago

North Cambs


"#anotherophaslotsofsexpost"

Oh get over youself and stop hounding me...it smacks of jealousy and insecurity...others do not feel the same way...try taking a reality check ffs...

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By *imiUKMan  over a year ago

Hereford


"#anotherophaslotsofsexpost

Oh get over youself and stop hounding me...it smacks of jealousy and insecurity...others do not feel the same way...try taking a reality check ffs... "

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By *oodmessMan  over a year ago

yumsville


"#anotherophaslotsofsexpost

Oh get over youself and stop hounding me...it smacks of jealousy and insecurity...others do not feel the same way...try taking a reality check ffs... "

being honest you do seem to be making a lot of posts questioning the amount of type of sex you are having. You are asking questions and taking the piss when people either give answer or do take the piss. It is a forum, if you can't expect some off the cuff replies, then don't post them, but you shouldn't be berating people, when you are posing the question.

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By *olarfox OP   Man  over a year ago

North Cambs


"#anotherophaslotsofsexpost

Oh get over youself and stop hounding me...it smacks of jealousy and insecurity...others do not feel the same way...try taking a reality check ffs...

being honest you do seem to be making a lot of posts questioning the amount of type of sex you are having. You are asking questions and taking the piss when people either give answer or do take the piss. It is a forum, if you can't expect some off the cuff replies, then don't post them, but you shouldn't be berating people, when you are posing the question."

this was an honest thread relating to a very real concern. There have been a lot of considered and interesting contributions. This particular woman just has a bee in her bonnet and sees fit to troll every thread I start - her problem not mine but it certainly gets my back up!

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By *olarfox OP   Man  over a year ago

North Cambs


"#anotherophaslotsofsexpost

"

Bahhhhh...blinking sheep!

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By *olarfox OP   Man  over a year ago

North Cambs


"#anotherophaslotsofsexpost

Oh get over youself and stop hounding me...it smacks of jealousy and insecurity...others do not feel the same way...try taking a reality check ffs...

"

Errr..my response bothered you for some reason??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm lucky if I fit a meet in every few weeks.. Far too busy to be addicted.. But in the past I have been, possibly, without it affecting other aspects of my life though if that makes sense in any way

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By *imiUKMan  over a year ago

Hereford


"#anotherophaslotsofsexpost

Oh get over youself and stop hounding me...it smacks of jealousy and insecurity...others do not feel the same way...try taking a reality check ffs...

Errr..my response bothered you for some reason?? "

If you are going to post "look at me" threads, don't be surprised when people then look at you.

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By *oodmessMan  over a year ago

yumsville


"#anotherophaslotsofsexpost

Oh get over youself and stop hounding me...it smacks of jealousy and insecurity...others do not feel the same way...try taking a reality check ffs...

being honest you do seem to be making a lot of posts questioning the amount of type of sex you are having. You are asking questions and taking the piss when people either give answer or do take the piss. It is a forum, if you can't expect some off the cuff replies, then don't post them, but you shouldn't be berating people, when you are posing the question.

this was an honest thread relating to a very real concern. There have been a lot of considered and interesting contributions. This particular woman just has a bee in her bonnet and sees fit to troll every thread I start - her problem not mine but it certainly gets my back up!"

well what is it - when I said earlier about meeting 8 days a week + .. you were all too happy to take the piss. To me that smack of jealousy, I know because I can tell you how hard it is to navigate that many people across that many days and how difficult it is to have 5 people interested in 1 person. Yet we have Polarfox asking a question about addiction and laughing at a turn of phrase as it doesn't go into 'a week'. Only so many people will tolerate anger mate.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If it got to that extent, I would probably be seeking help.

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By *aisyDoandDaisyDontWoman  over a year ago

little old town of Reading!


"#anotherophaslotsofsexpost

Oh get over youself and stop hounding me...it smacks of jealousy and insecurity...others do not feel the same way...try taking a reality check ffs... "

In answer to your original question; I am not sure that I am addicted to sex for the sake of it- I don't have sex for the sake of it. However! I do think I am addicted to the thrill that a particular type of sex with a particular type of person or people can have.

In response to the quote above, you really do seem to have posted quite a lot of stuff recently about what you have been getting up to, in a round about way. And that does smack of a certain... Look-at-me-aren't-I-awesome-cos-I'm-having-sex kind of thing. Most of us just quietly go about our business without drawing attention to the fact that we are having sex....

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By *oodmessMan  over a year ago

yumsville


"If it got to that extent, I would probably be seeking help. "

you talking about me? I am down to 1 now lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Have you ever worried that you might be addicted to sex. To the extent that it starts to occupy practically your every waking moment and ends up getting in the way of other stuff in life?"

No. I have the odd day where I'm easily distracted, but I have plenty of things to keep me busy.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If it got to that extent, I would probably be seeking help.

you talking about me? I am down to 1 now lol "

Haha no. The opening post

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By *oodmessMan  over a year ago

yumsville


"#anotherophaslotsofsexpost

Oh get over youself and stop hounding me...it smacks of jealousy and insecurity...others do not feel the same way...try taking a reality check ffs...

In answer to your original question; I am not sure that I am addicted to sex for the sake of it- I don't have sex for the sake of it. However! I do think I am addicted to the thrill that a particular type of sex with a particular type of person or people can have.

In response to the quote above, you really do seem to have posted quite a lot of stuff recently about what you have been getting up to, in a round about way. And that does smack of a certain... Look-at-me-aren't-I-awesome-cos-I'm-having-sex kind of thing. Most of us just quietly go about our business without drawing attention to the fact that we are having sex.... "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"#anotherophaslotsofsexpost

Oh get over youself and stop hounding me...it smacks of jealousy and insecurity...others do not feel the same way...try taking a reality check ffs...

Errr..my response bothered you for some reason??

If you are going to post "look at me" threads, don't be surprised when people then look at you. "

The thing is... many people see the OP for exactly what he is.

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By *olarfox OP   Man  over a year ago

North Cambs


"#anotherophaslotsofsexpost

Oh get over youself and stop hounding me...it smacks of jealousy and insecurity...others do not feel the same way...try taking a reality check ffs...

being honest you do seem to be making a lot of posts questioning the amount of type of sex you are having. You are asking questions and taking the piss when people either give answer or do take the piss. It is a forum, if you can't expect some off the cuff replies, then don't post them, but you shouldn't be berating people, when you are posing the question.

this was an honest thread relating to a very real concern. There have been a lot of considered and interesting contributions. This particular woman just has a bee in her bonnet and sees fit to troll every thread I start - her problem not mine but it certainly gets my back up!

well what is it - when I said earlier about meeting 8 days a week + .. you were all too happy to take the piss. To me that smack of jealousy, I know because I can tell you how hard it is to navigate that many people across that many days and how difficult it is to have 5 people interested in 1 person. Yet we have Polarfox asking a question about addiction and laughing at a turn of phrase as it doesn't go into 'a week'. Only so many people will tolerate anger mate.

"

Err..I took the piss because you talked about meeting 14 days a week...

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By *olarfox OP   Man  over a year ago

North Cambs


"#anotherophaslotsofsexpost

Oh get over youself and stop hounding me...it smacks of jealousy and insecurity...others do not feel the same way...try taking a reality check ffs...

Errr..my response bothered you for some reason??

If you are going to post "look at me" threads, don't be surprised when people then look at you.

The thing is... many people see the OP for exactly what he is. "

Which is? do you know me? Do any of you other than those who have met me?

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By *aisyDoandDaisyDontWoman  over a year ago

little old town of Reading!

I don't know you, OP, but I'm building up a pretty clear picture from your posts on this forum.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If men post about lack of meets, they get berated, if they like to show off, they get berated.

I guess men should just meet and be quietly humble they've been blessed with the vajayjays of fab.

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By *olarfox OP   Man  over a year ago

North Cambs


"I don't know you, OP, but I'm building up a pretty clear picture from your posts on this forum. "

Well I am quite certain that out in the real world as on here we would have very little in common and nothing to do with each other, so lets agree to keep it like that in cyberspace too. I have plenty of good friends and people who like me so really could not give a monkey's what someone I do not even know or care about might think of me...founded or otherwise..

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By *picyminxWoman  over a year ago

Huntingdon


"Have you ever worried that you might be addicted to sex. To the extent that it starts to occupy practically your every waking moment and ends up getting in the way of other stuff in life?"

Google the 40 questions of SLAA and answer them honestly you may be surprised.

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By *aisyDoandDaisyDontWoman  over a year ago

little old town of Reading!

I wouldn't call it "berating", Christos- I would call it responding to the OP with public opinion. Which is varied. If I came on here and made a big to-do every time I got laid, I'm sure others would find it tiresome too.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"#anotherophaslotsofsexpost

Oh get over youself and stop hounding me...it smacks of jealousy and insecurity...others do not feel the same way...try taking a reality check ffs...

In answer to your original question; I am not sure that I am addicted to sex for the sake of it- I don't have sex for the sake of it. However! I do think I am addicted to the thrill that a particular type of sex with a particular type of person or people can have.

In response to the quote above, you really do seem to have posted quite a lot of stuff recently about what you have been getting up to, in a round about way. And that does smack of a certain... Look-at-me-aren't-I-awesome-cos-I'm-having-sex kind of thing. Most of us just quietly go about our business without drawing attention to the fact that we are having sex.... "

What the lady said...

Personally I dont have an alpha male superego about having meets. Yes I have them. Yes I display veris. No, I don't go starting threads about it so people can put me on a pedestal for having meets. Yes, I have many friends on here that are not simply potential notches on a (metaphorical) bedpost. No, im not bragging.

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By *osieWoman  over a year ago

Wembley


"OK, 14 evenings a week "

I think I need to brush up on simple arithmetic

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By *olarfox OP   Man  over a year ago

North Cambs


"I wouldn't call it "berating", Christos- I would call it responding to the OP with public opinion. Which is varied. If I came on here and made a big to-do every time I got laid, I'm sure others would find it tiresome too. "

Well maybe you have never been laid with sufficient frequency to ever worry about any of the potentially detrimental effects this might be having???

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By *olarfox OP   Man  over a year ago

North Cambs


"#anotherophaslotsofsexpost

Oh get over youself and stop hounding me...it smacks of jealousy and insecurity...others do not feel the same way...try taking a reality check ffs...

In answer to your original question; I am not sure that I am addicted to sex for the sake of it- I don't have sex for the sake of it. However! I do think I am addicted to the thrill that a particular type of sex with a particular type of person or people can have.

In response to the quote above, you really do seem to have posted quite a lot of stuff recently about what you have been getting up to, in a round about way. And that does smack of a certain... Look-at-me-aren't-I-awesome-cos-I'm-having-sex kind of thing. Most of us just quietly go about our business without drawing attention to the fact that we are having sex....

What the lady said...

Personally I dont have an alpha male superego about having meets. Yes I have them. Yes I display veris. No, I don't go starting threads about it so people can put me on a pedestal for having meets. Yes, I have many friends on here that are not simply potential notches on a (metaphorical) bedpost. No, im not bragging."

and perhaps you are not intelligent enough to see that was in no way my intention when I started this thread...someone who hardly gets to drink can hardly understand the plight of a person suffering from alcoholism!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I wouldn't call it "berating", Christos- I would call it responding to the OP with public opinion. Which is varied. If I came on here and made a big to-do every time I got laid, I'm sure others would find it tiresome too. "

leave him to it..men like to rooster it up sometimes and have a crow. It's nicer than the 'no luck' threads.

Don't let it annoy you

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By *oodmessMan  over a year ago

yumsville


"OK, 14 evenings a week

I think I need to brush up on simple arithmetic "

that's all you got from this thread? fucking ace

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman  over a year ago

little house on the praire


"#anotherophaslotsofsexpost

Oh get over youself and stop hounding me...it smacks of jealousy and insecurity...others do not feel the same way...try taking a reality check ffs...

In answer to your original question; I am not sure that I am addicted to sex for the sake of it- I don't have sex for the sake of it. However! I do think I am addicted to the thrill that a particular type of sex with a particular type of person or people can have.

In response to the quote above, you really do seem to have posted quite a lot of stuff recently about what you have been getting up to, in a round about way. And that does smack of a certain... Look-at-me-aren't-I-awesome-cos-I'm-having-sex kind of thing. Most of us just quietly go about our business without drawing attention to the fact that we are having sex....

What the lady said...

Personally I dont have an alpha male superego about having meets. Yes I have them. Yes I display veris. No, I don't go starting threads about it so people can put me on a pedestal for having meets. Yes, I have many friends on here that are not simply potential notches on a (metaphorical) bedpost. No, im not bragging.

and perhaps you are not intelligent enough to see that was in no way my intention when I started this thread...someone who hardly gets to drink can hardly understand the plight of a person suffering from alcoholism!! "

you are so damn rude, you are rude to so many people on here, I'm surprised you ever get laid to be honest.

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By *aisyDoandDaisyDontWoman  over a year ago

little old town of Reading!


"I don't know you, OP, but I'm building up a pretty clear picture from your posts on this forum.

Well I am quite certain that out in the real world as on here we would have very little in common and nothing to do with each other, so lets agree to keep it like that in cyberspace too. I have plenty of good friends and people who like me so really could not give a monkey's what someone I do not even know or care about might think of me...founded or otherwise.."

Really? Then perhaps you could tell me (and the rest of the forum), why you are posting your questions on a public forum in the first place?

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By *osieWoman  over a year ago

Wembley


"OK, 14 evenings a week

I think I need to brush up on simple arithmetic

that's all you got from this thread? fucking ace "

I live and breathe numbers and sex. There was no sex on this thread; just silly numbers

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"#anotherophaslotsofsexpost

Oh get over youself and stop hounding me...it smacks of jealousy and insecurity...others do not feel the same way...try taking a reality check ffs...

In answer to your original question; I am not sure that I am addicted to sex for the sake of it- I don't have sex for the sake of it. However! I do think I am addicted to the thrill that a particular type of sex with a particular type of person or people can have.

In response to the quote above, you really do seem to have posted quite a lot of stuff recently about what you have been getting up to, in a round about way. And that does smack of a certain... Look-at-me-aren't-I-awesome-cos-I'm-having-sex kind of thing. Most of us just quietly go about our business without drawing attention to the fact that we are having sex....

What the lady said...

Personally I dont have an alpha male superego about having meets. Yes I have them. Yes I display veris. No, I don't go starting threads about it so people can put me on a pedestal for having meets. Yes, I have many friends on here that are not simply potential notches on a (metaphorical) bedpost. No, im not bragging.

and perhaps you are not intelligent enough to see that was in no way my intention when I started this thread...someone who hardly gets to drink can hardly understand the plight of a person suffering from alcoholism!! "

Right. Okaayyy. And that isn't a thinly disguised narcissistic statement at all is it?

Oh woe is me, wading through seas of clunge, what am I to do? (Dramatic swoon)

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By *aisyDoandDaisyDontWoman  over a year ago

little old town of Reading!


"I wouldn't call it "berating", Christos- I would call it responding to the OP with public opinion. Which is varied. If I came on here and made a big to-do every time I got laid, I'm sure others would find it tiresome too.

Well maybe you have never been laid with sufficient frequency to ever worry about any of the potentially detrimental effects this might be having??? "

Lol... Hilarious comeback. Are you 12 years old?

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By *at69driveMan  over a year ago

Hertford


"#anotherophaslotsofsexpost"
. . At least three very similar posts recently

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By *aisyDoandDaisyDontWoman  over a year ago

little old town of Reading!


"OK, 14 evenings a week

I think I need to brush up on simple arithmetic

that's all you got from this thread? fucking ace "

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By *oodmessMan  over a year ago

yumsville


"OK, 14 evenings a week

I think I need to brush up on simple arithmetic

that's all you got from this thread? fucking ace

I live and breathe numbers and sex. There was no sex on this thread; just silly numbers "

The numbers were silly, that is why I said "in a week". As in 'I have done a 10 day week this week' The joke has long passed though (and it was by no means hard graft )

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By *olarfox OP   Man  over a year ago

North Cambs


"#anotherophaslotsofsexpost

Oh get over youself and stop hounding me...it smacks of jealousy and insecurity...others do not feel the same way...try taking a reality check ffs...

In answer to your original question; I am not sure that I am addicted to sex for the sake of it- I don't have sex for the sake of it. However! I do think I am addicted to the thrill that a particular type of sex with a particular type of person or people can have.

In response to the quote above, you really do seem to have posted quite a lot of stuff recently about what you have been getting up to, in a round about way. And that does smack of a certain... Look-at-me-aren't-I-awesome-cos-I'm-having-sex kind of thing. Most of us just quietly go about our business without drawing attention to the fact that we are having sex....

What the lady said...

Personally I dont have an alpha male superego about having meets. Yes I have them. Yes I display veris. No, I don't go starting threads about it so people can put me on a pedestal for having meets. Yes, I have many friends on here that are not simply potential notches on a (metaphorical) bedpost. No, im not bragging.

and perhaps you are not intelligent enough to see that was in no way my intention when I started this thread...someone who hardly gets to drink can hardly understand the plight of a person suffering from alcoholism!! you are so damn rude, you are rude to so many people on here, I'm surprised you ever get laid to be honest.

"

Obviously I do not get laid by the kind of idiots who chose to contribute in such a negative fashion and personal manner in threads I start - and long may that be the case...as you will be well aware I get laid by plenty of others and we have a very pleasant time together ....thank you very much

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"OK, 14 evenings a week

I think I need to brush up on simple arithmetic

that's all you got from this thread? fucking ace

I live and breathe numbers and sex. There was no sex on this thread; just silly numbers

The numbers were silly, that is why I said "in a week". As in 'I have done a 10 day week this week' The joke has long passed though (and it was by no means hard graft )"

So you dont have magical time bending powers? How disappointing

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By *olarfox OP   Man  over a year ago

North Cambs


"I wouldn't call it "berating", Christos- I would call it responding to the OP with public opinion. Which is varied. If I came on here and made a big to-do every time I got laid, I'm sure others would find it tiresome too.

Well maybe you have never been laid with sufficient frequency to ever worry about any of the potentially detrimental effects this might be having???

Lol... Hilarious comeback. Are you 12 years old? "

thank you, I have always been told I look young for my age

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman  over a year ago

little house on the praire


"#anotherophaslotsofsexpost

Oh get over youself and stop hounding me...it smacks of jealousy and insecurity...others do not feel the same way...try taking a reality check ffs...

In answer to your original question; I am not sure that I am addicted to sex for the sake of it- I don't have sex for the sake of it. However! I do think I am addicted to the thrill that a particular type of sex with a particular type of person or people can have.

In response to the quote above, you really do seem to have posted quite a lot of stuff recently about what you have been getting up to, in a round about way. And that does smack of a certain... Look-at-me-aren't-I-awesome-cos-I'm-having-sex kind of thing. Most of us just quietly go about our business without drawing attention to the fact that we are having sex....

What the lady said...

Personally I dont have an alpha male superego about having meets. Yes I have them. Yes I display veris. No, I don't go starting threads about it so people can put me on a pedestal for having meets. Yes, I have many friends on here that are not simply potential notches on a (metaphorical) bedpost. No, im not bragging.

and perhaps you are not intelligent enough to see that was in no way my intention when I started this thread...someone who hardly gets to drink can hardly understand the plight of a person suffering from alcoholism!! you are so damn rude, you are rude to so many people on here, I'm surprised you ever get laid to be honest.

Obviously I do not get laid by the kind of idiots who chose to contribute in such a negative fashion and personal manner in threads I start - and long may that be the case...as you will be well aware I get laid by plenty of others and we have a very pleasant time together ....thank you very much"

I cannot believe one person can appear to be so unaware of the rude nasty comments they post themselves as you are.

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By *aisyDoandDaisyDontWoman  over a year ago

little old town of Reading!


"#anotherophaslotsofsexpost

Oh get over youself and stop hounding me...it smacks of jealousy and insecurity...others do not feel the same way...try taking a reality check ffs...

In answer to your original question; I am not sure that I am addicted to sex for the sake of it- I don't have sex for the sake of it. However! I do think I am addicted to the thrill that a particular type of sex with a particular type of person or people can have.

In response to the quote above, you really do seem to have posted quite a lot of stuff recently about what you have been getting up to, in a round about way. And that does smack of a certain... Look-at-me-aren't-I-awesome-cos-I'm-having-sex kind of thing. Most of us just quietly go about our business without drawing attention to the fact that we are having sex....

What the lady said...

Personally I dont have an alpha male superego about having meets. Yes I have them. Yes I display veris. No, I don't go starting threads about it so people can put me on a pedestal for having meets. Yes, I have many friends on here that are not simply potential notches on a (metaphorical) bedpost. No, im not bragging.

and perhaps you are not intelligent enough to see that was in no way my intention when I started this thread...someone who hardly gets to drink can hardly understand the plight of a person suffering from alcoholism!! you are so damn rude, you are rude to so many people on here, I'm surprised you ever get laid to be honest.

Obviously I do not get laid by the kind of idiots who chose to contribute in such a negative fashion and personal manner in threads I start - and long may that be the case...as you will be well aware I get laid by plenty of others and we have a very pleasant time together ....thank you very much"

There! He said it again! He gets laid!!! Woooooooo! Bring on the cheerleaders everyone!!

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By *olarfox OP   Man  over a year ago

North Cambs


"#anotherophaslotsofsexpost

Oh get over youself and stop hounding me...it smacks of jealousy and insecurity...others do not feel the same way...try taking a reality check ffs...

In answer to your original question; I am not sure that I am addicted to sex for the sake of it- I don't have sex for the sake of it. However! I do think I am addicted to the thrill that a particular type of sex with a particular type of person or people can have.

In response to the quote above, you really do seem to have posted quite a lot of stuff recently about what you have been getting up to, in a round about way. And that does smack of a certain... Look-at-me-aren't-I-awesome-cos-I'm-having-sex kind of thing. Most of us just quietly go about our business without drawing attention to the fact that we are having sex....

What the lady said...

Personally I dont have an alpha male superego about having meets. Yes I have them. Yes I display veris. No, I don't go starting threads about it so people can put me on a pedestal for having meets. Yes, I have many friends on here that are not simply potential notches on a (metaphorical) bedpost. No, im not bragging.

and perhaps you are not intelligent enough to see that was in no way my intention when I started this thread...someone who hardly gets to drink can hardly understand the plight of a person suffering from alcoholism!!

Right. Okaayyy. And that isn't a thinly disguised narcissistic statement at all is it?

Oh woe is me, wading through seas of clunge, what am I to do? (Dramatic swoon)"

No, no woe is me at all, merely raising a legitimate concern relating to having lots of sex...something which has not always been the case for me...

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By *osieWoman  over a year ago

Wembley


"OK, 14 evenings a week

I think I need to brush up on simple arithmetic

that's all you got from this thread? fucking ace

I live and breathe numbers and sex. There was no sex on this thread; just silly numbers

The numbers were silly, that is why I said "in a week". As in 'I have done a 10 day week this week' The joke has long passed though (and it was by no means hard graft )"

You've completely lost me; you work 10 days a week and meet people 14 evenings a week?

What is 'hard graft'?

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By *aisyDoandDaisyDontWoman  over a year ago

little old town of Reading!


"OK, 14 evenings a week

I think I need to brush up on simple arithmetic

that's all you got from this thread? fucking ace

I live and breathe numbers and sex. There was no sex on this thread; just silly numbers

The numbers were silly, that is why I said "in a week". As in 'I have done a 10 day week this week' The joke has long passed though (and it was by no means hard graft )"

He's either obtuse or not particularly clever - I think it was quite obvious what you meant x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

as you will be well aware I get laid by plenty of others and we have a very pleasant time together ....thank you very much"

Yes. Because you keep bragging about it by starting threads...oops, more narcissism driven attention seeking?

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By *olarfox OP   Man  over a year ago

North Cambs


"#anotherophaslotsofsexpost

Oh get over youself and stop hounding me...it smacks of jealousy and insecurity...others do not feel the same way...try taking a reality check ffs...

In answer to your original question; I am not sure that I am addicted to sex for the sake of it- I don't have sex for the sake of it. However! I do think I am addicted to the thrill that a particular type of sex with a particular type of person or people can have.

In response to the quote above, you really do seem to have posted quite a lot of stuff recently about what you have been getting up to, in a round about way. And that does smack of a certain... Look-at-me-aren't-I-awesome-cos-I'm-having-sex kind of thing. Most of us just quietly go about our business without drawing attention to the fact that we are having sex....

What the lady said...

Personally I dont have an alpha male superego about having meets. Yes I have them. Yes I display veris. No, I don't go starting threads about it so people can put me on a pedestal for having meets. Yes, I have many friends on here that are not simply potential notches on a (metaphorical) bedpost. No, im not bragging.

and perhaps you are not intelligent enough to see that was in no way my intention when I started this thread...someone who hardly gets to drink can hardly understand the plight of a person suffering from alcoholism!! you are so damn rude, you are rude to so many people on here, I'm surprised you ever get laid to be honest.

Obviously I do not get laid by the kind of idiots who chose to contribute in such a negative fashion and personal manner in threads I start - and long may that be the case...as you will be well aware I get laid by plenty of others and we have a very pleasant time together ....thank you very much

There! He said it again! He gets laid!!! Woooooooo! Bring on the cheerleaders everyone!! "

Oh ffs....we all know that from the outset of this thread ...it is at the very heart of it, so hardly the thing I am trying to draw attention too...if indeed I am 12 years old, you my dear have the learning age of a 6 year old!

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By *at69driveMan  over a year ago

Hertford


"#anotherophaslotsofsexpost

Oh get over youself and stop hounding me...it smacks of jealousy and insecurity...others do not feel the same way...try taking a reality check ffs... "

. It is your third post this week on a similar topic and quite a few people agree with the ladies comments which she is perfectly entitled to post . . Why would we be jealous of you ?.

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By *osieWoman  over a year ago

Wembley


"OK, 14 evenings a week

I think I need to brush up on simple arithmetic

that's all you got from this thread? fucking ace

I live and breathe numbers and sex. There was no sex on this thread; just silly numbers

The numbers were silly, that is why I said "in a week". As in 'I have done a 10 day week this week' The joke has long passed though (and it was by no means hard graft )

He's either obtuse or not particularly clever - I think it was quite obvious what you meant x"

Thank you; for a moment I thought he was counting in hexadecimal; x

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By *aisyDoandDaisyDontWoman  over a year ago

little old town of Reading!


"#anotherophaslotsofsexpost

Oh get over youself and stop hounding me...it smacks of jealousy and insecurity...others do not feel the same way...try taking a reality check ffs...

In answer to your original question; I am not sure that I am addicted to sex for the sake of it- I don't have sex for the sake of it. However! I do think I am addicted to the thrill that a particular type of sex with a particular type of person or people can have.

In response to the quote above, you really do seem to have posted quite a lot of stuff recently about what you have been getting up to, in a round about way. And that does smack of a certain... Look-at-me-aren't-I-awesome-cos-I'm-having-sex kind of thing. Most of us just quietly go about our business without drawing attention to the fact that we are having sex....

What the lady said...

Personally I dont have an alpha male superego about having meets. Yes I have them. Yes I display veris. No, I don't go starting threads about it so people can put me on a pedestal for having meets. Yes, I have many friends on here that are not simply potential notches on a (metaphorical) bedpost. No, im not bragging.

and perhaps you are not intelligent enough to see that was in no way my intention when I started this thread...someone who hardly gets to drink can hardly understand the plight of a person suffering from alcoholism!!

Right. Okaayyy. And that isn't a thinly disguised narcissistic statement at all is it?

Oh woe is me, wading through seas of clunge, what am I to do? (Dramatic swoon)

No, no woe is me at all, merely raising a legitimate concern relating to having lots of sex...something which has not always been the case for me..."

So we finally get to the crux of the matter. And to be honest, that last sentence says it all for me. Says everything I need to know.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"#anotherophaslotsofsexpost

Oh get over youself and stop hounding me...it smacks of jealousy and insecurity...others do not feel the same way...try taking a reality check ffs...

In answer to your original question; I am not sure that I am addicted to sex for the sake of it- I don't have sex for the sake of it. However! I do think I am addicted to the thrill that a particular type of sex with a particular type of person or people can have.

In response to the quote above, you really do seem to have posted quite a lot of stuff recently about what you have been getting up to, in a round about way. And that does smack of a certain... Look-at-me-aren't-I-awesome-cos-I'm-having-sex kind of thing. Most of us just quietly go about our business without drawing attention to the fact that we are having sex....

What the lady said...

Personally I dont have an alpha male superego about having meets. Yes I have them. Yes I display veris. No, I don't go starting threads about it so people can put me on a pedestal for having meets. Yes, I have many friends on here that are not simply potential notches on a (metaphorical) bedpost. No, im not bragging.

and perhaps you are not intelligent enough to see that was in no way my intention when I started this thread...someone who hardly gets to drink can hardly understand the plight of a person suffering from alcoholism!! you are so damn rude, you are rude to so many people on here, I'm surprised you ever get laid to be honest.

Obviously I do not get laid by the kind of idiots who chose to contribute in such a negative fashion and personal manner in threads I start - and long may that be the case...as you will be well aware I get laid by plenty of others and we have a very pleasant time together ....thank you very much

There! He said it again! He gets laid!!! Woooooooo! Bring on the cheerleaders everyone!!

Oh ffs....we all know that from the outset of this thread ...it is at the very heart of it, so hardly the thing I am trying to draw attention too...if indeed I am 12 years old, you my dear have the learning age of a 6 year old!"

Actually the learning age of a six year old is massive compared to an adult...the amount of info they can absorb is phenomenal..that's why it is the ideal age to start them learning languages and musical instruments.

Or did you mean mental age? Though to be fair I know a lot of very bright 6 year olds. Some of them are even coding simple games.

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By *olarfox OP   Man  over a year ago

North Cambs


"#anotherophaslotsofsexpost

Oh get over youself and stop hounding me...it smacks of jealousy and insecurity...others do not feel the same way...try taking a reality check ffs...

In answer to your original question; I am not sure that I am addicted to sex for the sake of it- I don't have sex for the sake of it. However! I do think I am addicted to the thrill that a particular type of sex with a particular type of person or people can have.

In response to the quote above, you really do seem to have posted quite a lot of stuff recently about what you have been getting up to, in a round about way. And that does smack of a certain... Look-at-me-aren't-I-awesome-cos-I'm-having-sex kind of thing. Most of us just quietly go about our business without drawing attention to the fact that we are having sex....

What the lady said...

Personally I dont have an alpha male superego about having meets. Yes I have them. Yes I display veris. No, I don't go starting threads about it so people can put me on a pedestal for having meets. Yes, I have many friends on here that are not simply potential notches on a (metaphorical) bedpost. No, im not bragging.

and perhaps you are not intelligent enough to see that was in no way my intention when I started this thread...someone who hardly gets to drink can hardly understand the plight of a person suffering from alcoholism!!

Right. Okaayyy. And that isn't a thinly disguised narcissistic statement at all is it?

Oh woe is me, wading through seas of clunge, what am I to do? (Dramatic swoon)

No, no woe is me at all, merely raising a legitimate concern relating to having lots of sex...something which has not always been the case for me...

So we finally get to the crux of the matter. And to be honest, that last sentence says it all for me. Says everything I need to know. "

Of course it hasn't - I am proud to say that until the early part of this year I was in a six year relationship...so what the fuck does it tell you????

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By *osieWoman  over a year ago

Wembley


"Have you ever worried that you might be addicted to sex. To the extent that it starts to occupy practically your every waking moment and ends up getting in the way of other stuff in life?"

No. I have other more important things in life which take priority

I also don't re-verify and nor do special people meet me

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By *aisyDoandDaisyDontWoman  over a year ago

little old town of Reading!


"#anotherophaslotsofsexpost

Oh get over youself and stop hounding me...it smacks of jealousy and insecurity...others do not feel the same way...try taking a reality check ffs...

In answer to your original question; I am not sure that I am addicted to sex for the sake of it- I don't have sex for the sake of it. However! I do think I am addicted to the thrill that a particular type of sex with a particular type of person or people can have.

In response to the quote above, you really do seem to have posted quite a lot of stuff recently about what you have been getting up to, in a round about way. And that does smack of a certain... Look-at-me-aren't-I-awesome-cos-I'm-having-sex kind of thing. Most of us just quietly go about our business without drawing attention to the fact that we are having sex....

What the lady said...

Personally I dont have an alpha male superego about having meets. Yes I have them. Yes I display veris. No, I don't go starting threads about it so people can put me on a pedestal for having meets. Yes, I have many friends on here that are not simply potential notches on a (metaphorical) bedpost. No, im not bragging.

and perhaps you are not intelligent enough to see that was in no way my intention when I started this thread...someone who hardly gets to drink can hardly understand the plight of a person suffering from alcoholism!! you are so damn rude, you are rude to so many people on here, I'm surprised you ever get laid to be honest.

Obviously I do not get laid by the kind of idiots who chose to contribute in such a negative fashion and personal manner in threads I start - and long may that be the case...as you will be well aware I get laid by plenty of others and we have a very pleasant time together ....thank you very much

There! He said it again! He gets laid!!! Woooooooo! Bring on the cheerleaders everyone!!

Oh ffs....we all know that from the outset of this thread ...it is at the very heart of it, so hardly the thing I am trying to draw attention too...if indeed I am 12 years old, you my dear have the learning age of a 6 year old!"

Oh my god, now he's taking the piss out of learning disabilities! Dude! You really can't sink any lower, surely?!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

What the hell happened in here?

Actually, scratch that. I don't want to know. I'm going back to the airstrikes thread. It seems safer.

-Courtney

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By *olarfox OP   Man  over a year ago

North Cambs


"#anotherophaslotsofsexpost

Oh get over youself and stop hounding me...it smacks of jealousy and insecurity...others do not feel the same way...try taking a reality check ffs...

In answer to your original question; I am not sure that I am addicted to sex for the sake of it- I don't have sex for the sake of it. However! I do think I am addicted to the thrill that a particular type of sex with a particular type of person or people can have.

In response to the quote above, you really do seem to have posted quite a lot of stuff recently about what you have been getting up to, in a round about way. And that does smack of a certain... Look-at-me-aren't-I-awesome-cos-I'm-having-sex kind of thing. Most of us just quietly go about our business without drawing attention to the fact that we are having sex....

What the lady said...

Personally I dont have an alpha male superego about having meets. Yes I have them. Yes I display veris. No, I don't go starting threads about it so people can put me on a pedestal for having meets. Yes, I have many friends on here that are not simply potential notches on a (metaphorical) bedpost. No, im not bragging.

and perhaps you are not intelligent enough to see that was in no way my intention when I started this thread...someone who hardly gets to drink can hardly understand the plight of a person suffering from alcoholism!! you are so damn rude, you are rude to so many people on here, I'm surprised you ever get laid to be honest.

Obviously I do not get laid by the kind of idiots who chose to contribute in such a negative fashion and personal manner in threads I start - and long may that be the case...as you will be well aware I get laid by plenty of others and we have a very pleasant time together ....thank you very much

There! He said it again! He gets laid!!! Woooooooo! Bring on the cheerleaders everyone!!

Oh ffs....we all know that from the outset of this thread ...it is at the very heart of it, so hardly the thing I am trying to draw attention too...if indeed I am 12 years old, you my dear have the learning age of a 6 year old!

Oh my god, now he's taking the piss out of learning disabilities! Dude! You really can't sink any lower, surely?!! "

No I wasn't - you lot really bore me to tears ...little gang of sheep...bahhhh!!

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By *osieWoman  over a year ago

Wembley


" What the hell happened in here?

Actually, scratch that. I don't want to know. I'm going back to the airstrikes thread. It seems safer.

-Courtney"

I thought this was the airstrikes thread

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By *oodmessMan  over a year ago

yumsville


"

Which is? do you know me? Do any of you other than those who have met me?"

well as you ask ... what I see is a guy that has just realised he can meet women online and that the women he can meet online will let him dominate them. He is new to it and doesn't really know what he is doing. He is enjoying the power it is giving him and doesn't know how to handle it or his new found freedoms. He feels on top of the world and he's walking round his office feeling top bollocks.

The women he's with realise his immaturity and have given him leeway but have seen him grow a little too, and are sizing him up for bf/gf relationships but he is looking for a exit plan. All the while he is wondering how far he can push more extreme sex or get the fantasy's / bed notches as he wants to talk about them down the pub.

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By *aisyDoandDaisyDontWoman  over a year ago

little old town of Reading!


"#anotherophaslotsofsexpost

Oh get over youself and stop hounding me...it smacks of jealousy and insecurity...others do not feel the same way...try taking a reality check ffs...

In answer to your original question; I am not sure that I am addicted to sex for the sake of it- I don't have sex for the sake of it. However! I do think I am addicted to the thrill that a particular type of sex with a particular type of person or people can have.

In response to the quote above, you really do seem to have posted quite a lot of stuff recently about what you have been getting up to, in a round about way. And that does smack of a certain... Look-at-me-aren't-I-awesome-cos-I'm-having-sex kind of thing. Most of us just quietly go about our business without drawing attention to the fact that we are having sex....

What the lady said...

Personally I dont have an alpha male superego about having meets. Yes I have them. Yes I display veris. No, I don't go starting threads about it so people can put me on a pedestal for having meets. Yes, I have many friends on here that are not simply potential notches on a (metaphorical) bedpost. No, im not bragging.

and perhaps you are not intelligent enough to see that was in no way my intention when I started this thread...someone who hardly gets to drink can hardly understand the plight of a person suffering from alcoholism!!

Right. Okaayyy. And that isn't a thinly disguised narcissistic statement at all is it?

Oh woe is me, wading through seas of clunge, what am I to do? (Dramatic swoon)

No, no woe is me at all, merely raising a legitimate concern relating to having lots of sex...something which has not always been the case for me...

So we finally get to the crux of the matter. And to be honest, that last sentence says it all for me. Says everything I need to know.

Of course it hasn't - I am proud to say that until the early part of this year I was in a six year relationship...so what the fuck does it tell you???? "

Well. That tells me that you didn't have lots of sex, and now that you do, you want to make a big woo hoo about it. A very very very big LOOK AT ME IM HAVING SEX WOOOOOOOOOO! Woo hoo about it. Any further questions?

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By *olarfox OP   Man  over a year ago

North Cambs


" What the hell happened in here?

Actually, scratch that. I don't want to know. I'm going back to the airstrikes thread. It seems safer.

-Courtney"

Its called 'lets all have a go at the op again...bored individuals who have nothing better to do at this time of night...well at least my threads keep them amused and they can think what ever venomous thoughts they want about me - I really couldn't give a flying fuck....especially given that there were over 12o0 useful contributions before the hostile little idiots decided to club together.....

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By *olarfox OP   Man  over a year ago

North Cambs


"

Which is? do you know me? Do any of you other than those who have met me?

well as you ask ... what I see is a guy that has just realised he can meet women online and that the women he can meet online will let him dominate them. He is new to it and doesn't really know what he is doing. He is enjoying the power it is giving him and doesn't know how to handle it or his new found freedoms. He feels on top of the world and he's walking round his office feeling top bollocks.

The women he's with realise his immaturity and have given him leeway but have seen him grow a little too, and are sizing him up for bf/gf relationships but he is looking for a exit plan. All the while he is wondering how far he can push more extreme sex or get the fantasy's / bed notches as he wants to talk about them down the pub."

Yeah whatever...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"#anotherophaslotsofsexpost

Oh get over youself and stop hounding me...it smacks of jealousy and insecurity...others do not feel the same way...try taking a reality check ffs...

In answer to your original question; I am not sure that I am addicted to sex for the sake of it- I don't have sex for the sake of it. However! I do think I am addicted to the thrill that a particular type of sex with a particular type of person or people can have.

In response to the quote above, you really do seem to have posted quite a lot of stuff recently about what you have been getting up to, in a round about way. And that does smack of a certain... Look-at-me-aren't-I-awesome-cos-I'm-having-sex kind of thing. Most of us just quietly go about our business without drawing attention to the fact that we are having sex....

What the lady said...

Personally I dont have an alpha male superego about having meets. Yes I have them. Yes I display veris. No, I don't go starting threads about it so people can put me on a pedestal for having meets. Yes, I have many friends on here that are not simply potential notches on a (metaphorical) bedpost. No, im not bragging.

and perhaps you are not intelligent enough to see that was in no way my intention when I started this thread...someone who hardly gets to drink can hardly understand the plight of a person suffering from alcoholism!!

Right. Okaayyy. And that isn't a thinly disguised narcissistic statement at all is it?

Oh woe is me, wading through seas of clunge, what am I to do? (Dramatic swoon)

No, no woe is me at all, merely raising a legitimate concern relating to having lots of sex...something which has not always been the case for me..."

Perhaps it's a new thing and you're excited and want to share because you're happy. That's cool.

Lots of people post (sometimes brag) about many meets they've had. They can be annoying but most people ignore it and let it pass because they are generally good natured about it.

However you are always rude about any comments that are even slightly not in agreement with you. Hence the responses you get.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" What the hell happened in here?

Actually, scratch that. I don't want to know. I'm going back to the airstrikes thread. It seems safer.

-Courtney

I thought this was the airstrikes thread "

This made me laugh

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"#anotherophaslotsofsexpost

Oh get over youself and stop hounding me...it smacks of jealousy and insecurity...others do not feel the same way...try taking a reality check ffs...

In answer to your original question; I am not sure that I am addicted to sex for the sake of it- I don't have sex for the sake of it. However! I do think I am addicted to the thrill that a particular type of sex with a particular type of person or people can have.

In response to the quote above, you really do seem to have posted quite a lot of stuff recently about what you have been getting up to, in a round about way. And that does smack of a certain... Look-at-me-aren't-I-awesome-cos-I'm-having-sex kind of thing. Most of us just quietly go about our business without drawing attention to the fact that we are having sex....

What the lady said...

Personally I dont have an alpha male superego about having meets. Yes I have them. Yes I display veris. No, I don't go starting threads about it so people can put me on a pedestal for having meets. Yes, I have many friends on here that are not simply potential notches on a (metaphorical) bedpost. No, im not bragging.

and perhaps you are not intelligent enough to see that was in no way my intention when I started this thread...someone who hardly gets to drink can hardly understand the plight of a person suffering from alcoholism!! you are so damn rude, you are rude to so many people on here, I'm surprised you ever get laid to be honest.

Obviously I do not get laid by the kind of idiots who chose to contribute in such a negative fashion and personal manner in threads I start - and long may that be the case...as you will be well aware I get laid by plenty of others and we have a very pleasant time together ....thank you very much

There! He said it again! He gets laid!!! Woooooooo! Bring on the cheerleaders everyone!!

Oh ffs....we all know that from the outset of this thread ...it is at the very heart of it, so hardly the thing I am trying to draw attention too...if indeed I am 12 years old, you my dear have the learning age of a 6 year old!

Oh my god, now he's taking the piss out of learning disabilities! Dude! You really can't sink any lower, surely?!!

No I wasn't - you lot really bore me to tears ...little gang of sheep...bahhhh!!"

Does that make you the shepherd? Bit of a Jesus complex going on too? It really is quite immature and puerile when you have to resort to insulting people who don't agree with you. You have been around long enough to know when to maybe concede with grace and humility. I would suggest now may be the time to sleep on it and come back to the fold with a slightly less confrontational attitude and less of an ego...and now my children, let us pray..

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By *olarfox OP   Man  over a year ago

North Cambs


"#anotherophaslotsofsexpost

Oh get over youself and stop hounding me...it smacks of jealousy and insecurity...others do not feel the same way...try taking a reality check ffs...

In answer to your original question; I am not sure that I am addicted to sex for the sake of it- I don't have sex for the sake of it. However! I do think I am addicted to the thrill that a particular type of sex with a particular type of person or people can have.

In response to the quote above, you really do seem to have posted quite a lot of stuff recently about what you have been getting up to, in a round about way. And that does smack of a certain... Look-at-me-aren't-I-awesome-cos-I'm-having-sex kind of thing. Most of us just quietly go about our business without drawing attention to the fact that we are having sex....

What the lady said...

Personally I dont have an alpha male superego about having meets. Yes I have them. Yes I display veris. No, I don't go starting threads about it so people can put me on a pedestal for having meets. Yes, I have many friends on here that are not simply potential notches on a (metaphorical) bedpost. No, im not bragging.

and perhaps you are not intelligent enough to see that was in no way my intention when I started this thread...someone who hardly gets to drink can hardly understand the plight of a person suffering from alcoholism!!

Right. Okaayyy. And that isn't a thinly disguised narcissistic statement at all is it?

Oh woe is me, wading through seas of clunge, what am I to do? (Dramatic swoon)

No, no woe is me at all, merely raising a legitimate concern relating to having lots of sex...something which has not always been the case for me...

Perhaps it's a new thing and you're excited and want to share because you're happy. That's cool.

Lots of people post (sometimes brag) about many meets they've had. They can be annoying but most people ignore it and let it pass because they are generally good natured about it.

However you are always rude about any comments that are even slightly not in agreement with you. Hence the responses you get. "

And I might be wrong but I would be surprised if you have ever contributed in anything other than a negative fashion to any of the many threads on many varied topics I have posted over the months. What is more you do so from a hidden profile so that no one even knows who the fuck they are talking to..wtf

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By *olarfox OP   Man  over a year ago

North Cambs


"#anotherophaslotsofsexpost

Oh get over youself and stop hounding me...it smacks of jealousy and insecurity...others do not feel the same way...try taking a reality check ffs...

In answer to your original question; I am not sure that I am addicted to sex for the sake of it- I don't have sex for the sake of it. However! I do think I am addicted to the thrill that a particular type of sex with a particular type of person or people can have.

In response to the quote above, you really do seem to have posted quite a lot of stuff recently about what you have been getting up to, in a round about way. And that does smack of a certain... Look-at-me-aren't-I-awesome-cos-I'm-having-sex kind of thing. Most of us just quietly go about our business without drawing attention to the fact that we are having sex....

What the lady said...

Personally I dont have an alpha male superego about having meets. Yes I have them. Yes I display veris. No, I don't go starting threads about it so people can put me on a pedestal for having meets. Yes, I have many friends on here that are not simply potential notches on a (metaphorical) bedpost. No, im not bragging.

and perhaps you are not intelligent enough to see that was in no way my intention when I started this thread...someone who hardly gets to drink can hardly understand the plight of a person suffering from alcoholism!! you are so damn rude, you are rude to so many people on here, I'm surprised you ever get laid to be honest.

Obviously I do not get laid by the kind of idiots who chose to contribute in such a negative fashion and personal manner in threads I start - and long may that be the case...as you will be well aware I get laid by plenty of others and we have a very pleasant time together ....thank you very much

There! He said it again! He gets laid!!! Woooooooo! Bring on the cheerleaders everyone!!

Oh ffs....we all know that from the outset of this thread ...it is at the very heart of it, so hardly the thing I am trying to draw attention too...if indeed I am 12 years old, you my dear have the learning age of a 6 year old!

Oh my god, now he's taking the piss out of learning disabilities! Dude! You really can't sink any lower, surely?!!

No I wasn't - you lot really bore me to tears ...little gang of sheep...bahhhh!!

Does that make you the shepherd? Bit of a Jesus complex going on too? It really is quite immature and puerile when you have to resort to insulting people who don't agree with you. You have been around long enough to know when to maybe concede with grace and humility. I would suggest now may be the time to sleep on it and come back to the fold with a slightly less confrontational attitude and less of an ego...and now my children, let us pray.."

nope...makes me a black sheep as opposed to a white one and quite proud to be so...I have been all my life and have long ago given trying to fit in with the majority....

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By *aisyDoandDaisyDontWoman  over a year ago

little old town of Reading!

Polar fox- you just took the piss out of us for responding to your post. Which you posted and continue to argue on. You are spot on. I don't have anything better to do tonight. But clearly nor do you, or you wouldn't be here debating it with us.

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By *olarfox OP   Man  over a year ago

North Cambs


"Polar fox- you just took the piss out of us for responding to your post. Which you posted and continue to argue on. You are spot on. I don't have anything better to do tonight. But clearly nor do you, or you wouldn't be here debating it with us. "

that is the first point you have made which I agree with tonight....

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By *aisyDoandDaisyDontWoman  over a year ago

little old town of Reading!


"Polar fox- you just took the piss out of us for responding to your post. Which you posted and continue to argue on. You are spot on. I don't have anything better to do tonight. But clearly nor do you, or you wouldn't be here debating it with us.

that is the first point you have made which I agree with tonight.... "

Fucking hell! *takes a bow*.... !!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"#anotherophaslotsofsexpost

Oh get over youself and stop hounding me...it smacks of jealousy and insecurity...others do not feel the same way...try taking a reality check ffs...

In answer to your original question; I am not sure that I am addicted to sex for the sake of it- I don't have sex for the sake of it. However! I do think I am addicted to the thrill that a particular type of sex with a particular type of person or people can have.

In response to the quote above, you really do seem to have posted quite a lot of stuff recently about what you have been getting up to, in a round about way. And that does smack of a certain... Look-at-me-aren't-I-awesome-cos-I'm-having-sex kind of thing. Most of us just quietly go about our business without drawing attention to the fact that we are having sex....

What the lady said...

Personally I dont have an alpha male superego about having meets. Yes I have them. Yes I display veris. No, I don't go starting threads about it so people can put me on a pedestal for having meets. Yes, I have many friends on here that are not simply potential notches on a (metaphorical) bedpost. No, im not bragging.

and perhaps you are not intelligent enough to see that was in no way my intention when I started this thread...someone who hardly gets to drink can hardly understand the plight of a person suffering from alcoholism!! you are so damn rude, you are rude to so many people on here, I'm surprised you ever get laid to be honest.

Obviously I do not get laid by the kind of idiots who chose to contribute in such a negative fashion and personal manner in threads I start - and long may that be the case...as you will be well aware I get laid by plenty of others and we have a very pleasant time together ....thank you very much

There! He said it again! He gets laid!!! Woooooooo! Bring on the cheerleaders everyone!!

Oh ffs....we all know that from the outset of this thread ...it is at the very heart of it, so hardly the thing I am trying to draw attention too...if indeed I am 12 years old, you my dear have the learning age of a 6 year old!

Oh my god, now he's taking the piss out of learning disabilities! Dude! You really can't sink any lower, surely?!!

No I wasn't - you lot really bore me to tears ...little gang of sheep...bahhhh!!

Does that make you the shepherd? Bit of a Jesus complex going on too? It really is quite immature and puerile when you have to resort to insulting people who don't agree with you. You have been around long enough to know when to maybe concede with grace and humility. I would suggest now may be the time to sleep on it and come back to the fold with a slightly less confrontational attitude and less of an ego...and now my children, let us pray..

nope...makes me a black sheep as opposed to a white one and quite proud to be so...I have been all my life and have long ago given trying to fit in with the majority...."

But when you get down to it, past the outer veneer there is no real difference between the sheep..just a black sheep in a white flock is an easier target. Its easy enough to be man (or woman) enough to cut your own detail and make your own way and do your own thing. I just dont see the need to be a dick about it and piss everyone off though-all in the name of being different.

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By *oodmessMan  over a year ago

yumsville

You realise you are making about as much fucking sense as a 10 day week right about now.

Shake each others dicks - feel a tit and fuck off to sleep.

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By *olarfox OP   Man  over a year ago

North Cambs


"#anotherophaslotsofsexpost

Oh get over youself and stop hounding me...it smacks of jealousy and insecurity...others do not feel the same way...try taking a reality check ffs...

In answer to your original question; I am not sure that I am addicted to sex for the sake of it- I don't have sex for the sake of it. However! I do think I am addicted to the thrill that a particular type of sex with a particular type of person or people can have.

In response to the quote above, you really do seem to have posted quite a lot of stuff recently about what you have been getting up to, in a round about way. And that does smack of a certain... Look-at-me-aren't-I-awesome-cos-I'm-having-sex kind of thing. Most of us just quietly go about our business without drawing attention to the fact that we are having sex....

What the lady said...

Personally I dont have an alpha male superego about having meets. Yes I have them. Yes I display veris. No, I don't go starting threads about it so people can put me on a pedestal for having meets. Yes, I have many friends on here that are not simply potential notches on a (metaphorical) bedpost. No, im not bragging.

and perhaps you are not intelligent enough to see that was in no way my intention when I started this thread...someone who hardly gets to drink can hardly understand the plight of a person suffering from alcoholism!! you are so damn rude, you are rude to so many people on here, I'm surprised you ever get laid to be honest.

Obviously I do not get laid by the kind of idiots who chose to contribute in such a negative fashion and personal manner in threads I start - and long may that be the case...as you will be well aware I get laid by plenty of others and we have a very pleasant time together ....thank you very much

There! He said it again! He gets laid!!! Woooooooo! Bring on the cheerleaders everyone!!

Oh ffs....we all know that from the outset of this thread ...it is at the very heart of it, so hardly the thing I am trying to draw attention too...if indeed I am 12 years old, you my dear have the learning age of a 6 year old!

Oh my god, now he's taking the piss out of learning disabilities! Dude! You really can't sink any lower, surely?!!

No I wasn't - you lot really bore me to tears ...little gang of sheep...bahhhh!!

Does that make you the shepherd? Bit of a Jesus complex going on too? It really is quite immature and puerile when you have to resort to insulting people who don't agree with you. You have been around long enough to know when to maybe concede with grace and humility. I would suggest now may be the time to sleep on it and come back to the fold with a slightly less confrontational attitude and less of an ego...and now my children, let us pray..

nope...makes me a black sheep as opposed to a white one and quite proud to be so...I have been all my life and have long ago given trying to fit in with the majority....

But when you get down to it, past the outer veneer there is no real difference between the sheep..just a black sheep in a white flock is an easier target. Its easy enough to be man (or woman) enough to cut your own detail and make your own way and do your own thing. I just dont see the need to be a dick about it and piss everyone off though-all in the name of being different."

You do in fact seem like a bright and none judgemental bloke.

If you will allow me to bare my soul for a moment I shall to elaborate on my reasons for starting this particular thread, which once again I reiterate I had no intention of making into a 'look at me thread' although I have certainly been guilty of that in the past.

I cam out of a long term relationship in the early part of this year (one where sex had become increasingly infrequent). In the months since I have found myself having an increasing amount of sex and with an ever increasing number of partners ( and no I am not trying to blow my own trumpet in saying this).

Recently this has reached a point where despite having sex on an almost daily basis (with partners both on and off fab), I have found myself increasingly unable to feel sated and seem to spend a greater and greater amount of time seeking out new sexual gratification and in ever greater variations on the basic theme.

This is troubling me and I was interested in hearing from others on this site (as I felt there might be some), who had been troubled by a similar period in their own experiences. Indeed there were a number of earlier posters to this thread who shared similar concerns and experiences which had forced them to revise their behaviour.

I became angered (rightlfully so I believe), when a number of nocturnal forum dwellers decided to turn this thread into a bit of an OP witch hunt and seemed oblivious to or unconvinced of my intentions when starting the debate.

I do not care that a number on here will only see or hear what they want to, nor do I care that they judge me in whatever way they see fit, however I do feel it is my right to defend my position, especially given the validity of my concerns relating to how my current sex life is affecting my life in general.

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By *aisyDoandDaisyDontWoman  over a year ago

little old town of Reading!

So you admit that past forum posts have been "look at mes", but we are to accept that this isn't one? Okay... Well assuming that is the case. And sweeping aside your aggressive attitude towards people that disagree with you on this and other posts..... And that fact that, although your last post was quite self pitying you STILL manage to point out that you fuck once a day with various different partners........ Let's help you with your little "problem" shall we?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman  over a year ago

little house on the praire


"#anotherophaslotsofsexpost

Oh get over youself and stop hounding me...it smacks of jealousy and insecurity...others do not feel the same way...try taking a reality check ffs...

In answer to your original question; I am not sure that I am addicted to sex for the sake of it- I don't have sex for the sake of it. However! I do think I am addicted to the thrill that a particular type of sex with a particular type of person or people can have.

In response to the quote above, you really do seem to have posted quite a lot of stuff recently about what you have been getting up to, in a round about way. And that does smack of a certain... Look-at-me-aren't-I-awesome-cos-I'm-having-sex kind of thing. Most of us just quietly go about our business without drawing attention to the fact that we are having sex....

What the lady said...

Personally I dont have an alpha male superego about having meets. Yes I have them. Yes I display veris. No, I don't go starting threads about it so people can put me on a pedestal for having meets. Yes, I have many friends on here that are not simply potential notches on a (metaphorical) bedpost. No, im not bragging.

and perhaps you are not intelligent enough to see that was in no way my intention when I started this thread...someone who hardly gets to drink can hardly understand the plight of a person suffering from alcoholism!! you are so damn rude, you are rude to so many people on here, I'm surprised you ever get laid to be honest.

Obviously I do not get laid by the kind of idiots who chose to contribute in such a negative fashion and personal manner in threads I start - and long may that be the case...as you will be well aware I get laid by plenty of others and we have a very pleasant time together ....thank you very much

There! He said it again! He gets laid!!! Woooooooo! Bring on the cheerleaders everyone!!

Oh ffs....we all know that from the outset of this thread ...it is at the very heart of it, so hardly the thing I am trying to draw attention too...if indeed I am 12 years old, you my dear have the learning age of a 6 year old!

Oh my god, now he's taking the piss out of learning disabilities! Dude! You really can't sink any lower, surely?!!

No I wasn't - you lot really bore me to tears ...little gang of sheep...bahhhh!!

Does that make you the shepherd? Bit of a Jesus complex going on too? It really is quite immature and puerile when you have to resort to insulting people who don't agree with you. You have been around long enough to know when to maybe concede with grace and humility. I would suggest now may be the time to sleep on it and come back to the fold with a slightly less confrontational attitude and less of an ego...and now my children, let us pray..

nope...makes me a black sheep as opposed to a white one and quite proud to be so...I have been all my life and have long ago given trying to fit in with the majority....

But when you get down to it, past the outer veneer there is no real difference between the sheep..just a black sheep in a white flock is an easier target. Its easy enough to be man (or woman) enough to cut your own detail and make your own way and do your own thing. I just dont see the need to be a dick about it and piss everyone off though-all in the name of being different.

You do in fact seem like a bright and none judgemental bloke.

If you will allow me to bare my soul for a moment I shall to elaborate on my reasons for starting this particular thread, which once again I reiterate I had no intention of making into a 'look at me thread' although I have certainly been guilty of that in the past.

I cam out of a long term relationship in the early part of this year (one where sex had become increasingly infrequent). In the months since I have found myself having an increasing amount of sex and with an ever increasing number of partners ( and no I am not trying to blow my own trumpet in saying this).

Recently this has reached a point where despite having sex on an almost daily basis (with partners both on and off fab), I have found myself increasingly unable to feel sated and seem to spend a greater and greater amount of time seeking out new sexual gratification and in ever greater variations on the basic theme.

This is troubling me and I was interested in hearing from others on this site (as I felt there might be some), who had been troubled by a similar period in their own experiences. Indeed there were a number of earlier posters to this thread who shared similar concerns and experiences which had forced them to revise their behaviour.

I became angered (rightlfully so I believe), when a number of nocturnal forum dwellers decided to turn this thread into a bit of an OP witch hunt and seemed oblivious to or unconvinced of my intentions when starting the debate.

I do not care that a number on here will only see or hear what they want to, nor do I care that they judge me in whatever way they see fit, however I do feel it is my right to defend my position, especially given the validity of my concerns relating to how my current sex life is affecting my life in general."

well you are quite happy to have a pop at people about things that affect their life, your downright nasty to people so no sympathy from me. Maybe show a little thought for people in the future before you have a go at them and I'm not on about this thread

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By *olarfox OP   Man  over a year ago

North Cambs


"#anotherophaslotsofsexpost

Oh get over youself and stop hounding me...it smacks of jealousy and insecurity...others do not feel the same way...try taking a reality check ffs...

In answer to your original question; I am not sure that I am addicted to sex for the sake of it- I don't have sex for the sake of it. However! I do think I am addicted to the thrill that a particular type of sex with a particular type of person or people can have.

In response to the quote above, you really do seem to have posted quite a lot of stuff recently about what you have been getting up to, in a round about way. And that does smack of a certain... Look-at-me-aren't-I-awesome-cos-I'm-having-sex kind of thing. Most of us just quietly go about our business without drawing attention to the fact that we are having sex....

What the lady said...

Personally I dont have an alpha male superego about having meets. Yes I have them. Yes I display veris. No, I don't go starting threads about it so people can put me on a pedestal for having meets. Yes, I have many friends on here that are not simply potential notches on a (metaphorical) bedpost. No, im not bragging.

and perhaps you are not intelligent enough to see that was in no way my intention when I started this thread...someone who hardly gets to drink can hardly understand the plight of a person suffering from alcoholism!! you are so damn rude, you are rude to so many people on here, I'm surprised you ever get laid to be honest.

Obviously I do not get laid by the kind of idiots who chose to contribute in such a negative fashion and personal manner in threads I start - and long may that be the case...as you will be well aware I get laid by plenty of others and we have a very pleasant time together ....thank you very much

There! He said it again! He gets laid!!! Woooooooo! Bring on the cheerleaders everyone!!

Oh ffs....we all know that from the outset of this thread ...it is at the very heart of it, so hardly the thing I am trying to draw attention too...if indeed I am 12 years old, you my dear have the learning age of a 6 year old!

Oh my god, now he's taking the piss out of learning disabilities! Dude! You really can't sink any lower, surely?!!

No I wasn't - you lot really bore me to tears ...little gang of sheep...bahhhh!!

Does that make you the shepherd? Bit of a Jesus complex going on too? It really is quite immature and puerile when you have to resort to insulting people who don't agree with you. You have been around long enough to know when to maybe concede with grace and humility. I would suggest now may be the time to sleep on it and come back to the fold with a slightly less confrontational attitude and less of an ego...and now my children, let us pray..

nope...makes me a black sheep as opposed to a white one and quite proud to be so...I have been all my life and have long ago given trying to fit in with the majority....

But when you get down to it, past the outer veneer there is no real difference between the sheep..just a black sheep in a white flock is an easier target. Its easy enough to be man (or woman) enough to cut your own detail and make your own way and do your own thing. I just dont see the need to be a dick about it and piss everyone off though-all in the name of being different.

You do in fact seem like a bright and none judgemental bloke.

If you will allow me to bare my soul for a moment I shall to elaborate on my reasons for starting this particular thread, which once again I reiterate I had no intention of making into a 'look at me thread' although I have certainly been guilty of that in the past.

I cam out of a long term relationship in the early part of this year (one where sex had become increasingly infrequent). In the months since I have found myself having an increasing amount of sex and with an ever increasing number of partners ( and no I am not trying to blow my own trumpet in saying this).

Recently this has reached a point where despite having sex on an almost daily basis (with partners both on and off fab), I have found myself increasingly unable to feel sated and seem to spend a greater and greater amount of time seeking out new sexual gratification and in ever greater variations on the basic theme.

This is troubling me and I was interested in hearing from others on this site (as I felt there might be some), who had been troubled by a similar period in their own experiences. Indeed there were a number of earlier posters to this thread who shared similar concerns and experiences which had forced them to revise their behaviour.

I became angered (rightlfully so I believe), when a number of nocturnal forum dwellers decided to turn this thread into a bit of an OP witch hunt and seemed oblivious to or unconvinced of my intentions when starting the debate.

I do not care that a number on here will only see or hear what they want to, nor do I care that they judge me in whatever way they see fit, however I do feel it is my right to defend my position, especially given the validity of my concerns relating to how my current sex life is affecting my life in general.well you are quite happy to have a pop at people about things that affect their life, your downright nasty to people so no sympathy from me. Maybe show a little thought for people in the future before you have a go at them and I'm not on about this thread"

Sorry...have I ever had a none retaliatory pop at you or any others on here?

What is more I am certainly not seeking your or anybody else's sypathy, merely interested in other people's experiences.

In the matter of his particular topic you clearly have nothing positive to contribute so I got one would prefer that you refrain from simply having a 'pop' at me

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman  over a year ago

little house on the praire


"#anotherophaslotsofsexpost

Oh get over youself and stop hounding me...it smacks of jealousy and insecurity...others do not feel the same way...try taking a reality check ffs...

In answer to your original question; I am not sure that I am addicted to sex for the sake of it- I don't have sex for the sake of it. However! I do think I am addicted to the thrill that a particular type of sex with a particular type of person or people can have.

In response to the quote above, you really do seem to have posted quite a lot of stuff recently about what you have been getting up to, in a round about way. And that does smack of a certain... Look-at-me-aren't-I-awesome-cos-I'm-having-sex kind of thing. Most of us just quietly go about our business without drawing attention to the fact that we are having sex....

What the lady said...

Personally I dont have an alpha male superego about having meets. Yes I have them. Yes I display veris. No, I don't go starting threads about it so people can put me on a pedestal for having meets. Yes, I have many friends on here that are not simply potential notches on a (metaphorical) bedpost. No, im not bragging.

and perhaps you are not intelligent enough to see that was in no way my intention when I started this thread...someone who hardly gets to drink can hardly understand the plight of a person suffering from alcoholism!! you are so damn rude, you are rude to so many people on here, I'm surprised you ever get laid to be honest.

Obviously I do not get laid by the kind of idiots who chose to contribute in such a negative fashion and personal manner in threads I start - and long may that be the case...as you will be well aware I get laid by plenty of others and we have a very pleasant time together ....thank you very much

There! He said it again! He gets laid!!! Woooooooo! Bring on the cheerleaders everyone!!

Oh ffs....we all know that from the outset of this thread ...it is at the very heart of it, so hardly the thing I am trying to draw attention too...if indeed I am 12 years old, you my dear have the learning age of a 6 year old!

Oh my god, now he's taking the piss out of learning disabilities! Dude! You really can't sink any lower, surely?!!

No I wasn't - you lot really bore me to tears ...little gang of sheep...bahhhh!!

Does that make you the shepherd? Bit of a Jesus complex going on too? It really is quite immature and puerile when you have to resort to insulting people who don't agree with you. You have been around long enough to know when to maybe concede with grace and humility. I would suggest now may be the time to sleep on it and come back to the fold with a slightly less confrontational attitude and less of an ego...and now my children, let us pray..

nope...makes me a black sheep as opposed to a white one and quite proud to be so...I have been all my life and have long ago given trying to fit in with the majority....

But when you get down to it, past the outer veneer there is no real difference between the sheep..just a black sheep in a white flock is an easier target. Its easy enough to be man (or woman) enough to cut your own detail and make your own way and do your own thing. I just dont see the need to be a dick about it and piss everyone off though-all in the name of being different.

You do in fact seem like a bright and none judgemental bloke.

If you will allow me to bare my soul for a moment I shall to elaborate on my reasons for starting this particular thread, which once again I reiterate I had no intention of making into a 'look at me thread' although I have certainly been guilty of that in the past.

I cam out of a long term relationship in the early part of this year (one where sex had become increasingly infrequent). In the months since I have found myself having an increasing amount of sex and with an ever increasing number of partners ( and no I am not trying to blow my own trumpet in saying this).

Recently this has reached a point where despite having sex on an almost daily basis (with partners both on and off fab), I have found myself increasingly unable to feel sated and seem to spend a greater and greater amount of time seeking out new sexual gratification and in ever greater variations on the basic theme.

This is troubling me and I was interested in hearing from others on this site (as I felt there might be some), who had been troubled by a similar period in their own experiences. Indeed there were a number of earlier posters to this thread who shared similar concerns and experiences which had forced them to revise their behaviour.

I became angered (rightlfully so I believe), when a number of nocturnal forum dwellers decided to turn this thread into a bit of an OP witch hunt and seemed oblivious to or unconvinced of my intentions when starting the debate.

I do not care that a number on here will only see or hear what they want to, nor do I care that they judge me in whatever way they see fit, however I do feel it is my right to defend my position, especially given the validity of my concerns relating to how my current sex life is affecting my life in general.well you are quite happy to have a pop at people about things that affect their life, your downright nasty to people so no sympathy from me. Maybe show a little thought for people in the future before you have a go at them and I'm not on about this thread

Sorry...have I ever had a none retaliatory pop at you or any others on here?

What is more I am certainly not seeking your or anybody else's sypathy, merely interested in other people's experiences.

In the matter of his particular topic you clearly have nothing positive to contribute so I got one would prefer that you refrain from simply having a 'pop' at me"

while your working on your sex addiction maybe work on your short term memory

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I guess over the time we have been in fab , we have been guilty at times of a certain sin on the forums . That being that we meet and play way too often for the majority on the forums judgement .

I do think when you are buzzing , it's easy to be a bit narcissistic , without realising it .

This thread however , doesn't seem like a look at me and how well I'm doing thread . The op seems genuinely concerned at his frequency of sexual meets with different partners . Where does the desire to continue this take over and become an addiction ?

Having just got home from a Mmmf and a mmmmff meet tonight ( lol .... ) I don't have time to sit here chatting for too long , but there really does seem to be a bit of a witch hunt going on against him at the moment

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By *olarfox OP   Man  over a year ago

North Cambs


"#anotherophaslotsofsexpost

Oh get over youself and stop hounding me...it smacks of jealousy and insecurity...others do not feel the same way...try taking a reality check ffs...

In answer to your original question; I am not sure that I am addicted to sex for the sake of it- I don't have sex for the sake of it. However! I do think I am addicted to the thrill that a particular type of sex with a particular type of person or people can have.

In response to the quote above, you really do seem to have posted quite a lot of stuff recently about what you have been getting up to, in a round about way. And that does smack of a certain... Look-at-me-aren't-I-awesome-cos-I'm-having-sex kind of thing. Most of us just quietly go about our business without drawing attention to the fact that we are having sex....

What the lady said...

Personally I dont have an alpha male superego about having meets. Yes I have them. Yes I display veris. No, I don't go starting threads about it so people can put me on a pedestal for having meets. Yes, I have many friends on here that are not simply potential notches on a (metaphorical) bedpost. No, im not bragging.

and perhaps you are not intelligent enough to see that was in no way my intention when I started this thread...someone who hardly gets to drink can hardly understand the plight of a person suffering from alcoholism!! you are so damn rude, you are rude to so many people on here, I'm surprised you ever get laid to be honest.

Obviously I do not get laid by the kind of idiots who chose to contribute in such a negative fashion and personal manner in threads I start - and long may that be the case...as you will be well aware I get laid by plenty of others and we have a very pleasant time together ....thank you very much

There! He said it again! He gets laid!!! Woooooooo! Bring on the cheerleaders everyone!!

Oh ffs....we all know that from the outset of this thread ...it is at the very heart of it, so hardly the thing I am trying to draw attention too...if indeed I am 12 years old, you my dear have the learning age of a 6 year old!

Oh my god, now he's taking the piss out of learning disabilities! Dude! You really can't sink any lower, surely?!!

No I wasn't - you lot really bore me to tears ...little gang of sheep...bahhhh!!

Does that make you the shepherd? Bit of a Jesus complex going on too? It really is quite immature and puerile when you have to resort to insulting people who don't agree with you. You have been around long enough to know when to maybe concede with grace and humility. I would suggest now may be the time to sleep on it and come back to the fold with a slightly less confrontational attitude and less of an ego...and now my children, let us pray..

nope...makes me a black sheep as opposed to a white one and quite proud to be so...I have been all my life and have long ago given trying to fit in with the majority....

But when you get down to it, past the outer veneer there is no real difference between the sheep..just a black sheep in a white flock is an easier target. Its easy enough to be man (or woman) enough to cut your own detail and make your own way and do your own thing. I just dont see the need to be a dick about it and piss everyone off though-all in the name of being different.

You do in fact seem like a bright and none judgemental bloke.

If you will allow me to bare my soul for a moment I shall to elaborate on my reasons for starting this particular thread, which once again I reiterate I had no intention of making into a 'look at me thread' although I have certainly been guilty of that in the past.

I cam out of a long term relationship in the early part of this year (one where sex had become increasingly infrequent). In the months since I have found myself having an increasing amount of sex and with an ever increasing number of partners ( and no I am not trying to blow my own trumpet in saying this).

Recently this has reached a point where despite having sex on an almost daily basis (with partners both on and off fab), I have found myself increasingly unable to feel sated and seem to spend a greater and greater amount of time seeking out new sexual gratification and in ever greater variations on the basic theme.

This is troubling me and I was interested in hearing from others on this site (as I felt there might be some), who had been troubled by a similar period in their own experiences. Indeed there were a number of earlier posters to this thread who shared similar concerns and experiences which had forced them to revise their behaviour.

I became angered (rightlfully so I believe), when a number of nocturnal forum dwellers decided to turn this thread into a bit of an OP witch hunt and seemed oblivious to or unconvinced of my intentions when starting the debate.

I do not care that a number on here will only see or hear what they want to, nor do I care that they judge me in whatever way they see fit, however I do feel it is my right to defend my position, especially given the validity of my concerns relating to how my current sex life is affecting my life in general.well you are quite happy to have a pop at people about things that affect their life, your downright nasty to people so no sympathy from me. Maybe show a little thought for people in the future before you have a go at them and I'm not on about this thread

Sorry...have I ever had a none retaliatory pop at you or any others on here?

What is more I am certainly not seeking your or anybody else's sypathy, merely interested in other people's experiences.

In the matter of his particular topic you clearly have nothing positive to contribute so I got one would prefer that you refrain from simply having a 'pop' at mewhile your working on your sex addiction maybe work on your short term memory

"

Well, given that you are yet another one that sees fit to block me from even viewing your profile, I hardly see how I am likely to glean anything which might help jog my 'short term memory'.

What do you all think I am going to ry and do? PM you or something ffs

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By *olarfox OP   Man  over a year ago

North Cambs


"I guess over the time we have been in fab , we have been guilty at times of a certain sin on the forums . That being that we meet and play way too often for the majority on the forums judgement .

I do think when you are buzzing , it's easy to be a bit narcissistic , without realising it .

This thread however , doesn't seem like a look at me and how well I'm doing thread . The op seems genuinely concerned at his frequency of sexual meets with different partners . Where does the desire to continue this take over and become an addiction ?

Having just got home from a Mmmf and a mmmmff meet tonight ( lol .... ) I don't have time to sit here chatting for too long , but there really does seem to be a bit of a witch hunt going on against him at the moment "

Thank you, I appreciate you non bias appraisal of the twist this thread has taken..

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By *picyminxWoman  over a year ago

Huntingdon


"#anotherophaslotsofsexpost

Oh get over youself and stop hounding me...it smacks of jealousy and insecurity...others do not feel the same way...try taking a reality check ffs...

In answer to your original question; I am not sure that I am addicted to sex for the sake of it- I don't have sex for the sake of it. However! I do think I am addicted to the thrill that a particular type of sex with a particular type of person or people can have.

In response to the quote above, you really do seem to have posted quite a lot of stuff recently about what you have been getting up to, in a round about way. And that does smack of a certain... Look-at-me-aren't-I-awesome-cos-I'm-having-sex kind of thing. Most of us just quietly go about our business without drawing attention to the fact that we are having sex....

What the lady said...

Personally I dont have an alpha male superego about having meets. Yes I have them. Yes I display veris. No, I don't go starting threads about it so people can put me on a pedestal for having meets. Yes, I have many friends on here that are not simply potential notches on a (metaphorical) bedpost. No, im not bragging.

and perhaps you are not intelligent enough to see that was in no way my intention when I started this thread...someone who hardly gets to drink can hardly understand the plight of a person suffering from alcoholism!! you are so damn rude, you are rude to so many people on here, I'm surprised you ever get laid to be honest.

Obviously I do not get laid by the kind of idiots who chose to contribute in such a negative fashion and personal manner in threads I start - and long may that be the case...as you will be well aware I get laid by plenty of others and we have a very pleasant time together ....thank you very much

There! He said it again! He gets laid!!! Woooooooo! Bring on the cheerleaders everyone!!

Oh ffs....we all know that from the outset of this thread ...it is at the very heart of it, so hardly the thing I am trying to draw attention too...if indeed I am 12 years old, you my dear have the learning age of a 6 year old!

Oh my god, now he's taking the piss out of learning disabilities! Dude! You really can't sink any lower, surely?!!

No I wasn't - you lot really bore me to tears ...little gang of sheep...bahhhh!!

Does that make you the shepherd? Bit of a Jesus complex going on too? It really is quite immature and puerile when you have to resort to insulting people who don't agree with you. You have been around long enough to know when to maybe concede with grace and humility. I would suggest now may be the time to sleep on it and come back to the fold with a slightly less confrontational attitude and less of an ego...and now my children, let us pray..

nope...makes me a black sheep as opposed to a white one and quite proud to be so...I have been all my life and have long ago given trying to fit in with the majority....

But when you get down to it, past the outer veneer there is no real difference between the sheep..just a black sheep in a white flock is an easier target. Its easy enough to be man (or woman) enough to cut your own detail and make your own way and do your own thing. I just dont see the need to be a dick about it and piss everyone off though-all in the name of being different.

You do in fact seem like a bright and none judgemental bloke.

If you will allow me to bare my soul for a moment I shall to elaborate on my reasons for starting this particular thread, which once again I reiterate I had no intention of making into a 'look at me thread' although I have certainly been guilty of that in the past.

I cam out of a long term relationship in the early part of this year (one where sex had become increasingly infrequent). In the months since I have found myself having an increasing amount of sex and with an ever increasing number of partners ( and no I am not trying to blow my own trumpet in saying this).

Recently this has reached a point where despite having sex on an almost daily basis (with partners both on and off fab), I have found myself increasingly unable to feel sated and seem to spend a greater and greater amount of time seeking out new sexual gratification and in ever greater variations on the basic theme.

This is troubling me and I was interested in hearing from others on this site (as I felt there might be some), who had been troubled by a similar period in their own experiences. Indeed there were a number of earlier posters to this thread who shared similar concerns and experiences which had forced them to revise their behaviour.

I became angered (rightlfully so I believe), when a number of nocturnal forum dwellers decided to turn this thread into a bit of an OP witch hunt and seemed oblivious to or unconvinced of my intentions when starting the debate.

I do not care that a number on here will only see or hear what they want to, nor do I care that they judge me in whatever way they see fit, however I do feel it is my right to defend my position, especially given the validity of my concerns relating to how my current sex life is affecting my life in general."

I said it before but it seems you overlooked my comment. Go to the SLAA website and the 40 questions of SLAA and answer them. .. Simples

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By *olarfox OP   Man  over a year ago

North Cambs


"#anotherophaslotsofsexpost

Oh get over youself and stop hounding me...it smacks of jealousy and insecurity...others do not feel the same way...try taking a reality check ffs...

In answer to your original question; I am not sure that I am addicted to sex for the sake of it- I don't have sex for the sake of it. However! I do think I am addicted to the thrill that a particular type of sex with a particular type of person or people can have.

In response to the quote above, you really do seem to have posted quite a lot of stuff recently about what you have been getting up to, in a round about way. And that does smack of a certain... Look-at-me-aren't-I-awesome-cos-I'm-having-sex kind of thing. Most of us just quietly go about our business without drawing attention to the fact that we are having sex....

What the lady said...

Personally I dont have an alpha male superego about having meets. Yes I have them. Yes I display veris. No, I don't go starting threads about it so people can put me on a pedestal for having meets. Yes, I have many friends on here that are not simply potential notches on a (metaphorical) bedpost. No, im not bragging.

and perhaps you are not intelligent enough to see that was in no way my intention when I started this thread...someone who hardly gets to drink can hardly understand the plight of a person suffering from alcoholism!! you are so damn rude, you are rude to so many people on here, I'm surprised you ever get laid to be honest.

Obviously I do not get laid by the kind of idiots who chose to contribute in such a negative fashion and personal manner in threads I start - and long may that be the case...as you will be well aware I get laid by plenty of others and we have a very pleasant time together ....thank you very much

There! He said it again! He gets laid!!! Woooooooo! Bring on the cheerleaders everyone!!

Oh ffs....we all know that from the outset of this thread ...it is at the very heart of it, so hardly the thing I am trying to draw attention too...if indeed I am 12 years old, you my dear have the learning age of a 6 year old!

Oh my god, now he's taking the piss out of learning disabilities! Dude! You really can't sink any lower, surely?!!

No I wasn't - you lot really bore me to tears ...little gang of sheep...bahhhh!!

Does that make you the shepherd? Bit of a Jesus complex going on too? It really is quite immature and puerile when you have to resort to insulting people who don't agree with you. You have been around long enough to know when to maybe concede with grace and humility. I would suggest now may be the time to sleep on it and come back to the fold with a slightly less confrontational attitude and less of an ego...and now my children, let us pray..

nope...makes me a black sheep as opposed to a white one and quite proud to be so...I have been all my life and have long ago given trying to fit in with the majority....

But when you get down to it, past the outer veneer there is no real difference between the sheep..just a black sheep in a white flock is an easier target. Its easy enough to be man (or woman) enough to cut your own detail and make your own way and do your own thing. I just dont see the need to be a dick about it and piss everyone off though-all in the name of being different.

You do in fact seem like a bright and none judgemental bloke.

If you will allow me to bare my soul for a moment I shall to elaborate on my reasons for starting this particular thread, which once again I reiterate I had no intention of making into a 'look at me thread' although I have certainly been guilty of that in the past.

I cam out of a long term relationship in the early part of this year (one where sex had become increasingly infrequent). In the months since I have found myself having an increasing amount of sex and with an ever increasing number of partners ( and no I am not trying to blow my own trumpet in saying this).

Recently this has reached a point where despite having sex on an almost daily basis (with partners both on and off fab), I have found myself increasingly unable to feel sated and seem to spend a greater and greater amount of time seeking out new sexual gratification and in ever greater variations on the basic theme.

This is troubling me and I was interested in hearing from others on this site (as I felt there might be some), who had been troubled by a similar period in their own experiences. Indeed there were a number of earlier posters to this thread who shared similar concerns and experiences which had forced them to revise their behaviour.

I became angered (rightlfully so I believe), when a number of nocturnal forum dwellers decided to turn this thread into a bit of an OP witch hunt and seemed oblivious to or unconvinced of my intentions when starting the debate.

I do not care that a number on here will only see or hear what they want to, nor do I care that they judge me in whatever way they see fit, however I do feel it is my right to defend my position, especially given the validity of my concerns relating to how my current sex life is affecting my life in general.

I said it before but it seems you overlooked my comment. Go to the SLAA website and the 40 questions of SLAA and answer them. .. Simples "

I am sorry I didn't overlook it but I have no idea what the SLAA website is...

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By *picyminxWoman  over a year ago

Huntingdon


"#anotherophaslotsofsexpost

Oh get over youself and stop hounding me...it smacks of jealousy and insecurity...others do not feel the same way...try taking a reality check ffs...

In answer to your original question; I am not sure that I am addicted to sex for the sake of it- I don't have sex for the sake of it. However! I do think I am addicted to the thrill that a particular type of sex with a particular type of person or people can have.

In response to the quote above, you really do seem to have posted quite a lot of stuff recently about what you have been getting up to, in a round about way. And that does smack of a certain... Look-at-me-aren't-I-awesome-cos-I'm-having-sex kind of thing. Most of us just quietly go about our business without drawing attention to the fact that we are having sex....

What the lady said...

Personally I dont have an alpha male superego about having meets. Yes I have them. Yes I display veris. No, I don't go starting threads about it so people can put me on a pedestal for having meets. Yes, I have many friends on here that are not simply potential notches on a (metaphorical) bedpost. No, im not bragging.

and perhaps you are not intelligent enough to see that was in no way my intention when I started this thread...someone who hardly gets to drink can hardly understand the plight of a person suffering from alcoholism!! you are so damn rude, you are rude to so many people on here, I'm surprised you ever get laid to be honest.

Obviously I do not get laid by the kind of idiots who chose to contribute in such a negative fashion and personal manner in threads I start - and long may that be the case...as you will be well aware I get laid by plenty of others and we have a very pleasant time together ....thank you very much

There! He said it again! He gets laid!!! Woooooooo! Bring on the cheerleaders everyone!!

Oh ffs....we all know that from the outset of this thread ...it is at the very heart of it, so hardly the thing I am trying to draw attention too...if indeed I am 12 years old, you my dear have the learning age of a 6 year old!

Oh my god, now he's taking the piss out of learning disabilities! Dude! You really can't sink any lower, surely?!!

No I wasn't - you lot really bore me to tears ...little gang of sheep...bahhhh!!

Does that make you the shepherd? Bit of a Jesus complex going on too? It really is quite immature and puerile when you have to resort to insulting people who don't agree with you. You have been around long enough to know when to maybe concede with grace and humility. I would suggest now may be the time to sleep on it and come back to the fold with a slightly less confrontational attitude and less of an ego...and now my children, let us pray..

nope...makes me a black sheep as opposed to a white one and quite proud to be so...I have been all my life and have long ago given trying to fit in with the majority....

But when you get down to it, past the outer veneer there is no real difference between the sheep..just a black sheep in a white flock is an easier target. Its easy enough to be man (or woman) enough to cut your own detail and make your own way and do your own thing. I just dont see the need to be a dick about it and piss everyone off though-all in the name of being different.

You do in fact seem like a bright and none judgemental bloke.

If you will allow me to bare my soul for a moment I shall to elaborate on my reasons for starting this particular thread, which once again I reiterate I had no intention of making into a 'look at me thread' although I have certainly been guilty of that in the past.

I cam out of a long term relationship in the early part of this year (one where sex had become increasingly infrequent). In the months since I have found myself having an increasing amount of sex and with an ever increasing number of partners ( and no I am not trying to blow my own trumpet in saying this).

Recently this has reached a point where despite having sex on an almost daily basis (with partners both on and off fab), I have found myself increasingly unable to feel sated and seem to spend a greater and greater amount of time seeking out new sexual gratification and in ever greater variations on the basic theme.

This is troubling me and I was interested in hearing from others on this site (as I felt there might be some), who had been troubled by a similar period in their own experiences. Indeed there were a number of earlier posters to this thread who shared similar concerns and experiences which had forced them to revise their behaviour.

I became angered (rightlfully so I believe), when a number of nocturnal forum dwellers decided to turn this thread into a bit of an OP witch hunt and seemed oblivious to or unconvinced of my intentions when starting the debate.

I do not care that a number on here will only see or hear what they want to, nor do I care that they judge me in whatever way they see fit, however I do feel it is my right to defend my position, especially given the validity of my concerns relating to how my current sex life is affecting my life in general.

I said it before but it seems you overlooked my comment. Go to the SLAA website and the 40 questions of SLAA and answer them. .. Simples

I am sorry I didn't overlook it but I have no idea what the SLAA website is..."

Sex and love addiction anonymous. Lots and lots of info on there to have a look at your behaviour etc etc and see if theres a problem to identify . One of the main things I would to suggest to someone who was wondering if they had a problem would be to check it out.

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By *olarfox OP   Man  over a year ago

North Cambs


"#anotherophaslotsofsexpost

Oh get over youself and stop hounding me...it smacks of jealousy and insecurity...others do not feel the same way...try taking a reality check ffs...

In answer to your original question; I am not sure that I am addicted to sex for the sake of it- I don't have sex for the sake of it. However! I do think I am addicted to the thrill that a particular type of sex with a particular type of person or people can have.

In response to the quote above, you really do seem to have posted quite a lot of stuff recently about what you have been getting up to, in a round about way. And that does smack of a certain... Look-at-me-aren't-I-awesome-cos-I'm-having-sex kind of thing. Most of us just quietly go about our business without drawing attention to the fact that we are having sex....

What the lady said...

Personally I dont have an alpha male superego about having meets. Yes I have them. Yes I display veris. No, I don't go starting threads about it so people can put me on a pedestal for having meets. Yes, I have many friends on here that are not simply potential notches on a (metaphorical) bedpost. No, im not bragging.

and perhaps you are not intelligent enough to see that was in no way my intention when I started this thread...someone who hardly gets to drink can hardly understand the plight of a person suffering from alcoholism!! you are so damn rude, you are rude to so many people on here, I'm surprised you ever get laid to be honest.

Obviously I do not get laid by the kind of idiots who chose to contribute in such a negative fashion and personal manner in threads I start - and long may that be the case...as you will be well aware I get laid by plenty of others and we have a very pleasant time together ....thank you very much

There! He said it again! He gets laid!!! Woooooooo! Bring on the cheerleaders everyone!!

Oh ffs....we all know that from the outset of this thread ...it is at the very heart of it, so hardly the thing I am trying to draw attention too...if indeed I am 12 years old, you my dear have the learning age of a 6 year old!

Oh my god, now he's taking the piss out of learning disabilities! Dude! You really can't sink any lower, surely?!!

No I wasn't - you lot really bore me to tears ...little gang of sheep...bahhhh!!

Does that make you the shepherd? Bit of a Jesus complex going on too? It really is quite immature and puerile when you have to resort to insulting people who don't agree with you. You have been around long enough to know when to maybe concede with grace and humility. I would suggest now may be the time to sleep on it and come back to the fold with a slightly less confrontational attitude and less of an ego...and now my children, let us pray..

nope...makes me a black sheep as opposed to a white one and quite proud to be so...I have been all my life and have long ago given trying to fit in with the majority....

But when you get down to it, past the outer veneer there is no real difference between the sheep..just a black sheep in a white flock is an easier target. Its easy enough to be man (or woman) enough to cut your own detail and make your own way and do your own thing. I just dont see the need to be a dick about it and piss everyone off though-all in the name of being different.

You do in fact seem like a bright and none judgemental bloke.

If you will allow me to bare my soul for a moment I shall to elaborate on my reasons for starting this particular thread, which once again I reiterate I had no intention of making into a 'look at me thread' although I have certainly been guilty of that in the past.

I cam out of a long term relationship in the early part of this year (one where sex had become increasingly infrequent). In the months since I have found myself having an increasing amount of sex and with an ever increasing number of partners ( and no I am not trying to blow my own trumpet in saying this).

Recently this has reached a point where despite having sex on an almost daily basis (with partners both on and off fab), I have found myself increasingly unable to feel sated and seem to spend a greater and greater amount of time seeking out new sexual gratification and in ever greater variations on the basic theme.

This is troubling me and I was interested in hearing from others on this site (as I felt there might be some), who had been troubled by a similar period in their own experiences. Indeed there were a number of earlier posters to this thread who shared similar concerns and experiences which had forced them to revise their behaviour.

I became angered (rightlfully so I believe), when a number of nocturnal forum dwellers decided to turn this thread into a bit of an OP witch hunt and seemed oblivious to or unconvinced of my intentions when starting the debate.

I do not care that a number on here will only see or hear what they want to, nor do I care that they judge me in whatever way they see fit, however I do feel it is my right to defend my position, especially given the validity of my concerns relating to how my current sex life is affecting my life in general.

I said it before but it seems you overlooked my comment. Go to the SLAA website and the 40 questions of SLAA and answer them. .. Simples

I am sorry I didn't overlook it but I have no idea what the SLAA website is...

Sex and love addiction anonymous. Lots and lots of info on there to have a look at your behaviour etc etc and see if theres a problem to identify . One of the main things I would to suggest to someone who was wondering if they had a problem would be to check it out. "

Thank you - I will do that

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By *picyminxWoman  over a year ago

Huntingdon


"#anotherophaslotsofsexpost

Oh get over youself and stop hounding me...it smacks of jealousy and insecurity...others do not feel the same way...try taking a reality check ffs...

In answer to your original question; I am not sure that I am addicted to sex for the sake of it- I don't have sex for the sake of it. However! I do think I am addicted to the thrill that a particular type of sex with a particular type of person or people can have.

In response to the quote above, you really do seem to have posted quite a lot of stuff recently about what you have been getting up to, in a round about way. And that does smack of a certain... Look-at-me-aren't-I-awesome-cos-I'm-having-sex kind of thing. Most of us just quietly go about our business without drawing attention to the fact that we are having sex....

What the lady said...

Personally I dont have an alpha male superego about having meets. Yes I have them. Yes I display veris. No, I don't go starting threads about it so people can put me on a pedestal for having meets. Yes, I have many friends on here that are not simply potential notches on a (metaphorical) bedpost. No, im not bragging.

and perhaps you are not intelligent enough to see that was in no way my intention when I started this thread...someone who hardly gets to drink can hardly understand the plight of a person suffering from alcoholism!! you are so damn rude, you are rude to so many people on here, I'm surprised you ever get laid to be honest.

Obviously I do not get laid by the kind of idiots who chose to contribute in such a negative fashion and personal manner in threads I start - and long may that be the case...as you will be well aware I get laid by plenty of others and we have a very pleasant time together ....thank you very much

There! He said it again! He gets laid!!! Woooooooo! Bring on the cheerleaders everyone!!

Oh ffs....we all know that from the outset of this thread ...it is at the very heart of it, so hardly the thing I am trying to draw attention too...if indeed I am 12 years old, you my dear have the learning age of a 6 year old!

Oh my god, now he's taking the piss out of learning disabilities! Dude! You really can't sink any lower, surely?!!

No I wasn't - you lot really bore me to tears ...little gang of sheep...bahhhh!!

Does that make you the shepherd? Bit of a Jesus complex going on too? It really is quite immature and puerile when you have to resort to insulting people who don't agree with you. You have been around long enough to know when to maybe concede with grace and humility. I would suggest now may be the time to sleep on it and come back to the fold with a slightly less confrontational attitude and less of an ego...and now my children, let us pray..

nope...makes me a black sheep as opposed to a white one and quite proud to be so...I have been all my life and have long ago given trying to fit in with the majority....

But when you get down to it, past the outer veneer there is no real difference between the sheep..just a black sheep in a white flock is an easier target. Its easy enough to be man (or woman) enough to cut your own detail and make your own way and do your own thing. I just dont see the need to be a dick about it and piss everyone off though-all in the name of being different.

You do in fact seem like a bright and none judgemental bloke.

If you will allow me to bare my soul for a moment I shall to elaborate on my reasons for starting this particular thread, which once again I reiterate I had no intention of making into a 'look at me thread' although I have certainly been guilty of that in the past.

I cam out of a long term relationship in the early part of this year (one where sex had become increasingly infrequent). In the months since I have found myself having an increasing amount of sex and with an ever increasing number of partners ( and no I am not trying to blow my own trumpet in saying this).

Recently this has reached a point where despite having sex on an almost daily basis (with partners both on and off fab), I have found myself increasingly unable to feel sated and seem to spend a greater and greater amount of time seeking out new sexual gratification and in ever greater variations on the basic theme.

This is troubling me and I was interested in hearing from others on this site (as I felt there might be some), who had been troubled by a similar period in their own experiences. Indeed there were a number of earlier posters to this thread who shared similar concerns and experiences which had forced them to revise their behaviour.

I became angered (rightlfully so I believe), when a number of nocturnal forum dwellers decided to turn this thread into a bit of an OP witch hunt and seemed oblivious to or unconvinced of my intentions when starting the debate.

I do not care that a number on here will only see or hear what they want to, nor do I care that they judge me in whatever way they see fit, however I do feel it is my right to defend my position, especially given the validity of my concerns relating to how my current sex life is affecting my life in general.

I said it before but it seems you overlooked my comment. Go to the SLAA website and the 40 questions of SLAA and answer them. .. Simples

I am sorry I didn't overlook it but I have no idea what the SLAA website is...

Sex and love addiction anonymous. Lots and lots of info on there to have a look at your behaviour etc etc and see if theres a problem to identify . One of the main things I would to suggest to someone who was wondering if they had a problem would be to check it out.

Thank you - I will do that "

.

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By *picyminxWoman  over a year ago

Huntingdon


"#anotherophaslotsofsexpost

Oh get over youself and stop hounding me...it smacks of jealousy and insecurity...others do not feel the same way...try taking a reality check ffs...

In answer to your original question; I am not sure that I am addicted to sex for the sake of it- I don't have sex for the sake of it. However! I do think I am addicted to the thrill that a particular type of sex with a particular type of person or people can have.

In response to the quote above, you really do seem to have posted quite a lot of stuff recently about what you have been getting up to, in a round about way. And that does smack of a certain... Look-at-me-aren't-I-awesome-cos-I'm-having-sex kind of thing. Most of us just quietly go about our business without drawing attention to the fact that we are having sex....

What the lady said...

Personally I dont have an alpha male superego about having meets. Yes I have them. Yes I display veris. No, I don't go starting threads about it so people can put me on a pedestal for having meets. Yes, I have many friends on here that are not simply potential notches on a (metaphorical) bedpost. No, im not bragging.

and perhaps you are not intelligent enough to see that was in no way my intention when I started this thread...someone who hardly gets to drink can hardly understand the plight of a person suffering from alcoholism!! you are so damn rude, you are rude to so many people on here, I'm surprised you ever get laid to be honest.

Obviously I do not get laid by the kind of idiots who chose to contribute in such a negative fashion and personal manner in threads I start - and long may that be the case...as you will be well aware I get laid by plenty of others and we have a very pleasant time together ....thank you very much

There! He said it again! He gets laid!!! Woooooooo! Bring on the cheerleaders everyone!!

Oh ffs....we all know that from the outset of this thread ...it is at the very heart of it, so hardly the thing I am trying to draw attention too...if indeed I am 12 years old, you my dear have the learning age of a 6 year old!

Oh my god, now he's taking the piss out of learning disabilities! Dude! You really can't sink any lower, surely?!!

No I wasn't - you lot really bore me to tears ...little gang of sheep...bahhhh!!

Does that make you the shepherd? Bit of a Jesus complex going on too? It really is quite immature and puerile when you have to resort to insulting people who don't agree with you. You have been around long enough to know when to maybe concede with grace and humility. I would suggest now may be the time to sleep on it and come back to the fold with a slightly less confrontational attitude and less of an ego...and now my children, let us pray..

nope...makes me a black sheep as opposed to a white one and quite proud to be so...I have been all my life and have long ago given trying to fit in with the majority....

But when you get down to it, past the outer veneer there is no real difference between the sheep..just a black sheep in a white flock is an easier target. Its easy enough to be man (or woman) enough to cut your own detail and make your own way and do your own thing. I just dont see the need to be a dick about it and piss everyone off though-all in the name of being different.

You do in fact seem like a bright and none judgemental bloke.

If you will allow me to bare my soul for a moment I shall to elaborate on my reasons for starting this particular thread, which once again I reiterate I had no intention of making into a 'look at me thread' although I have certainly been guilty of that in the past.

I cam out of a long term relationship in the early part of this year (one where sex had become increasingly infrequent). In the months since I have found myself having an increasing amount of sex and with an ever increasing number of partners ( and no I am not trying to blow my own trumpet in saying this).

Recently this has reached a point where despite having sex on an almost daily basis (with partners both on and off fab), I have found myself increasingly unable to feel sated and seem to spend a greater and greater amount of time seeking out new sexual gratification and in ever greater variations on the basic theme.

This is troubling me and I was interested in hearing from others on this site (as I felt there might be some), who had been troubled by a similar period in their own experiences. Indeed there were a number of earlier posters to this thread who shared similar concerns and experiences which had forced them to revise their behaviour.

I became angered (rightlfully so I believe), when a number of nocturnal forum dwellers decided to turn this thread into a bit of an OP witch hunt and seemed oblivious to or unconvinced of my intentions when starting the debate.

I do not care that a number on here will only see or hear what they want to, nor do I care that they judge me in whatever way they see fit, however I do feel it is my right to defend my position, especially given the validity of my concerns relating to how my current sex life is affecting my life in general.

I said it before but it seems you overlooked my comment. Go to the SLAA website and the 40 questions of SLAA and answer them. .. Simples

I am sorry I didn't overlook it but I have no idea what the SLAA website is...

Sex and love addiction anonymous. Lots and lots of info on there to have a look at your behaviour etc etc and see if theres a problem to identify . One of the main things I would to suggest to someone who was wondering if they had a problem would be to check it out.

Thank you - I will do that

. "

Look for the 40 questions

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By *olarfox OP   Man  over a year ago

North Cambs


"#anotherophaslotsofsexpost

Oh get over youself and stop hounding me...it smacks of jealousy and insecurity...others do not feel the same way...try taking a reality check ffs...

In answer to your original question; I am not sure that I am addicted to sex for the sake of it- I don't have sex for the sake of it. However! I do think I am addicted to the thrill that a particular type of sex with a particular type of person or people can have.

In response to the quote above, you really do seem to have posted quite a lot of stuff recently about what you have been getting up to, in a round about way. And that does smack of a certain... Look-at-me-aren't-I-awesome-cos-I'm-having-sex kind of thing. Most of us just quietly go about our business without drawing attention to the fact that we are having sex....

What the lady said...

Personally I dont have an alpha male superego about having meets. Yes I have them. Yes I display veris. No, I don't go starting threads about it so people can put me on a pedestal for having meets. Yes, I have many friends on here that are not simply potential notches on a (metaphorical) bedpost. No, im not bragging.

and perhaps you are not intelligent enough to see that was in no way my intention when I started this thread...someone who hardly gets to drink can hardly understand the plight of a person suffering from alcoholism!! you are so damn rude, you are rude to so many people on here, I'm surprised you ever get laid to be honest.

Obviously I do not get laid by the kind of idiots who chose to contribute in such a negative fashion and personal manner in threads I start - and long may that be the case...as you will be well aware I get laid by plenty of others and we have a very pleasant time together ....thank you very much

There! He said it again! He gets laid!!! Woooooooo! Bring on the cheerleaders everyone!!

Oh ffs....we all know that from the outset of this thread ...it is at the very heart of it, so hardly the thing I am trying to draw attention too...if indeed I am 12 years old, you my dear have the learning age of a 6 year old!

Oh my god, now he's taking the piss out of learning disabilities! Dude! You really can't sink any lower, surely?!!

No I wasn't - you lot really bore me to tears ...little gang of sheep...bahhhh!!

Does that make you the shepherd? Bit of a Jesus complex going on too? It really is quite immature and puerile when you have to resort to insulting people who don't agree with you. You have been around long enough to know when to maybe concede with grace and humility. I would suggest now may be the time to sleep on it and come back to the fold with a slightly less confrontational attitude and less of an ego...and now my children, let us pray..

nope...makes me a black sheep as opposed to a white one and quite proud to be so...I have been all my life and have long ago given trying to fit in with the majority....

But when you get down to it, past the outer veneer there is no real difference between the sheep..just a black sheep in a white flock is an easier target. Its easy enough to be man (or woman) enough to cut your own detail and make your own way and do your own thing. I just dont see the need to be a dick about it and piss everyone off though-all in the name of being different.

You do in fact seem like a bright and none judgemental bloke.

If you will allow me to bare my soul for a moment I shall to elaborate on my reasons for starting this particular thread, which once again I reiterate I had no intention of making into a 'look at me thread' although I have certainly been guilty of that in the past.

I cam out of a long term relationship in the early part of this year (one where sex had become increasingly infrequent). In the months since I have found myself having an increasing amount of sex and with an ever increasing number of partners ( and no I am not trying to blow my own trumpet in saying this).

Recently this has reached a point where despite having sex on an almost daily basis (with partners both on and off fab), I have found myself increasingly unable to feel sated and seem to spend a greater and greater amount of time seeking out new sexual gratification and in ever greater variations on the basic theme.

This is troubling me and I was interested in hearing from others on this site (as I felt there might be some), who had been troubled by a similar period in their own experiences. Indeed there were a number of earlier posters to this thread who shared similar concerns and experiences which had forced them to revise their behaviour.

I became angered (rightlfully so I believe), when a number of nocturnal forum dwellers decided to turn this thread into a bit of an OP witch hunt and seemed oblivious to or unconvinced of my intentions when starting the debate.

I do not care that a number on here will only see or hear what they want to, nor do I care that they judge me in whatever way they see fit, however I do feel it is my right to defend my position, especially given the validity of my concerns relating to how my current sex life is affecting my life in general.

I said it before but it seems you overlooked my comment. Go to the SLAA website and the 40 questions of SLAA and answer them. .. Simples

I am sorry I didn't overlook it but I have no idea what the SLAA website is...

Sex and love addiction anonymous. Lots and lots of info on there to have a look at your behaviour etc etc and see if theres a problem to identify . One of the main things I would to suggest to someone who was wondering if they had a problem would be to check it out.

Thank you - I will do that

.

Look for the 40 questions "

I have just looked briefly at the website and the 40 questions - I reckon that at a quick glance I would answer yes to at least 30 of them...

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By *picyminxWoman  over a year ago

Huntingdon


"#anotherophaslotsofsexpost

Oh get over youself and stop hounding me...it smacks of jealousy and insecurity...others do not feel the same way...try taking a reality check ffs...

In answer to your original question; I am not sure that I am addicted to sex for the sake of it- I don't have sex for the sake of it. However! I do think I am addicted to the thrill that a particular type of sex with a particular type of person or people can have.

In response to the quote above, you really do seem to have posted quite a lot of stuff recently about what you have been getting up to, in a round about way. And that does smack of a certain... Look-at-me-aren't-I-awesome-cos-I'm-having-sex kind of thing. Most of us just quietly go about our business without drawing attention to the fact that we are having sex....

What the lady said...

Personally I dont have an alpha male superego about having meets. Yes I have them. Yes I display veris. No, I don't go starting threads about it so people can put me on a pedestal for having meets. Yes, I have many friends on here that are not simply potential notches on a (metaphorical) bedpost. No, im not bragging.

and perhaps you are not intelligent enough to see that was in no way my intention when I started this thread...someone who hardly gets to drink can hardly understand the plight of a person suffering from alcoholism!! you are so damn rude, you are rude to so many people on here, I'm surprised you ever get laid to be honest.

Obviously I do not get laid by the kind of idiots who chose to contribute in such a negative fashion and personal manner in threads I start - and long may that be the case...as you will be well aware I get laid by plenty of others and we have a very pleasant time together ....thank you very much

There! He said it again! He gets laid!!! Woooooooo! Bring on the cheerleaders everyone!!

Oh ffs....we all know that from the outset of this thread ...it is at the very heart of it, so hardly the thing I am trying to draw attention too...if indeed I am 12 years old, you my dear have the learning age of a 6 year old!

Oh my god, now he's taking the piss out of learning disabilities! Dude! You really can't sink any lower, surely?!!

No I wasn't - you lot really bore me to tears ...little gang of sheep...bahhhh!!

Does that make you the shepherd? Bit of a Jesus complex going on too? It really is quite immature and puerile when you have to resort to insulting people who don't agree with you. You have been around long enough to know when to maybe concede with grace and humility. I would suggest now may be the time to sleep on it and come back to the fold with a slightly less confrontational attitude and less of an ego...and now my children, let us pray..

nope...makes me a black sheep as opposed to a white one and quite proud to be so...I have been all my life and have long ago given trying to fit in with the majority....

But when you get down to it, past the outer veneer there is no real difference between the sheep..just a black sheep in a white flock is an easier target. Its easy enough to be man (or woman) enough to cut your own detail and make your own way and do your own thing. I just dont see the need to be a dick about it and piss everyone off though-all in the name of being different.

You do in fact seem like a bright and none judgemental bloke.

If you will allow me to bare my soul for a moment I shall to elaborate on my reasons for starting this particular thread, which once again I reiterate I had no intention of making into a 'look at me thread' although I have certainly been guilty of that in the past.

I cam out of a long term relationship in the early part of this year (one where sex had become increasingly infrequent). In the months since I have found myself having an increasing amount of sex and with an ever increasing number of partners ( and no I am not trying to blow my own trumpet in saying this).

Recently this has reached a point where despite having sex on an almost daily basis (with partners both on and off fab), I have found myself increasingly unable to feel sated and seem to spend a greater and greater amount of time seeking out new sexual gratification and in ever greater variations on the basic theme.

This is troubling me and I was interested in hearing from others on this site (as I felt there might be some), who had been troubled by a similar period in their own experiences. Indeed there were a number of earlier posters to this thread who shared similar concerns and experiences which had forced them to revise their behaviour.

I became angered (rightlfully so I believe), when a number of nocturnal forum dwellers decided to turn this thread into a bit of an OP witch hunt and seemed oblivious to or unconvinced of my intentions when starting the debate.

I do not care that a number on here will only see or hear what they want to, nor do I care that they judge me in whatever way they see fit, however I do feel it is my right to defend my position, especially given the validity of my concerns relating to how my current sex life is affecting my life in general.

I said it before but it seems you overlooked my comment. Go to the SLAA website and the 40 questions of SLAA and answer them. .. Simples

I am sorry I didn't overlook it but I have no idea what the SLAA website is...

Sex and love addiction anonymous. Lots and lots of info on there to have a look at your behaviour etc etc and see if theres a problem to identify . One of the main things I would to suggest to someone who was wondering if they had a problem would be to check it out.

Thank you - I will do that

.

Look for the 40 questions

I have just looked briefly at the website and the 40 questions - I reckon that at a quick glance I would answer yes to at least 30 of them..."

Probably more if you looked at past behaviour too and not just present lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I guess over the time we have been in fab , we have been guilty at times of a certain sin on the forums . That being that we meet and play way too often for the majority on the forums judgement .

I do think when you are buzzing , it's easy to be a bit narcissistic , without realising it .

This thread however , doesn't seem like a look at me and how well I'm doing thread . The op seems genuinely concerned at his frequency of sexual meets with different partners . Where does the desire to continue this take over and become an addiction ?

Having just got home from a Mmmf and a mmmmff meet tonight ( lol .... ) I don't have time to sit here chatting for too long , but there really does seem to be a bit of a witch hunt going on against him at the moment "

Does every post you make need to have a reference to how much the forum hates you and how you don't fit in? Because I have to say I see overwhelmingly positive posts towards you guys and I think it's you who feel you need some kind of outcast status, I don't know why, maybe to make you feel 'edgy'. And yes I appreciate the irony that this probably reads like quite a bitchy post.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

To the OP, if viewed in isolation then yeah this thread does appear to have taken an odd turn. But you'd started maybe 6 threads in 24 hours on the topics of verifications, types and number of meets. I came to the same conclusion as a lot of other people that it's all a big look at me exercise. Which is fine, we're all here to drive attention to our profiles but when you respond aggressively to those who suggest that's what you're doing then act like a martyr it's a bit frustrating. You obviously have forthright views on things (e.g. overweight women) which you've expressed before towards people and they remember that. All these factors influence the way people respond to you. Sometimes a bunch of people arriving at the same conclusion aren't being sheep or part of a witch hunt as you claim, but are just a logical response to the threads you post and the way you respond to people on them.

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By *olarfox OP   Man  over a year ago

North Cambs


"#anotherophaslotsofsexpost

Oh get over youself and stop hounding me...it smacks of jealousy and insecurity...others do not feel the same way...try taking a reality check ffs...

In answer to your original question; I am not sure that I am addicted to sex for the sake of it- I don't have sex for the sake of it. However! I do think I am addicted to the thrill that a particular type of sex with a particular type of person or people can have.

In response to the quote above, you really do seem to have posted quite a lot of stuff recently about what you have been getting up to, in a round about way. And that does smack of a certain... Look-at-me-aren't-I-awesome-cos-I'm-having-sex kind of thing. Most of us just quietly go about our business without drawing attention to the fact that we are having sex....

What the lady said...

Personally I dont have an alpha male superego about having meets. Yes I have them. Yes I display veris. No, I don't go starting threads about it so people can put me on a pedestal for having meets. Yes, I have many friends on here that are not simply potential notches on a (metaphorical) bedpost. No, im not bragging.

and perhaps you are not intelligent enough to see that was in no way my intention when I started this thread...someone who hardly gets to drink can hardly understand the plight of a person suffering from alcoholism!! you are so damn rude, you are rude to so many people on here, I'm surprised you ever get laid to be honest.

Obviously I do not get laid by the kind of idiots who chose to contribute in such a negative fashion and personal manner in threads I start - and long may that be the case...as you will be well aware I get laid by plenty of others and we have a very pleasant time together ....thank you very much

There! He said it again! He gets laid!!! Woooooooo! Bring on the cheerleaders everyone!!

Oh ffs....we all know that from the outset of this thread ...it is at the very heart of it, so hardly the thing I am trying to draw attention too...if indeed I am 12 years old, you my dear have the learning age of a 6 year old!

Oh my god, now he's taking the piss out of learning disabilities! Dude! You really can't sink any lower, surely?!!

No I wasn't - you lot really bore me to tears ...little gang of sheep...bahhhh!!

Does that make you the shepherd? Bit of a Jesus complex going on too? It really is quite immature and puerile when you have to resort to insulting people who don't agree with you. You have been around long enough to know when to maybe concede with grace and humility. I would suggest now may be the time to sleep on it and come back to the fold with a slightly less confrontational attitude and less of an ego...and now my children, let us pray..

nope...makes me a black sheep as opposed to a white one and quite proud to be so...I have been all my life and have long ago given trying to fit in with the majority....

But when you get down to it, past the outer veneer there is no real difference between the sheep..just a black sheep in a white flock is an easier target. Its easy enough to be man (or woman) enough to cut your own detail and make your own way and do your own thing. I just dont see the need to be a dick about it and piss everyone off though-all in the name of being different.

You do in fact seem like a bright and none judgemental bloke.

If you will allow me to bare my soul for a moment I shall to elaborate on my reasons for starting this particular thread, which once again I reiterate I had no intention of making into a 'look at me thread' although I have certainly been guilty of that in the past.

I cam out of a long term relationship in the early part of this year (one where sex had become increasingly infrequent). In the months since I have found myself having an increasing amount of sex and with an ever increasing number of partners ( and no I am not trying to blow my own trumpet in saying this).

Recently this has reached a point where despite having sex on an almost daily basis (with partners both on and off fab), I have found myself increasingly unable to feel sated and seem to spend a greater and greater amount of time seeking out new sexual gratification and in ever greater variations on the basic theme.

This is troubling me and I was interested in hearing from others on this site (as I felt there might be some), who had been troubled by a similar period in their own experiences. Indeed there were a number of earlier posters to this thread who shared similar concerns and experiences which had forced them to revise their behaviour.

I became angered (rightlfully so I believe), when a number of nocturnal forum dwellers decided to turn this thread into a bit of an OP witch hunt and seemed oblivious to or unconvinced of my intentions when starting the debate.

I do not care that a number on here will only see or hear what they want to, nor do I care that they judge me in whatever way they see fit, however I do feel it is my right to defend my position, especially given the validity of my concerns relating to how my current sex life is affecting my life in general.

I said it before but it seems you overlooked my comment. Go to the SLAA website and the 40 questions of SLAA and answer them. .. Simples

I am sorry I didn't overlook it but I have no idea what the SLAA website is...

Sex and love addiction anonymous. Lots and lots of info on there to have a look at your behaviour etc etc and see if theres a problem to identify . One of the main things I would to suggest to someone who was wondering if they had a problem would be to check it out.

Thank you - I will do that

.

Look for the 40 questions

I have just looked briefly at the website and the 40 questions - I reckon that at a quick glance I would answer yes to at least 30 of them...

Probably more if you looked at past behaviour too and not just present lol"

True - and what does that indicate? A need for help?

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By *olarfox OP   Man  over a year ago

North Cambs


"To the OP, if viewed in isolation then yeah this thread does appear to have taken an odd turn. But you'd started maybe 6 threads in 24 hours on the topics of verifications, types and number of meets. I came to the same conclusion as a lot of other people that it's all a big look at me exercise. Which is fine, we're all here to drive attention to our profiles but when you respond aggressively to those who suggest that's what you're doing then act like a martyr it's a bit frustrating. You obviously have forthright views on things (e.g. overweight women) which you've expressed before towards people and they remember that. All these factors influence the way people respond to you. Sometimes a bunch of people arriving at the same conclusion aren't being sheep or part of a witch hunt as you claim, but are just a logical response to the threads you post and the way you respond to people on them. "

On reflection the above is fair comment...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Have you ever worried that you might be addicted to sex. To the extent that it starts to occupy practically your every waking moment and ends up getting in the way of other stuff in life?

No. I have other more important things in life which take priority

I also don't re-verify and nor do special people meet me"

I see what you did

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By *picyminxWoman  over a year ago

Huntingdon


"#anotherophaslotsofsexpost

Oh get over youself and stop hounding me...it smacks of jealousy and insecurity...others do not feel the same way...try taking a reality check ffs...

In answer to your original question; I am not sure that I am addicted to sex for the sake of it- I don't have sex for the sake of it. However! I do think I am addicted to the thrill that a particular type of sex with a particular type of person or people can have.

In response to the quote above, you really do seem to have posted quite a lot of stuff recently about what you have been getting up to, in a round about way. And that does smack of a certain... Look-at-me-aren't-I-awesome-cos-I'm-having-sex kind of thing. Most of us just quietly go about our business without drawing attention to the fact that we are having sex....

What the lady said...

Personally I dont have an alpha male superego about having meets. Yes I have them. Yes I display veris. No, I don't go starting threads about it so people can put me on a pedestal for having meets. Yes, I have many friends on here that are not simply potential notches on a (metaphorical) bedpost. No, im not bragging.

and perhaps you are not intelligent enough to see that was in no way my intention when I started this thread...someone who hardly gets to drink can hardly understand the plight of a person suffering from alcoholism!! you are so damn rude, you are rude to so many people on here, I'm surprised you ever get laid to be honest.

Obviously I do not get laid by the kind of idiots who chose to contribute in such a negative fashion and personal manner in threads I start - and long may that be the case...as you will be well aware I get laid by plenty of others and we have a very pleasant time together ....thank you very much

There! He said it again! He gets laid!!! Woooooooo! Bring on the cheerleaders everyone!!

Oh ffs....we all know that from the outset of this thread ...it is at the very heart of it, so hardly the thing I am trying to draw attention too...if indeed I am 12 years old, you my dear have the learning age of a 6 year old!

Oh my god, now he's taking the piss out of learning disabilities! Dude! You really can't sink any lower, surely?!!

No I wasn't - you lot really bore me to tears ...little gang of sheep...bahhhh!!

Does that make you the shepherd? Bit of a Jesus complex going on too? It really is quite immature and puerile when you have to resort to insulting people who don't agree with you. You have been around long enough to know when to maybe concede with grace and humility. I would suggest now may be the time to sleep on it and come back to the fold with a slightly less confrontational attitude and less of an ego...and now my children, let us pray..

nope...makes me a black sheep as opposed to a white one and quite proud to be so...I have been all my life and have long ago given trying to fit in with the majority....

But when you get down to it, past the outer veneer there is no real difference between the sheep..just a black sheep in a white flock is an easier target. Its easy enough to be man (or woman) enough to cut your own detail and make your own way and do your own thing. I just dont see the need to be a dick about it and piss everyone off though-all in the name of being different.

You do in fact seem like a bright and none judgemental bloke.

If you will allow me to bare my soul for a moment I shall to elaborate on my reasons for starting this particular thread, which once again I reiterate I had no intention of making into a 'look at me thread' although I have certainly been guilty of that in the past.

I cam out of a long term relationship in the early part of this year (one where sex had become increasingly infrequent). In the months since I have found myself having an increasing amount of sex and with an ever increasing number of partners ( and no I am not trying to blow my own trumpet in saying this).

Recently this has reached a point where despite having sex on an almost daily basis (with partners both on and off fab), I have found myself increasingly unable to feel sated and seem to spend a greater and greater amount of time seeking out new sexual gratification and in ever greater variations on the basic theme.

This is troubling me and I was interested in hearing from others on this site (as I felt there might be some), who had been troubled by a similar period in their own experiences. Indeed there were a number of earlier posters to this thread who shared similar concerns and experiences which had forced them to revise their behaviour.

I became angered (rightlfully so I believe), when a number of nocturnal forum dwellers decided to turn this thread into a bit of an OP witch hunt and seemed oblivious to or unconvinced of my intentions when starting the debate.

I do not care that a number on here will only see or hear what they want to, nor do I care that they judge me in whatever way they see fit, however I do feel it is my right to defend my position, especially given the validity of my concerns relating to how my current sex life is affecting my life in general.

I said it before but it seems you overlooked my comment. Go to the SLAA website and the 40 questions of SLAA and answer them. .. Simples

I am sorry I didn't overlook it but I have no idea what the SLAA website is...

Sex and love addiction anonymous. Lots and lots of info on there to have a look at your behaviour etc etc and see if theres a problem to identify . One of the main things I would to suggest to someone who was wondering if they had a problem would be to check it out.

Thank you - I will do that

.

Look for the 40 questions

I have just looked briefly at the website and the 40 questions - I reckon that at a quick glance I would answer yes to at least 30 of them...

Probably more if you looked at past behaviour too and not just present lol

True - and what does that indicate? A need for help?"

I guess that depends on if you're harming yourself or others. That's for you to decide.

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By *ieutenantMan  over a year ago

london

Sex addiction is best described as a progressive intimacy disorder characterized by compulsive sexual thoughts and acts.

In fact I saw the full devastating effect on my (friend) the negative impact on the family members as the disorder progresses.

Most sex addict don't admit they are before they seek medical help. Thank god my friend is back and happy with her life.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Op if you can't remember why you have been called out for being rude to someone on a personal level perhaps jog your memory with the green arrow?

It's the only time on here we have felt the need to actually PM someone a message of support on here.

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By *picyminxWoman  over a year ago

Huntingdon


"Sex addiction is best described as a progressive intimacy disorder characterized by compulsive sexual thoughts and acts.

In fact I saw the full devastating effect on my (friend) the negative impact on the family members as the disorder progresses.

Most sex addict don't admit they are before they seek medical help. Thank god my friend is back and happy with her life. "

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman  over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"

Which is? do you know me? Do any of you other than those who have met me?

well as you ask ... what I see is a guy that has just realised he can meet women online and that the women he can meet online will let him dominate them. He is new to it and doesn't really know what he is doing. He is enjoying the power it is giving him and doesn't know how to handle it or his new found freedoms. He feels on top of the world and he's walking round his office feeling top bollocks.

The women he's with realise his immaturity and have given him leeway but have seen him grow a little too, and are sizing him up for bf/gf relationships but he is looking for a exit plan. All the while he is wondering how far he can push more extreme sex or get the fantasy's / bed notches as he wants to talk about them down the pub."

Bollocks! No one dominates me!

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By *oodmessMan  over a year ago

yumsville


"

Which is? do you know me? Do any of you other than those who have met me?

well as you ask ... what I see is a guy that has just realised he can meet women online and that the women he can meet online will let him dominate them. He is new to it and doesn't really know what he is doing. He is enjoying the power it is giving him and doesn't know how to handle it or his new found freedoms. He feels on top of the world and he's walking round his office feeling top bollocks.

The women he's with realise his immaturity and have given him leeway but have seen him grow a little too, and are sizing him up for bf/gf relationships but he is looking for a exit plan. All the while he is wondering how far he can push more extreme sex or get the fantasy's / bed notches as he wants to talk about them down the pub.

Bollocks! No one dominates me!"

If you read what he writes later, this isn't actually too far off the mark.

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By *olarfox OP   Man  over a year ago

North Cambs


"Op if you can't remember why you have been called out for being rude to someone on a personal level perhaps jog your memory with the green arrow?

It's the only time on here we have felt the need to actually PM someone a message of support on here.

I'm sorry I do not follow your advise - do you mean to look through all your previous posts to try and find an example of where I was rude to someone?

I never seek to be actively rude to anyone, however, I do sometimes retaliate when I feel people are attacking me in an unreasonable fashion.

I have always thought you two and I get on rather well on here - it would be sad to think I am also mistaken about that...

"

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By *olarfox OP   Man  over a year ago

North Cambs


"

Which is? do you know me? Do any of you other than those who have met me?

well as you ask ... what I see is a guy that has just realised he can meet women online and that the women he can meet online will let him dominate them. He is new to it and doesn't really know what he is doing. He is enjoying the power it is giving him and doesn't know how to handle it or his new found freedoms. He feels on top of the world and he's walking round his office feeling top bollocks.

The women he's with realise his immaturity and have given him leeway but have seen him grow a little too, and are sizing him up for bf/gf relationships but he is looking for a exit plan. All the while he is wondering how far he can push more extreme sex or get the fantasy's / bed notches as he wants to talk about them down the pub.

Bollocks! No one dominates me!

If you read what he writes later, this isn't actually too far off the mark.

"

What isn't???

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By *iamondjoeMan  over a year ago

Glastonbury

Yes, the question has been put to me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Have you ever worried that you might be addicted to sex. To the extent that it starts to occupy practically your every waking moment and ends up getting in the way of other stuff in life?"

Yes very much so.....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Op if you can't remember why you have been called out for being rude to someone on a personal level perhaps jog your memory with the green arrow?

It's the only time on here we have felt the need to actually PM someone a message of support on here.

I'm sorry I do not follow your advise - do you mean to look through all your previous posts to try and find an example of where I was rude to someone?

I never seek to be actively rude to anyone, however, I do sometimes retaliate when I feel people are attacking me in an unreasonable fashion.

I have always thought you two and I get on rather well on here - it would be sad to think I am also mistaken about that...

"

You seem to have a persecution complex on here. You said something to someone else where we thought you were being out of order. You are now reading other things into it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

Which is? do you know me? Do any of you other than those who have met me?

well as you ask ... what I see is a guy that has just realised he can meet women online and that the women he can meet online will let him dominate them. He is new to it and doesn't really know what he is doing. He is enjoying the power it is giving him and doesn't know how to handle it or his new found freedoms. He feels on top of the world and he's walking round his office feeling top bollocks.

The women he's with realise his immaturity and have given him leeway but have seen him grow a little too, and are sizing him up for bf/gf relationships but he is looking for a exit plan. All the while he is wondering how far he can push more extreme sex or get the fantasy's / bed notches as he wants to talk about them down the pub."

I think that's remarkably unkind.

Sex addiction is something serious, that I would suggest many here are suffering from without even realising it. It's a common topic for discussion in the kink world as people become concerned about being more adventurous each time.

I see someone who has found sexual freedom and is enjoying new experiences - while being worried that it is impacting on their daily life a little more than they would like.

It's a good thing to consider. And I would have thought, not an unusual subject for discussion on a swingers site.

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By *olarfox OP   Man  over a year ago

North Cambs


"Op if you can't remember why you have been called out for being rude to someone on a personal level perhaps jog your memory with the green arrow?

It's the only time on here we have felt the need to actually PM someone a message of support on here.

I'm sorry I do not follow your advise - do you mean to look through all your previous posts to try and find an example of where I was rude to someone?

I never seek to be actively rude to anyone, however, I do sometimes retaliate when I feel people are attacking me in an unreasonable fashion.

I have always thought you two and I get on rather well on here - it would be sad to think I am also mistaken about that...

You seem to have a persecution complex on here. You said something to someone else where we thought you were being out of order. You are now reading other things into it. "

I'm sorry if I come across like that.

I'm afraid I do not remember the incident you are referring to.

I do feel that it is often the case in threads that I start that a number of people on here who have decided they really don't like me (for what ever reasons - and that is their right), decide to all attack me and in doing so take a thread which was previously constructive and informative completely off track...this happened again to this particular thread last night...I just like to stick up for myself when people get personal...at least that is how I see it

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