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Too many meets..

By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

I've today been turned down by someone on the basis that I meet too many people and as a result wouldn't make them feel special enough...

Any thoughts on this?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Aren't you popular!

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By *tarbeckCouple over a year ago

york

"I've today been turned down by someone on the basis that I meet too many people and as a result wouldn't make them feel special enough...

Any thoughts on this?"
so have we but a lot of them are just at the york socials

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sounds like a polite 'thanks but no thanks' to me .. or maybe, linking to previous thread, they're intimidated by the veri list??

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS over a year ago

Bolton

I purposely don't display my meets because I've been judged before, it's not an interview process so my past is no business of theirs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Whats a meet?

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

"I purposely don't display my meets because I've been judged before, it's not an interview process so my past is no business of theirs

I am not that concerned - just surprised - it is a swinging site after all - however each to their own and I realize some people just like to play with a few regular partners - which is fine

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

"Whats a meet?

Not sure your statement about 'needing your cock milked

' is doing you any favours....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I often get initial messages that say, thank goodness there are some women on here that don't want to shag there way through the site. I wouldn't meet them on principle, that they were judging women on how many meets they had. It's like being back at school

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Whats a meet?

Not sure your statement about 'needing your cock milked

' is doing you any favours...."
lol it does. I just live in the wrong part of the country

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

"Whats a meet?

Not sure your statement about 'needing your cock milked

' is doing you any favours....lol it does. I just live in the wrong part of the country

well I do just fine in and around London - great stalking ground

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Whats a meet?

Not sure your statement about 'needing your cock milked

' is doing you any favours....lol it does. I just live in the wrong part of the country

well I do just fine in and around London - great stalking ground

"
That's good and yeah London is a big place as well, depends what side.

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By *ola.Woman over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

How did I know you were showing another new veri.

As previously said could be an excuse or they may feel that you do. I don't pay much attention to how many.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've today been turned down by someone on the basis that I meet too many people and as a result wouldn't make them feel special enough...

Any thoughts on this?"

Show off

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

She has a point

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Whats a meet?

Patience Shag!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Whats a meet?

Patience Shag!

"
Yes. I got lots of that lol

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

No,no thoughts

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By *he horny kinkstersCouple over a year ago

North West

Feel special?? What are they after exactly?

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

"I've today been turned down by someone on the basis that I meet too many people and as a result wouldn't make them feel special enough...

Any thoughts on this?

Show off "

A little

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By *parkle1974Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"Whats a meet?

It's what hangs in butchers shops I think....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've today been turned down by someone on the basis that I meet too many people and as a result wouldn't make them feel special enough...

Any thoughts on this?"

They are half wits. Simple as

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Whats a meet?

It's what hangs in butchers shops I think....

"
Yes. I think so as well

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"I've today been turned down by someone on the basis that I meet too many people and as a result wouldn't make them feel special enough...

Any thoughts on this?"

My only thought is that they, contrary to many if anecdotal evidence is to be believed, were polite enough to message you back and actually give a reason.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"I've today been turned down by someone on the basis that I meet too many people and as a result wouldn't make them feel special enough...

Any thoughts on this?

They are half wits. Simple as"

Rude.

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By *irkby coupleCouple over a year ago

Kirkby

We won't meet some one with loads of verifications, we look at them and if they are mainly meets we steer clear. For us this is occasional fun, for some on here it seems a way of life, nothing against them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've today been turned down by someone on the basis that I meet too many people and as a result wouldn't make them feel special enough...

Any thoughts on this?"

Hide some verifications if it bothers you if not thanks but no thanks works.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've today been turned down by someone on the basis that I meet too many people and as a result wouldn't make them feel special enough...

Any thoughts on this?

They are half wits. Simple as

Rude."

We are all entitled to our views. My comment was judgemental without doubt. But how can it be rude to voice an opinion when asked in a public forum when the individuals concerned are not named?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

we feel a lot of people forget what this site is about and confuse with eharmony or match x

just saying

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My thoughts are ~ you are not for them & vice versa.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've today been turned down by someone on the basis that I meet too many people and as a result wouldn't make them feel special enough...

Any thoughts on this?"

Man up, take the hint and move on.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"I've today been turned down by someone on the basis that I meet too many people and as a result wouldn't make them feel special enough...

Any thoughts on this?

They are half wits. Simple as

Rude.

We are all entitled to our views. My comment was judgemental without doubt. But how can it be rude to voice an opinion when asked in a public forum when the individuals concerned are not named? "

Calling people even unnamed people half wits is rude. Opinions can he rude. In my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've today been turned down by someone on the basis that I meet too many people and as a result wouldn't make them feel special enough...

Any thoughts on this?

They are half wits. Simple as

Rude.

We are all entitled to our views. My comment was judgemental without doubt. But how can it be rude to voice an opinion when asked in a public forum when the individuals concerned are not named?

Calling people even unnamed people half wits is rude. Opinions can he rude. In my opinion."

I'm offended by the ease of which you take offence.

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"I've today been turned down by someone on the basis that I meet too many people and as a result wouldn't make them feel special enough...

Any thoughts on this?"

Nope

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've today been turned down by someone on the basis that I meet too many people and as a result wouldn't make them feel special enough...

Any thoughts on this?"

You need more

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"I've today been turned down by someone on the basis that I meet too many people and as a result wouldn't make them feel special enough...

Any thoughts on this?

They are half wits. Simple as

Rude.

We are all entitled to our views. My comment was judgemental without doubt. But how can it be rude to voice an opinion when asked in a public forum when the individuals concerned are not named?

Calling people even unnamed people half wits is rude. Opinions can he rude. In my opinion.

I'm offended by the ease of which you take offence."

I'm not offended. I am however on the verge of being offended that you think I'm offended and that you're offended that I'm offended...or something

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By *irkby coupleCouple over a year ago

Kirkby

15 verifications in 3 years isn't really much, there are people on here with 60+ in a shorter amount of time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've had lots of meets and do think it will put people off messaging me. But Hey Ho

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've today been turned down by someone on the basis that I meet too many people and as a result wouldn't make them feel special enough...

Any thoughts on this?

They are half wits. Simple as

Rude.

We are all entitled to our views. My comment was judgemental without doubt. But how can it be rude to voice an opinion when asked in a public forum when the individuals concerned are not named?

Calling people even unnamed people half wits is rude. Opinions can he rude. In my opinion.

I'm offended by the ease of which you take offence.

I'm not offended. I am however on the verge of being offended that you think I'm offended and that you're offended that I'm offended...or something

I'm insulted that my offence had offended you! And find it outrageous and rude that my offence had not been recognised to the full extent. Derogatory in all respects!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've today been turned down by someone on the basis that I meet too many people and as a result wouldn't make them feel special enough...

Any thoughts on this?"

When I had my singles profile on here. I was turned down for a meet by a single guy for the same reason too many meets and basically told me I was a hazard to his health. My reply was if going for a drink with me is a hazard to your health what can I say as all my meets were socials.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've got a fair few verifications. If people don't want to meet me on the basis of pure numbers then so be it. A closer look will see I'm a socialable guy.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

We are all entitled to our views. My comment was judgemental without doubt. But how can it be rude to voice an opinion when asked in a public forum when the individuals concerned are not named?

Calling people even unnamed people half wits is rude. Opinions can he rude. In my opinion.

I'm offended by the ease of which you take offence.

I'm not offended. I am however on the verge of being offended that you think I'm offended and that you're offended that I'm offended...or something

I'm insulted that my offence had offended you! And find it outrageous and rude that my offence had not been recognised to the full extent. Derogatory in all respects!"

That puts things in a very different light.

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

People who think I've met too many people aren't the type of people I want to meet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"People who think I've met too many people aren't the type of people I want to meet."

You think the same as us. And we certainly do not get verifications for every meet x

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I actually prefer to have sex with ladies/couples who have plenty of verifications.

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I actually prefer to have sex with ladies/couples who have plenty of verifications. "

Broken in nicely for you.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I actually prefer to have sex with ladies/couples who have plenty of verifications.

Broken in nicely for you.

And I had a great time, thank you x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sex with an experienced person is like sitting on a warm public toilet seat. It's kinda nice, but you always wonder who was on it before you

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Sex with an experienced person is like sitting on a warm public toilet seat. It's kinda nice, but you always wonder who was on it before you

I don't think I have ever wondered about a guys previous meets. Apart from the ones who have awesome verifications then turn out to be crap in bed. Then I wonder what they were thinking.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Sex with an experienced person is like sitting on a warm public toilet seat. It's kinda nice, but you always wonder who was on it before you

I don't think I have ever wondered about a guys previous meets. Apart from the ones who have awesome verifications then turn out to be crap in bed. Then I wonder what they were thinking."

If you must know, I was thinking 'hurrah! I got away with it!'

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The number of meets doesn't put me off, I look at the veris to check the women a guys met, but only to make sure that every other meet isn't a very petite/slim lady, I'm neither so if that is clearly a guys type then that would put me off, but 1 guy iv met from here it took several months to meet as he was 'busy'. Worth the wait tho!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's the old catch 22. Damned if you do,dammed if you don't . .

Her

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By *reedy_for_funCouple over a year ago

My House

It's not the amount of meets that's important surely?

We only use veris to check the person is who they say they are.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've today been turned down by someone on the basis that I meet too many people and as a result wouldn't make them feel special enough...

Any thoughts on this?"

They are looking for love , not a good shag.

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By *sianmale89Man over a year ago

Stockport

"I've today been turned down by someone on the basis that I meet too many people and as a result wouldn't make them feel special enough...

Any thoughts on this?"

guess some people are put off if one has a number of meets off here?

who know's really some people are weird that way.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've today been turned down by someone on the basis that I meet too many people and as a result wouldn't make them feel special enough...

Any thoughts on this?"

Every body is special in their own way .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I doubt I will ever have that problem

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We've had far too many meets

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well here goes ...

It's a swinging site which theoretically means , by definition , people have sexual meets with different people .

Here's where it gets complicated .

Some think others are sluts by meeting lots and lots of people , and shag their way through the site . That embracing the lifestyle is somehow a bad thing . Generally these people talk about quality over quantity etc.....

Others pay no heed at all , and enjoy meeting others with no judgement . As often as they wish to , perhaps not very often .

And others like us just carry on regardless , meeting all and sundry , but enjoying a quantity of quality .

You can't please all the people all the time , but as long as you're happy that's all that matters .

We have met and played with loads of people who say they won't meet those with stacks of veris . And ironically they have changed their profiles after meeting us , taking off the quality over quantity statement .

It's about fun and pleasure for everyone , not judgement .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"People who think I've met too many people aren't the type of people I want to meet.

You think the same as us. And we certainly do not get verifications for every meet x

Me too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It happens to me this week I did say mine were over a long time and quite a few repeet meets I don't stress though

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By *inxandmaybeCouple over a year ago

Wells

We are quite new and found people with loads of veris a bit intimidating, but our problem, not theirs. As we meet more people we feel more chilled about the very thing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Try not getting a meet because you have not had a meet...that's what I've been told

As for not 'making them feel special' that's an issue on their part not yours.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sex with an experienced person is like sitting on a warm public toilet seat. It's kinda nice, but you always wonder who was on it before you

I don't think I have ever wondered about a guys previous meets. Apart from the ones who have awesome verifications then turn out to be crap in bed. Then I wonder what they were thinking."

Lol we have had that... Your left wondering if they have a twin and you met the wrong one x

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By *ice guy 44Man over a year ago

wrexham

like I said in other forum you cant win on here if no meets they want meet you to many they want most on here are sad people and fake verifications piss me off big time

try to read the people they met on there profile makes you laugh

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

"I've today been turned down by someone on the basis that I meet too many people and as a result wouldn't make them feel special enough...

Any thoughts on this?"

Reading your veris I see plenty of praise that people like their time with you. That for me is special enough, it's not like offering a cum and go meet where you're clearly not making someone feel special. I suspect the person may not want swinging but a vanilla date or a meet with someone who's not so much a swinger - but this is a swinging site. They're just not for you. Next!

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By *ice guy 44Man over a year ago

wrexham

read some of them off here here is one I read the other day. been chatting to the fella for a week now he come to ours and had good hard se this man is not to be missed his said went for a drive to quick meet at this Cpl nice relaxed few hours ha. he is from hull they are from kent no who in the right mind would do that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've today been turned down by someone on the basis that I meet too many people and as a result wouldn't make them feel special enough...

Any thoughts on this?"

Please pass on my details to them if you don't mind as I'm still waiting for my first meet

On the contrary, ive been told that I am probably fake as I haven't had a verification after 5 months

Cheers Peter

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've today been turned down by someone on the basis that I meet too many people and as a result wouldn't make them feel special enough...

Any thoughts on this?

Please pass on my details to them if you don't mind as I'm still waiting for my first meet

On the contrary, ive been told that I am probably fake as I haven't had a verification after 5 months

Cheers Peter"

Some men been on over a year with no verification so lots of time yet .

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"We are quite new and found people with loads of veris a bit intimidating, but our problem, not theirs. As we meet more people we feel more chilled about the very thing.

Good attitude

a lot of people with quite a few veris have been here years and you can work out how often they meet. Additionally, one can receive several veris in one go from a social or club. To make a judgement based purely on numbers is, in my mind, short sighted and missing the bigger picture.

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"read some of them off here here is one I read the other day. been chatting to the fella for a week now he come to ours and had good hard se this man is not to be missed his said went for a drive to quick meet at this Cpl nice relaxed few hours ha. he is from hull they are from kent no who in the right mind would do that"

If you think something is fake, report it. Although I have been known to travel a fair few miles for the right guy.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman over a year ago

Deviant City

"I've today been turned down by someone on the basis that I meet too many people and as a result wouldn't make them feel special enough...

Any thoughts on this?"

They'd hate my meet summary then!

no fucks given!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've today been turned down by someone on the basis that I meet too many people and as a result wouldn't make them feel special enough...

Any thoughts on this?

They'd hate my meet summary then!

no fucks given!"

You utter hussy you

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By *amissCouple over a year ago

chelmsford

"I've today been turned down by someone on the basis that I meet too many people and as a result wouldn't make them feel special enough...

Any thoughts on this?"

People have different reasons for turning others down. To us it wouldn't be a problem, we only want sex with others! We make each other feel special, that's all that matters to us!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

I'd hardly call 20 odd verifications loads, more like a polite way of letting you down

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Whats a meet?

Not sure your statement about 'needing your cock milked

' is doing you any favours....lol it does. I just live in the wrong part of the country

Just be glad you don't live in South West Wales!!!

It's like looking for a needle in a haystack!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sex with an experienced person is like sitting on a warm public toilet seat. It's kinda nice, but you always wonder who was on it before you

You can't get the clap from a toilet seat

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't ask for veris anymore. I have plenty and I have a t-shirt with 'genuine' on it.

I hide my veris to protect them from embarrassment and so no one judges me for being a bike. Not out loud anyhow

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By *ordonBennettMan over a year ago

dover

"I've today been turned down by someone on the basis that I meet too many people and as a result wouldn't make them feel special enough...

Any thoughts on this?

They are half wits. Simple as

Rude.

We are all entitled to our views. My comment was judgemental without doubt. But how can it be rude to voice an opinion when asked in a public forum when the individuals concerned are not named?

Calling people even unnamed people half wits is rude. Opinions can he rude. In my opinion.

I'm offended by the ease of which you take offence.

I'm not offended. I am however on the verge of being offended that you think I'm offended and that you're offended that I'm offended...or something

I'm insulted that my offence had offended you! And find it outrageous and rude that my offence had not been recognised to the full extent. Derogatory in all respects!"

Struth!

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By *ice guy 44Man over a year ago

wrexham

thanks can see that from your see they all say about the travel and that now that proves to me your one genuine lady x

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By *aeriequeenWoman over a year ago

Manchester

I only show a few which is no disrespect to those I have met. I attend clubs and parties and go in the chatrooms. It soon adds up even if its only that you met and said hi! I think to show a flavour of what you are like is enough

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think some people's verifications are in too much detail, and this can be rather off putting for some people .

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By *renchbambi xWoman over a year ago

Need to know basis

"I've today been turned down by someone on the basis that I meet too many people and as a result wouldn't make them feel special enough...

Any thoughts on this?"

You are special to me....only 1 of you on here.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman over a year ago

Deviant City

"I've today been turned down by someone on the basis that I meet too many people and as a result wouldn't make them feel special enough...

Any thoughts on this?

They'd hate my meet summary then!

no fucks given!

You utter hussy you

takes one to know one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've today been turned down by someone on the basis that I meet too many people and as a result wouldn't make them feel special enough...

Any thoughts on this?"

I think they didn't want to meet you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"thanks can see that from your see they all say about the travel and that now that proves to me your one genuine lady x"

He's a man

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I think some people's verifications are in too much detail, and this can be rather off putting for some people .

Yes I agree which why I hid this one

"Steve came to our house to shag me wife cos I'm a shit shag and she said before even the meet 'bloody hell, I reckon he's a fucking good fucker' and during she said 'oh my! Steve what a mega brill guy you are and liking Star Wars too which is cool' as his hard throbbing cock, slid gracefully up her engorged and yearning love-tunnel until his full balls were nuzzling her labia and after she said 'steve's like so Cool and Mega and Brill'

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"thanks can see that from your see they all say about the travel and that now that proves to me your one genuine lady x

He's a man "

I think he was replying to me. Oh for a 'quote post' function.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

On my singles profile I never had anyone saying I'd had too many meets but I did have people admit they were intimidated by some of the ones I'd met (usually because they were slim or pretty or whatever). Thing is, I wouldn't have been asking to meet them if I didn't find them attractive. I guess it's only natural for some people to compare themselves to others & feel bad about it. I wish they they wouldn't, they're all lovely in their own right.

Mr J

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I often get initial messages that say, thank goodness there are some women on here that don't want to shag there way through the site. I wouldn't meet them on principle, that they were judging women on how many meets they had. It's like being back at school

"
I could feel loads of Sisterhood Love running through my veins as I read this comment! Thanks!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've turned down someone that has 75 verifications. Shagging your way through the site doesn't appeal to me.

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I've turned down someone that has 75 verifications. Shagging your way through the site doesn't appeal to me."

You'd hate me then.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"thanks can see that from your see they all say about the travel and that now that proves to me your one genuine lady x

He's a man

I think he was replying to me. Oh for a 'quote post' function.

That would be handy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've turned down someone that has 75 verifications. Shagging your way through the site doesn't appeal to me.

You'd hate me then.

He would hate us even more

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've turned down someone that has 75 verifications. Shagging your way through the site doesn't appeal to me."

There's thousands of men on here,75 is hardly the whole site.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Each to their own. Not judging, just not my style.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

Actually in all the time I've been here I've had one man message me saying he would of been very interested in meeting me but my amount if verifications out him off.

I had no idea who he was, I'd not seen a face picture but he seemed to assume it was some kind of loss to me. Not sure what he thinks I was going to do, maybe unmeet people

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By *aeriequeenWoman over a year ago

Manchester

"I've turned down someone that has 75 verifications. Shagging your way through the site doesn't appeal to me."

I have roughly that number of cam veris..

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"I've turned down someone that has 75 verifications. Shagging your way through the site doesn't appeal to me."

75 is far too much

1 is just about right

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By *xyzptlk088Man over a year ago

Galway

"Whats a meet?

Not sure your statement about 'needing your cock milked

' is doing you any favours....lol it does. I just live in the wrong part of the country

well I do just fine in and around London - great stalking ground

That's good and yeah London is a big place as well, depends what side."

Ah lads get a room already

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"Any thoughts on this?"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Each to their own. Not judging, just not my style."

I have over 30 verifications. Only 3 iv met more than socially. Those of us who go to social events, could easily chalk up lots of verifications in a short space of time.

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By *at69driveMan over a year ago

Hertford

"I've today been turned down by someone on the basis that I meet too many people and as a result wouldn't make them feel special enough...

Any thoughts on this?"
. Their choice .No harm in someone wanting to feel special. However , it might also just be a polite way of rejecting you...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

not quite sure it was worded like that !!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've today been turned down by someone on the basis that I meet too many people and as a result wouldn't make them feel special enough...

Any thoughts on this?

My only thought is that they, contrary to many if anecdotal evidence is to be believed, were polite enough to message you back and actually give a reason. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This person has 75 play meets. If that's what I was looking for, I still wouldn't be a fab virgin.

Everyone has a different, want, desire and requirement from fab. I'm not one to judge.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So if you have been a member for say 7 years and have say 10 meets..resulting in 70 veris...

10 a year is hardly putting it about is it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd hardly call 20 odd verifications loads, more like a polite way of letting you down"

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By *imiUKMan over a year ago

Hereford

"I've today been turned down by someone on the basis that I meet too many people and as a result wouldn't make them feel special enough...

Any thoughts on this?

My only thought is that they, contrary to many if anecdotal evidence is to be believed, were polite enough to message you back and actually give a reason.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't think I mentioned the subject of how many meets you had but if it makes you feel better to word it that way and start a thread about it be my guest....oh look you already have

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't think I mentioned the subject of how many meets you had but if it makes you feel better to word it that way and start a thread about it be my guest....oh look you already have

This near made me choke laughing!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 01/12/15 22:43:46]

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't think I mentioned the subject of how many meets you had but if it makes you feel better to word it that way and start a thread about it be my guest....oh look you already have

This near made me choke laughing!

thank you

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By *evaquitCouple over a year ago

Catthorpe

Sounds (to me anyway, not knowing any facts and totally guessing) that your profile may have intimidated them, they're just not for you it seems.

Him

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't think I mentioned the subject of how many meets you had but if it makes you feel better to word it that way and start a thread about it be my guest....oh look you already have

Always good to get 2 sides to a story

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I don't think I mentioned the subject of how many meets you had but if it makes you feel better to word it that way and start a thread about it be my guest....oh look you already have

"
you've made my night

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By *imiUKMan over a year ago

Hereford

"Sounds (to me anyway, not knowing any facts and totally guessing) that your profile may have intimidated them, they're just not for you it seems.

Him"

Or not, it appears.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman over a year ago

Deviant City

"I've turned down someone that has 75 verifications. Shagging your way through the site doesn't appeal to me.

You'd hate me then.

He would hate us even more

and me!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't think I mentioned the subject of how many meets you had but if it makes you feel better to word it that way and start a thread about it be my guest....oh look you already have

you've made my night

And mine

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

"I don't think I mentioned the subject of how many meets you had but if it makes you feel better to word it that way and start a thread about it be my guest....oh look you already have

Oh how strange that I should misinterpret your words so completely...but never mind I feel fine, was just interested in whether others are put off by such things as feeling like being just one in a long queue of would be conquests...I am sorry and as I said at the time there is most certainly no hard feeling on my part.

What's more the last thing I wanted was for this thread to become personal at all...that could not have been further from my intention.

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By *apillonNoirWoman over a year ago

There...

"I don't think I mentioned the subject of how many meets you had but if it makes you feel better to word it that way and start a thread about it be my guest....oh look you already have

I have been resisting this thread for hours but can now respond with a smile. Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sounds (to me anyway, not knowing any facts and totally guessing) that your profile may have intimidated them, they're just not for you it seems.

Him"

Intimidated hahahahaha purrrrrrlease

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't think I mentioned the subject of how many meets you had but if it makes you feel better to word it that way and start a thread about it be my guest....oh look you already have

I have been resisting this thread for hours but can now respond with a smile. Thank you.

You are welcome so glad I popped in to browse the forums tonight

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't think I mentioned the subject of how many meets you had but if it makes you feel better to word it that way and start a thread about it be my guest....oh look you already have

What's more the last thing I wanted was for this thread to become personal at all...that could not have been further from my intention."

I have nothing further to say to you please do not sully my inbox ever again

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sounds (to me anyway, not knowing any facts and totally guessing) that your profile may have intimidated them, they're just not for you it seems.

Him

Or not, it appears. "

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

"I don't think I mentioned the subject of how many meets you had but if it makes you feel better to word it that way and start a thread about it be my guest....oh look you already have

What's more the last thing I wanted was for this thread to become personal at all...that could not have been further from my intention.

I have nothing further to say to you please do not sully my inbox ever again"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is awkward.

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

"This is awkward."

I agree and it was not my intention for it to become so...it was an honest enquiry initially that is all...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This is awkward.

I agree and it was not my intention for it to become so...it was an honest enquiry initially that is all..."

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By *imiUKMan over a year ago

Hereford

Where's Tina when you need her?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I prefer guys with lots of verifications im after a shag not to be made to feel special, I have a dog for that

If they have lots of verifications its shows they can easily go from one meet to the next without getting clingy

I get more put off by one women verifying them several times

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hey I am a big girl I can even tie my own shoelaces (Meg in Disney's Hercules)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh wow! No sullying Mr Fox! !??????

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I prefer guys with lots of verifications im after a shag not to be made to feel special, I have a dog for that

If they have lots of verifications its shows they can easily go from one meet to the next without getting clingy

I get more put off by one women verifying them several times "

Cute I have a cat

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't think I mentioned the subject of how many meets you had but if it makes you feel better to word it that way and start a thread about it be my guest....oh look you already have

Always good to get 2 sides to a story

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh wow! No sullying Mr Fox! !??????"

It leaves a bitter taste in ones mouth wouldn't you say

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I prefer guys with lots of verifications im after a shag not to be made to feel special, I have a dog for that

If they have lots of verifications its shows they can easily go from one meet to the next without getting clingy

I get more put off by one women verifying them several times

Cute I have a cat

I was just trying to get the thread back on track for him as it was getting a little embarrassing, it was either that or talking about the whether

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't think I mentioned the subject of how many meets you had but if it makes you feel better to word it that way and start a thread about it be my guest....oh look you already have

What's more the last thing I wanted was for this thread to become personal at all...that could not have been further from my intention.

I have nothing further to say to you please do not sully my inbox ever again"

#classic

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Matey, you had a friggin' LUCKY escape there!

(Just read the whole thread)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I prefer guys with lots of verifications im after a shag not to be made to feel special, I have a dog for that

If they have lots of verifications its shows they can easily go from one meet to the next without getting clingy

I get more put off by one women verifying them several times

Cute I have a cat

I was just trying to get the thread back on track for him as it was getting a little embarrassing, it was either that or talking about the whether

The weather is very interesting at the moment

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I prefer guys with lots of verifications im after a shag not to be made to feel special, I have a dog for that

If they have lots of verifications its shows they can easily go from one meet to the next without getting clingy

I get more put off by one women verifying them several times

Cute I have a cat

I was just trying to get the thread back on track for him as it was getting a little embarrassing, it was either that or talking about the whether

He should fight his own egotistical battle he choose to start then and as somebody earlier said two sides to every story.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've today been turned down by someone on the basis that I meet too many people and as a result wouldn't make them feel special enough...

Any thoughts on this?"

Wish I had this problem

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't think I mentioned the subject of how many meets you had but if it makes you feel better to word it that way and start a thread about it be my guest....oh look you already have

What's more the last thing I wanted was for this thread to become personal at all...that could not have been further from my intention.

I have nothing further to say to you please do not sully my inbox ever again

#classic

thank you

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

Definetly thread of the week

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Definetly thread of the week

Worthy of a rosette or a little trophy I hope.... I even have the pedestal for the trophy as I saw a guy fall of his earlier and I stole it quickly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Definetly thread of the week

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Definetly thread of the week

Agreed

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By *p4funCouple over a year ago

Plymouth

"I've today been turned down by someone on the basis that I meet too many people and as a result wouldn't make them feel special enough...

Any thoughts on this?"

hmmmmmmmmmm (ponders) none at all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So was this thread just a look at me and all my verifications?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So was this thread just a look at me and all my verifications?"

Aye

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

15 veris is pretty good actually it is wen it is hittin the 100s that i find off putting ..but thats just me lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I prefer guys with lots of verifications im after a shag not to be made to feel special, I have a dog for that

If they have lots of verifications its shows they can easily go from one meet to the next without getting clingy

I get more put off by one women verifying them several times

Cute I have a cat

I was just trying to get the thread back on track for him as it was getting a little embarrassing, it was either that or talking about the whether

He should fight his own egotistical battle he choose to start then and as somebody earlier said two sides to every story....."

Brilliant lady and spot on. Wish I could meet you so I can buy you wine or coffee! Absolutely hilarious Lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This person has 75 play meets. If that's what I was looking for, I still wouldn't be a fab virgin.

Everyone has a different, want, desire and requirement from fab. I'm not one to judge."

Would it be prudent to ask what your desire and requirement might be from fab ?

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"So was this thread just a look at me and all my verifications?"

You missed the word 'another' out

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I prefer guys with lots of verifications im after a shag not to be made to feel special, I have a dog for that

If they have lots of verifications its shows they can easily go from one meet to the next without getting clingy

I get more put off by one women verifying them several times

Cute I have a cat

I was just trying to get the thread back on track for him as it was getting a little embarrassing, it was either that or talking about the whether

He should fight his own egotistical battle he choose to start then and as somebody earlier said two sides to every story.....

Brilliant lady and spot on. Wish I could meet you so I can buy you wine or coffee! Absolutely hilarious Lol. "

coffee and wine & Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Did a load of stuff get deleted then because it doesn't make much sense by the end

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Whats a meet?

Not sure your statement about 'needing your cock milked

' is doing you any favours....lol it does. I just live in the wrong part of the country

Just be glad you don't live in South West Wales!!!

It's like looking for a needle in a haystack!!!"
lol yes, yeah it seems wales have very few women to there for you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I prefer guys with lots of verifications im after a shag not to be made to feel special, I have a dog for that

If they have lots of verifications its shows they can easily go from one meet to the next without getting clingy

I get more put off by one women verifying them several times

Cute I have a cat

I was just trying to get the thread back on track for him as it was getting a little embarrassing, it was either that or talking about the whether

He should fight his own egotistical battle he choose to start then and as somebody earlier said two sides to every story.....

Brilliant lady and spot on. Wish I could meet you so I can buy you wine or coffee! Absolutely hilarious Lol.

coffee and wine & Thanks

You're welcome!

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By *imiUKMan over a year ago

Hereford

"Did a load of stuff get deleted then because it doesn't make much sense by the end "

Nothing has been deleted so far...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Did a load of stuff get deleted then because it doesn't make much sense by the end "

I'm guessing the lady polar fix messaged who turned him down appeared on the thread .

She claimed she hadn't used his veris against him ........

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Did a load of stuff get deleted then because it doesn't make much sense by the end "
yes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Did a load of stuff get deleted then because it doesn't make much sense by the end "

Makes perfect sense to me somebody that ''wasn't concerned'' (his words) that they were rebuffed decided to start a thread regarding his rejection and kind of elaborated the story to keep his ego buffed up but hey... lo and behold the said lady in question namely me decided to browse the forums and stumbled right onto this one the rest as they say is history....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Did a load of stuff get deleted then because it doesn't make much sense by the end

I'm guessing the lady polar fix messaged who turned him down appeared on the thread .

She claimed she hadn't used his veris against him ........ "

Its not a claim its a fact my lovely maybe I just didn't fancy him enough but shush don't tell him

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well I have loads of bloody veris - far more than I've displayed - though many are from lovely people I've met at clubs, parties and socials rather than people I've had rumpy pumpy with!

However - I've had a LOT of GREAT SEX on in my 21 months on fab with a LOT of lovely guys and couples!

People can choose to look at it in two ways:

A - I'm a slag/slapper/slut etc etc and no 'decent' man or couple should touch me with a barge pole!

B - I'm a swinger! I understand the concept of having amazing sex with people I like but don't love and am emotionally capable of doing so! Therefore the chances of me becoming attached to you and bugging the life out of you afterwards are roughly nil!

Warning - I may add you to my ever growing collection of lovely friends though!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Did a load of stuff get deleted then because it doesn't make much sense by the end

Yeo , that's what I deduced

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Did a load of stuff get deleted then because it doesn't make much sense by the end

Nothing has been deleted so far..."

No nothing x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well I have loads of bloody veris - far more than I've displayed - though many are from lovely people I've met at clubs, parties and socials rather than people I've had rumpy pumpy with!

However - I've had a LOT of GREAT SEX on in my 21 months on fab with a LOT of lovely guys and couples!

People can choose to look at it in two ways:

A - I'm a slag/slapper/slut etc etc and no 'decent' man or couple should touch me with a barge pole!

Warning - I may add you to my ever growing collection of lovely friends though!

This sums us up too

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By *ancs MinxWoman over a year ago

Burnley

"Definetly thread of the week

Worthy of a rosette or a little trophy I hope.... I even have the pedestal for the trophy as I saw a guy fall of his earlier and I stole it quickly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I see! It's been a long day and I was losing the plot! Brilliant calling him out on it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I see! It's been a long day and I was losing the plot! Brilliant calling him out on it

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This made my night

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I though it was against the site rules to talk about what's said in private messages anyway

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I though it was against the site rules to talk about what's said in private messages anyway

Sssssh - this is fun

Don't tell them!

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

"So was this thread just a look at me and all my verifications?"

Err no, it was an honest question I raised based on a pm conversation I had had. Nothing more.

I do not quite see why it should be interpreted as my struggling with being rejected - I certainly did not. Nor do I quite understand why the lady in question should have taken quite such offence at my starting a friend relating to a perfectly legitimate reason for rebuffing someone???

Had her intention merely been to politely decline my advances then a simply 'sorry not for me' would have sufficed.

Finally I am not into writing fiction nor would I have any vested interest in doing so. Simples

I am very glad that this thread which I haven't actually bothered to contribute very much to is about to run its course.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I though it was against the site rules to talk about what's said in private messages anyway

I guess we can blame the OP for that but as you were defending him probably best not to

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So was this thread just a look at me and all my verifications?

Err no, it was an honest question I raised based on a pm conversation I had had. Nothing more.

Had her intention merely been to politely decline my advances then a simply 'sorry not for me' would have sufficed.

Finally I am not into writing fiction nor would I have any vested interest in doing so. Simples

I am very glad that this thread which I haven't actually bothered to contribute very much to is about to run its course."

Butter it up whatever way you like my lovely the responses speak for themselves

Sweet dreams xxx

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"I though it was against the site rules to talk about what's said in private messages anyway

He started it by saying that he was "turned down by someone on the basis that I meet too many people and as a result wouldn't make them feel special enough"

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

"I don't think I mentioned the subject of how many meets you had but if it makes you feel better to word it that way and start a thread about it be my guest....oh look you already have

What's more the last thing I wanted was for this thread to become personal at all...that could not have been further from my intention."

But it is bound to become personal if the person you are talking about turns up as has happened.

Maybe if you had posed the question without the mention of just being turned down it would have been better than looking like you were airing dirty washing

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