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over a year ago
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"if you had the choice of one, would you choose the swingers lifestyle or, the kink lifestyle?
As a swinger, do you get enough kink from those you meet?"
Kink
I got told I'm not a swinger cause I don't want another guys dick in my face hahaha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some guys are just what I'm looking for. I love the kinky side of things. But often with swingers it's just quite simple sex. But have met 1 or 2 guys from here with that bit of extra kink.. |
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By *uzy444 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"if you had the choice of one, would you choose the swingers lifestyle or, the kink lifestyle?
As a swinger, do you get enough kink from those you meet?
Kink
I got told I'm not a swinger cause I don't want another guys dick in my face hahaha "
do you get enough kink from those on here? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some guys are just what I'm looking for. I love the kinky side of things. But often with swingers it's just quite simple sex. But have met 1 or 2 guys from here with that bit of extra kink.. "
Hello x |
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By *uzy444 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Some guys are just what I'm looking for. I love the kinky side of things. But often with swingers it's just quite simple sex. But have met 1 or 2 guys from here with that bit of extra kink.. "
i find that its just vanilla sex..no one wants, so far, to actually develop something to experience the range of kink..they seem to want variety in partnerships rather than explore things deeper.. and depends what you call 'extra' kink'..exploring boundaries and working towards deeper and more trusting stuff take some form of commitment with someone...most here seem to be commitment phobic...or am i wrong and just no one talks about it, and what they want, enough? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some guys are just what I'm looking for. I love the kinky side of things. But often with swingers it's just quite simple sex. But have met 1 or 2 guys from here with that bit of extra kink..
i find that its just vanilla sex..no one wants, so far, to actually develop something to experience the range of kink..they seem to want variety in partnerships rather than explore things deeper.. and depends what you call 'extra' kink'..exploring boundaries and working towards deeper and more trusting stuff take some form of commitment with someone...most here seem to be commitment phobic...or am i wrong and just no one talks about it, and what they want, enough?"
I get exactly where you are coming from! And I find the same,some men here like the idea of kink, but are not willing to put in any effort! I have found myself spending much more time on a well Known Fetish site recently as it seems to cater more to my needs..! For my kink to come out, I want a man who is patient and prepared to take the time to earn my trust to unleash my full potential..!  |
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By *uzy444 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Some guys are just what I'm looking for. I love the kinky side of things. But often with swingers it's just quite simple sex. But have met 1 or 2 guys from here with that bit of extra kink..
i find that its just vanilla sex..no one wants, so far, to actually develop something to experience the range of kink..they seem to want variety in partnerships rather than explore things deeper.. and depends what you call 'extra' kink'..exploring boundaries and working towards deeper and more trusting stuff take some form of commitment with someone...most here seem to be commitment phobic...or am i wrong and just no one talks about it, and what they want, enough?
I get exactly where you are coming from! And I find the same,some men here like the idea of kink, but are not willing to put in any effort! I have found myself spending much more time on a well Known Fetish site recently as it seems to cater more to my needs..! For my kink to come out, I want a man who is patient and prepared to take the time to earn my trust to unleash my full potential..! "
glad i'm not the only one...thankyou for your response xx
just posted this post and two stories under sirs kitty stories in the story forum..
i'm just really interested in the responses on here..it just seems not to be that talked about, for some reason... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Kink for me as well. I'm now more confident about doing it with people i don't know that well.
Have found plenty of guys who think being dominated means they can just lie back and let me do all the work. So first meets, unless we've talked a lot about what we want from each other, is sex only. And anyone who just lies there coz they're inexperienced doesn't get anything but used by me as a dildo. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"if you had the choice of one, would you choose the swingers lifestyle or, the kink lifestyle?
As a swinger, do you get enough kink from those you meet?"
Good question - and we would have to say no - far too many vanilla types for us on here now - just an honest opinion |
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By *uzy444 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I'm still lost on the subject of what qualifies you/me as a swinger.
What are the rules and regulations  "
we aren't apparently, as we are single we are only allowed to be 'casual sex seekers/ accessories' to the real swingers...so i hear...
we should really not forget our place...  |
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By *uzy444 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"My moderate kinks seem more than happily fulfilled on Fab. The more effort involved, the greater the mutual reward "
im genuinely happy for you...xx
and at least you acknowledge effort has to be made...
mine aren't...
i realize i have to rewrite my profile, which is why its hidden..
before you tell me to go elsewhere..i already am x |
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