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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Please, please, please give a very recent pic of yourselves, and your real age to potential meets.
It might just save embarrassment for one or both parties.
This may apply to women, but I meet men  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Please, please, please give a very recent pic of yourselves, and your real age to potential meets.
It might just save embarrassment for one or both parties.
This may apply to women, but I meet men "
Bad meet.....? Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Please, please, please give a very recent pic of yourselves, and your real age to potential meets.
It might just save embarrassment for one or both parties.
This may apply to women, but I meet men "
just like your recent pictures form mid 2014 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Please, please, please give a very recent pic of yourselves, and your real age to potential meets.
It might just save embarrassment for one or both parties.
This may apply to women, but I meet men "
Says the woman with pictures from December 2013 |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Please, please, please give a very recent pic of yourselves, and your real age to potential meets.
It might just save embarrassment for one or both parties.
This may apply to women, but I meet men
just like your recent pictures form mid 2014"
The pics I send (did you note that in the OP, SEND), are this year... I'll even check the months if you like.
Sorry if you wanted to catch me out as a hypocrite - it ain't happening sunshine! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Please, please, please give a very recent pic of yourselves, and your real age to potential meets.
It might just save embarrassment for one or both parties.
This may apply to women, but I meet men "
Let's face it most people wouldn't put a 'bad' picture of themselves on a site that's predominantly based around animalistic visually simulating meets for casual sex! So I think a certain amount of pragmatism is needed from both sides. I've put face pictures on here that are honest and I'd say average. That's probably silly as I get turned down for meets regularly, but when I do meet people they're not shocked as I've posted pics of me as I am today (I usually get told I look better in the flesh,big ego boost that one)
The people I've met (and I've met a seriously stunning woman recent who I am hoping to see lots more of) have met an honest guy with honest pics. If more people tried this the world would be a better place. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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What's recent though? I've got photos from the last 4/5 months on here, I've also got a couple that are older. Up until 3 months ago I was pregnant - so a more 'recent' picture could be a lot more misleading than an old one for me. |
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"Please, please, please give a very recent pic of yourselves, and your real age to potential meets.
It might just save embarrassment for one or both parties.
This may apply to women, but I meet men
Let's face it most people wouldn't put a 'bad' picture of themselves on a site that's predominantly based around animalistic visually simulating meets for casual sex! So I think a certain amount of pragmatism is needed from both sides. I've put face pictures on here that are honest and I'd say average. That's probably silly as I get turned down for meets regularly, but when I do meet people they're not shocked as I've posted pics of me as I am today (I usually get told I look better in the flesh,big ego boost that one)
The people I've met (and I've met a seriously stunning woman recent who I am hoping to see lots more of) have met an honest guy with honest pics. If more people tried this the world would be a better place. "
I do....every picture of me is bad  |
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"Please, please, please give a very recent pic of yourselves, and your real age to potential meets.
It might just save embarrassment for one or both parties.
This may apply to women, but I meet men
just like your recent pictures form mid 2014
The pics I send (did you note that in the OP, SEND), are this year... I'll even check the months if you like.
Sorry if you wanted to catch me out as a hypocrite - it ain't happening sunshine!"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Please, please, please give a very recent pic of yourselves, and your real age to potential meets.
It might just save embarrassment for one or both parties.
This may apply to women, but I meet men
Let's face it most people wouldn't put a 'bad' picture of themselves on a site that's predominantly based around animalistic visually simulating meets for casual sex! So I think a certain amount of pragmatism is needed from both sides. I've put face pictures on here that are honest and I'd say average. That's probably silly as I get turned down for meets regularly, but when I do meet people they're not shocked as I've posted pics of me as I am today (I usually get told I look better in the flesh,big ego boost that one)
The people I've met (and I've met a seriously stunning woman recent who I am hoping to see lots more of) have met an honest guy with honest pics. If more people tried this the world would be a better place. "
I've had that too (looking better in the flesh and yet true to my photo  ).
Honesty, why is it so big a deal? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Please, please, please give a very recent pic of yourselves, and your real age to potential meets.
It might just save embarrassment for one or both parties.
This may apply to women, but I meet men
Let's face it most people wouldn't put a 'bad' picture of themselves on a site that's predominantly based around animalistic visually simulating meets for casual sex! So I think a certain amount of pragmatism is needed from both sides. I've put face pictures on here that are honest and I'd say average. That's probably silly as I get turned down for meets regularly, but when I do meet people they're not shocked as I've posted pics of me as I am today (I usually get told I look better in the flesh,big ego boost that one)
The people I've met (and I've met a seriously stunning woman recent who I am hoping to see lots more of) have met an honest guy with honest pics. If more people tried this the world would be a better place.
I do....every picture of me is bad "
As if I've got eyes u know!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Please, please, please give a very recent pic of yourselves, and your real age to potential meets.
It might just save embarrassment for one or both parties.
This may apply to women, but I meet men
just like your recent pictures form mid 2014
The pics I send (did you note that in the OP, SEND), are this year... I'll even check the months if you like.
Sorry if you wanted to catch me out as a hypocrite - it ain't happening sunshine!"
but public pictures are equally important. since posting them the body can change a lot. you could go from chubby to huge in a year. or from chubby to skinny in the same time.
not saying your chubby though. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What's recent though? I've got photos from the last 4/5 months on here, I've also got a couple that are older. Up until 3 months ago I was pregnant - so a more 'recent' picture could be a lot more misleading than an old one for me."
Recent isn't 3, 4, 5+ years ago. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Please, please, please give a very recent pic of yourselves, and your real age to potential meets.
It might just save embarrassment for one or both parties.
This may apply to women, but I meet men
just like your recent pictures form mid 2014
The pics I send (did you note that in the OP, SEND), are this year... I'll even check the months if you like.
Sorry if you wanted to catch me out as a hypocrite - it ain't happening sunshine!
but public pictures are equally important. since posting them the body can change a lot. you could go from chubby to huge in a year. or from chubby to skinny in the same time.
not saying your chubby though."
You have no idea what is in my friends and private pics. I am the same dress size now as I was then, and I was chubby lol, then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What's recent though? I've got photos from the last 4/5 months on here, I've also got a couple that are older. Up until 3 months ago I was pregnant - so a more 'recent' picture could be a lot more misleading than an old one for me.
Recent isn't 3, 4, 5+ years ago."
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By (user no longer on site)
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I agree OP, previous pic was from Nov 2014, so updated in Oct 2015 as was getting to its anniversary.
I'm not one for taking selfies (not very photogenic at all far too fugly) so I expect my next one will be Oct 2016! I'm not in the mood for updating every other week though I don't change *that* much! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I agree OP, previous pic was from Nov 2014, so updated in Oct 2015 as was getting to its anniversary.
I'm not one for taking selfies (not very photogenic at all far too fugly) so I expect my next one will be Oct 2016! I'm not in the mood for updating every other week though I don't change *that* much!"
I'm surprised more people don't agree, unless they're working  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I have a couple of more recent pics for my friends. Yes more recent than Oct this year .
So come on guys (and gals), buck up and get those honest pics posted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Please, please, please give a very recent pic of yourselves, and your real age to potential meets.
It might just save embarrassment for one or both parties.
This may apply to women, but I meet men
just like your recent pictures form mid 2014
The pics I send (did you note that in the OP, SEND), are this year... I'll even check the months if you like.
Sorry if you wanted to catch me out as a hypocrite - it ain't happening sunshine!"
Oooo I do enjoy these (pulls up chair and gets coffee n bikkies at the ready) |
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
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"Please, please, please give a very recent pic of yourselves, and your real age to potential meets.
It might just save embarrassment for one or both parties.
This may apply to women, but I meet men "
Indeed it does apply to women - I have met some women and couples off here who think that it is automatically assumed that everyone will deduct at least 5 years from their real age....  ...almost as if it were so kind of unwritten rule applied by all old school swingers... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Please, please, please give a very recent pic of yourselves, and your real age to potential meets.
It might just save embarrassment for one or both parties.
This may apply to women, but I meet men
Indeed it does apply to women - I have met some women and couples off here who think that it is automatically assumed that everyone will deduct at least 5 years from their real age.... ...almost as if it were so kind of unwritten rule applied by all old school swingers..."
Well I'm 42 then... Suits me (if EVERYONE did it)  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Please, please, please give a very recent pic of yourselves, and your real age to potential meets.
It might just save embarrassment for one or both parties.
This may apply to women, but I meet men
Indeed it does apply to women - I have met some women and couples off here who think that it is automatically assumed that everyone will deduct at least 5 years from their real age.... ...almost as if it were so kind of unwritten rule applied by all old school swingers..."
Oh and I met someone a while back who took 10 years off  (no you cannot find out from my veris  ).
It was obvious on meeting him . |
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
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"Please, please, please give a very recent pic of yourselves, and your real age to potential meets.
It might just save embarrassment for one or both parties.
This may apply to women, but I meet men
Indeed it does apply to women - I have met some women and couples off here who think that it is automatically assumed that everyone will deduct at least 5 years from their real age.... ...almost as if it were so kind of unwritten rule applied by all old school swingers...
Oh and I met someone a while back who took 10 years off (no you cannot find out from my veris ).
It was obvious on meeting him ."
I did meet a couple where she was at least 5 years older than claimed on their profile and he was 62 instead of 52!  |
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
North Cambs |
"Please, please, please give a very recent pic of yourselves, and your real age to potential meets.
It might just save embarrassment for one or both parties.
This may apply to women, but I meet men
Indeed it does apply to women - I have met some women and couples off here who think that it is automatically assumed that everyone will deduct at least 5 years from their real age.... ...almost as if it were so kind of unwritten rule applied by all old school swingers...
Oh and I met someone a while back who took 10 years off (no you cannot find out from my veris ).
It was obvious on meeting him .
I did meet a couple where she was at least 5 years older than claimed on their profile and he was 62 instead of 52! "
As for their pics - well I don't know how long ago they must have been taken but then they had been swingers for pretty much all their married life...I would guess around the mid 1990's |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Please, please, please give a very recent pic of yourselves, and your real age to potential meets.
It might just save embarrassment for one or both parties.
This may apply to women, but I meet men
Indeed it does apply to women - I have met some women and couples off here who think that it is automatically assumed that everyone will deduct at least 5 years from their real age.... ...almost as if it were so kind of unwritten rule applied by all old school swingers...
Oh and I met someone a while back who took 10 years off (no you cannot find out from my veris ).
It was obvious on meeting him .
I did meet a couple where she was at least 5 years older than claimed on their profile and he was 62 instead of 52!
As for their pics - well I don't know how long ago they must have been taken but then they had been swingers for pretty much all their married life...I would guess around the mid 1990's "
They get found out ! So why lie grrrr. I understand trying to get around age filters but they could be honest in their profile. |
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Simple solution i use--ask to cam with them before the meet--the timewasters ALWAYS have a reason why they cannot do that, its broken, blah blah
A pre-meet telecon helps too and always have a face fit meet to check the chemistry
Met a couple a while back who looked nothing like their pics--waste of time on that occasion |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Please, please, please give a very recent pic of yourselves, and your real age to potential meets.
It might just save embarrassment for one or both parties.
This may apply to women, but I meet men "
we get this often and its not on also just looking at some profile pics you can see some guys are like 10 to 15 years older than they say ..we really dont understand why people do this ..and bet its not just some men some women are doing the same
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"will a photoshopped one do? It'll make me look less wrinkly and give me a real shower fresh look.. 
Was it your cock you photoshopped?
If I load a photoshopped pic up I'll let you know  "
Shall I expect an anaconda? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Please, please, please give a very recent pic of yourselves, and your real age to potential meets.
It might just save embarrassment for one or both parties.
This may apply to women, but I meet men
just like your recent pictures form mid 2014"
glad you pointed that out |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Please, please, please give a very recent pic of yourselves, and your real age to potential meets.
It might just save embarrassment for one or both parties.
This may apply to women, but I meet men
just like your recent pictures form mid 2014
glad you pointed that out "
Another one with assumptions?
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