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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Picture a young guy, say he's 21, a student, not so bad looking. Messages you, an interesting message evidencing the fact he's read your profile, asks you how your day has been, tinkers with a bit of dry humour, compliments you and is entirely genuine about everything he says. What would you do? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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wonder how he got past my filters. 
loads of guys send me good messages, if i don't fancy them i don't reply. sometimes i do fancy them but their status or profile puts me off. women can be really picky on here and they will be. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Depends on his face picture and his distance 
-Courtney"
We'll say 50 miles, hypothetically speaking. And with your permission I can send a picture of this hypothetical guy? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't pay much attention to it. When my profile's active it states my preference quite clearly. If someone your age messaged me I'd ignore it as that would state that they hadn't read my profile. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't pay much attention to it. When my profile's active it states my preference quite clearly. If someone your age messaged me I'd ignore it as that would state that they hadn't read my profile."
Can I just add, this being empathic of all age ranges and preferences... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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it would depend if he'd taken any notice of my profile criteria; reading a profile is no guarantee of that,if he had then i would probably chat...depending on what his profile was like as well i guess.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Slick 
Isn't he just?!
Make me feel on top of the world by agreeing I'm slick, then knock me right back down with your age preferences."
Still young though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Picture a young guy, say he's 21, a student, not so bad looking. Messages you, an interesting message evidencing the fact he's read your profile, asks you how your day has been, tinkers with a bit of dry humour, compliments you and is entirely genuine about everything he says. What would you do?"
Look at his profile, see if he's into the same things as me. If he's not, then just say 'no thanks', if he is, then I'd have a chat. |
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"Slick
Isn't he just?!
Make me feel on top of the world by agreeing I'm slick, then knock me right back down with your age preferences."
I do have the odd exception I chat to but tellingly I still haven't met them! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Slick
Isn't he just?!
Make me feel on top of the world by agreeing I'm slick, then knock me right back down with your age preferences.
I do have the odd exception I chat to but tellingly I still haven't met them!"
But seen as I'm apparently slick, surely I could beat the odds? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Slick
Isn't he just?!
Make me feel on top of the world by agreeing I'm slick, then knock me right back down with your age preferences.
I do have the odd exception I chat to but tellingly I still haven't met them!
But seen as I'm apparently slick, surely I could beat the odds?"
I'm not being funny... but...
I'm an undergrad at university. Ten years older than everything else mind you.
University - well certainly mine - is a hotbed of shagging. Everyone is shagging everyone else. Everyone is desperate to shag. Why would a student even bother looking on the internet, when they're surrounded by people who just want to get laid *all the time*? |
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"Slick
Isn't he just?!
Make me feel on top of the world by agreeing I'm slick, then knock me right back down with your age preferences.
I do have the odd exception I chat to but tellingly I still haven't met them!
But seen as I'm apparently slick, surely I could beat the odds?"
Yes but I'm completely normal which doesn't fit your requirements.. |
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"Slick
Isn't he just?!
Make me feel on top of the world by agreeing I'm slick, then knock me right back down with your age preferences.
I do have the odd exception I chat to but tellingly I still haven't met them!
But seen as I'm apparently slick, surely I could beat the odds?
I'm not being funny... but...
I'm an undergrad at university. Ten years older than everything else mind you.
University - well certainly mine - is a hotbed of shagging. Everyone is shagging everyone else. Everyone is desperate to shag. Why would a student even bother looking on the internet, when they're surrounded by people who just want to get laid *all the time*?"
This is an excellent point! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Slick
Isn't he just?!
Make me feel on top of the world by agreeing I'm slick, then knock me right back down with your age preferences.
I do have the odd exception I chat to but tellingly I still haven't met them!
But seen as I'm apparently slick, surely I could beat the odds?
I'm not being funny... but...
I'm an undergrad at university. Ten years older than everything else mind you.
University - well certainly mine - is a hotbed of shagging. Everyone is shagging everyone else. Everyone is desperate to shag. Why would a student even bother looking on the internet, when they're surrounded by people who just want to get laid *all the time*?"
To put it simply, sex isn't swinging.
It's a lifestyle I've witnessed somewhat, and sex just can't fulfil you in the way swinging does. Socially, sexually etc... It creates a mindset that you can be entirely open and adventurous. That's what I want. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Slick
Isn't he just?!
Make me feel on top of the world by agreeing I'm slick, then knock me right back down with your age preferences.
I do have the odd exception I chat to but tellingly I still haven't met them!
But seen as I'm apparently slick, surely I could beat the odds?
Yes but I'm completely normal which doesn't fit your requirements.."
Normality is found through self gratification. Normality is conformity. Swinging alone doesn't follow social convention. Therefore you're not normal. But, abnormality is in no way a negative, but conformity is. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Keep up the good work Op. I like the way you think. You will be a rich man someday.
This post was brilliant  "
Did you hear that? Yeah, you pass me by and you're passing on a future rich guy. How could you live with yourself? |
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"Slick
Isn't he just?!
Make me feel on top of the world by agreeing I'm slick, then knock me right back down with your age preferences.
I do have the odd exception I chat to but tellingly I still haven't met them!
But seen as I'm apparently slick, surely I could beat the odds?
Yes but I'm completely normal which doesn't fit your requirements..
Normality is found through self gratification. Normality is conformity. Swinging alone doesn't follow social convention. Therefore you're not normal. But, abnormality is in no way a negative, but conformity is."
Most of the 'normality' I've experienced hasn't been at all self gratifying. I would say more subjugating my preferences for the good of (in my case) my family. |
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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago
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"Add 10 years and your message would get through  I'll happily pretend to be 31?"
You wouldn't be the first! lol
Ok...I've taken on board that you want us to ignore the age thing and I've had a look at your profile.
I'd say 'thank you but you're not what I'm looking for'. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Slick
Isn't he just?!
Make me feel on top of the world by agreeing I'm slick, then knock me right back down with your age preferences.
I do have the odd exception I chat to but tellingly I still haven't met them!
But seen as I'm apparently slick, surely I could beat the odds?
Yes but I'm completely normal which doesn't fit your requirements..
Normality is found through self gratification. Normality is conformity. Swinging alone doesn't follow social convention. Therefore you're not normal. But, abnormality is in no way a negative, but conformity is.
Most of the 'normality' I've experienced hasn't been at all self gratifying. I would say more subjugating my preferences for the good of (in my case) my family."
Do you subjugate in all aspects of your life? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Add 10 years and your message would get through I'll happily pretend to be 31?
You wouldn't be the first! lol
Ok...I've taken on board that you want us to ignore the age thing and I've had a look at your profile.
I'd say 'thank you but you're not what I'm looking for'."
And I would be grateful for the gratitude...
As having read many profiles, isn't often the case. Pleading isn't my thing! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Slick
Isn't he just?!
Make me feel on top of the world by agreeing I'm slick, then knock me right back down with your age preferences.
I do have the odd exception I chat to but tellingly I still haven't met them!"
Yet  |
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"Slick
Isn't he just?!
Make me feel on top of the world by agreeing I'm slick, then knock me right back down with your age preferences.
I do have the odd exception I chat to but tellingly I still haven't met them!
But seen as I'm apparently slick, surely I could beat the odds?
Yes but I'm completely normal which doesn't fit your requirements..
Normality is found through self gratification. Normality is conformity. Swinging alone doesn't follow social convention. Therefore you're not normal. But, abnormality is in no way a negative, but conformity is.
Most of the 'normality' I've experienced hasn't been at all self gratifying. I would say more subjugating my preferences for the good of (in my case) my family.
Do you subjugate in all aspects of your life?"
I pick and choose which areas |
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"Slick
Isn't he just?!
Make me feel on top of the world by agreeing I'm slick, then knock me right back down with your age preferences.
I do have the odd exception I chat to but tellingly I still haven't met them!
Yet "
Ha ha  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Slick
Isn't he just?!
Make me feel on top of the world by agreeing I'm slick, then knock me right back down with your age preferences.
I do have the odd exception I chat to but tellingly I still haven't met them!
But seen as I'm apparently slick, surely I could beat the odds?
Yes but I'm completely normal which doesn't fit your requirements..
Normality is found through self gratification. Normality is conformity. Swinging alone doesn't follow social convention. Therefore you're not normal. But, abnormality is in no way a negative, but conformity is.
Most of the 'normality' I've experienced hasn't been at all self gratifying. I would say more subjugating my preferences for the good of (in my case) my family.
Do you subjugate in all aspects of your life?
I pick and choose which areas "
Would you like to subjugate my messages? So I can woo you further. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Slick
Isn't he just?!
Make me feel on top of the world by agreeing I'm slick, then knock me right back down with your age preferences.
I do have the odd exception I chat to but tellingly I still haven't met them!
Yet
Ha ha "
By the way op, there's alot of competition so just keep trying. I know it's hard when you have people like me around |
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"Slick
Isn't he just?!
Make me feel on top of the world by agreeing I'm slick, then knock me right back down with your age preferences.
I do have the odd exception I chat to but tellingly I still haven't met them!
Yet
Ha ha
By the way op, there's alot of competition so just keep trying. I know it's hard when you have people like me around "
We're all spoilt for choice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Slick
Isn't he just?!
Make me feel on top of the world by agreeing I'm slick, then knock me right back down with your age preferences.
I do have the odd exception I chat to but tellingly I still haven't met them!
But seen as I'm apparently slick, surely I could beat the odds?
I'm not being funny... but...
I'm an undergrad at university. Ten years older than everything else mind you.
University - well certainly mine - is a hotbed of shagging. Everyone is shagging everyone else. Everyone is desperate to shag. Why would a student even bother looking on the internet, when they're surrounded by people who just want to get laid *all the time*?
To put it simply, sex isn't swinging.
It's a lifestyle I've witnessed somewhat, and sex just can't fulfil you in the way swinging does. Socially, sexually etc... It creates a mindset that you can be entirely open and adventurous. That's what I want."
Fair enough. I have found the young students I've shagged to be more sexually open and adventurous than most of the people I've talked to on here. But horses for courses! |
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We are extremely horrible and rude to the ones that cut and paste a generic message they have obviously sent to..... Well just about every one.... They are soooo easily spotted.... And we find it rude.... So we are very rude back!! Especially since our profile has been blank and they say they have thoroughly read our profile ect Ect Ect.... Idiots!! We're that rude we don't even block them.... Just let them sit there wondering.... 'maybe if I had put some thought into it' |
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By *ll 4 herCouple
over a year ago
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"Picture a young guy, say he's 21, a student, not so bad looking. Messages you, an interesting message evidencing the fact he's read your profile, asks you how your day has been, tinkers with a bit of dry humour, compliments you and is entirely genuine about everything he says. What would you do?"
We would be amazed first of all then chat politely whilst we wait to see a face pic, if he still floats her boat at that point, we would find out if he would be prepared to meet in a club, if we are still good at that point and he continued showing the same understanding and maturity he showed in the first message we would probably agree a meet.
We can state this at point that we are aware the chances of all the above happening are virtually non-existant, so we are confident we are safe to make the the statement. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We are extremely horrible and rude to the ones that cut and paste a generic message they have obviously sent to..... Well just about every one.... They are soooo easily spotted.... And we find it rude.... So we are very rude back!! Especially since our profile has been blank and they say they have thoroughly read our profile ect Ect Ect.... Idiots!! We're that rude we don't even block them.... Just let them sit there wondering.... 'maybe if I had put some thought into it' "
That's not a bad way to be, I try to be personal to the profile text so it's a struggle to message when someone has a blank profile! But, I always read a profile, because you only get one shot at a first impression. Something I would rather not fuck up. X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Picture a young guy, say he's 21, a student, not so bad looking. Messages you, an interesting message evidencing the fact he's read your profile, asks you how your day has been, tinkers with a bit of dry humour, compliments you and is entirely genuine about everything he says. What would you do?
We would be amazed first of all then chat politely whilst we wait to see a face pic, if he still floats her boat at that point, we would find out if he would be prepared to meet in a club, if we are still good at that point and he continued showing the same understanding and maturity he showed in the first message we would probably agree a meet.
We can state this at point that we are aware the chances of all the above happening are virtually non-existant, so we are confident we are safe to make the the statement. "
I'd like to think I'm an anomaly in regards to that assumption! As I'm genuinely as thoughtful as I can be when writing a message! Except d*unk. That's my downfall. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Picture a young guy, say he's 21, a student, not so bad looking. Messages you, an interesting message evidencing the fact he's read your profile, asks you how your day has been, tinkers with a bit of dry humour, compliments you and is entirely genuine about everything he says. What would you do?"
Nothing, hes below our age filter so his message wouldnt come through |
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"We are extremely horrible and rude to the ones that cut and paste a generic message they have obviously sent to..... Well just about every one.... They are soooo easily spotted.... And we find it rude.... So we are very rude back!! Especially since our profile has been blank and they say they have thoroughly read our profile ect Ect Ect.... Idiots!! We're that rude we don't even block them.... Just let them sit there wondering.... 'maybe if I had put some thought into it'
That's not a bad way to be, I try to be personal to the profile text so it's a struggle to message when someone has a blank profile! But, I always read a profile, because you only get one shot at a first impression. Something I would rather not fuck up. X"
Good man.... It's not like we're overly too fussy or judgemental... But if someone wants to come fuck good girl... They better show more respect than just 'hoping' for a reply after r messaging he whole site |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We are extremely horrible and rude to the ones that cut and paste a generic message they have obviously sent to..... Well just about every one.... They are soooo easily spotted.... And we find it rude.... So we are very rude back!! Especially since our profile has been blank and they say they have thoroughly read our profile ect Ect Ect.... Idiots!! We're that rude we don't even block them.... Just let them sit there wondering.... 'maybe if I had put some thought into it'
That's not a bad way to be, I try to be personal to the profile text so it's a struggle to message when someone has a blank profile! But, I always read a profile, because you only get one shot at a first impression. Something I would rather not fuck up. X
Good man.... It's not like we're overly too fussy or judgemental... But if someone wants to come fuck good girl... They better show more respect than just 'hoping' for a reply after r messaging he whole site "
It should be the case, but the majority being arse holes as such spoil it for the people who put a good amount of thought into their message. Well I'd like to think that's the case, and it's not just me! |
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We'd politely reply in a 'thanks but no thanks' specifically tailored to the sender and their message.
Let's be honest, at my age and with my body, I'd be extremely flattered that someone so young and fit would message in the first place. Then I'd worry it was just a cruel joke, then I'd worry 'what if they actually went to school with my kids', then I'd ask have they actually seen my pics and read my profile?
Our rule is no one the same age as our eldest and we try to stick to that  |
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By *ll 4 herCouple
over a year ago
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"Picture a young guy, say he's 21, a student, not so bad looking. Messages you, an interesting message evidencing the fact he's read your profile, asks you how your day has been, tinkers with a bit of dry humour, compliments you and is entirely genuine about everything he says. What would you do?
We would be amazed first of all then chat politely whilst we wait to see a face pic, if he still floats her boat at that point, we would find out if he would be prepared to meet in a club, if we are still good at that point and he continued showing the same understanding and maturity he showed in the first message we would probably agree a meet.
We can state this at point that we are aware the chances of all the above happening are virtually non-existant, so we are confident we are safe to make the the statement.
I'd like to think I'm an anomaly in regards to that assumption! As I'm genuinely as thoughtful as I can be when writing a message! Except d*unk. That's my downfall."
Hmm so tempting to test the theory out |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We'd politely reply in a 'thanks but no thanks' specifically tailored to the sender and their message.
Let's be honest, at my age and with my body, I'd be extremely flattered that someone so young and fit would message in the first place. Then I'd worry it was just a cruel joke, then I'd worry 'what if they actually went to school with my kids', then I'd ask have they actually seen my pics and read my profile?
Our rule is no one the same age as our eldest and we try to stick to that "
1. Your body would be stunning for a woman half your age, there's no need nor room for self consciousness.
2. I have a short beard. |
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"Picture a young guy, say he's 21, a student, not so bad looking. Messages you, an interesting message evidencing the fact he's read your profile, asks you how your day has been, tinkers with a bit of dry humour, compliments you and is entirely genuine about everything he says. What would you do?
We would be amazed first of all then chat politely whilst we wait to see a face pic, if he still floats her boat at that point, we would find out if he would be prepared to meet in a club, if we are still good at that point and he continued showing the same understanding and maturity he showed in the first message we would probably agree a meet.
We can state this at point that we are aware the chances of all the above happening are virtually non-existant, so we are confident we are safe to make the the statement.
I'd like to think I'm an anomaly in regards to that assumption! As I'm genuinely as thoughtful as I can be when writing a message! Except d*unk. That's my downfall.
Hmm so tempting to test the theory out "
Well I am sober right now, so it's your time to do it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm gonna assume this was just aimed at single women then?
What would make you think that? It was both aimed at couples and women."
I just skimmed it and all your replies seemed to be to singles is all my bad |
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By *ll 4 herCouple
over a year ago
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"Picture a young guy, say he's 21, a student, not so bad looking. Messages you, an interesting message evidencing the fact he's read your profile, asks you how your day has been, tinkers with a bit of dry humour, compliments you and is entirely genuine about everything he says. What would you do?
We would be amazed first of all then chat politely whilst we wait to see a face pic, if he still floats her boat at that point, we would find out if he would be prepared to meet in a club, if we are still good at that point and he continued showing the same understanding and maturity he showed in the first message we would probably agree a meet.
We can state this at point that we are aware the chances of all the above happening are virtually non-existant, so we are confident we are safe to make the the statement.
I'd like to think I'm an anomaly in regards to that assumption! As I'm genuinely as thoughtful as I can be when writing a message! Except d*unk. That's my downfall.
Hmm so tempting to test the theory out
Well I am sober right now, so it's your time to do it!"
That would be cruel and unnecessary, we already know as you should, if you truly do read profiles why we would decline to take things further  |
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"Picture a young guy, say he's 21, a student, not so bad looking. Messages you, an interesting message evidencing the fact he's read your profile, asks you how your day has been, tinkers with a bit of dry humour, compliments you and is entirely genuine about everything he says. What would you do?
We would be amazed first of all then chat politely whilst we wait to see a face pic, if he still floats her boat at that point, we would find out if he would be prepared to meet in a club, if we are still good at that point and he continued showing the same understanding and maturity he showed in the first message we would probably agree a meet.
We can state this at point that we are aware the chances of all the above happening are virtually non-existant, so we are confident we are safe to make the the statement.
I'd like to think I'm an anomaly in regards to that assumption! As I'm genuinely as thoughtful as I can be when writing a message! Except d*unk. That's my downfall.
Hmm so tempting to test the theory out
Well I am sober right now, so it's your time to do it!
That would be cruel and unnecessary, we already know as you should, if you truly do read profiles why we would decline to take things further "
I re read your profile as to take caution, and I'm struggling to see any obstacle? I had also read it early, just I think since the beginning of this thread, I have read about 20 profiles! |
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By *ll 4 herCouple
over a year ago
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"Picture a young guy, say he's 21, a student, not so bad looking. Messages you, an interesting message evidencing the fact he's read your profile, asks you how your day has been, tinkers with a bit of dry humour, compliments you and is entirely genuine about everything he says. What would you do?
We would be amazed first of all then chat politely whilst we wait to see a face pic, if he still floats her boat at that point, we would find out if he would be prepared to meet in a club, if we are still good at that point and he continued showing the same understanding and maturity he showed in the first message we would probably agree a meet.
We can state this at point that we are aware the chances of all the above happening are virtually non-existant, so we are confident we are safe to make the the statement.
I'd like to think I'm an anomaly in regards to that assumption! As I'm genuinely as thoughtful as I can be when writing a message! Except d*unk. That's my downfall.
Hmm so tempting to test the theory out
Well I am sober right now, so it's your time to do it!
That would be cruel and unnecessary, we already know as you should, if you truly do read profiles why we would decline to take things further
I re read your profile as to take caution, and I'm struggling to see any obstacle? I had also read it early, just I think since the beginning of this thread, I have read about 20 profiles! "
Interesting! There's a lesson in their somewhere. There's an opportunity to tailor a message to our profile to prove you'd read it, yet by your own earlier admission our preferences precludes you, not irrevocably I might add.
Haha sorry to be so cryptic but it's staring you in the face |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Picture a young guy, say he's 21, a student, not so bad looking. Messages you, an interesting message evidencing the fact he's read your profile, asks you how your day has been, tinkers with a bit of dry humour, compliments you and is entirely genuine about everything he says. What would you do?
We would be amazed first of all then chat politely whilst we wait to see a face pic, if he still floats her boat at that point, we would find out if he would be prepared to meet in a club, if we are still good at that point and he continued showing the same understanding and maturity he showed in the first message we would probably agree a meet.
We can state this at point that we are aware the chances of all the above happening are virtually non-existant, so we are confident we are safe to make the the statement.
I'd like to think I'm an anomaly in regards to that assumption! As I'm genuinely as thoughtful as I can be when writing a message! Except d*unk. That's my downfall.
Hmm so tempting to test the theory out
Well I am sober right now, so it's your time to do it!
That would be cruel and unnecessary, we already know as you should, if you truly do read profiles why we would decline to take things further
I re read your profile as to take caution, and I'm struggling to see any obstacle? I had also read it early, just I think since the beginning of this thread, I have read about 20 profiles!
Interesting! There's a lesson in their somewhere. There's an opportunity to tailor a message to our profile to prove you'd read it, yet by your own earlier admission our preferences precludes you, not irrevocably I might add.
Haha sorry to be so cryptic but it's staring you in the face "
Unless it is simply that you are yet to see my face, I have actually been playing chicken in an attempt to get you to message me first so I could. |
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By *ll 4 herCouple
over a year ago
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Well the first thing wasn't obvious to us until you told another poster that you had a "short beard" in relation to their preference.
The next which has just become apparent, we state we will rarely message first.
Interesting how people can become blind to other people's wants and needs when clouded by their own.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Great thread, proves age does not prevent confidence and conversion. Good luck xx
So many single guys could learn a lot from the OP's mindset."
I'm flattered. Thank you! |
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"I'd say thankyou,but I'm looking for the old and wrinkly guys
The young taut guys win though?"
The older guys got off their arses in the 70s/80s to get a woman... students on sex sites after grannies.......................... |
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"I'd say thankyou,but I'm looking for the old and wrinkly guys
The young taut guys win though?The older guys got off their arses in the 70s/80s to get a woman... students on sex sites after grannies.......................... "
Is swinging just sex? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wonder how he got through my filters though seriously, would never consider 30 years younger, not for me, prefer my own age group"
I had a message that ignored preferences written on my profile too... |
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"Wonder how he got through my filters though seriously, would never consider 30 years younger, not for me, prefer my own age group
I had a message that ignored preferences written on my profile too..."
Mine were before they brought the filters in |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'll go for a coffee with you
If we were closer, we'd join you both x
Im not sure it would stay at coffee in that case "
So when are we going for a coffee? |
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