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"Why oh why are there so many men and women on here who say they are bisexual but clearly are not ?"
I suspect it's to get more more meets or to get to the the half of the couple that they really want |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unfortunately people talk rubbish on here and other sites like this, which just makes it harder for genuine people like myself. I've never once told a porky about preference, size and so on but then again I'm sure people will think yeah whatever because of those liars lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why oh why are there so many men and women on here who say they are bisexual but clearly are not ?"
what evidence are you basing it on. you only need suck 1 cock to be bi.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am fully bi but I wouldn't let a guy shag me on a random meet.
I would only shag another guy in exceptional circumstances.
That's not pretending, that's just my choice in how I prefer meets with other guys to be more oral than anal.
I have been in a relationship with another guy for 3 years and within that relationship it is no holds barred, but for meets, anal just isn't on the menu (well, maybe on the specials  ) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I am fully bi but I wouldn't let a guy shag me on a random meet.
I would only shag another guy in exceptional circumstances.
That's not pretending, that's just my choice in how I prefer meets with other guys to be more oral than anal.
I have been in a relationship with another guy for 3 years and within that relationship it is no holds barred, but for meets, anal just isn't on the menu (well, maybe on the specials )"
totally get you we have both had same sex relationships before just getting fed up with this site |
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By *entenTeaCouple
over a year ago
Buckley North Wales |
How far do people feel you have to go to be classed as bi. I L (m) love sucking and massaging men but realy can't cope with receiving anal. I think we have to accept that there are many shades of bi.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How far do people feel you have to go to be classed as bi. I L (m) love sucking and massaging men but realy can't cope with receiving anal. I think we have to accept that there are many shades of bi.
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you suck a guys cock you aint straight..... |
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"How far do people feel you have to go to be classed as bi. I L (m) love sucking and massaging men but realy can't cope with receiving anal. I think we have to accept that there are many shades of bi.
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There are many shades of bi. Just as there are many shades of what straight people are happy doing. You don't see straight guys worrying about how they are classified if they don't like to rim a woman or are not into having their nipples played with...
As for you, you are most certainly bi. If you are concerned about the whole 'don't do anal' thing, then you can always say on your profile you are 'oral only'.
Incidentally, there are a lot of gay guys who hate doing anal too, so anal doesn't equal bi, or gay in itself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why oh why are there so many men and women on here who say they are bisexual but clearly are not ?
So that her hubby can get his leg over when otherwise he wouldn't stand a chance  "
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By *entenTeaCouple
over a year ago
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"How far do people feel you have to go to be classed as bi. I L (m) love sucking and massaging men but realy can't cope with receiving anal. I think we have to accept that there are many shades of bi.
you suck a guys cock you aint straight....."
I'd fully agree with the straightforwardness of that sentiment. |
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By *entenTeaCouple
over a year ago
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"How far do people feel you have to go to be classed as bi. I L (m) love sucking and massaging men but realy can't cope with receiving anal. I think we have to accept that there are many shades of bi.
There are many shades of bi. Just as there are many shades of what straight people are happy doing. You don't see straight guys worrying about how they are classified if they don't like to rim a woman or are not into having their nipples played with...
As for you, you are most certainly bi. If you are concerned about the whole 'don't do anal' thing, then you can always say on your profile you are 'oral only'.
Incidentally, there are a lot of gay guys who hate doing anal too, so anal doesn't equal bi, or gay in itself."
I think the other aspect goes beyond the physical side of sexuality. That being who whould a person be prepaired to have a committed relationship with. With one or two exceptions I would normaly be emotioaly attracted to women. So I see my emotional bisexuality as being lower than my physical bisexuality. (However if the chap is the spitting image of Patrick Stewart I'd be very tempted..) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally if I am going to meet a guy not sure I would want to meet his wife to sit and watch, but saying that do like the idea off a lady with a strap on but again not sure I would want her husband to watch ???? strange as that may sound but as I have never met a couple would hope if I do it will be a playful triangle with no watching |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It just seems like being very hard work on here for bi or bi curious guys as I know people have preferences but most don't even give the bi or bi curious lads a chance. Most bi and bi curious lads would still have to find an attraction with the male half of a couple to explore that area! |
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By *iverscuMan
over a year ago
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Shame people have to lie. Its difficult for bi guys to i imagine, im curious but wouldnt want to meet a guy by myself, id like to meet a couple to try a mmf and see how curious i am! i would say that i would like to try everything but until im actually trying it for the first time im not sure how comfortable i would be with everything if you know what i mean. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Preference some are curious, some will only play, be top or bottom or will only have/do oral or maybe a fantasy its up to the individual what they like x |
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"It just seems like being very hard work on here for bi or bi curious guys as I know people have preferences but most don't even give the bi or bi curious lads a chance. Most bi and bi curious lads would still have to find an attraction with the male half of a couple to explore that area!"
That's not the case for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It just seems like being very hard work on here for bi or bi curious guys as I know people have preferences but most don't even give the bi or bi curious lads a chance. Most bi and bi curious lads would still have to find an attraction with the male half of a couple to explore that area!
That's not the case for me. "
nor me i'm just waiting for the right time to try |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I show that I am bi-curious rather than bisexual as I am orally bi, (currently) so feel that curious is a better reflection of my level of bisexuality. Not sure how else to describe it... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Trust me - this is not restricted to you couples arranging meets with bi men, us bi men get our fair share idiots pretending, only to try and bed the missus/gf/partner or wives  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I show that I am bi-curious rather than bisexual as I am orally bi, (currently) so feel that curious is a better reflection of my level of bisexuality. Not sure how else to describe it..."
I was listed as curious when i was just that, curious.
Now I've sucked a dick (well, two ) and enjoyed it and plan on doing it again...I changed to bi.
Still to try anal with a guy but to me, I'm still definitely bi as I definitely like cock
That's my take on it anyhow |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To gain access to the wider playing field!
But like us there are so many couples out there who wont meet Bi-Sexual blokes, so they are defeating the object by doing that  "
And quite fairly, you state you're not looking for bi guys. But equally there are an awful lot of (very straight) guys who message couples (where the male is bi) in order to get to the lady of the couple and like stated earlier will lie about being bi and then will hope that being there in person will wash over that particular issue.
We even see straight guys turning up on bi club nights so the site isn't unique! |
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