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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

Who here publishes or indeed writes verifications for return meets - I for one do not as I do not see the point...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Dude you're obsessed with verifications.

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By *imiUKMan over a year ago

Hereford

Depends how amusing/sarcastic the veri is. They are only a bit of a laugh after all...

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

"Dude you're obsessed with verifications. "

Nope - just relates to a point which was made just a few minutes ago by someone in a pm to me stating that they would be put off by seeing that I don't have any return meets - which is not in fact the case...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Does it really mater? We are all different. I will re verify if it's been a while I between meets

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

"Does it really mater? We are all different. I will re verify if it's been a while I between meets "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Funnily enough I don't always veri the 1st meet let alone the return.

It varies from person to person, some people love to veri every time they meet, for others once / twice suffices.

Don't try and please the masses just do what's right for you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I had one I saw every two weeks but our veris were like a story lol when I stopped seeing him people were asking for the next part it was quite humorous

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

Sometimes, sometimes not. More worrying is people who care what others think about their verifications

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i just verify anyone who verifies me, if they do it more than once then i'm happy to reverify them back.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Dude you're obsessed with verifications. "

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By *imiUKMan over a year ago

Hereford

"Funnily enough I don't always veri the 1st meet let alone the return.

It varies from person to person, some people love to veri every time they meet, for others once / twice suffices.

Don't try and please the masses just do what's right for you.

I don't always verify either - lots of people aren't bothered about them, and I couldn't give a crap if my meets verify me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Dude you're obsessed with verifications. "

Maybe he just wants us to know that he's having more sex than what's displayed in his veris?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Dude you're obsessed with verifications. "
lol I noticed that too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do. I see a veri almost like an extension of the meet itself and enjoy reading and writing them. I do it for the myself and the person I've met and I don't care what anyone else thinks about it.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Once you've verified you've verified. I have multiple meets but don't keep verifying each other,apart from one guy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Funnily enough I don't always veri the 1st meet let alone the return.

It varies from person to person, some people love to veri every time they meet, for others once / twice suffices.

Don't try and please the masses just do what's right for you.

I don't always verify either - lots of people aren't bothered about them, and I couldn't give a crap if my meets verify me. "

I'll bear that in mind

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I do. I see a veri almost like an extension of the meet itself and enjoy reading and writing them. I do it for the myself and the person I've met and I don't care what anyone else thinks about it."

This.

Although I think twice is the most we veri. Once for the initial meet and again for a second meet. Although many of our initial meets are just socials so the second veri is a bit different.

-Courtney

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By *imiUKMan over a year ago

Hereford

"Funnily enough I don't always veri the 1st meet let alone the return.

It varies from person to person, some people love to veri every time they meet, for others once / twice suffices.

Don't try and please the masses just do what's right for you.

I don't always verify either - lots of people aren't bothered about them, and I couldn't give a crap if my meets verify me.

I'll bear that in mind

Please do.

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By *hortieWoman over a year ago

Northampton

I have left about 3 (maybe 4?) veris for a playmate I see regularly.. but haven't for a good few months, cause I don't want to upset his chances by readers thinking I am some sort of protective maniac

. Plus we see eachother once maybe twice a week.

A few are ok (in my eyes) to show that they do repeat meets. But if I see weekly blow by blow accounts, then it doesn't quite put me off, but makes me a tad cautious that the female might be a bit possesive.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When I was new member ladies wanted to see my verifications before chatting never mind meeting.

Now I'm not chasing females around here for a bit of the old sex they're hidden, which is a good job because I've just looked at them and they're gone because all but one of my verifiers have left Fab.

Maybe I should work on getting more verifications

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Who here publishes or indeed writes verifications for return meets - I for one do not as I do not see the point..."

I discourage all verifications because I don't really think it's anybody elses business who (or how many) I'm meeting, fucking, or webcamming with.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When I was new member ladies wanted to see my verifications before chatting never mind meeting.

Maybe I should work on getting more verifications

Hahaha... Brilliantly played

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Does it really mater? We are all different. I will re verify if it's been a while I between meets "

This for us... Although sometimes we verify just to be funny and witty when we have met up with old friends x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Verifications are a "fabbers" tool in some way as they can - but not always - act as a rough guide as to what makes the other person tick

Shock horror for those that didn't know, but I am bisexual and on the sister site, where trust me when I say this, finding genuine meet's on there is even harder, so verifications there tend to out the timewasters - which are on both sites

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't ask for verifications or expect any or send without being asked. If someone wrote me one I thought was a bit too much or a load of rubbish I wouldn't show it. A repeat verification wouldn't be necessary.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Who here publishes or indeed writes verifications for return meets - I for one do not as I do not see the point..."

Sometimes I do sometimes I don't- either way its My business and that of the subject of the veris.

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By *aisyDoandDaisyDontWoman over a year ago

little old town of Reading!

I personally don't see the point of a repeat veri... I get it- you have said they are for real- why the need to let us know every time you have met?! The only repeat veris I would leave is if I meet someone new to the site and feel they could do with a bit of fluffing up to make it clear to other people they met for a social and then for play. I would do two veris max. I had someone with over 100 veris, that I met socially, pester me for a veri.. I was like- I think it's pretty well proven that you are genuine!! So OP isn't the only one obsessed with them!!

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By *aisyDoandDaisyDontWoman over a year ago

little old town of Reading!

I have received repeat veris, but hide the last one from them to display the earliest.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

None of my veris is for anyone else really, they're personal between me and the woman I met and I don't display them all. As most have said, people verify and run their profile as they see fit and that's cool!

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I write and receive veris for repeat meets sometimes. And sometimes we don't bother. Random.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I write veris for those I've met but I'm not fussed if I get them back, I feel some on here use them as a tag 'oh look who I'm meeting/met' blah blah. I never show mine as quite frankly it's got nothing to do with anyone who I choose to meet and what I have done with them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I dont see the point in writing a veri for every time you meet the same person

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Who here publishes or indeed writes verifications for return meets - I for one do not as I do not see the point..."

We don't show all. . New meets or returns.. it's our business,no-one else's

Her

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sometimes we do if it's a completely different type of meet , or there's been a long time between meets . But we only publish one from anyone we've met

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

"Sometimes we do if it's a completely different type of meet , or there's been a long time between meets . But we only publish one from anyone we've met "

No that I get

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Looking at your veris I would publish them in a book ready for the Waterstone's bargain bin in the January sales

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nope - just relates to a point which was made just a few minutes ago by someone in a pm to me stating that they would be put off by seeing that I don't have any return meets - which is not in fact the case..."
Sorry about that. Seems they might be searching a bit too thoroughly for reasons to reject people. (Reject single men online?) Perhaps they never really leave the place in front of their keyboard anyway?

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Looking at your veris I would publish them in a book ready for the Waterstone's bargain bin in the January sales"

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

"Looking at your veris I would publish them in a book ready for the Waterstone's bargain bin in the January sales"

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

"Looking at your veris I would publish them in a book ready for the Waterstone's bargain bin in the January sales"

Brilliant. ..lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"[...] I never show mine as quite frankly it's got nothing to do with anyone who I choose to meet and what I have done with them.

"
I can, kind of, identify with that!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Dude you're obsessed with verifications.

What's up Mr fox...bee in your bonnet tonight?

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By *onyneMan over a year ago

Newcastle

"Who here publishes or indeed writes verifications for return meets - I for one do not as I do not see the point...

I discourage all verifications because I don't really think it's anybody elses business who (or how many) I'm meeting, fucking, or webcamming with."

I agree in general and will write them, but don't feel they should include any personal information...Some of them read like people are verifying themselves ...['she took my huge load and I made her cum over and over' etc].

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Sometimes I do, sometimes I don't. If I haven't seen them for ages I will verify them again.

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"i just verify anyone who verifies me, if they do it more than once then i'm happy to reverify them back."

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

Not at all I am just hunky dory thank you and having a wake if a time...sure you are too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Looking at your veris I would publish them in a book ready for the Waterstone's bargain bin in the January sales"

That's only a selection

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"None of my veris is for anyone else really, they're personal between me and the woman I met and I don't display them all. As most have said, people verify and run their profile as they see fit and that's cool!

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"Who here publishes or indeed writes verifications for return meets - I for one do not as I do not see the point..."

To me, your verifications mean: you are male and you meet

My verifications probably mean to others: I am female and I meet

Beyond that, verifications mean little if anything

I don't treat verifications as some kind of road-test on Top Gear. The last one may have thought that he was the greatest guy who walked the planet and the sh*g she had cannot be excelled. And if she re-verifies, she'll probably say something similar

If I meet him, I might see a little guy who can't even reach as high as my t*ts

Stop worrying so much about the number, repeatability, quality, durability of verifications

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I do. I see a veri almost like an extension of the meet itself and enjoy reading and writing them. I do it for the myself and the person I've met and I don't care what anyone else thinks about it."

i do to and i dnt care what anyone else thinks either

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By *amissCouple over a year ago

chelmsford

"Who here publishes or indeed writes verifications for return meets - I for one do not as I do not see the point...

We don't show all. . New meets or returns.. it's our business,no-one else's

Her "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Who here publishes or indeed writes verifications for return meets - I for one do not as I do not see the point..."

You talking about me again because I have four veris from the same guy and this thread was started around the same time as your other thread re:me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Dude you're obsessed with verifications.

What's up Mr fox...bee in your bonnet tonight?

Buzz buzz here buzz buzz there I am all over the forum like a rash tonight

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Pulls up chair

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Too tired now.... I have proved my point and I don't want to get a ban which I will get if I keep posting and it wouldn't be my first

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Boo gutted enjoyed the last one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My work is done here.... another time maybe......

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By *xyzptlk088Man over a year ago

Galway

"Who here publishes or indeed writes verifications for return meets - I for one do not as I do not see the point..."

I would eat a cabbage sandwich if I felt that way inclined.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Dude you're obsessed with verifications.

What's up Mr fox...bee in your bonnet tonight?

Buzz buzz here buzz buzz there I am all over the forum like a rash tonight "

Haha give her some butter.... She's on a roll,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Dude you're obsessed with verifications.

What's up Mr fox...bee in your bonnet tonight?

Buzz buzz here buzz buzz there I am all over the forum like a rash tonight

Haha give her some butter.... She's on a roll, "

literally lol get to sleep x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Dude you're obsessed with verifications.

What's up Mr fox...bee in your bonnet tonight?

Buzz buzz here buzz buzz there I am all over the forum like a rash tonight

Haha give her some butter.... She's on a roll,

literally lol get to sleep x"

Peace out x

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Well, some slightly dubious threads turned really rather ugly tonight it seems.

"What feeds the ego damages the soul"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do you mean repeat meets as in a verification for each time you've met?

In that case no, I don't really see the point unless something has changed.

Or by return meets do you mean people who have left and rejoined?

In that case yes I'll verify them to help them out

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well, some slightly dubious threads turned really rather ugly tonight it seems.

"What feeds the ego damages the soul""
The amount of popcorn a had was terrible

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Well, some slightly dubious threads turned really rather ugly tonight it seems.

"What feeds the ego damages the soul"The amount of popcorn a had was terrible

Philistine!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Who here publishes or indeed writes verifications for return meets - I for one do not as I do not see the point...

I discourage all verifications because I don't really think it's anybody elses business who (or how many) I'm meeting, fucking, or webcamming with.

I got told off by one guy because I didn't write in depth about the sex we'd had. Apparently I was supposed to write about how great he was in bed and about how he made me orgasm over and over again (he didn't).

He's left the site now anyway. Guess he wasn't getting what he wanted...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Who here publishes or indeed writes verifications for return meets - I for one do not as I do not see the point...

I discourage all verifications because I don't really think it's anybody elses business who (or how many) I'm meeting, fucking, or webcamming with.

He's left the site now anyway. Guess he wasn't getting what he wanted... "

Lol, i had one guy complain my veri wasn't sexy enough...i didn't find him sexy anyway.

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By *alandNitaCouple over a year ago

Scunthorpe

We do sometimes, just for variety. It can be nice for people to have a new one to show.

We only show a few of ours and if we get a new one we'll swap them about.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Dude you're obsessed with verifications. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

we have done - and we tend to verify most of the time - dont always get one back - even with someone we have met several times - not a bother -

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Dude you're obsessed with verifications.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What feeds the ego damages the soul""

Doesn't it just, makes for an interesting read too....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I do. I see a veri almost like an extension of the meet itself and enjoy reading and writing them. I do it for the myself and the person I've met and I don't care what anyone else thinks about it."

We see veri's as an extension of the meet too - we don't publish many, we like to read them through together every now and again and review our fab life! we don't write or publish graphic veri's and 3rd meetings onwards we don't veri unless specifically asked.

Like lots of fab aspects - use it in the way that works best for you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some of the gushing "he is and/or she is so fucking amazing I must also be so fucking amazing to have met him/her and cum so hard, for so long and so frequently" verifications on display are embarrassing.

It was described best when someone commented that the writers must have had a little bit of sick in their mouths when writing them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some of the gushing "he is and/or she is so fucking amazing I must also be so fucking amazing to have met him/her and cum so hard, for so long and so frequently" verifications on display are embarrassing.

It was described best when someone commented that the writers must have had a little bit of sick in their mouths when writing them. "

Make them funny, personal, happy, private, public, detailed, brief... It is your profile and another filter to help people find the people they're compatible with

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By *izzy.Woman over a year ago

Stoke area

I sometimes do a Veri for second or third meets because i Enjoy writing about it and reading their thoughts about it after the event. I think sometimes If people write hope to see you again and then someone's profile is just a massive list of new names twice a week, It can look like they are shagging their way round the county , and enjoy one offs only.

I think it's cool to have a few names cropping up more than once. But that's just my perception and how I Like to display my veri. It's a bit like my swinging history.

But as been stated before its your profile and display what you like. Each to their own.

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

Slightly off topic:

I just love reading threads about 'veris'

There are usually one or two priceless comments about how the 'veri' system is all fake and people are setting up hundreds of different fake profiles from hundreds of different internet cafes and write verifications from themselves

And all the hundreds of fake profiles are further verified by hundreds of other fake profiles and so on and so on and so on

Makes Watergate sound like hide'n'seek compared to this elaborate FabS conspirarcy

And then I see their profile. Not a single verification after a year. No, not hidden summary or text; but no green tick at all; zero, cipher, zilch, nil, nothing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I sometimes do a Veri for second or third meets because i Enjoy writing about it and reading their thoughts about it after the event. I think sometimes If people write hope to see you again and then someone's profile is just a massive list of new names twice a week, It can look like they are shagging their way round the county , and enjoy one offs only.

I think it's cool to have a few names cropping up more than once. But that's just my perception and how I Like to display my veri. It's a bit like my swinging history.

But as been stated before its your profile and display what you like. Each to their own. "

Well said

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